Nairalanders and shallow mentality. You people tagged her a scammer just because she asked for a Job for her husband Did she scam any of you? When did it become a crime for someone to cry out for help? Life na turn by turn oh. Becareful how u run other people down, tomorrow might be your turn. If u can't help her, pls don't discourage others from helping her. After all, we rise by lifting others. Do ur bid and leave, judgement is in the hands of the Lord.

quisera:
Seeing the comments above from people/persons who claim to be so wise is really appalling. I'm really disgusted.
The Op didn't beg for money she simply asked for a job. It's a two way situation folks; it's either you help with a job if you can or look the other way if you can't. Those who rendered financial assistance did it on compassionate ground and I see no reason why she should be labelled a scammer for that. The problem with we Nigerians is that we overthink situations basically because we're all scammers or we've prolly been victims of it but sometimes it's proper to show compassion (within our means) irrespective of what you think of the situation. "Who knows you might just be saving a life".
The Op might be saying the truth or probably be a scammer but you shouldn't be the judge of that. Lend a helping hand if you can otherwise look the other way and move on. This life is in circles.
May we never be unfortunate or experience situations that will make us subject of ridicule.

A wise scammer won't ask for money straight away. They knew it LL be a turn off. You have to be street wise to discern this

1Sharon:


What proof and what facts??


All we have is your WORD. Are people just supposed to take your word for it??


You're talking too much, too much shalaye is not helping your case.

Calling someone a scam without proof.

I have my addy in a nairalanders dm, he was so interested in putting "an end to this nonsense" but chickened out the moment I sent him my addy to come verify

odinga1of:


I'm in Surulere........ jokeharry3@gmail.com send your exact address here

Nonsense must stop on this forum.

I'm still willing to be verified, to prove beyond reasonable doubt that this is no scam.

My shalaye has gone beyond seeking help, it's gotten to the point of making things straight for the records.

Your bullying wouldn't stop me, no, never.

Face the issues, leave shalaye out, there's a time to shalaye and a time to keep it straight and simple.

Most of you can't even put your resources where your mouth is. You're quick to label one who's opened to verification a scam, what hope is there for those in despair, with geunine need for help.

The thread, due to too many attacks, ridicule and irrelevant posts, might have lost it's purpose or gained a new one, which is to be verified and clear my name.

dmdmdm:


Calling someone a scam without proof.

I have my addy in a nairalanders dm, he was so interested in putting "an end to this nonsense" but chickened out the moment I sent him my addy to come verify



I'm still willing to be verified, to prove beyond reasonable doubt that this is no scam.

My shalaye has gone beyond seeking help, it's gotten to the point of making things straight for the records.

Your bullying wouldn't stop me, no, never.

Face the issues, leave shalaye out, there's a time to shalaye and a time to keep it straight and simple.

All e-beggars should rightfully be seen as scams until verifable facts have been posted.

You've got some audacity to come here and talk about PROOF when you never provided proof to back up your sob story claims.

quisera:
Seeing the comments above from people/persons who claim to be so wise is really appalling. I'm really disgusted.
The Op didn't beg for money she simply asked for a job. It's a two way situation folks; it's either you help with a job if you can or look the other way if you can't. Those who rendered financial assistance did it on compassionate ground and I see no reason why she should be labelled a scammer for that. The problem with we Nigerians is that we overthink situations basically because we're all scammers or we've prolly been victims of it but sometimes it's proper to show compassion (within our means) irrespective of what you think of the situation. "Who knows you might just be saving a life".
The Op might be saying the truth or probably be a scammer but you shouldn't be the judge of that. Lend a helping hand if you can otherwise look the other way and move on. This life is in circles.
May we never be unfortunate or experience situations that will make us subject of ridicule.

enemachris:
Nairalanders and shallow mentality. You people tagged her a scammer just because she asked for a Job for her husband Did she scam any of you? When did it become a crime for someone to cry out for help? Life na turn by turn oh. Becareful how u run other people down, tomorrow might be your turn. If u can't help her, pls don't discourage others from helping her. After all, we rise by lifting others. Do ur bid and leave, judgement is in the hands of the Lord.

The sob story was to coax people into giving.

The intention was to ask for money all along.

The job hunt was just a front.

1Sharon:


All e-beggars should rightfully be seen as scams until verifable facts have been posted.

You've got some audacity to come here and talk about PROOF when you never provided proof to back up your sob story claims.

And who told you I didn't provide proof? You didn't see the part I talked about having anyone who's around the vicinity to verify? Did somebody not decide to take up that responsibility only to chicken out after proof was provided?

Stop misleading people. I am ready to be VERIFIED. I fit no get money but I've got some dignity to protect and I wouldn't let either you or anyone rub that in the mud.

Make all the mockery you want, it's your business, doesn't take one hair off my skin.

1Sharon:





The sob story was to coax people into giving.

The intention was to ask for money all along.

The job hunt was just a front.

Did you provide a genuine job opportunity and we didn't follow through?

Did you try to verify anything at all before coming to say this?

Are you different from those who carry out extra judicial killings without fair hearing?

Is this how a jury operates?

The questions are endless, but I may need to stop paying attention to you.

As a wo(man) thinks in his/her heart, so is s(he).

Period.

Dominique, take up the challenge of verifying or faulting my claims, or remain a coward for life.

Such an illiterate for a mod, little wonder you find useless posts with so much errors on front page.

dmdmdm:


Did you provide a genuine job opportunity and we didn't follow through?

Did you try to verify anything at all before coming to say this?

Are you different from those who carry out extra judicial killings without fair hearing?

Is this how a jury operates?

The questions are endless, but I may need to stop paying attention to you.

As a wo(man) thinks in his/her heart, so is s(he).

Period.

My friend, a job opportunity was offered but you sidestepped it and jumped on the comment asking for your acct details.


You claim to have one cup of rice in your house, yet here you are.

1Sharon:


My friend, a job opportunity was offered but you sidestepped it and jumped on the comment asking for your acct details.


You claim to have one cup of rice in your house, yet here you are.

What job opportunity was offered? Liar. The only one from I got was an on-line related job, he reached out and couldn't meet up with the conditions (a laptop) and that was it. Not a dime was requested from the lady who gave the job offer.

Smell out, you're a complete waste of time, you lack purpose. If I had the opportunity to add value to humanity, after doing my due diligence, by confirming the story, I'd gladly do that. Not seating behind my keypads and messing up other person's emotions, coming up with fallacies of hasty generalization.

Go the whole mile by confirming. Put yourself out of your misery and just confirm. Take a boldstep and be sure of the accusations you're laying, rather than heaping up generational curses for you and your likes.

I AM AVAILABLE FOR VERIFICATION. WORK WITH THAT OR FOREVER REMAIN SILENT.

dmdmdm:


What job opportunity was offered? Liar. The only one from I got was an on-line related job, he reached out and couldn't meet up with the conditions (a laptop) and that was it. Not a dime was requested from the lady who gave the job offer.

Smell out, you're a complete waste of time, you lack purpose. If I had the opportunity to add value to humanity, after doing my due diligence, by confirming the story, I'd gladly do that. Not seating behind my keypads and messing up other person's emotions, coming up with fallacies of hasty generalization.

Go the whole mile by confirming. Put yourself out of your misery and just confirm. Take a boldstep and be sure of the accusations you're laying, rather than heaping up generational curses for you and your likes.

I AM AVAILABLE FOR VERIFICATION. WORK WITH THAT OR FOREVER REMAIN SILENT.

You never saw this comment?

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Or this one?

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Sitting behind the keyboard? LOL I can afford to sit around my dear.

I'm not the one who came online claiming to have only a cup of rice and not knowing where my daughters next meal is coming from


Yeye finish you there.

1Sharon:


You never saw this comment?




Or this one?



Sitting behind the keyboard? LOL I can afford to sit around my dear.

I'm not the one who came online claiming to have only a cup of rice and not knowing where my daughters next meal is coming from


Yeye finish you there.

Is Surulere in Jos? You only proved your stupid.ity

You'd go any length to cause people pain.

Realistically, the factory Job is only sustainable for singles.

You've only shown that you and the others who have backed down having received some sense, are the devil's advocate.

dmdmdm:


Is Surulere in Jos? You only proved your stupid.ity

You'd go any length to cause people pain.

Realistically, the factory Job is only sustainable for singles.

You've only shown that you and the others who have backed down having received some sense, are the devil's advocate.

Right.

Factory job only for singles? Lol Beggars can't be choosers.

Please where did you get money to buy data?

1Sharon:


Right.

Factory job only for singles? Lol Beggars can't be choosers.

Please where did you get money to buy data?

I should have asked that he goes to Jos for the laundry job too since beggars can't be choosers.

He has a driving skill and it would be useless in a factory. We ain't relenting, a job would most definitely come, and all of these would be story.

Be useful to the people around you, stop being bitter.

Persons who see life differently helped out and it was enough to get data. The same help that's been choking you, be sure to keep water close by.

Do not live an empty life, if you can't add value to humanity, sit and learn from others, who knows, it may hit your stone cold bitter heart, that's if it still pumps blood.

dmdmdm:
Dominique, take up the challenge of verifying or faulting my claims, or remain a coward for life.

Such an illiterate for a mod, little wonder you find useless posts with so much errors on front page.

You have too much spare time. I'm sure there are opportunities for semi-skilled labor in your vicinity. These red flags are very hard to ignore.

I wish you the best.

1Sharon:


My friend, a job opportunity was offered but you sidestepped it and jumped on the comment asking for your acct details.


You claim to have one cup of rice in your house, yet here you are.

I think you should shut up already. Its obvious you have nothing to offer. Why not just read and pass. You are exhibiting a poor mans mentality.

dmdmdm:


I should have asked that he goes to Jos for the laundry job too since beggars can't be choosers.

He has a driving skill and it would be useless in a factory. We ain't relenting, a job would most definitely come, and all of these would be story.

Be useful to the people around you, stop being bitter.

Persons who see life differently helped out and it was enough to get data. The same help that's been choking you, be sure to keep water close by.

Do not live an empty life, if you can't add value to humanity, sit and learn from others, who knows, it may hit your stone cold bitter heart, that's if it still pumps blood.

You will need to calm down madam. Its obvious you are letting your emotions get the better of you, so pls just calm down. Like you said, It will pass. I once faced all these but i fought back with all my strength. Infact, there was nobody to go for help so i did little jobs to feed both kids and hubby and later got a job in a school. My kids attended the school so there was no school fees anxiety. I could go on and on. But at this point, i need you to know that when you come in a public space to ask for help, you shd know that pple must tag you something. Dont take it personal. Pray for the best and move to the next thing. God awaits you to rise so dont remain down and dont give room to nitwits who youre better than to insult you. That i wont let any woman debase herself with. Pls be strong. God will help you

1Sharon:





The sob story was to coax people into giving.

The intention was to ask for money all along.

The job hunt was just a front.

And how do you KNOW all this? This are just mere assumption and you're putting it out as a statement of FACT!

I'm not saying she's a scam or not, honestly not my business but am ASKING YOU how did you arrived at this conclusion? Can you expantiate on the investigation/verification you have done to make this conclusion?

Please know this, people who act this way do not thrive in a sane country.

dapotemi:


And how do you KNOW all this? This are just mere assumption and you're putting it out as a statement of FACT!

I'm not saying she's a scam or not, honestly not my business but am ASKING YOU how did you arrived at this conclusion? Can you expantiate on the investigation/verification you have done to make this conclusion?

Please know this, people who act this way do not thrive in a sane country.

If it's not your business why are you here?

Can you expatriate on the investigation YOU have done to confirm she's not a scam?

It's your type pastors take for fools.

chimeremodlyn:


I think you should shut up already. Its obvious you have nothing to offer. Why not just read and pass. You are exhibiting a poor mans mentality.

Haha...someone is begging online yet its me that's poor.

You Nigerians are truly stupid.

dmdmdm:


I should have asked that he goes to Jos for the laundry job too since beggars can't be choosers.

He has a driving skill and it would be useless in a factory. We ain't relenting, a job would most definitely come, and all of these would be story.

Be useful to the people around you, stop being bitter.

Persons who see life differently helped out and it was enough to get data. The same help that's been choking you, be sure to keep water close by.

Do not live an empty life, if you can't add value to humanity, sit and learn from others, who knows, it may hit your stone cold bitter heart, that's if it still pumps blood.

You don't need skills to work in a factory, it's an UNSKILLED job.

Now you're changing mouth. You first said a factory role is unsustainable now you're saying your husband hasn't got the skills for a factory.

Which is it?

Hahaha...a woman who claims she only has a cup of rice at home and doesn't know where her daughters next meal is coming from wants to give advice and tell me something

WAIT!! People helped give you money and you used the money to buy data instead of using it to buy food for yourself and most importantly your young child!!!


You frauds are truly entertaining I don't need a TV.

1Sharon:


If it's not your business why are you here?

Can you expatriate on the investigation YOU have done to confirm she's not a scam?

It's your type pastors take for fools.

sorry i engage you.You're incoherent and i should have known better..Apologies pls.

dmdmdm:


I should have asked that he goes to Jos for the laundry job too since beggars can't be choosers.

He has a driving skill and it would be useless in a factory. We ain't relenting, a job would most definitely come, and all of these would be story.

Be useful to the people around you, stop being bitter.

Persons who see life differently helped out and it was enough to get data. The same help that's been choking you, be sure to keep water close by.

Do not live an empty life, if you can't add value to humanity, sit and learn from others, who knows, it may hit your stone cold bitter heart, that's if it still pumps blood.

I think you should STOP responding to everyone here..Some of the people you're responding to here are actually more in a deeper pain and shit right now, hence, their anger. I don't know if your story is genuine or not, some inconsistency here and there but overall that does not make it a lie. In fact, i'll love to believe a lie and perhaps lose a few token than for me to doubt it, dismiss it and by omission /commission causes someone immeasurable pain. Suicide is REAL! Yesterday i saw a trending video about a man that jumped into the lagoon. The old man killed himself because, according to him he was accused of stealing some amount of money..In as much as i don't support suicide; i also ask that we should be humane...When and if we don't have all the fact, we should stop making unnecessary generalization that could drive an innocent person nut! Even in the justice system, it is better for 100 criminals to escape than for one innocent person to be punish/jail. For me; i'll rather concentrate on that ONE INNOCENT PERSON!! The scammers usually get what they deserve....

dmdmdm:


Please can you help us with anything at all? We'd be grateful

I'd also keep the house posted on how the job hunt goes

I can help with this.

1Sharon:


You don't need skills to work in a factory, it's an UNSKILLED job.

Now you're changing mouth. You first said a factory role is unsustainable now you're saying your husband hasn't got the skills for a factory.

Which is it?

Hahaha...a woman who claims she only has a cup of rice at home and doesn't know where her daughters next meal is coming from wants to give advice and tell me something

WAIT!! People helped give you money and you used the money to buy data instead of using it to buy food for yourself and most importantly your young child!!!


You frauds are truly entertaining I don't need a TV.

Will you shut it...what is your own na, women can be heartless to themselves sha., why just call someone a scammer? Did she scam you?
You may mock her today but you don't know what awaits you tomorrow
Pls Op ,ignore this person

dapotemi:


I think you should STOP responding to everyone here..Some of the people you're responding to here are actually more in a deeper pain and shit right now, hence, their anger. I don't know if your story is genuine or not, some inconsistency here and there but overall that does not make it a lie. In fact, i'll love to believe a lie and perhaps lose a few token than for me to doubt it, dismiss it and by omission /commission causes someone immeasurable pain. Suicide is REAL! Yesterday i saw a trending video about a man that jumped into the lagoon. The old man killed himself because, according to him he was accused of stealing some amount of money..In as much as i don't support suicide; i also ask that we should be humane...When and if we don't have all the fact, we should stop making unnecessary generalization that could drive an innocent person nut! Even in the justice system, it is better for 100 criminals to escape than for one innocent person to be punish/jail. For me; i'll rather concentrate on that ONE INNOCENT PERSON!! The scammers usually get what they deserve....

Thank you, I appreciate. Mind pointing out the inconsistencies for clarification?

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dmdmdm:
I type this with a lot of pain in my heart. I feel sick and there's not a dime, last money was used to send our 2 year old daugher to school this morning and there's just 1 derica of rice left to eat, with nothing to prepare it, before she gets back.

Please help my hubby with a job, a driving job preferably.
He has experience driving on Uber, he's computer literate and can handle administrative functions too.

These may be useful ma

Dotkung:

These may be useful ma

Thank you, would give them a shot first thing tomorrow

I promised to keep NAIRALANDERS posted on the situation of things.

I helped hubby find a job here on Nairaland, but some issues came up and I've updated the thread, please help prevail on the employer, please.