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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:17pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:

Oh well,
The next verse clearly shows he was forced so as to prevent him from letting them go.

I see no use of force
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:17pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


A perfect being does no wrong, in the sense that all his actions lead to the best possible outcome.

Some people think disciplining a child is wrong, but it is required for the child to be the best they can be so a perfect being would discipline

So what best outcome did putting the tree of good and evil in the same garden he Intended to keep his children (Adam and Eve) lead to? cheesy
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:18pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


So what best outcome did putting the tree of good and evil in the same garden he Intended to keep his children (Adam and Eve) lead to? cheesy

That is a good question but one to which I cannot answer. I am foolish in regards to the question.

Why do you think the tree was put there?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:19pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


Off point, but, how do you know that the reply I gave is a good reply?

It's not about the reply being good or not. It's about how you answered. A simple yes or no will do, rather than long unnecessary sermons which doesn't answer the questions being asked.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:22pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


It's not about the reply being good or not. It's about how you answered. A simple yes or no will do, rather than long unnecessary sermons which doesn't answer the questions being asked.

Yes but the other answers I gave were not regarded as me answering well, and it was definitely not because of lengthy sermons, because I answered succinctly. So what attribute in my answer allowed you to give it the characteristic of "well"
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:23pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


But now you are taking what I said out of context and running with it.

Life is not all black and white, what is wrong in an instance is right in another.

Wearing clothes is right.

But wearing clothes to bath is wrong.

You can't just say you want to go around naked because wearing clothes in the bath is wrong.


That's individual choice. Who says it's wrong?
Some don't even bath regularly.
Everything has to be black and white when it comes to the Christian god. After all, a child who lied will end up in the same hell as someone who killed innocent people. No exceptions. Rules are rules.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:25pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


I have already clarified my stance. I admit I made a mistake in my wording, I have come to better understanding now.



I need not do more

You have been changing your stance over the time. It's either you're here or there man.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:25pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


I see no use of force
What? grin
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:27pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


That is a good question but one to which I cannot answer. I am foolish in regards to the question.

Why do you think the tree was put there?
You'd have to tell me because the tree led to thousands and thousands of years filled with horror.
If the Christian god was perfect, that tree wouldn't be there in the first place.
Perfect beings don't make decisions that lead to imperfections.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:28pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


That's individual choice. Who says it's wrong?
Some don't even bath regularly.
Everything has to be black and white when it comes to the Christian god. After all, a child who lied will end up in the same hell as someone who killed innocent people. No exceptions. Rules are rules.

And who said so for the bolded?

What we've been trying to prove to you is exactly what the italicized is, depending on circumstance what may be right may be wrong (jasminer correct me if I am wrong).

You have been trying to prove the bolded and have ignored all proof brought before you that doesn't fit into your view of Christianity.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:29pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:

You'd have to tell me because the tree led to thousands and thousands of years filled with horror.
If the Christian god was perfect, that tree wouldn't be there in the first place.
Perfect beings don't make decisions that lead to imperfections.

I have admitted to my ignorance plainly. I do not know. But you seem to know, so enlighten me.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:30pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


Yes but the other answers I gave were not regarded as me answering well, and it was definitely not because of lengthy sermons, because I answered succinctly. So what attribute in my answer allowed you to give it the characteristic of "well"

Again, I was referring to how straightforward the answers were. Whether you've been answering differently before or not does not matter.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:32pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


You have been changing your stance over the time. It's either you're here or there man.

I change my stance because I am growing. Over the course of this argument I have gained insights that have changed what I think, which means I was open to being influenced by the argument.

You however have shown a closed mind and never retreated even when faced with contrary information, nor have you even accepted to take this information into account. You pick and chose what you like.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:33pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


Again, I was referring to how straightforward the answers were. Whether you've been answering differently before or not does not matter.

But when we gave straight forward answers that did not serve your purpose you went off on another tangent trying to find a way to achieve your aims.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:35pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


And who said so for the bolded?

What we've been trying to prove to you is exactly what the italicized is, depending on circumstance what may be right may be wrong (jasminer correct me if I am wrong).

You have been trying to prove the bolded and have ignored all proof brought before you that doesn't fit into your view of Christianity.

A rule is a rule bro.
You can't be telling me there are certain options where killing innocent children is okay while telling me it's not okay. Emphasis on "innocent children".
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:37pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


I have admitted to my ignorance plainly. I do not know. But you seem to know, so enlighten me.

There's nothing to enlighten you about.
I've made my point on the imperfections of the Christian god. If it's above your range, then ask for help. You're the believer after all. I'm questioning your beliefs, not here to teach you.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:40pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


I change my stance because I am growing. Over the course of this argument I have gained insights that have changed what I think, which means I was open to being influenced by the argument.

You however have shown a closed mind and never retreated even when faced with contrary information, nor have you even accepted to take this information into account. You pick and chose what you like.

If there's always a reasonable counter, I'll always say it. No matter how right you think you might be. The fact that I keep arguing back and forth does not mean I don't accept some things or I'm close minded.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 9:42pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


But when we gave straight forward answers that did not serve your purpose you went off on another tangent trying to find a way to achieve your aims.

Same as your colleague.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 9:48pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


If there's always a reasonable counter, I'll always say it. No matter how right you think you might be. The fact that I keep arguing back and forth does not mean I don't accept some things or I'm close minded.

Anyways, I just want to say thank you for this learning opportunity, my eyes have been opened, and it couldn't have been done without you.

I will not continue this argument (for real this time)

And I hope you find the answers your looking for
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 9:55pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:

Oh well,
The next verse clearly shows he was forced so as to prevent him from letting them go.

And Pharaoh repented again in verse 24 just like he repented earlier in chapter 9 vs 27... Rinse and repeat.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 9:57pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


And who said so for the bolded?

What we've been trying to prove to you is exactly what the italicized is, depending on circumstance what may be right may be wrong (jasminer correct me if I am wrong).

You have been trying to prove the bolded and have ignored all proof brought before you that doesn't fit into your view of Christianity.

I agree, every circumstance is different but the only constant thing is that actions have consequences.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 10:00pm On Oct 28, 2022
kingxsamz:


A rule is a rule bro.
You can't be telling me there are certain options where killing innocent children is okay while telling me it's not okay. Emphasis on "innocent children".

Innocent threats should be killed. Atheists will kill innocent threats, same with theists.

Lol, that reminds me, will you kill a harmless pretty baby viper in the bush whose only crime was being born to a viper that bit a man who died under 10mins grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by uche40(f): 10:22pm On Oct 28, 2022
Namdio:


Yeah, I can definitely see where you're coming from, and while I could pick up another part of this post and argue about, I feel it has run it's beautiful course and should be ended with the following.

Under the examination lights
We have each kept our own
So now, let us agree
To disagree

Just wanted to be certain. Are you a Christian? I want to know more about your beliefs.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Namdio(m): 10:54pm On Oct 28, 2022
uche40:


Just wanted to be certain. Are you a Christian? I want to know more about your beliefs.

It's a question I myself am still coming to terms with.

But generally you can treat me as one.

Though some of the things I hold to be true may not align with the traditional Christian faith.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 11:57am On Oct 29, 2022
Namdio:


Anyways, I just want to say thank you for this learning opportunity, my eyes have been opened, and it couldn't have been done without you.

I will not continue this argument (for real this time)

And I hope you find the answers your looking for
It's all good.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 11:59am On Oct 29, 2022
jasminer:


And Pharaoh repented again in verse 24 just like he repented earlier in chapter 9 vs 27... Rinse and repeat.

And his heart was also hardened before that.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 12:04pm On Oct 29, 2022
jasminer:


Innocent threats should be killed. Atheists will kill innocent threats, same with theists.

Lol, that reminds me, will you kill a harmless pretty baby viper in the bush whose only crime was being born to a viper that bit a man who died under 10mins grin grin grin grin

I will not only kill it, I'll eat it.
Also, vipers and humans are not the same. Humans grow to learn and unlearn. A murderer could change and become law abiding in a society. A viper is a viper, it cares about nothing but itself.
If killing children and infants is okay to you, you should be the last person talking about morals and how upright everyone should be. If most religious folks reason the same way, same applies to them.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 12:42pm On Oct 29, 2022
kingxsamz:


And his heart was also hardened before that.

But he was still able to repent despite the hardening didn't he?

With all that happened to Job, would you have blamed him if he did something rash? But he decided not to despite the repeated plagues hitting him
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 12:44pm On Oct 29, 2022
kingxsamz:


I will not only kill it, I'll eat it.
Also, vipers and humans are not the same. Humans grow to learn and unlearn. A murderer could change and become law abiding in a society. A viper is a viper, it cares about nothing but itself.
If killing children and infants is okay to you, you should be the last person talking about morals and how upright everyone should be. If most religious folks reason the same way, same applies to them.

Lmao grin grin grin, eat a fellow animal?
If you can eat a fellow animal, you can eat humans, that's canibalism. angry angry

Are you the one that will take the responsibility to ensure the children turn out well?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 12:57pm On Oct 29, 2022
jasminer:


Lmao grin grin grin, eat a fellow animal?
If you can eat a fellow animal, you can eat humans, that's canibalism. angry angry

Are you the one that will take the responsibility to ensure the children turn out well?

I can't eat a human being. That's not my preference. You're bad at analogies.
Yes, when you are capable enough, you can take care of children. Humans have even developed systems to help kids become better people and to be able to contribute positively to their society, something the Christian god lacked knowledge of. Even Buhari could have done better.
If you see children and the next option in your mind is to kill them, then you shouldn't try to appear morally upright in anyone's eyes.
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by kingxsamz(m): 1:01pm On Oct 29, 2022
jasminer:

I won't hesitate to kill children if I feel it's necessary.

So, in conclusion.
Killing children is right if necessary.
Meaning you can kill your own children,your sibling's kids and anyone's child "if necessary".
So don't complain if someone does the same to your children if they thought it was necessary. cheesy
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by jasminer: 1:02pm On Oct 29, 2022
kingxsamz:


I can't eat a human being. That's not my preference. You're bad at analogies.
Yes, when you are capable enough, you can take care of children. Humans have even developed systems to help kids become better people and to be able to contribute positively to their society, something the Christian god lacked knowledge of. Even Buhari could have done better.
If you see children and the next option in your mind is to kill them, then you shouldn't try to appear morally upright in anyone's eyes.


You'll take care of all the children displaced during the war?

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