Princess80:
True

Tomcorp:
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life.

Tomcorp:
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life.

muyico:
African mother mentality

ukandi1:


I married one and life has been so miserable for me.
I need saving

Fahvvy:
1. The erroneous standards women set for men - the truth is that the "ideal man" for most women DO NOT EXIST or at best are very rare ...

But in women's reality, they think that the man they want are scattered everywhere .... And so they go through life being rude to other guys, until it's too late and they realize the extent of their delusion ...

2. The mindset - most women think that the man must be XYZ before they can consider him ... They feel that they don't have to do anything to improve themselves, all they need do is look pretty and boom!! They're eligible to get a high value man ...

News flash ladies!!
The same way you think a man must be of a certain caliber before you can consider him, it's the same way you too must improve to a certain status before a man can take you seriously ...

Men too have expectations and if you don't meet them, you're not worth it... Yes they may f.uck with you and put up with your bullshit, but that's it ...

3. Truth is that most ladies these days are not worth taking seriously at all ... They go around with empty entitled brains, they be broke and fat with a face looking like masquerade thinking that the greatest gift they can give to a man is spreading their legs like butter on bread ...

And so in their minds having a va.gina makes them equivalent to demi gods, but they forget that there's nothing cheaper than a va.gina, an indomie and egg or 500 suya can get a man a va.gina, yeahhhh it's that cheap ...

Thus they bring ABSOLUTELY no value at all to a man, and the last time I checked, no man worth his salt will take a VALUELESS creature serious ....

These too are some of the reasons lots of ladies are still single....

ukandi1:


I married one and life has been so miserable for me.
I need saving

Candidlady:



There you are blaming the mother


What if it was planted in her by her father

tiswell:
it's obvious you were !rresponsibly raised by a s!angle mother

Laturuturu:
This teaching of a man should provide always is killing our women. Yes ! Weaponising sex will not do any woman good. Okay when you weaponising it ..after I have bleeped u so what next. Am I free to go now. The trophy has been won.
We are all in this eco system together. Stop believing a man is out there to provide for all Ur mudane needs.

Candidlady:


dole neka yi rashin lafiya

Fathers don’t get to raise kids the wrong way ba

Change your monicker cos baka da lafiya

ukandi1:


I married one and life has been so miserable for me.
I need saving

Tomcorp:
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life.

MALIGNANTGuest:

We keep warning you Guys through Nairaland, but you guys rarely heed to our advice.
Don't ever waste your marriage as a man.
Never settle for less. Aim high always.
At 60, u can still marry the most beautiful if u wish. That can't be said of a woman.

Princess80:
True

wot is true about that rubbbbish Tomcorp is sayin....so u a future ilitatrate house wife...correct?
so u lookin for man to marry u on nairaland ..correct? Tomcorp clearly talkin crap. The reason why most women are single is becuz they have standards......they no longer settling for this broke azzzz umemploy jobless mugggus running around begggin for moiney. Darlin please GROWWWUP and use sense!!!!(no oofeinse)

pansophist:
Time to yab the ladies abi? Make I sharply add my own

From observations, lots of women do not know the difference between signals of sexual attention and marriage desirability. I will explain.

Generally, for most men, we have very low standards for the women we fork. A man can be governor and smash a girl working at Mr biggs, she just has to be fine. This is why every woman can be a prostitute, it has no qualification other than being a woman. And because women are hypergamous in nature, she confuses male sexual attention with her marriage desirability. If she sleeps with Davido for example, then she will think that is her level and will ignore the men that are actually her level or even better than her.

If you notice, the word ''settle for'' is not in a man's dictionary. For men, it is ''settle down'', which has a different meaning to ''settled for''. Women always use the word ''I settled for him'', meanwhile in reality, that is your level, or he even settled for you. Men are more realistic in this regard meanwhile for women, it is not the same.

I was watching a video (the link below) of this American porn actress Mia Khalifa who was bragging that men are too cheap and that she can get any man she wants. But her female brain can not comprehend that sex and marriage for men are two different things. Yes, all these men will fork you, but will they wife you up? probably never.

https://youtube.com/shorts/c6imxCbVKdk?feature=share

And this is exactly what men mean when they say women have unrealistic standards. Many ignore men that even settled for them because she thinks he is not on their level. And because women are externally validated, they pin their standards on the kind of men they have slept with, not based on the strength of their character, virtue, chastity, and being moral.

This is why premarital sex is very bad for women, it messes up their psyche, and they just get more entitled, unrealistic, and eventually bitter and angry with the world.