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by akwesenana: 4:50pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Re: by mariahAngel(f): 4:53pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
How sad. Whenever she curses you, denounce it immediately. Like, if she says you're crazy, simply reply that you're not crazy. 1 Like |
Re: by MufasaLion: 5:12pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Curses don't have any efficiency. 2 Likes |
Re: by Oluneutral: 5:42pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Whether efficient or not, it's not something I'll love to experience. 1 Like |
Re: by Oluneutral: 5:46pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
From another angle, what's your mother's joy in cursing her children and seeing the negative effects of the curses on them, and yet, still continues. What kind of a mother enjoys the pleasure of seeing her children wretched and useless. Wonders shall never end. 1 Like |
Re: by Oluneutral: 5:59pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
The efficiency of parental curses is much more on the parent, because he who professes evil will have evils come on him in manifolds. 2 Likes |
Re: by ibechris(m): 6:17pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
A woman that wants to enjoy her old age is busy destroying the very blessing that God gave her. My parents never cursed any of us. Whether efficient or inefficient curse isn't good especially from parents. Take it or leave,ur mum isn't a good woman. Her curses may have damaged u guys both emotionally and psychologically. If na me,I for don dis-mum her tey tey... May God bless u and may u also be a blessing to ur children and pls,do not tow her path. 1 Like |
Re: by akwesenana: 6:22pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
ibechris: 1 Like |
Re: by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:25pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
akwesenana: there is nothinf like cursing from a mother its cultural and traditional thing that is put in our minds as we grow up and we start to believe in especially in our own failers The curse things ( lowers your confidence and we endup using as failer to success) why is that mother are at good and cursing but not blessings Mothers can not curse or bless the reason they use the worse curse is for you to fall in line usually out of good reason you be a better person Out of all people a mother is the 1st person you trust in life, hence we are forced to obey them regardless of their individual devil ways |
Re: by akwesenana: 6:26pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:Not me though. |
Re: by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:34pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
akwesenana: what i mean is this, naturally a mother is primary carer, she gives you food warmth etc, by time you start to grow up and reason thats when you loose the truth But naturally u trust and follow her words and the moment you dont follow whats she says whether good or bad thats when she also start say i curse this and that this has physcological effect on you becoz society and beliefs taught you that mothers can curse you start to associate failer with curse The word curse builds "less confidence in making decisions and self value" Then the word blessing builds confidence and self esteem |
Re: by akwesenana: 6:36pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: |
Re: by RepoMan007: 7:16pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Just keep praying for her and be watchful of your spiritual life. |
Re: by frozen70(f): 9:23pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
akwesenana: You guys need to stay away from her till she will be to see you Which mother curses her children is that not witch craft Hee mates are talking bullets to save their children, She is laying curses on them That means she may not be well after all You too find your level and start planning how not to go to her all the time |
Re: by favourite787899: 11:10pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
I jumped on your post because your story is not far from mine. I married at age 19 probably because God didn't want me to end up on the street. My father was a thorn in our flesh while my mum was forming good wife. At every slight provocation he will carry his bible and lay curses on his supposed children, he will beat you like a criminal. My mum was the one providing for us, I was doing my National Diploma then. There is no kind of curses I have not heard in this world ooo. I was frustrated I wanted to leave the house at all cost. As am typing this if you enter his room he write the day anyone offends him on his wall. At age 14 to 19, I was already soaking my pillow with tears, while my mum struggle to hid her tears. He will tell me that I will never graduate in this life. That my certificate will be useless to me. No man will ever marry me. Its been almost 10 years of marriage and my husband has never for once called my parent to report any kind of issue we have been living peacefully but even in my absence this man still lays curses on me. He says I will be disgraced out of marriage. Its seems like his ears are widely open to hear evil about his children. Same thing he dose to every other person in the family. My father doesn't speak to his mum or his brothers. My brother just left for service and he has vowed never to set his feet home again same as my sister its been three years since she left home. As for me its been five years since I visited home and am not ready to go there I can't stand him. The house bring back bad memories. Our last born is the only person left and the situation is still the same last time he told her that she will never bear children in her life. At first I felt like maybe I was not his biological child and they were hiding something from me. But he does same even to our last born who looks exactly like him. When I see the way my husband loves and adores his children I so much feel fulfilled because I never tasted anything called love while growing up. I use to think that I was naturally a quiet person while growing up not knowing I had lost my confidence and self esteem. |
Re: by Angrygoat: 8:51am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Na yoruba do am pass |
Re: by fineboynl(m): 11:16am On Oct 19, 2022 |
That is witchcraft. They are possess. Everyone you see on the street carries different spirit with them around. Some people are not really humans and it’s worst here with black Africans and that why Africa is a mess till today. The churches in Nigeria are really doing a lot to brake people out from poverty and bondage. It’s a curse and the curse is using her to destroy it |
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