sinfultrust:
Been a redPiller for almost a year. I was going through heartbreak when I stumbled upon this thread and everything in my life changed drastically. It wasn’t easy but the results are massive. I bought my first car 3 days are ago, something I never thought possible. Last girl I dated was 27 and she pressured me to marry her by all means. I don’t have much but I was doing ok by myself before I met her. After few months of dating I found myself solving all her financial problems to the extent of supporting her family with financial aid. I’m an average Nigerian youth scraping to survive, I was blind to the fact that the only exchange I get in return for all my sacrifices was sex. Yes, I’m not gonna lie there were times she lend me money like 10k, 20, 5, 7 etc it goes on and on. Compared to what I’ve spent, I know I was on the losing end. Our relationship was hitting rock bottom fast because her demands was becoming outrageous and I was constantly broke to the extent of not having airtime or data. Come middle of last year she told me she’s going to NYC camp. That was when I started having guts feeling that our union is over or something crazy is about to happen. Before she leave for camp I got sick and she didn’t visit. Even though she knows I’m a lone wolf I’ve got no friends whatsoever she still didn’t visit. I was admitted at the hospital for a week, while I was going through WhatsApp status on hospital bed I saw a video of her in a party having the time of her life with friends. Honestly, that evening I cried, I felt betrayed I felt so many things I don’t even understand. I had no money for hospital bills so I told her to assist me with half of it if possible and she came through with half of it sent to hospital account. When I got out we talked for 3 good days on phone before I stumbled on this thread because I was already going crazy about the whole thing. I was searching the internet for answers, I was helpless and desperately in need of what to do next. Because, at the time I thought exiting the relationship would be childish or make me look immature. Long story short, this thread changed my life. I stopped contacting her and blocked her on both lines but not WhatsApp. I was expecting her to react but she didn’t contact me too. Months past, It was almost a year before she contacted me on WhatsApp on day, and said she just gave birth to a baby girl. I didn’t reply for 2 days and when I did reply it was just one word “congratulations” then she started asking how I’m doing, if everything is great and so on. My brother I didn’t respond. I know some of you think this thread is a joke but it’s not. In just a year of not being in any exclusive relationship I’m seeing transformers in my life. Nothing good comes easy, you wouldn’t know if you don’t try. My best and most reliable friend and partner is money and my skill to make money. I treat my hustle the way I used to treat girls, I don’t play with her. As a man my worth my beauty my affluence and everything goes down to what I have. So, if you’re here to fight and argue with others, you’re doing yourself more harm than good. I reversed my game with women I deal with. Strictly making all my dealings with them transactional. This is the best way for me, It might not work for you and of course everyone is different. The way you deal with Y is gonna be different from the way you deal with Z. But, whatever I do, I do it transactional. If she wants a favor from me that I can offer. Then, I want something from her too. No matter how small, she must do something in return except she’s family. Universal blessings to all brothers in the house and enjoy your weekend. Thank you

NeuroToby:
I've read through this thread for almost one hour and I want to quickly lend my voice to two opinions;

1. If you don't know yourself as a guy, you'll keep running from pillar to post trying to win a woman over. And by the way, I thought being successful (in every area of life) and not trying to chase a women is the goal?
It's sad, however, that many men know so much about a woman, they forget how to build a home and raise godly children.


2. The support a man needs is in the hands of another men. We can cry foul all we want, but the truth is that it is the same men that will favor ladies over you who are advocating that you become an alpha male.


NB: I agree with some of the submissions made by elders in the house, some, I don't. It's imperative, therefore, that every guy knows where he's going to, face it squarely and everything else will fall in place, including the kind of woman he needs.

Shalom.

Dabronze:
The problem is not the failure of a man to build home it the useless generation of our so called modern women of today who are good for nothing than being an attention seeker .
Men where told to work hard to take responsibility of their family but what do men get in return:
Paternity fraud
Cuckoldry
Alimony
Child support
Loosing
Half of their property In some case

There is penalty for Domestic violence because it favoured the women

Is there any penalty for paternity fraud? capital NO
The truth is the odds is against men either rich or poor
The consequences of what we are facing today is the total freedom of women our civilized world their choices

Mybodymychoice#
Legalization of abortion
Feminism#

OfficialDJ:
lol. Brokie...

I even thought he had something going for him, it's all noise and cheap food pictures.

Go argue with your ilks retarde.d faggo.t...
I'm done quoting you

Labadi69:


The time wey you dey use to rant and post all these redpill jargons can be used to learn English. Your English is terrible and I can just imagine the kind background wey you come from. Guy, go hustle!!

WHO BE THIS BASTARD

pillager:
What is wrong with seun's statement?

And then she said "niggas get pressed when they see women winning and then say there's no gender bias" from where to where, on a harmless question haba.

And she exposed seun's help request for his site.

Dabronze:
The problem is not the failure of a man to build home it the useless generation of our so called modern women of today who are good for nothing than being an attention seeker .
Men where told to work hard to take responsibility of their family but what do men get in return:
Paternity fraud
Cuckoldry
Alimony
Child support
Loosing half of their property In some case

There is penalty for Domestic violence because it favoured the women

Is there any penalty for paternity fraud? capital NO!
The truth is that the odds is against men either rich or poor
The consequences of what we are facing today is the total freedom of women our civilized world
their choices;

#Mybodymychoice
Legalization of abortion
#Feminism#

Agelastus:


I'm totally in support man.

You thought I disapprove?

heartofcity12:
They want “true love” after flexing their prime years, the wall is approaching. They set an unrealistic standard for themselves and they cry blue murder when men in that caliber don’t love them but only use them for casual sex and as side chics. Still manipulations..

Labadi69:


Guy, even when she reaches the wall, you still do not stand a chance. Know this and know peace. If you did, you won’t be here moaning about women every day. You would be busy running and hiding from women wey dey bug you everyday for sex and companionship.

Hope say you don finally write JAMB sha…