Please does anyone know the procedure for getting child support or financial support from the father of a child? Is this even possible here?
One of my cousins, who is 19 just recently gave birth but she's not married to the father and he even broke up with her in the early months of her pregnancy. She wants to keep her child (a boy) but isn't financially stable and her parents say they can't really help because she has younger ones who they are still training.
Is there a way she can get her ex boyfriend to be responsible for his son, at least financially?

she should contact the "welfare" office in her state capital.....they will tell her the procedure in getting child support

This is stupidity of the highest order ...

If she knew that she couldn't take care of a child why did she bother keeping the pregnancy?

Abi does she derive joy in seeing little kids suffer?

She wanted to have se.x, she didn't use protection...

She wanted to have se.x and she just had to have it with an irresponsible guy...

The guy then left her in the early stage of the pregnancy and SHE KNEW FULLY WELL that she didn't have a financial backbone to nurture a child yet she still went ahead to give birth to one...

What kind of stupidity and wickedness is this?!!!!!

The guy breaking up with her in early months of her pregnancy should've been enough to let your cousin know that, that guy isn't interested in the child...

And now she has had the child, she is looking for a child support system....

This support system is something that should've already been in place before she thought of giving birth to that child for crying out loud!!!!

And even if she does find a way to get cash for child upkeep from the guy, will she also be able to get that dude to be involved in that child's life?

Abi does she think that the only role that a man plays in the life of the child is just centered around finance? LMAO ...

Just so she knows, most kids (well over 75%) raised without a strong father figure in their life, don't turn out well...

Please do your research and see for yourself the potential havock she has caused for that child ...

I pray God helps that poor baby...

And as for that dude, he thinks he is smart ba?
No worries, time will tell ...

Which state is she residing?

What will 5k monthly do for her son.

Nigeria system is that messed up

Mindlog:
Which state is she residing?

Kaduna

aisha1314:
Please does anyone know the procedure for getting child support or financial support from the father of a child? Is this even possible here?
One of my cousins, who is 19 just recently gave birth but she's not married to the father and he even broke up with her in the early months of her pregnancy. She wants to keep her child (a boy) but isn't financially stable and her parents say they can't really help because she has younger ones who they are still training.
Is there a way she can get her ex boyfriend to be responsible for his son, at least financially?

Your cousin was sleeping around. Let her face the consequences.

Foodqueen:
What will 5k monthly do for her son.

Nigeria system is that messed up

your Monika makes me smile ...sisi do you really love food?

Na wa. How do you impregnate someone and dump them?
She should take him to court.

aisha1314:
Please does anyone know the procedure for getting child support or financial support from the father of a child? Is this even possible here?
One of my cousins, who is 19 just recently gave birth but she's not married to the father and he even broke up with her in the early months of her pregnancy. She wants to keep her child (a boy) but isn't financially stable and her parents say they can't really help because she has younger ones who they are still training.
Is there a way she can get her ex boyfriend to be responsible for his son, at least financially?

Where me I'm looking for a baby mama, to have this for me, I no get. One man get am free... This life no balance. Walahi, any girl wey I fvck she get Belle, I go treasure d pikin like madt