I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Hope you are fine wherever you are?

Use a private num to call n tell them u r fine. Tell them not to bother looking for you that u r ok.

general111:
Hope you are fine wherever you are?

We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

blackbone989:
Use a private num to call n tell them u r fine. Tell them not to bother looking for you that u r ok.

I will do that thanks

Deborah200299:


We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

This isnt good enough..
Everything should be covered by you.
What if the good samaritan falls sick.
You need to get a skill and get a job.

So your 13yr old sister doesn't go to school,can't they go to her school to get her and locate you from there? Or did you change her school.

Deborah200299:


We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

I am very sure this good Samaritan is a boyfriend right?

"I am her only daughter among 4 boys"....who is the biological mother of the 13 year old?

Pierocash:
So your 13yr old sister doesn't go to school,can't they go to her school to get her and locate you from there? Or did you change her school.

She hasn't been to school since July my mum did not enrolled her for this term but I am planning to enroll her soon

Pierocash:
I am very sure this good Samaritan is a boyfriend right?

She is a woman

Mindlog:
"I am her only daughter among 4 boys"....who is the biological mother of the 13 year old?

She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

Deborah200299:


She is a woman

And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister(no hard feelings). I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

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Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

So I needed money I carry my fb account sell give one dude on this platform the guy ghost me

Now I no get food I not Facebook account again
Home is where the heart is = heaven

Deborah200299:


She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

Ok. Where is your Dad in all these? In what way(s) had your 2 younger brothers abused her?

azraeljaheel:



And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister. I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

Here is the story

https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Mindlog:


Ok. Where is your Dad in all these? In what way(s) had your 2 younger brothers abused her?

Here is the story

https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endure in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers. I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me. Yesterday I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state. Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but no a single pity about a 13 years old girl. I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died , will I be able to forgive myself. I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us . I will not disclose my current adress to them. Should I do it or not ?

If u must call them,pls go to a far away distance to avoid being caught through tracking. And remember not to use your current phone number.

If u want to learn more...download a book on how not to be tracked.

Deborah200299:


Here is the story

https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Ok. Does your half-sister have contacts of any of her late mother's relative?

From your earlier thread your family is based in Uyo, get in touch with FIDA, it is an international organization of female lawyers, I worked with their office in Nairobi, Kenya and they intervene in such cases.

Office Address: Room 39B, Ministry of Justice, State Secretariat, Uyo.
Phone No: 08033022895, 08032606289
E-mail Address: lovedybassey@yahoo.com, mfonobong.uduak@gmail.com

Your reason for running away is very justified. You have to keep contact with them assuring them of your safety and that of your sister, but do not for any reason whatsoever let them know ow where you are staying as your sister's safety is not guaranteed. Take good care of yourself and your sister.

You have a good heart for you to be protective of your step sister,whom your mother and brothers are maltreating.
But in life,we need wisdom,good intentions are not always enough. So you must apply wisdom in these situation.
First that woman that is accomodating you and your sister,when you have been declared missing by Police is risking jail term. Don't put that woman in trouble.
I will advice you to go to the LASG Office of public defender,if you're not in Lagos,go to the office of public defender in your state. Tell them your mom and brothers are maltreating your sister and her life might be in danger. So that way, your leaving the house is justified and the woman that accommodated you won't be prosecuted.

azraeljaheel:



And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister. I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

The mother is "sick" because her drug of choice which happens to be her stepdaughter she abuses, have been taken away from her.

When one is no longer safe within the family....run.

Reading your previous thread, it is justified why you ran away from home.
If your father who is a sissy and a weakling cannot put his house in order, get human rights involved in the case.
God bless you for fighting for your sister

You have a very good heart, unlike a typical Nigerian lady. May God be with you and lead you on the right part. I suggest you locate a Catholic Church where you are currently. Discuss this issue with the Parish Priest or the JDPC in the Church

You are justified in your action. God will keep and bless you for this.

My advise are these

1. Try to get a job so that you can support yourself and your sister without depending on another person.

2. Locate a welfare office in your state and register the situation for a record. You can also lodge a police report after that to document the situation with police. These steps are important in case your family decided to report that your sister was kidnapped.

3. You can contact your family on an unknown number if you want but do it in a way you cannot be tracked or traced. Go to another city ,use a public phone to call them.

Mindlog:


Ok. Does your half-sister have contacts of any of her late mother's relative?

From your earlier thread your family is based in Uyo, get in touch with FIDA, it is an international organization of female lawyers, I worked with their office in Nairobi, Kenya and they intervene in such cases.

Office Address: Room 39B, Ministry of Justice, State Secretariat, Uyo.
Phone No: 08033022895, 08032606289
E-mail Address: lovedybassey@yahoo.com, mfonobong.uduak@gmail.com

Thanks so much I will pass the information to the good samaritan to help us locate them

Greatzeus:
You have a good heart for you to be protective of your step sister,whom your mother and brothers are maltreating.
But in life,we need wisdom,good intentions are not always enough. So you must apply wisdom in these situation.
First that woman that is accomodating you and your sister,when you have been declared missing by Police is risking jail term. Don't put that woman in trouble.
I will advice you to go to the LASG Office of public defender,if you're not in Lagos,go to the office of public defender in your state. Tell them your mom and brothers are maltreating your sister and her life might be in danger. So that way, your leaving the house is justified and the woman that accommodated you won't be prosecuted.

Thanks so much I am not in lagos I will pass the information to the good samaritan to locate the office in our state

Deborah200299:


We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

Lol...

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endure in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers. I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me. Yesterday I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state. Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but no a single pity about a 13 years old girl. I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died , will I be able to forgive myself. I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us . I will not disclose my current adress to them. Should I do it or not ?

I think you need to call her so that she will know that you guys are better where you

That will give both of you peace of mind

If she says that you should come back home, tell her the reason why you left with your sister and that you don't trust her again

If she insist, then you have to tell her to involve a family relation whom she respects to be the one to ask you to visit her and if such person calls, tell him or her that, you will only come on the condition that he invites another family member so that you will tell them why you acted so

By so doing, you want your people to know what have been happening and you need a witness

After such meeting, don't sleep there, always visit and go back, don't even eat for the time being but get whatever you can for them

You know as it is now, you guys already have a discord so you don't know their plans on you

Meanwhile don't tell them where you are for security reasons

This na new format?

Helpout12345:
You are justified in your action. God will keep and bless you for this.

My advise are these

1. Try to get a job so that you can support yourself and your sister without depending on another person.

2. Locate a welfare office in your state and register the situation for a record. You can also lodge a police report after that to document the situation with police. These steps are important in case your family decided to report that your sister was kidnapped.

3. You can contact your family on an unknown number if you want but do it in a way you cannot be tracked or traced. Go to another city ,use a public phone to call them.

Thank you so much I will definitely use a public phone

frozen70:


I think you need to call her so that she will know that you guys are better where you

That will give both of you peace of mind

If she says that you should come back home, tell her the reason why you left with your sister and that you don't trust her again

If she insist, then you have to tell her to involve a family relation whom she respects to be the one to ask you to visit her and if such person calls, tell him or her that, you will only come on the condition that he invites another family member so that you will tell them why you acted so

By so doing, you want your people to know what have been happening and you need a witness

After such meeting, don't sleep there, always visit and go back, don't even eat for the time being but get whatever you can for them

You know as it is now, you guys already have a discord so you don't know their plans on you

Meanwhile don't tell them where you are for security reasons

Thank you so much I will call her tommorow involving family will not help the matter because they are all supporting her including my grandmother she had witness most of the abuse and she had never for once tell her to stop abusing the child. Early this year when I reported the matter to the police they had denied everything painting me back and the police believed them. They had all ganged up against me and beat me up and I don't want the same to repeat again. I am trying to be away from her for as long as I can I hope my absence will make her a good person If she can't bear to lose me she should accept and love my sister the same way she loves my siblings and I.

Deborah200299:
1. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died , will I be able to forgive myself.

2. I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us . I will not disclose my current adress to them. Should I do it or not ?

1. Na you kill am then abi na her conscience?

2. It is really up to you. My concern is the 13-year-old with you. Aren't there any relatives on her side who can take her in instead? You are still young is why I ask..