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Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Onepointfiveodds: 5:37pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn. Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me. Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me. I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Karleb(m): 5:39pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
I swear, I am landing her a hot slap for saying that. You can take me to jail afterwards. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Eriokanmi: 5:40pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
This story might sound fake but it happens. Tell your wife to present the case to God. Both of you must be involved in this. Not every case requires medical solutions 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Zonefree(m): 5:40pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Eriokanmi:Make una dey pity God na 32 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Moh247: 5:41pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
When there's IVF and sperm donor Warn her never to have such desperate thought in your house again or you may marry another wife and move on 9 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by gasparpisciotta: 5:42pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Wake up, wake up...don’t sleep....oya so pe otilo...e don go... oya so pe otilo.....it’s goone!!! Story..story.. 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by GoldenJAT(m): 5:42pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Fear Just de catch me! I never marry!! 5 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by gaby(m): 5:44pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
She see say Bet9ja don take over your life that's why she wan try carry you handicap and NG + Un 1.5 according to your moniker. Make una softly dey create phantom threads here joor 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by general111(m): 5:46pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Are you sure she doesnt want a party?.. Thats the only explanation for this mad request... Brotherly, when your wife finally gets pregnant, after putting to bed, pls run a DNA test on that child.. Couples stay for fibe years before having a child, she is busy asking for another man before the marriage clocks one year. 8 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Weirdcamila: 5:46pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Yes , allow her try and see who the fault is from. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Eriokanmi: 5:47pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Moh247:I've seen a couple, both successful and confirmed virile in hospitals,home.and abroad, yet no issues. They ran all the tests of this world, no way! They did lots of ivf procedures yet, no solution. They now agreed to adopt, whilst still trusting in God. Long story cut short, the wife took ill. She went to the hospital for malaria test but she returned home with a different result She was confirmed weeks pregnant. The twins they had clocked one year last weekend. My street was filled up, nowhere to pass. A boy and a girl, carbon copies of their dad. 28 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Onepointfiveodds: 5:49pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
gaby: I understand this may not look real as i was also surprised... I probably wouldn't believe if i were to read this somewhere too |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Moh247: 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: I wonder why we don't sometimes consider adoption Even we yorubas believe if you take care of adopted kids, God might bless you soonest with your own kid . 7 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by gaby(m): 5:53pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds: Now, I am lost for words..but not entirely surprised. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by parkervero(m): 5:57pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds: If I were you, I'll prepare for a divorce right away. A faithful woman would never say such regardless of any delay. Prepare for DNA test for your first child. 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Hypnotise: 5:59pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
No respect or not done well |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by parkervero(m): 6:00pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Moh247: @bold which Yoruba told you that? Get your fact right. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Richy4(m): 6:00pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Karleb: |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Moh247: 6:02pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by parkervero(m): 6:07pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Moh247: Yoruba didn't say adoption, that's what I want to correct you of. Yoruba believe if the man marry another woman and that woman conceive, as a result of that, the first wife might equally conceive. That's where the proverb comes to play Ori omo lo n pe omo wa aye 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by LiteratureClass: 6:08pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Your wife is going to leave you soon. Please see the writings on the wall.... 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by LordHashira: 6:22pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Tell her you want to try your seeds on 9 other women outside... 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:32pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds:its sounds as if your wife is under pressure to have a child The question is are you aware she is under pressure ? or your self you are ok you dont feel the pressure hence you are confused by her suggestion 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Onepointfiveodds: 6:35pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: No pressure, just desperation i believe |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:43pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds: its a form of pressure Both of you need to relax, being under pressure also causes delays on concieving The most important thing is both of you understand the pressure you are under and defend each from those who pur pressure on each of you |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by jahson19(m): 6:43pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Tell her you want to try with another woman first 5 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by isrealoski(m): 6:44pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
can't stop laughing Zonefree: |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by ikeno(m): 6:53pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
I see this marriage hitting rock bottom.this is a marriage of convenience not of love.you better divorce that woman you call a wife else you will be miserable in that marriage. a good resounding slap will reset her brain to default so she will retrace her words. kilo kon mi 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Tit4Tat1(m): 6:57pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Mheeen.. This is really demeaning for a man honestly, You must really be a dunce or an idiot for ur wife to have such boldness to sit u down and tell you that.... 6 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by isrealoski(m): 6:59pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Funny enough i had this experience myself but it was my uncle and is wife who begged me to help them since i'm family and no child for 18 years. They already spoken with my mom she said she couldn't decide for me they should speak with me. |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by superCleanworks(m): 7:03pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
this marriage is almost finished. na added time una dey like this. just waiting for the final whistle. now the question is WHO IS HOLDING THE WHISTLE? is it the guy outside that is about to pregnant her? is it the wife who has lost faith in her husband? is it the husband who is already in a state of shock? |
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Eriokanmi: 7:14pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Moh247:You're right. We've got such a rich tradition. They were actually in the process of adopting when their prayer was heard . |
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