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Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Kobojunkie: 12:09am On Oct 16, 2022 |
eniolorunfe:He doesn't provide for the care of the first one they already have and she can barely afford his care at only 5 years of age. Yet you want her to consider instead how many she would rather have and then reason how she can make a man who already refused to care for the one up till now take care of others... una dey reason these things well at all? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by injuredman: 3:52am On Oct 16, 2022 |
Zee0007: The bold statement is not absolutely true. Will you also state that no woman that loves kids, and wants to give birth will not care for them? I have seen both. They are men who just want to procreate but not ready/willing to take financial responsibility. I know a woman who will do everything to get pregnant. But once baby is born, she leave the baby for her husband. She can't stay back from work one day for the sake of the baby. Some humans can be weird! |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by ibechris(m): 7:16am On Oct 16, 2022 |
What are u waiting for. Go there,pack her things for her. That man is the worst creature on earth. Any man that can't provide for his family is simply an evil man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:41am On Oct 16, 2022 |
ibechris: This sort of men are in the majority in Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by frozen70(f): 12:17pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
Dainy1: Since her husband is a liability, let her Concentrate on the one she has at the moment till she finds her bearing If it happens that he want to go and pregnant another woman outside, let him go After all she has nothing to loose The man is just milking her while saving money for another woman Dont be surprise that marriage is not even stable and may hit the rock |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Dainy1(m): 8:56pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
ibechris:The fact that he allowed my sister paid for all the expenses, even in child's birth is the highest form of it. |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Dainy1(m): 8:57pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
HarlequinLekex:Meaning? |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Dainy1(m): 8:58pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
Cutehector:Yes. And it's sad |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Vyolet(f): 9:22pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
There is no need dragging the issue with him. She has to be a step ahead of him, get contraceptives and enjoy yourself, if he asks why pregnancy isn’t coming, tell him you do not understand your body. I can bet he doesn’t have the money to go for any form of fertility checkup. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Saintmary(f): 9:54am On Oct 17, 2022 |
frozen70: This is deep. Your post is very insightful, the man must have lost his love for the woman and he's only using her as cook, housekeeper, stable sex object, etc This is not the behavior of a man in love. |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by frozen70(f): 12:18pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Saintmary: Thanks dear It takes madness to correct nonsense |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Dainy1(m): 5:30pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
frozen70:Serious |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by frozen70(f): 5:41pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Dainy1: Yeah |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Geminita1(f): 5:57pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Rozross: ![]() |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by GboyegaD(m): 6:02pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Dainy1: I will not suggest facing him. She should open up to your parents or his parents. You are contemporaries and you intervening might lead to greater issues. |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by GboyegaD(m): 6:04pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Helpout12345: I fear this might be temporary. I do not know how some men sleep knowing they are not doing as much as they can for their families. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by OgaMadam(f): 7:22pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: It starts with financial abuse |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by OgaMadam(f): 7:23pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
Rozross: I like that |
Re: He Wants More Children, But He Wouldn't Provide by Saintmary(f): 7:45pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
frozen70: Yes o |
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