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Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Enny2013(f): 8:58pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
[quote author=advanceDNA post=117846759][/quote] Lol...what? |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 9:06pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
I'm straight forward and I tell it like it is, I go to church occasionally, meaning I'm not a religious fanatic, I'm temperamental, I don't tolerate nonsense, you disrespect me,I return the same energy because I believe that respect is earned, and I'm an introvert, meaning I enjoy having my own space. Yusufisraelj: |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 9:42pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Lima98:I am a Christian |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Lima98(f): 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Coinwarrior:okk but it's a muslim that I have so I think is not possible |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 10:01pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Lima98:yes sir/ma |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Lima98(f): 10:02pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Coinwarrior:lolz kkk |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by 9japride(m): 2:48am On Oct 25, 2022 |
There are a lot of good girls in the neighborhood but they don't dress too skimpy. Look beyond extreme body assets. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by kaywhy09(m): 3:26am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Coinwarrior: Stop being emotional young man. You're a (married) man. Act like one. Let the past stay in the past. Let your wife know what you want and what you don't. Then know her likes and dislikes too. Stop over spiritualizing relationship matters. Seek medical help for health issues, and good counsel for your marriage to work. Wish you best of life. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 6:27am On Oct 25, 2022 |
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Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:58am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Samantha123: Good morning, clearly you've just described your person, nothing wrong with that, personalities is what makes us unique. What you've highlighted are not weaknesses, like lies, lack of fidelity in a serious relationship, being rude etc. In Tim Lahaye's book, why you act the way you do, I should infer that you're a choleric kind of person, very pragmatic and logical, no time for bullshit or playing overly nice, you don't have a problem being confrontational when there's a need to do so. However to your credit every personality type comes with weaknesses, my argument and position is that every weaknesses or perceived limitation can be worked on and turned into something better, within the context of our discourse, if you believe relationship is about the other person's interest before yours, you'll make appropriate adjustments to mitigate differences that brings pain to the other person. See a brief diagram below for different personality types and the weaknesses inherent.
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Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 7:15am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Enny2013:Lol..the bold is a fat ass lie and pls speak for urself |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 7:19am On Oct 25, 2022 |
pansophist: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 7:23am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Coinwarrior:If u follow that stupid advice u will die very early while she enjoys ur remaining balance with other users... u no just wise at all |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 7:24am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Wow! I'm speechless. Yusufisraelj: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 7:28am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Coinwarrior:Lolzzz... ur the weakest mofo to ever walk the earth |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 7:40am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Samantha123: Lolzzz... What's difficult in according ur man respect? In being transparent? In setting and knowing boundaries with other men outside ur partner? Valuing what u have? To be Loyal and faithful? To not be a chronic liar? And u say it doesn't exist? Well if u say so then it means all girls are hoes going by ur submission. But I disagree with u we will still find some true ones, They do exist just that they are very few or might fall short of our standards physically. And one guy here is seriously rooting for u. The guy no see this ur post i'm sure. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 8:04am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Already you guys call us hoes and wicked anyway. The thing is, you guys take the good ones for granted and maltreat them. Like the op said, he wants a woman that'll respect him no matter what he does, even if he cheats or beat her up. In short, he wants a woman that he can take for granted. Killbillz: |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 8:11am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Samantha123:He most probably didn't put that right and I do not believe he's looking for a woman to take for granted going by his previous submissions here. He's just a simple man (and I don't mean simp) with simple ways who can easily be used by these women. How can such a man take anyone for granted? Even a girl begging to be used will be disappointed with his personality. Good women do exist and I have come across a few 1 Like |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 8:20am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Simple men should be with feisty women.. Killbillz: |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 8:39am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Samantha123:Yea...feisty women who are sensible and considerate can be the best type of women to any man too |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 8:44am On Oct 25, 2022 |
kaywhy09:Thanks for your matured talk.I had let the past be in the past b4 but I just pointed out those observations to her to let her know I saw everything and anytime I talk I talked based on facts not just perceptions when I saw her using new pattern to her phone without showing me and when she was confronted she still want to be dribbling me that is where I brought those observations to her ear.I have told her what I want and dislike.I have known her likes and dislikes too.But i am watching again anytime I found her culpable again.I would just tell her to leave. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 8:47am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Killbillz:maybe that person that said I am looking for a woman to take for granted is getting me wrong.I am not a wicked/careless man.I am looking for a woman that would respect,honour,appreciate my love and give me absolute truth and loyalty. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 8:50am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Killbillz:Thank you sir.what I asked for is not too difficult. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 8:51am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Coinwarrior:I get ur point but u still need to toughen up a bit. Don't be too accepting of everything these women throw at u just because of their outward beauty or fake love. See beyond that and never compromise character for anything like pansophist said. His advice should be ur guide |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 9:22am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Killbillz:outward or their fake love don’t take me.I am not a man that would loosen up that was why i discovered those lies and tried to let her know that I saw her all in the past,present and future when she wanted to be twisting truth for me when i confronted her about her motive for putting to her phone without telling me and when she can see everything on my 24/7 |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 1:06pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
purejustice36:I specifically thanked you for ur valueble time you spent to bring up this interesting things.Firstly,let me point out some things....From my wife being caught to be a liar where she ought not to be.We all know most girls now a days may not be met undisvirgined and we all know that most of them would always lie that one thing raped them or molested them than telling the truth that they had been sexed once upon a time and they lost their virginity to it.I can even not felt pained because of that because most girls use to lie on that for fear of being seen as cheap or loose or fear of using that to abuse them at any slightest provocation by some guys.Though my wife told me she was never a virgin right from the onset but she lied that she was raped when she was actually being bleeped by first man she took as her unborn child father during her inexperience time because I know she was very naive then.ok if i closed eye at that.I can say my wife is not promiscuous because from what i studied about her because I was closer to her than anything.But if I should leave those things of the past in the past i must be very careful and observing.Another challenge I have with her is the issue of her low sex drive which I can’t understand.she is always dry I don’t know why but when I was dating her we often meet by weekend cos of my job.we do have sex atleast b4 i return to work by Sunday .I never see that she use to have low sex drive or complain about sex.But now anytime I am ready for sex my wife would be complaining she is not ready and she is not turned on and my quest for sex is too much.That is why i see her as not promiscuous type but she is just naive during those years of little knowledge.The only thing i frown at his her cunny cunny lie at some sensitive points.what I have done is this regard is that I have let her know that she should not keep any iota of secrets from me.she should just be open ,loyal and respectful to me as being her husband and anytime she get caught in any game I would just tell her to go. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by purejustice36: 2:44pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
Coinwarrior: I get your point man Firstly you can’t advise a woman on how to respect you bc respect is earned . When a woman is deeply in love with a woman , she gets turned on by any little advances from her lover bruh Her mind dey outside but you’re just not seeing that part Anyway I hope I’m wrong bc I don see different type of women and their acts , no be today It’s not just about checking her phone , women are smarter than we think they are , have you tried wooing her with another account? If you haven’t wooed your woman with a nice social media acct that is owned by a fresh guy with a nice car, and cool cash , then let’s see if she’ll turn him down If you haven’t done that then you don’t know your woman yet bruh Give that your woman digits to any trusted guy around you , make the guy chat am up , then see for yourself Make the guy question her about her marital status after the guy go don use sweet words finish her head , then you go see which category she go place you Once she pass that test , then there’s still hope But no be every man dey get that kind mind to run such tests sha |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Enny2013(f): 4:23pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
Killbillz:Ha! Wot of dos dat found their wives on Nairaland? |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by naijapikin2(m): 4:30pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
All women have what they call "sko-sko" That's one loose nut in their brains. Believe me we men also do have our own. Look for one with some of the good traits you find in a woman and work on her. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
Enny2013:Don't get me wrong... there are good ones here but u said MOST and that's not true |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 5:05pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
purejustice36:I have created one Facebook account with some tantalizing details as a fresh guy working with cbn oshogbo branch.I sent her friend request with that account and for over 3months now she is yet to accept it.I made her to have an impression that I am not on Facebook or any other social media platforms so that she can fall into my trap.i just want to use that opportunity to know how loyal she is to me and what is my position in her mind.But what amazes me is the fact that she used to accept friend request of her old school mates guys and some girls who were her school mate but that trap acct she just didn’t accept it.what i want to do now is to try those scope of yours by looking for a trusted guys that would decorate a freshly opened Facebook with nice attractive pecks and I want to see what would come out of it.I also want to affirm if her eyes is outside.No 2: I want to prepare some new numbers to chat her where they would say they got her number from Facebook because her number is on her details on Facebook even though she wrote *married* there. Some things I discovered about her lately was where I saw one of her customer cropping her picture from her status and sent to her dm with kisses and she use to tell me about that her customer that he has a wife that he didn’t cater for but he was pampering his girlfriends at his working place.But i warned her that she should be very careful about such customer and set limit and boundaries. |
Re: Pls Where Can One Find Good Girls That Can Be Turned Into Good Wife! by Coinwarrior: 5:07pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
Once i see the result I would know my fate and take a bold decision.Thanks man! |
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