IamMobisola:


He sent her to school at his own free will, no be by force to marry him.

IamMobisola:


There was a post earlier this year about a guy who went to a slum to pick a girl and decided to send her through school up till her university level.
If this guy has same intention, how is this girl supposed to know? Is it when she finishes her university education that he will now come and ask her to marry him?

A lot of guys in the comment section were saying the girl must marry the man when she graduates from the university as a sign of appreciation, Lol.

If you feel as a man you want to do charity by sending a girl to school, don’t expect anything in return(especially marriage) because that’s going too far.

IamMobisola:


Abegi. Nothing go do her.
She will move on to marry someone else happily

Divay22:

Try not to support evil abeg..

Would you say this, if the guy was your brother?
Just answer this question before anything please.

I am waiting for the reply too

salbis:
Investing on these gender is a dangerous venture. I can only invest on my mother, wife or sister.

peculiar2233:
I sound du*b and stu*id with the kind of reply i gave

virginprincess:
Did they sign any certificate of agreement that she must marry he after training her ,all this Nigeria men sef,my brother you decided to be foolish endure your foolishness.

odiyeu88:
“She refused to marry the man who saw her through the university, when she got back as a graduate she started behaving funny to the man.

But where there a formal agreement that if he finished training her to university she will marry him.

Divay22:

Try not to support evil abeg..

Would you say this, if the guy was your brother?
Just answer this question before anything please.

odiyeu88:
“She refused to marry the man who saw her through the university, when she got back as a graduate she started behaving funny to the man.

But where there a formal agreement that if he finished training her to university she will marry him.

izzou:


Yeah Yeah

The writer is right there on the link. Reach out to him and send this words of hope to her.

If one millipede dies, a burial ceremony must be organised. That is their tradition.

Hopefully, someone wont step on one before she hears your motivational speech

virginprincess:
Did they sign any certificate of agreement that she must marry he after training her ,all this Nigeria men sef,my brother you decided to be foolish endure your foolishness.

virginprincess:
Did they sign any certificate of agreement that she must marry he after training her ,all this Nigeria men sef,my brother you decided to be foolish endure your foolishness.

IamMobisola:
People do charity without expecting anything in return. Ladies have done same for boys and don’t expect anything in return.

Nobody send you message, if you want to send a girl through school do it and leave the girl alone, don’t expect her to marry you as a way of saying thank you.

LilMissFavvy:
Pictures of the millipedes ? She did the right thing dumping' him, because a man that is fetish cannot make a good husband.

Revolva:
All these men no de hear word....stop sponsoring all dese broke gals to school they will come out with big feathers than yours

virginprincess:
Did they sign any certificate of agreement that she must marry he after training her ,all this Nigeria men sef,my brother you decided to be foolish endure your foolishness.

CoolAmbience:



You need to try to employ balance in analysing things.

This isn't about gender defence.

What will make a random man take up the responsibility of seeing a lady, that is not his relative, through school with no intention whatsoever?

For me, catering for a young lady's education is even too far fetched, I have always advocated that women, even men, should be very careful getting help whatsoever from strangers, people they aren't familiar with or non relatives, without clear definitions...be it food, ride etc.

No one can tell the true depth of the minds of humans..

Revolva:


Close mouth which naija gal fit do any thing for men...count then and let us know

Just 1 percent ....men are the one footing ladies bills in this part of the world

Naija ladies are selfish in nature they dont spend on themselves properly not to gift their lover

IamMobisola:


We have people who have done evil to others and are still alive and doing well.
Why una never send millipedes to Buhari and all those corrupt politicians that have taken the lives of innocent Nigerians and many still suffering because of their greed.
Mtchww

izzou:


You are crying more that the Scammer and the Scammee

I dont know the guy. I dont know the girl

She has not denied the guy did not train her in school
She has not denied that she didn't agree to marry him

But here you are, defending what is indefensible even in God's sight and in the sight of men

I'm not here to argue why Buhari doesn't have millipedes. Reach out to her and tell her to marry.

Let one kid just smash the head of one millipede, and her family that couldn't train her through school, would be funding a burial ceremony.

Life hasnt really been fair from the start