Octopusssy:

No she isn't. She is his girlfriend.

It will be sad if this kind of tragic occurrence is what will make those two finally grow up.

Ah ah you have changed tactics

You have always said that traditional marriage is enough before, no be so?

I think they have done that. Or was it introduction only?

And if as you say na gf, then why are you suprised she has attached herself to her man of the wandering pee pee? As it was looking like they would finally tie the knot, she had to be there 100% to toto block any distractions

Careless parents.

wirinet:
This is the reason I decided not to hire any minder, nanny or househelp to look after my children. No one can take care of your children than the parents and maybe the grandparents. There are tons of stores of negligence and even outright abuse by child minders all over the media.

More like, that's the reason one shudnt have a swimming pool.

Even adults can drown inside.


I don't think I can ever have a house with a swimming pool.

For what?

barackosama:
How come? Upon the number of people that are always in his house, how come they’re so careless?

They are very careless, extremely anyhow people jare

cococandy:


It takes two parents not just a mom.
Even in the face of such a sad incident, some of you can’t put your misogyny aside. It really really sucks.

shut up!...in this case the blame falls mostly on the mom...the dad is the main breadwinner. What chioma is known for is posting vids and pics for social media


Davido was working to cater for hers and the son's expensive lifestyle.

What was she doing?

This one na mostly her fault

Rest well ifeanyi

Arielle:
If you must have a pool in your house and you have small children, get a pool cover. Small children must also be taught to swim. The best time is when they are 6 months old. Some parents do it before but I no get liver. At that age, the pool simulates the environment in the womb that they are still familiar with and they take to the water very easily. This is heartbreaking. I hope it is still just a rumour.

or demarcate the swimming pool area. Just fence it off

OBO known as Davido have not say the truth of what happened to there child Ifeayi

So painful. Losing a child can be devastating. If this is true, my heart goes to davido family and may the soul of the little child rest in peace. So so painful

To be candid..

This toddler's de..th ( I pray it is false) is not an accident or act of God but chiefly the following:

1. Adult negligence ( You do NOT let a toddler out of your sight especially if you have a pool nearby) In case you have a pool on the premises, it should be barricaded or covered and there should be round- the- clock adult supervision

2. Poor parenting ( You teach a child to swim in children swimming pool with a trained swimming instructor,, you never allow a child get near adult pool area or get comfortable in adult pool area because children at that age are at exploring stage.

May Almighty God in His infinite mercy comfort the young couple and give them the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

Why teach a 3year old to swim in the first place? Davido made that kid see comfort in that swimming. The same mistake Dbanj made.

Octopusssy:

No she isn't. She is his girlfriend.

It will be sad if this kind of tragic occurrence is what will make those two finally grow up.

at the cost of a life. Not just any life, but human life. If this was the US I won't be surprise if they're prosecuted.

The way and manner people neglect their kids nowadays is something else, especially this indomie generation kids. One would have to wonder how damaged their parents were when they were kids for them to have turned their kids into raging monsters with no atom of self worth or moral scruples.

Not every human who can reproduce deserve to be a parent.

Davido know what's going on with his friends and aids dying and now his son, chioma most likely next

There's no way this swimming pool death story of that young lad makes sense. for a billionaire like to have his child swimming alone in a pool without no one watching. Davido has to explain why all these people around him dying every year, the boy knows what is going on.

ok thanks

ATLIEN2027:
Sad. Very sad.
If you have a swimming pool and kids in your house, you have to be very very careful and very observant.
May God grant the parents the fortitude to bear the loss.

.......Make use a swimming pool cover.
It happened to Dbanj, now Davido and may it never happen again.
My prayers are with the lil boy's Mom especially and the rest of the family.
May this incidence not drown them, may they come out better and continue to trust in the Lord.
In all things, Lord we give thanks

saysugar:
Rest well ifeanyi

Rest easy lil man...

This one cuts deep, no parent deserve this.

Life is very dark and spiritual.

cococandy:


It takes two parents not just a mom.
Even in the face of such a sad incident, some of you can’t put your misogyny aside. It really really sucks.

for an Igbo woman, you seem to believe the world revolves around the country you reside in and their wayward value and moral system.

Don't forget in Nigeria, even till this day, people still believe it is the duty of the mom to take care of the kids while the dad provides. It's the very reason the mother is always called to question if or when a child becomes morally corrupt and socially inept. Same applies to the father if he's broke and can't provide for his family.

This also applies to Davido and his 'wife'. Now you know who Davido is and what he does to earn a living. Now ask yourself what is the 'wife' doing?

Here in Nigeria, there are roles parents play and when they fail in playing those roles, the parent who fails is usually blamed. Nigeria is not the United States of America where you use fork and knife to eat Eba and Ewedu soup.

phayvoursky:
They lost him


It's so painful

who tolded you that they lost him? The story has not been confirmed o

ZUBY77:

Some accidents are avoidable Mr man.

No mind am, dey talk like mumu person mtcheeeww

BRATISLAVA:


Did his feet reach the bottom of the pool and he slipped in the pool?

Pool should be cleaned a minimum of once a week. But Nigerians can keep filthy pools.

Have no idea how it happened. I tried to point out that pools need to be closed when not in use. If you are wealthy then an automatic cover should not be outside reach.

You are right. My friend lost a househelp like that. She stood in the shallow side and then slipped into the middle and she couldn't swim. Nigerians including the rich don't maintain their pools properly.

Of course we don't know what happened in this case but people should be aware that pools can be risky if some ground rules are not put in place.

May God comfort the parents.

blowjohn:



More like, that's the reason one shudnt have a swimming pool.

Even adults can drown inside.


I don't think I can ever have a house with a swimming pool.

For what?

The swimming pool is not the problem, design and safety features put in place for kids is. I am an architect, a house with kids must have certain features like guardrails or covers.

As per househelps/nannys/minders. I have seen and not just read of terrible instances negligence and abuse of children and babies. You should never leave your children with people who are not emotionally invested with your children. I am a firm believer that one parent must be available to raise the children, its unhealthy having someone else carrying different psychological and emotional baggage raising your children.

GloriousGbola:


Ah ah you have changed tactics

You have always said that traditional marriage is enough before, no be so?

I think they have done that. Or was it introduction only?

And if as you say na gf, then why are you suprised she has attached herself to her man of the wandering pee pee? As it was looking like they would finally tie the knot, she had to be there 100% to toto block any distractions

Introduction is not marriage.

Okay, so she was cock blocking him, but what was the price?

Mhykel217:


The Interview you're talking about, akon was actually ref to american musicians and hyping nigerian musicians that most of what they display, they actually own it

Akon is not living with them in Nigeria. 99% of them are faking it

ShaqFu:
for an Igbo woman, you seem to believe the world revolves around the country the reside in and their wayward value and moral system.

Don't forget in Nigeria, even till this day, people still believe it is the duty of the mom to take care of the kids while the dad provides. It's the very reason the mother is always called to question if or when a child becomes morally corrupt and socially inept. Same applies to the father if he's broke and can't provide for his family.

This also applies to Davido and his 'wife'. Now you know who Davido is and what he does to earn a living. Now ask yourself what is the 'wife' doing?

Here in Nigeria, there are roles parents play and when they fail in playing those roles, the parent who fails in usually blamed. Nigeria is not the United States of America where you use fork and knife to eat Eba and Ewedu soup.

That's what I have been trying to understand, why does Chioma leave their son at home and shadow Davido every where he goes? Does she have to close mark him? Why can't she stay at home and raise their son and their future children? What value does she add to the family by following him up and down.

I also blame Davido for the problem. If he had married Chioma instead of remaining a perpetual fiance, she would not have have the need to be following him up and down.

Jijuo:
Life is very dark and spiritual.

That's why we need to be prepared spiritually as much as possible.

Nothing happens by chance.

BIG Loss for chioma and davido!

killmodz:

Death is inevitable.. it happens to all of us. How is it a problem? Anyway if ur those who like argument for the sake of it then I'm sorry I quoted u. U asked if it's what than what the average man is suffering and I answered u. I don't know what else u need. Maybe someone else will answer u properly. Have a nice November

This life is all about suffering, shit do happened everything is not religious or spiritual, we all give birth to children, old or young to be sloughtered

Princebizzie:
Too bad, RIP young man!

You're mad. He ain't dead, and u're wishing him a r I p. What's that for?

Negligence!

Ficient:


And nothing happened to him ever since he was with the mum. As a father create a conducive environment for your kids. Kitchen area, electrical installations and appliances, bushes outside, swimming pool safety should be considered. At that point in time who was the person looking after the child?
The mother could have been sick or not around and somebody was in charge of the child. I baby sit while my wife runs to the market or something and I'm responsible for their safety. Don't just blame anybody when you don't have the details of peculiar circumstances involved

Don't compare yourself to davido...davido is an international artist who is rarely in one place at a time. He's always travelling.

Celebrities liva a busy lifestyle...Tiwa Savage's ex-husband once complained about that being one of the reasons their marriage fell apart

What does chioma do for a living?, nothing. Her 'major' source of income is being davido's girlfriend/babymama

She and her child are well taken care of because of the busy work of davido

She has no other tangible job than looking after her son

Tunjibalogun:

Some of you can be very stupid. Did he die during teaching session? Infact of the boy was taught early from 6 months he probably would have swim out. But his careers abandoned him and he jumped and drowned.

Your mother can be berry stupid. Since you can’t make your point without insult let me prove to you We are all mad

The boy had been taking swimming lessons recently which is why he took the first opportunity to jump into the pool unsupervised because he thought he had figured it out. I bet you he wouldn’t have done it if he hadn’t stated learning. Fool. Now shut up.