Ray07:
And na for this same Nigeria we the see brother dey inherit him late brother wife and property.
I don't see anything wrong with it.

The only problem is the girls mother

udofia234:
Good morning guys!!! A friend asks me his question yesterday and within myself I think its a taboo, or maybe the Christian doctrine might not allow this!

His father's elder brother wife, had a daughter for another man before marrying the dads elder brother. My guy said he"s in love with the girl. He then asked me that question confidentially but I said I'll answer him after I have consulted my friends about it. pls my fellow nairalanders is this right or should one call it madness?

He really wants to marry the Lady!!! But looking at it I think they are not related in any ways now.

She's his/your step-cousin.
She's not related to him/you by blood.
But hey!
Of all the girls in this world, it's a family member he's/You're crushing on?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm...
I'm suspecting he's/you're already drilling her.
She's probably preggy for him/you.
Go get some other girl bro.
It's not worth it.

Coolgent:


Under Islamic law you can't blame someone that's born outside wedlock cos it is not his or her fault.
You can only judge base on her or his characters.

I don't understand what u are trying to say sir!!!

internationalman:
The girl is her step cousin.

I know he's asking this question after they've already been fucking. If that isn't a taboo in his eyes I wonder why he thinks marrying her is

As long as they are not related by blood I see no wrong in marrying her.

You're speaking from both sides of your mouth lol

boxer022:
He cannot marry her or have any sexual relations with her as she is related to him as a cousin. I am sure that the uncle must have been the father of the girl in question, so in that case he can't marry her.

That is what a common sense will tell you but obviously, he can marry her.
They're in no way blood related.
It sound like a taboo but its not.

PerfectStranger:
A friend abi na you.

Abi ooo the same thing that come to my mind.He is the one,he just lieing about it.

udofia234:



Hmmm!!! that will be hard for him oh, cos he's on the ground that they are not related by blood

If he can marry his brother's wife's sister, he can go ahead...

Have a good weekend

ariesbull:
make God's no go punish am

That's not enough reason to want to marry her if its that u saying!!! He only wanted to be on a safer side

He can marry d girl.
Such happened in my village. There's no taboo there.

He can marry her. There is no blood relationship here. Some even marry daughters from the step mom but from another father. I don't see anything wrong here. Even the girls mom will support the marriage except your friend has a questionable character or not fit for the girl

ayorboy:
He can marry her, as a matter of Fact, close cousins do marry each other, it strengthens the family tie and make you behave responsibly as a man. and She is not in the list of those Islam mad forbidden to marry

Noted baba!!!

udofia234:




Thanks baba! u get level

You're nodding in the affirmative to the ones who are giving you/your friend a go ahead, and appreciating them as well, but opposing the views of commenters who advice you against it, which indicates that you already know what you want to hear and what you want to do.

PerfectStranger:
A friend abi na you.

In as much as say na you...but you can go ahead and marry her.

udofia234:



Hmmm!!! that will be hard for him oh, cos he's on the ground that they are not related by blood

Can he marry his own step sister since they are not related by birth nor blood....

BRATISLAVA:


Is it only men that have relationship problems? Do a quick survey of the last 3 front pages. Apart from obavo threads ( )

Complaint after problem after whining. And it's looking fictitious because your people are in the relationship with women. Why is it that we never hear the other side of the story? Men aren't saints, so what sponsors these endless threads?

It's overwhelmingly always men at it. Meaning it's not true.

Pls did u take time to read the msg? I wasn't blaming the lady or the man, they both love each other and wanted to know if they can expose this to the girls parents!!!

jasent:
Why do you think is a taboo?
My uncle from my mum married to a lady from Esan. The lady's sister got married to my uncle from my father's side. For mny years now we have not heard any story. Don't see anything there

Noted baba

janejive:


The girl is not related to him by blood. He showed go ahead and tell his family. Dust will be raised but soon everything will calm down. They might even be happy she stays in the family.

Babe!! I love your maturity!!! Nice one

BRATISLAVA:
Don't men get tired of creating these fictitious threads designed to generate hate and abuse of women?

you are fond of looking for faults up and down. What is the matter with you? You seem like a misandrist

udofia234:



The uncle is not the biological father of the lady, cos the wife had the girl for another man, but the girl is being raised by the uncle

If the uncle is not the biological father, then ur guy is free to marry her. Only blood relations are forbidden from sexual affairs/marriage

udofia234:
Good morning guys!!! A friend asks me his question yesterday and within myself I think its a taboo, or maybe the Christian doctrine might not allow this!

His father's elder brother wife, had a daughter for another man before marrying the dads elder brother. My guy said he"s in love with the girl. He then asked me that question confidentially but I said I'll answer him after I have consulted my friends about it. pls my fellow nairalanders is this right or should one call it madness?

He really wants to marry the Lady!!! But looking at it I think they are not related in any ways now.

Guy stop lieing,if truly that friend want to marry your relatives,how is that your business to stop him?why are you care about the girl when you are not the one marrying him.



It seems you are the one in love with her,stop giving us cock and bull stories here.

udofia234:



I don't understand what u are trying to say sir!!!

I don't know much about Christianity but according to Islamic Jurisprudence you can only judge someone bade on his or her character not the way he/she was born.
Though you ain't Muslim but i advise you to digest her characters and fo the needful.
She didn't choose to be born that way so dont judge base on that

Karleb:
Imagine having to explain to your children or worse, grand children that you and your wife are related?

You people can have flings but marriage! NO!

hausa-fulani people that marry their first cousins nko? how do they do their explanation?

Is there no other woman on this earth?

HomeTutorsPro:


She's his/your step-cousin.
She's not related to him/you by blood.
But hey!
Of all the girls in this world, it's a family member he's/You're crushing on?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm...
I'm suspecting he's/you're already drilling her.
She's probably preggy for him/you.
Go get some other girl bro.
It's not worth it.

This will be had d for the guy oh!!!

Microwhy:

That is what a common sense will tell you but obviously, he can marry her.
They're in no way blood related.
It sound like a taboo but its not.

Yes o! Since they are not related by blood

merits:


Abi ooo the same thing that come to my mind.He is the one,he just lieing about it.

Baba! Bro u no trusst your guy? If na me I go talk now, y will I be hiding it?

VIKTO83:
He can marry d girl.
Such happened in my village. There's no taboo there.

Thanks baba! I know I can always count on your wisdom!!!

Niceguyfirm:
He can marry her. There is no blood relationship here. Some even marry daughters from the step mom but from another father. I don't see anything wrong here. Even the girls mom will support the marriage except your friend has a questionable character or not fit for the girl

Hmmm!!! That's a nice one sir!!! He will be happy to hear this

Manna4Gurls:

Bro u just viam just like that. U travel abi na KALA U go achieve?

Holly Gram My Gee!


Na hustle ooo..


NL no go give me food CHOP..


WTF MAN!

Make him marry her if he loves her, it not a taboo

I seen guy who married his step mom's daughter from another man and they live happily

NeckingNgulping:


You're nodding in the affirmative to the ones who are giving you/your friend a go ahead, and appreciating them as well, but opposing the views of commenters who advice you against it, which indicates that you already know what you want to hear and what you want to do.

No sir!!! I'm only after the happiness of my friend, I would have given him my own advice but I was kinda confused!!! If I tell him its not possible he will hate me for life