Zonefree:
"Babe, I don't think I'll be able to avoid you"


I sincerely respect the honesty of both parties. This is how life should be.

As a woman, say what you want in a relationship without playing hide and seek.

As a man, if you can't afford her requirements, let her know and bounce. There's no need to pretend.

Persephone1:
The way you are pretending to have sense right now.

Persephone1:
The way you are pretending to have sense right now.

Zonefree:

Ariza, can we please avoid each other forever? Please

I love how you cry wolf and play the victim card anytime I come for you. Your pseudo maturity/intelligence goes on strike when you attack my posts which weren't directed at you but when I come for you you start acting like some ancient pope calling for world peace.

If you want us to avoid each other, stay true to your own end of your bargain perhaps I might consider letting you fade into oblivion. Until you learn to do that, be prepared for me. Like a thief in the night I'd keep coming for you hard. The choice is yours.

BTW I read your post again, why does it sound like you are begging for some compassion? cry cry baby, you wey i never start with.

begoniaa:


Lol...this is...

I hope you're not one of the men that talk about how women of nowadays are not like your mothers and modernity is spoiling things, bla bla bla. Because this lady's mentality is just exactly like our mothers.' She's a 'traditional' woman who believes in chivalry and headship and all attending standards, so what's your issue with it? Or unless you're not of them traditional guys sha.

For their relationship, I am sure she is bringing in things expected of her "as a woman" too. The only shortchanging would be if she's not a virgin.

And I am also hoping she has all the childbearing, childrearing, homemaking, emotional and domestic provisions in the bag that she's bringing to the table. Since she wouldn't share 50/50, I don't expect her to still want him to wash and clean, etc., "as a man."

Also, you say a man providing doesn't mean she won't bring anything to the table... I guess you're talking in terms of finances and romantic gestures. There's no where in that chat too the lady says she won't contribute once in a while, she's just saying it's not her role/job "as a woman", all the time.

Whatever will make you want a woman that contributes finances once in a while will also make you share in domestic duties once in a while.

All in all, communication and personal relational preferences takes number one. There's no one-size-fits-all.

As for the mentality you talk about, it is exactly the same way men marry women they don't love enough to share child- and home-care duties with. If you understand this, you'll understand why both sexes get married, but do not want to "help" each other out.

begoniaa:




Na elemi geisha to n ma d'aku d'aji. Fashi am. Na classic on-and-off thing; e go soon revert back go im normal mode now.

The guy is one seasonal e-idiot , yesterday he jumped on my post in family section unprovoked calling me all sort of names.Now that I want to show him the classic definition of "who're" and "werey" he is itching to sign a peace treaty with him mama

I will cure his seasonal madness for him if he doesn't know who to direct it to next time.

advanceDNA:
I sincerely dont know the point of your long talk....u were all over the place...

Couples are suppose to have the mentality to help each other out when needed...nothing should be anybody's conventional role so that no one is under pressure..... weda its domestic work or financial...traditional or non-traditional, thats what team mentality means to me..
..whoever can do it should do it...if both of them can do it, they should both do it, including chivalry...

Persephone1:
I love how you cry wolf and play the victim card anytime I come for you. Your pseudo maturity/intelligence goes on strike when you attack my posts which weren't directed at you but when I come for you you start acting like some ancient pope calling for world peace.

If you want us to avoid each other, stay true to your own end of your bargain perhaps I might consider letting you fade into oblivion. Until you learn to do that, be prepared for me. Like a thief in the night I'd keep coming for you hard. The choice is yours.

BTW I read your post again, why does it sound like you are begging for some compassion? cry cry baby, you wey i never start with.

Persephone1:
The guy is one seasonal e-idiot , yesterday he jumped on my post in family section unprovoked calling me all sort of names.Now that I want to show him the classic definition of "who're" and "werey" he is itching to sign a peace treaty with him mama

I will cure his seasonal madness for him if he doesn't know who to direct it to next time.

Zonefree:

If I've caused you pains, I'm so sorry. Please find a place in your stiff heart to forgive me...it won't happen again, I promise.

Nonetheless, I just want us to avoid each other for our sanity. You're too toxic and I don't want anything to do with you again. Please.

Lol you are too inconsequential to cause me pains, lol that's you aiming for an impossible mission. However like a teacher would a stubborn student i have taken it on me to let you feel some heat anytime you lose your home training, especially when I am on the receiving end of your relapse. In simple terms, I have decided not to overlook your nasty comments directed at me.

Lol yes I suffer fools gladly and can be very toxic to unrepentant dolts, like I have typed earlier the ball is in your court. Leave me out of your misfortunes and I will "consider" letting you roam in your stupidity freely. Very simple sturv! Don't come barking at me and expect me to always look away. If you want to use a monicker to shine, look well.

Persephone1:
Lol you are too inconsequential to cause me pains, lol that's you aiming for an impossible mission. However like a teacher would a stubborn student i have taken it on me to let you feel some heat anytime you lose your home training, especially when I am on the receiving end of your relapse. In simple terms, I decided to not overlook your nasty comments directed at me.

Lol yes I suffer fools gladly and can be very toxic to unrepentant dolts, like I have typed earlier the ball is in your court. Leave me out of your misfortunes and I will "consider" letting you roam in your stupidity. Very simple sturv!

Bunnybee:
She can do better than him!

Ladies beware of men that ask you what you can bring to to the table.

Most of them are broke as F and misogynistic and think they are God’s gift to women.

Successful men don’t go around asking jamb questions. It’s always the useless idiots that don’t even have anything to offer themselves apart from their useless d**ks.

Ladies, any man that asks you this question is trying to use you in some way, RUN.

❤️ ❤️

begoniaa:


I was not all over the place, I was being holistic and if you fail to see the point I was making, that's on you.

Whatever anything means to you in this matter is not the standard for everyone else.

The babe's a traditional woman that expects the man to lead and be in charge and supply everything on the table.

What makes you think she wouldn't be a complimentary and submissive homemaker to the man?

And I definitely said the most important thing is communication and each couple finding out what works for them. Your idea of a team mentality is not the same for other people out there, and I clearly mentioned how how some get married to people they don't love enough to help.

I agree nothing should be the conventional role of anybody, and ideally, couples should share and help out each other, but alas, that's not always the reality.

begoniaa:


Ohhh. He went that far sef?

I only saw him saying something like 'you were acting like you have sense.' That's always his play rule. Insult, and then when you come for him, he tries to downplay and act all innocently.

Wipe the m*dress out of his dada very well, please.

advanceDNA:
I never said my opinion is standard...so why are u stating it as if i said so....??..

that said.

If she will be a team player...she wont be ending relationship over who will buy flowers or gifts...

Zonefree:

Lol. There's no sane moment with you, Ariza.

I'm glad we've agreed on one thing today. Let's keep to it for our sanity.


Shalom.

You don't want to have an insane moment with me, trust me!

No we agreed on nothing, I don't reason with fools. The point is, if you stay me out of your insanity, I might consider ignoring you. if you come into my mention with nonsense, I will come for you hard. In this case you get to decide what you want

Persephone1:
You don't want to have an insane moment with me, trust me!

No we agreed on nothing, I don't reason with fools. The point is, if you stay me out of your insanity, I might consider ignoring you. if you come into my mention with nonsense, I will come for you hard. In this case you get to decide what you want

Zonefree:

I only told her to return the phone to the owner.. is that an insult? Ariza is naturally toxic. Toxicity is contagious and I wouldn't want to be infected. Let her stay on her lane. I have plenty demons to deal with already.

Oh really? I fear you reach to lie?

This is you calling me a who're and werey yesterday. Kris you are pathetic,swears! just stay me out of your nonsense on this forum if you don't want to be unfortunate.

Persephone1:
BTW I read your post again, why does it sound like you are begging for some compassion? cry cry baby, you wey i never start with.

PlayMaker14:
I think that's enough... Zon.efree apologized to you already.

begoniaa:


You're not making your opinion the standard, yet you're dragging her over who she wants to buy flowers and gifts?

I have said she is a traditional woman that expects traditional actions from all indications, and she is likely going to be bringing other traditional benefits that doesn't have to do with money.

What is the problem with what I said biko? If she was forming independence and still wanted the man to provide, I would have had an issue with her. But she's willing to be a submissive woman to a provider man. That is her own idea of a relationship and she is not necessarily wrong.

Zonefree:

I've been apologizing and pleading with her so we can avoid each other. I was at verge of losing myself yesterday when she mentioned me and started typing nonsense. Jay, you know I'm a gentleman, I don't look for trouble

PlayMaker14:
I think that's enough... Zonefree apologized to you already.

I am a visual being, I don't believe in words let alone some insincere apology, but moving on as long as he sees the condition on his peace treaty and adhere to it, he will have no issues with me. He shouldn't come at me with his nonsense, that's my point.

begoniaa:


I swear, e shock me sef o.

See both him and friend trying to call for a cease-fire like what I don't know lol.

When housefly dey perch on wound, nobody will see it but when person wey get wound vex throw housefly inside mouth, people go dey shout say the person do bad.

He never see toxic, if him do him madness reach my side again then he will witness full blown toxicity.

At least people dey see am for this thread now trying to make peace, no problem.

begoniaa:


I swear, e shock me sef o.

See both him and friend trying to call for a cease-fire like what I don't know lol.

Persephone1:

I am a visual being, I don't believe in words let alone some insincere apology, but moving on as long as he sees the condition on his peace treaty and adhere to it, he will have no issues with me. He shouldn't come at me with his nonsense, that's my point.

advanceDNA:
If a women decides that fvcking is her only team contribution before the marriage starts..thats fine....giving my personal opinion of what being a part of a team(marriage) should be is not dragging....

U have a way of accusing ....when did i say there's a problem with what you said??

Persephone1:
Oh really? I fear you reach to lie?

This is you calling me a who're and werey yesterday. Kris you are pathetic,swears! just stay me out of your nonsense on this forum if you don't want to be unfortunate.

begoniaa:


And you must definitely have a beef with English.

You gave an opinion on the perspective on the lady in the chats, and I gave my own opinion on your opinion - c'est fini.

begoniaa:


And you must definitely have a beef with English.

You gave an opinion on the perspective on the lady in the chats, and I gave my own opinion on your opinion - c'est fini.