Alvelt14:
If we are been realistic, it is good to teach men on how things are done which is what this thread is about but if you keep ranting that you are alpha. Sorry bro you are no alpha.
The way to live is not always evil, have standards and boundaries but not evil not expecially in a bluepilled world, you will be bitten.
By saying not always evil, I do not mean you should be nice always. You will be eaten alive
There is no rules to live but maintain a balance, think for yourself and act depending on the situation.

Datedoboy:


This reason is why women think they are smarter than men. Ladies even in my workplace will say they can't marry a poor man but if a guy says he can't marry a non-virgin they get angry.

Some even ask if the guy is a virgin too. If it is a virgin girl that asks this question, I won't be angry but i have observed that it is non virgins that asks this questions the most.

If you ask these same girls if they are rich too before asking for a rich man, their face will change again.

So I wonder, Wealth and virginity which is easier to have?

All girls inherit Virginity from birth but not all boys inherit wealth from birth. So it's easier to have virginity but do most girls keep it? Nooooo.

Many women don't care to keep what they came with for their husbands which is (virginity) but they expect men to keep what they did not come with? Which is (riches).

Men should set the standards but sadly today,it is women that sets their partial standards. Partial because most of them can't keep it.

Any girl that wants value must bring value. Like what a guy said in another thread, you cannot withdraw without deposit.

Any girl who asks for rich guys b4 marriage when she has thrown away what she already has, is like someone who did not save any money but visits different ATMS looking for free money. Such person is a robber and sadly some guys just like a strange ATM will give out cash even when the account balance of the withdrawer is zero

AyoII:
Many men lack the audacity and guts to rebuke, disagree and stand firm on their opinions, while dealing with a woman.
There is a shocking number of men under this category, and it has made ladies think all guys they come across caππot disagree with them because they posses mass of fo|ded skins betweeπ their legs.
S1mps are ubiquitous. Ladies are used to them. So they assume all men are like that, hence their authoritativeness.
A random lady will come into your DM and demand moπey in exchange for πudes. She has such bravery, because simps have been fulfilliπg her demands.

Many weak men don't posses the ability to wa|k away from jezebels.
Saying "No" to a lady seems very difficu|t. Then you wonder why ladies have extreme impetus to demand stuff from literally every guy they meet.
A lady who knows about your sexua| Indiscipline, will manipu|ate you with her body.
She knows you won't resist, that's why she'll use s.ex as an apo|ogy and also give you sex as a gift in return, even when you hunt down a Siberian tiger for her sake.
IF you disagree with your womaπ, she immediately touches your nipp|es, rub your head or shows you her ßreasts, to reboot your 0.02MB memory capacity into conforming to her demands. That's because you have no stand in your life and in your re|ationship.
She will never be remorsefu| for her wrong deeds, her apology is s.ex, because she knows you thiπk like a sheep.
She wouldn't want her sons to be like you. Two pvssies cannot co-habit.

There's nothing like mumu button. You're just a pvppet under the coπtrol of an offspring of Lilith.

©CHI NEMEREM (Facebook)

ubunja:
Women and their unpredictable emotions.

Azurevermillion:
What are you celebrating? I had read all miseducations I could find on nairaland, I never found this.

Is this write up a gift?

ubunja:
lol how did you miss this write-up. It's been on here for ages.
Otherwise how is your Sunday boss?

obinna58:
Reached here, going back to page 1 to re digest the undigested ones , keep em coming guys.

I guess Men can never be free from women manipulations no matter who you think you are.
I took my dad to hospital to confirm his health status through series of lab tests, after everything it was time to meet the doctor. We were on the queue waiting to see the doc for explanations when I spot this beautiful MILF, she's probably in her mid-forties but doesn't look like someone who's married or have kids, still in shape, curvy, sexy, beautiful dress, an instant look will make you think she's materialistic due to heavy looking jewelries on her body, looking at how she behaves you'll know she's very impressed with her self look, I got to understand she's one of the senior consultant doctors when she started issuing commands to staffs, securities. Within 3mins on the stand of about 50people she was the most active, noticeable controlling person there(I don't need anyone to tell me how many men is at her feet and why she's so possessive).
Fortunately I was directed to her department and we waited for our turn, on getting to her office, my dad sat, I brought out scan, lab tests and about to explain things she cut me off, asked me to give her the tests results and began analyzing to my dad herself, well her analysis wasn't bad, not so impressive either, along the line I asked a question, she ignored and continued, I wanted to ask again, she looked and asked if I'm dumb and why was I pressing phone when she was talking(that moment I know I met the wrong doc, I wasn't pressing phone and I was paying attention to her everywords) still ok I kept calm(young quiet innocent looking me wey be peace maker ubanja for don break her head and light the hospital on fire by now ) but that was a bit rude, she told my dad grown ups this days are terrible, though she went back to explain things a bit, after her analysis I took the test results, I won't play with dad's health, I needed to be very sure and I rather be thrown out by the security.
I ask some couple of questions and that was when the problem started,
She said she gave us more time than usual (I no surprise cos people tolerate bulsh!t) and have plenty people to attend to which is true, I raised my voice so people outside office can hear us well, I accused her of being rude and corrected her I wasn't pressing phone, I told her I paid for everything and I deserve a clear understanding about my dad's health which I'm not getting, so this the professionalism I've been hearing about this hospital, why showing more concerned about money than people's health, this time staffs, my dad were already calming me down,2 more doctors rushed in and was like I shouldn't be talking to a doctor like that, she denied my accusations and they try to make things look normal, 3 of them now attending to me, they answered me well and prescribed drugs, the woman now doing damage control telling me they care so about the patient that don't I see 3 doctors attending papa.
Everything went smooth and my dad heightened his respect for me.
Out of the 3 doctors was male, was surprised she was controlling the male too, same level oo, asking him for help in a way as if it's his responsibility, he was doing it shamefully.

Her character, attitude and the way she talks is very intimidating, 100% full of herself, I won't be surprised she has downed so many men on her life path (simps) which gave her such possessive nature like she deserves everything.

Streak47:
There is something that Ubunja once said:

He said, ]'if all men can learn to be stingy with their attention & resources to women; that women would re-align to be with only one man.'

Put simply, men are other men's worst enemy.

Women just go by the flow. Let's stop blaming women. I see women like water; able to adjust to different situations.

The level of degeneracy we see today in the women folks and society is a measure of break down of masculinity--

The Truth is simple, if there isn't DEMAND there won't be SUPPLY. Simple law of market.

And when you dig down again, is it that these generation of men can be said to be S*XED Starved & tasty.

We keep complaining about unfaithfulness of women but we forget these women aren't angels but just normal humans with flaws and even more flaws.

Imagine an average girl been hit on a daily by different guys on her DM, in the road, work place, schools, occasions, gatherings etc by different guys with money, help, opportunities, job slots etc; for 365 days in a year, it is only a matter of time before she succumbs.

Go up this both a bit, to the top..'did you see that post that that lady said she forgot to reply a guys DM', that's the reality. Imagine like 1000 guys inside that DM. Why won't she misbehave.

Now back to the post,

You will never understand this as a guy until you enter a phase in life that boo*B's, a*as, fine face don't matter, all you want is to face ur work, God and mind ur business then comes different girls hitting on u and before u know it- you've relapsed and fallen to the invitations even though innately it isn't something you want at that moment.

In that case, because there was so much SUPPLY; you had to DEMAND(Coo*Chie, puss*y). Likewise females too, you will be surprised the number of men in girls DM just wanting to have a smell of the pan"tie*s...if there aren't other men pestering and disturbing her in her DM or in real time in the name of GAME; she has no choice than to settle with whatever her current partner has to offer for life.

If your GF or Wife knows that you're the only source she can come for help, support, protection, advice money, resources, di*ck etc She would take you as a Semi-God, your wish is her command. She has only one supply. There isn't another guy in her DM waiting to smell d coo*Chie. Definitely she would become humble. And serve you as it should be.

You would be surprised the amount of degradation, energy, strategizing etc that some men put themselves just to have a taste of someone else's GF, wife even after realizing she is in a relationship; just imagine all that energy, life force & testosterone channeled towards another venture. And yes, she would eventually succumb, she isn't an angel but a goddamn weak woman with flesh and loves s*x than even the males.

All what you see today is as a result of weak men in society; if there isn't a demand for degeneracy there wouldn't be any.

As long as SIMPS exist and men don't set standards and want to put their sticks in any hole; we would continue to experience the level of degradation and break down of societal values as we're seeing today?

I don't know for you all, but for me, I think since 2018 I have stopped liking any girls post on social media or following any girl except if she is a vendor and I need to get updates on her products. I have also stopped commenting on any girls post except if it's for business or something neutral...just imagine if all men can hold their likes on that taste trap picture for a day...she would have to resit and think. She has no choice than to send d pics to her BF or husband for re-affirmation instead.

We're all men, I know that; with burning testosterone and if temptation presents itself we just got to eat. But let's not make it look like we have to go all our ways to find these temptation in exchange of our core values, let's not be tasty..let's set standards and women also would have no choice but to realign.

But, here is the a big question:

The things we see today, as it always been like that? Were men always like that? Were women always like that right from inception? As the society always been like that?

Or

All what we're seeing today as an ubiquitous breakdown were only apparent or being noticed vividly due to SOCIAL MEDIA, GLOBALIZATION AND SPREAD OF INFORMATION.

Ignore typos....have a great week

ubunja:
Yes, Everything is in the hands of men. While the simps have truly messed the game with the "Beta Buccs" , the people who truly are keeping the 80/20 rule going are in fact the top 20% Alpha Fuccs.
We say women control sex, and it's true, but really the group that holds all the cards are the 20% of the topmen who have their pick of whichever woman they want. It's this top 20% (both the broke gym rats and the rich men) who run the sex world. Women have the 80/20 instinct hard coded into their DNA but it's the 20% men who allow it to actualize.
Women are the mercy of the 20% of men, while 80% of men are at the mercy of women. The 80/20 is a sexual hierarchy and on top it's men. All the tik Tok videos of women crying their eyes out that men are ignoring them, that men aren't approaching them, that men are not committing etc, the "men" these women are crying about are NOT the 80%, no, Women are crying over the 20% men. That's who they want to act right. Those are the men traumatizing women and getting all these women to swear to be single for the rest of their lives. Especially Western women are getting empowered which is making them masculine while also activating their hypergamy.

Which leaves women only desiring men on the extremes. The women's masculine energy pulls them down to broke bums (the so-called Pookies and Ray Rays) cause masculinity seeks out the "damsel in distress" while simultaneously the women's hypergamy pulls them up to the very rich men (the so-called 666 men: 6pack 6figures 6feet tall)
Which is why broke bums (as in homeless dudes, prisoners etc) and rich men are the only two groups of men western women ever talk about. It's always women embarrassing themselves with broke bums or aiming high for rich men. No talk whatsoever of the average guy. the vast majority of the average men are left out. These broke bums and the successful men together make up the 20% that's the Alpha Fuccs.
Now if these 20% men act right and develop some standards and morals then the sexual market place will self-correct as women fall in line. but since that will never happen seeing as fuccing as much women as you can strokes men's ego, what's left is for each and every one of us to endeavour to enter that 20% zone. Which is where self-improvement, mindset change and even migration comes in. But please no one must say "I can't change location for just puccy" cause it's not just about sex - the higher your sexual value the better women deal with you even in spaces outside of relationships and dating. All the women , from your workplace to your church to the store will be kinder and more pleasant to you if they think you're sexy. And that in turn will make you generally better, happier and healthier.

ubunja:
Yes, Everything is in the hands of men. While the simps have truly messed the game with the "Beta Buccs" , the people who truly are keeping the 80/20 rule going are in fact the top 20% Alpha Fuccs.
We say women control sex, and it's true, but really the group that holds all the cards are the 20% of the topmen who have their pick of whichever woman they want. It's this top 20% (both the broke gym rats and the rich men) who run the sex world. Women have the 80/20 instinct hard coded into their DNA but it's the 20% men who allow it to actualize.
Women are the mercy of the 20% of men, while 80% of men are at the mercy of women. The 80/20 is a sexual hierarchy and on top it's men. All the tik Tok videos of women crying their eyes out that men are ignoring them, that men aren't approaching them, that men are not committing etc, the "men" these women are crying about are NOT the 80%, no, Women are crying over the 20% men. That's who they want to act right. Those are the men traumatizing women and getting all these women to swear to be single for the rest of their lives. Especially Western women are getting empowered which is making them masculine while also activating their hypergamy.

Which leaves women only desiring men on the extremes. The women's masculine energy pulls them down to broke bums (the so-called Pookies and Ray Rays) cause masculinity seeks out the "damsel in distress" while simultaneously the women's hypergamy pulls them up to the very rich men (the so-called 666 men: 6pack 6figures 6feet tall)
Which is why broke bums (as in homeless dudes, prisoners etc) and rich men are the only two groups of men western women ever talk about. It's always women embarrassing themselves with broke bums or aiming high for rich men. No talk whatsoever of the average guy. the vast majority of the average men are left out. These broke bums and the successful men together make up the 20% that's the Alpha Fuccs.
Now if these 20% men act right and develop some standards and morals then the sexual market place will self-correct as women fall in line. but since that will never happen seeing as fuccing as much women as you can strokes men's ego, what's left is for each and every one of us to endeavour to enter that 20% zone. Which is where self-improvement, mindset change and even migration comes in. But please no one must say "I can't change location for just puccy" cause it's not just about sex - the higher your sexual value the better women deal with you even in spaces outside of relationships and dating. All the women , from your workplace to your church to the store will be kinder and more pleasant to you if they think you're sexy. And that in turn will make you generally better, happier and healthier.

Streak47:


Lots of gem from the post.

This 80/20 rule is something I have to sit and observe carefully on my own as most of my findings are through experience and most times it re-affirms all what the Redpill enthusiast like yourself preach.

Some keynotes from your post:

1. 80/20 rule. 80%( one group of men) & 20%( 2 groups of men).
2. Western women are becoming more empowered & masculine.
3. Male dynamics: Broke--Average--Rich.
4. We can say the AVERAGE guys are the ones that pump these women egos in the DM.
5. The hard truth. Most guys fall in the 80% category including myself. The only difference, I'm not at the mercy of any girl, begging.
6. Male Ego exist in the form of sexcapdes etc And can be seen as man eating man, conquering or dominance. Which explains during a s*x in what can be seen as a situationship, it is highly likely the guy would increase the intensity of the pumping when he notices the girl just picked up the phone to talk to her main BF. To send a message to the BF if he can notice the change in her voice...male Ego there.
7. Also, 80% of the men may not get the sex (sexed starved) while 20% have it in abundance.

If a female partner is likely to leave or cheat in the relationship. What would be the probability that it would be with the 20%. This is something I would have to study with data and over time as well.

Then also, what do women do with the 80%? Do they get the sex, what's there role in a woman's life?

Do women automatically place you in 20% or 80% on first meeting?

What signs do you look out for to know if she placed you in 20% or 80%?

And if one is s*x starved not by moral or religious constraints or not getting hit by girls can we all say he falls in the 80%? Like if you have to struggle to get s*x?

Could middling exist? Those guys that neither fall in the groups or to women there isn't middling just either you either or you don't exist.

Guy A. handsome, has a place to live, a means of income to sustain himself and can provide her needs not wants.
Guy B. Ugly, has a place to live, a means of income to sustain himself and can provide her needs not wants.
Guy C. Athletic, has a place to live, a means of income to sustain himself and can provide her needs not wants.
Guy D. Well built, has a place to live, a means of income to sustain himself and can provide her needs not wants.

Are these guys highlighted in the 80%? Because that's where I fall.

Because, they're certainly not in the 20%; judging economically.

NeuroToby:
I've read through this thread for almost one hour and I want to quickly lend my voice to two opinions;

1. If you don't know yourself as a guy, you'll keep running from pillar to post trying to win a woman over. And by the way, I thought being successful (in every area of life) and not trying to chase a women is the goal?

It's sad, however, that many men know so much about a woman, they forget how to build a home and raise godly children.

2. The support a man needs is in the hands of another men. We can cry foul all we want, but the truth is that it is the same men that will favor ladies over you who are advocating that you become an alpha male.

NB: I agree with some of the submissions made by elders in the house, some, I don't. It's imperative, therefore, that every guy knows where he's going to, face it squarely and everything else will fall in place, including the kind of woman he needs.

Shalom.

Alvelt14:
If we are been realistic, it is good to teach men on how things are done which is what this thread is about but if you keep ranting that you are alpha. Sorry bro you are no alpha.
The way to live is not always evil, have standards and boundaries but not evil not expecially in a bluepilled world, you will be bitten.
By saying not always evil, I do not mean you should be nice always. You will be eaten alive
There is no rules to live but maintain a balance, think for yourself and act depending on the situation.

ubunja:
what's important to note about the 80/20 rule is that it's an instinct or code in every woman. It doesn't mean it will always happen in reality cause there's lots of variables in reality. It's like how men want virgins and hate step mothers -that's in men's DNA, but men still marry non virgins and date single mothers. Cause there's a world of difference between desire and actualization.

Women desire only the 20% of men but it doesn't mean they'll get their heart's desire. While the 80% of men are effectively cut off sex it doesn't mean they're sex starved or incels. It's more about the type of sex they are getting cause The 20 % and the 80% are being given TWO DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX. The 20% get the lust and plenty of sex, while the 80% get the chore sex that's dished out grudgingly and with severe limitations. Yet plenty in this 80% are not getting anything. I don't know if it makes sense? : I remember a video on YouTube where some married men were asked what they wanted for Christmas? And almost all of them said they wished they could get sex. And these are married men! Married but getting scant sex. They're definitely sex starved although once in a while they do get it.

Dabronze:
Its more than 50%

ubunja:
all women have backup plans, that's in the female nature cause to women in relationships, Men = Survival. So depending on one man without a backup plan is not going to work. As someone elsewhere has said, Your girl may not cheat, but she definitely knows who comes after you. This is something men need to learn and master as well. Having backup plans. Too bad normal friendzones don't work on women and about the only way you keep a woman warm for yourself even though you may not be with her, is to make her a babymama. But that's something most guys are not prepared to do because morality. They'd rather be played than play anyone.

Martinez39s:
What are you really trying to say? Are redpillers here, or this thread, against being successful? Do redpillers here, or this thread, encourage men to chase women at the expense of self-improvement and life success? Why are you saying "I thought so so is the goal" as if we are doing the opposite?

I hope this isn't the usual behaviour of digressing, misrepresenting and strawmanning redpillers and this thread just to indulge the need to make a good point. By the way, it is good that you know yourself as a guy, and it is also good to have red pill awareness.

The primary purpose, or GOAL, of this thread is to give sound awareness of and insights into female nature. Other topics such as game, intersexual dynamics, gynocentrism, etc are discussed because they greatly help in understanding female nature. Redpillers are here in an attempt to discuss all there is to female nature, if possible. This is why this thread was created. We even discuss happenings, home and abroad, that pertain to the topics of this thread.

What you do with your red pill awareness is up to you. Every redpiller will follow his own path; as long as they are not simping or being betas, there is no problem. If you what to get married, build a home and raise godly children, that's up to you; it's not incumbent on others to follow your footsteps. What matters to you doesn't matter to orhers? It earlier you understand that, it earlier you will stop lamenting that others are not following your footsteps.

Finally, since redpillers know the principles discussed here, they are capable of making things work for them if the opportunity presents itself, they know the importance of self-improvement, and they know the type of men they ought to be.

That's blue pill men and simps. Surely you are referring to men outside this thread since there is no indication that the men here are like that. Just saying.


Good. It is okay that you don't agree with everything. Even redpillers here have their disagreements. However, just keep in mind that morality and human decency are not issues here in the sense we don't discuss them and they are utterly irrelevant to our discussions. There is no moral code here.

Also, you will see posts that contain very unpopular opinion and takes that might shock or deeply offend you, or cause strong disagreement. This is normal and this thread is meant for such; it's one of the beautiful things about this thread. If you encounter such, simply either disagree and skip, or you disagree and ask the poster why he thinks what he thinks. No need to start having seizures and start making blatant or underhanded remarks about the poster for whatever reason.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 310, REDPILL 2022

Had it been possible that men can sit down and make calculations of all that it takes to become the kind of man women desire and society admire, they will never allow their pearls to sink into the guts of women who don't know the value of commitments.

Of course, the euphoria that appears at the finishing line always erases the struggles behind the track.

Authority: Reject the ungrateful.

The5DME:
What hope do ugly guys like me have, in this rigged game of relationship?

The5DME:
What hope do ugly guys like me have, in this rigged game of relationship?

CaveAdullam:


They can only throw words around. Meanwhile, they have not read from the beginning of the thread to the current page, but you'll see them flying down to passed judgment with unnecessary blabbing.

They can't take hold of one post and trace your line of reasoning and come up with reasonable rebuttals. Just blah blah blah. Nonsense.

"Dem neva see sumtin. Dem want make we turn the thread to guidance and counseling section. When it is way easier for them to create their threads and do all that they want. ".

" Na inside romance section person wan self development". Looool.

Ubunja, are you with me? Happy Sunday fams.