PlayMaker14:
Scared? Okay oh....


Just move out with the kids, I take God beg you... Their safety and mental health is more important than anything.

I will do all I can sir. Thank you

godofuck231:
What are your resources what can you do to make a living and how son can you start a business, the easiest is cooking, a small location and good food , at least the most common in nigeria , service trays ad coolers , u ca start with what you have, ad value to your self and stop replying an aggressive man , keep your head safe , stop replying on impulse and see if this stops, if not then he's been bewitched

I am good at hairdressing. That is the business I wish to start sir. I can’t keep on living with him, The kids and I walk on eggshells around him

Blacckrod:


Be strong. Abusers manipulate you to think they are above the law

Please drop your account number

Thank you ma.

sod09:

Where are you located some of us can be near you to offer help

I am in Taraba sir

VeevoH:


I am good at hairdressing. That is the business I wish to start sir. I can’t keep on living with him, The kids and I walk on eggshells around him

Stop acting unstable and jeopardizing your life/your kids future. If you are serious, you would:

1. Take them and run to a church around you. After Osinachi, churches are more protective of women being abused.

2. Since you're an orphan who has lost everyone else in her family, what about your past friends? I meant from when you were young,in school, where you were staying before, etc? Or do you not have a village where you could go and stay with distance cousins cousins whose surname was similar to your parents? Most of these houses are vacant, villages is where the most free accommodations are....

3. If no 2 above isn't working for you, then his families nko? His parents, siblings, his friends, etc. That guy cant be an orphan or fell from heaven too. There must be someone in his life who doesn't want him to be a killer and end up like killers before him.

4. If you cant find help from the 3 above, pls google human rights and NGOs supporting abused women around you. Then simply show up at their doorstep with your proof. They will help you.

5. If you really want to help yourself and being really abused, you could simply walk out someday and never return again. Just go to Ikeja underbridge and appeal to the women to allow you make one hair....just one hair will give you the resources to live through that day. If you're not in Lagos,look for where girls troop to make their hair and just beg to make only one hair....

In my opinion, I think you're not really ready to leave or something is not right with your story. Good luck.

VeevoH:
Please I need help. I need to leave with my kids. I cannot bear this anymore

Why leave with his children?
Do you have any means to take care of them,?

If you leave with the children, you'll be relieving him of his responsibilities and giving him freedom to misbehave and bring in other women.

Look for a means and get out of there fast.

By the way, what did you do that made him brutalize you this way?

VeevoH:


Thanks sir. I am penniless as it is. I have skills in hairdressing. I plan to move me and the children far from him to start afresh

Where you at?

Don't you have any relatives you could put up with for some time? I'm the meantime, go report him at the police station and any human right NGO around you.

VeevoH:


The first time he hit me till I lost consciousness. I reported to the police but we were told to settle at home. This man laughed at me and told me he will be the one to bury me

I have seen a case like that, where the husband beat his wife, when the woman reported at police station, they told her to go and resolve it at home.
The police are not helping matter in this situation.

He must have bribed the police people.

Blessedmercy8:


Why leave with his children?
Do you have any means to take care of them,?

If you leave with the children, you'll be relieving him of his responsibilities and giving him freedom to misbehave and bring in other women.

Look for a means and get out of there fast.

By the way, what did you do that made him brutalize you this way?

What can justify someone brutalizing another in such way?

mariahAngel:
So, what is keeping you there?

Haabaa Mimi,this your question sef eeh.
It's obvious she needs assistance.

VeevoH:
I have suffered all types of abuse from my husband for the past 6 years of our marriage.

I did my best to stay peacefully and bear in my marriage for the sake of my children.

But it is now obvious the man who swore to love and protect me wants to take my life because he knows I am an orphan who has nowhere to go and no one to run to.

He did this to me 3 days ago.

There is no smoke without a fire. Learn to tame your tongue and you will enjoy your peace back.

The woman whose child lost an arm cos he was alledgely crying which was disturbance to the hegoat husband must have stayed back because of that pregnancy nay child but now saddled with a disabled baby for life.He was battering her before the pregnancy Osinachi and IVD's wife too.

'You'll be shouting its not my portion"What most of y'all don't understand is how fickle and fleeting life is.
First is safety before anything.

GentlePEACE:


There is no smoke without a fire. Learn to tame your tongue and you will enjoy your peace back.

Hey you,pls kindly shut up your loose tongue.whats wrong with you?
I won't be any surprised to learn say you be chronic abuser.

Stay your house location,I believed there re nairalanders in taraba state.

ahnie:
Stay your house location,I believed there re nairalanders in taraba state.

Not advisable security wise....

PlayMaker14:
Not advisable security wise....

Oh Kay I get

Sadly many women and men are going thru this same shit.my advise is kindly walk away,it's not the end of the world.

VeevoH:
I have suffered all types of abuse from my husband for the past 6 years of our marriage.

I did my best to stay peacefully and bear in my marriage for the sake of my children.

But it is now obvious the man who swore to love and protect me wants to take my life because he knows I am an orphan who has nowhere to go and no one to run to.

He did this to me 3 days ago.

You have only one choice. That is to leave right now.

VeevoH:


Thanks sir. I am penniless as it is. I have skills in hairdressing. I plan to move me and the children far from him to start afresh

Hmmm. Scammer with domestic abuse format.

Neddstark:


Hmmm. Scammer with domestic abuse format.

Really!
How's she a scammer?
Because it's a new account opened yesterday?

What exactly do you want

ahnie:

Hey you,pls kindly shut up your loose tongue.whats wrong with you?
I won't be any surprised to learn say you be chronic abuser.

I won't be surprised if I found out that you are a divorcee or someone that can't stay in one r/ship for long. Your type can't keep a home. Getat.

GentlePEACE:


I won't be surprised if I found out that you are a divorcee or someone that can't stay in one r/ship for long. Your type can't keep a home. Getat.

Nor be only divorcee na manatee.
You're really sick.
Go get help.
Wow you just aptly described your mother...kudoz.

Talk to me only when you're able to attain 3 minutes full ERECTION without going LIMP

VeevoH:


I am good at hairdressing. That is the business I wish to start sir. I can’t keep on living with him, The kids and I walk on eggshells around him

that was a trade most women fancy at a time, these times are desperate, even here in America its kow what you think it is as all roses , abandon your hair dressing and start a food court , daily money wil surely come In , God help you if you are a wicked cook , then you are made

ahnie:

Really!
How's she a scammer?
Because it's a new account opened yesterday?

Started up a story and she's already claiming she is penniless. Indirectly wishing someone will credit her account to make her leave home. Scammer is well prepared, he/she labelled the bleeding with the Nairaland username that was opened just yesterday.

What happened? What exactly did u do to him ?

VeevoH:
I have suffered all types of abuse from my husband for the past 6 years of our marriage.

I did my best to stay peacefully and bear in my marriage for the sake of my children.

But it is now obvious the man who swore to love and protect me wants to take my life because he knows I am an orphan who has nowhere to go and no one to run to.

He did this to me 3 days ago.

since you decided to stay and be barbecued, please kindly send location of your husband village .

I need to drink and eat at your funeral plzzz

silvoclaira:


If I am not mentally stable, what about the Op and the husband and you a stranger?!

How wicked can you be to wish someone you don’t know dead??

You are just plain evil and mentally damaged. I hope kindness finds your heart.

❤️

PlayMaker14:
I believe you have some little savings in your account... Report him to any of these organisation fighting against domestic violence, get an apartment, move there with your kids and get something doing for yourself.

op wants money, that's the only language HE understand

The fact you're an orphan doesn't mean you should wait till you get killed.
Don't you attend a church or mosque there?Can't you seek help from the clergy or member there?

Please look for an organisation that is involved with issues of domestic violence and report to them.