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Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Tomcorp(m): 5:39am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Princess80(f): 5:42am On Nov 08, 2022 |
True 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Tomcorp(m): 5:48am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Princess80: Yeah. 2 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Boogyman557: 6:09am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Holly Gram ![]() I decided to JAZZ in church Las week Sunday.. The number of single ladies way come out for prayer! Chai.. E remain small make I LITE up my WEED inside church.. WTF MAN! 15 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by marlow1962(m): 6:36am On Nov 08, 2022 |
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Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by ukandi1(m): 6:37am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Tomcorp: I married one and life has been so miserable for me. I need saving 19 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Candidlady: 6:41am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Tomcorp: There you are blaming the mother What if it was planted in her by her father ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Autobot05: 6:42am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Last Sunday in church .. they celebrated a new wedded couple ...she actually thanked her husband for "choosing her " out of all others ... That's shows that marrying this women is like doing them a favour ![]() Toxtimmy couldn't get a partner that's why she's always so so bitter ![]() 20 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Fahvvy: 6:55am On Nov 08, 2022 |
1. The erroneous standards women set for men - the truth is that the "ideal man" for most women DO NOT EXIST or at best are very rare ![]() But in women's reality, they think that the man they want are scattered everywhere ![]() ![]() 2. The mindset - most women think that the man must be XYZ before they can consider him ![]() ![]() News flash ladies!! The same way you think a man must be of a certain caliber before you can consider him, it's the same way you too must improve to a certain status before a man can take you seriously ![]() Men too have expectations and if you don't meet them, you're not worth it... Yes they may f.uck with you and put up with your bullshit, but that's it ![]() 3. Truth is that most ladies these days are not worth taking seriously at all ![]() ![]() And so in their minds having a va.gina makes them equivalent to demi gods, but they forget that there's nothing cheaper than a va.gina, an indomie and egg or 500 suya can get a man a va.gina, yeahhhh it's that cheap ![]() Thus they bring ABSOLUTELY no value at all to a man, and the last time I checked, no man worth his salt will take a VALUELESS creature serious ![]() These too are some of the reasons lots of ladies are still single.... 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by muyico(m): 6:57am On Nov 08, 2022 |
African mother mentality 5 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Tomcorp(m): 7:05am On Nov 08, 2022 |
muyico: Na their mothers dey ruin their lives. |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Tomcorp(m): 7:08am On Nov 08, 2022 |
ukandi1: They will ruin you if you don't act fast. I escaped this trap years ago when I saw the same pattern. Most girls out there are just looking for a man that will solve their family problems. You need to shine your eyes. No love out there, it's just money hungry girls. 17 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by LordIsaac(m): 8:39am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Fahvvy:Chei...this is extreme gbas gbos... ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Laturuturu: 9:51am On Nov 08, 2022 |
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Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by tiswell(m): 9:53am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Candidlady:it's obvious you were !rresponsibly raised by a s!angle mother ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Laturuturu: 9:54am On Nov 08, 2022 |
This teaching of a man should provide always is killing our women. Yes ! Weaponising sex will not do any woman good. Okay when you weaponising it ..after I have bleeped u so what next. Am I free to go now. The trophy has been won. We are all in this eco system together. Stop believing a man is out there to provide for all Ur mudane needs. 7 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Candidlady: 9:57am On Nov 08, 2022 |
tiswell: dole neka yi rashin lafiya ![]() Fathers don’t get to raise kids the wrong way ba Change your monicker cos baka da lafiya |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by blingxx(m): 10:05am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Laturuturu: Hardcore truth right here , when I heard the story that my great grandfather married four wives in one big house , I no blame him atall .. these wise men have seen what we are yet to understand about life and woman , them get mind pass us , woke generation na scam ![]() Seriously do you know what it takes for a man to marry more than one wife living peacefully under one roof .. damn I rather take advice from such man ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by tiswell(m): 10:20am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Candidlady:unam ikot! ...unfortunately raised with a lot of emotional baggages. 4 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by CyberHustle: 10:20am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Unrealistic target is a sure way to long term failure. 2 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Nobody: 10:21am On Nov 08, 2022 |
ukandi1:We keep warning you Guys through Nairaland, but you guys rarely heed to our advice. Don't ever waste your marriage as a man. Never settle for less. Aim high always. At 60, u can still marry the most beautiful if u wish. That can't be said of a woman. 10 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Nobody: 10:22am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Tomcorp:Just summarize by typing LEECHING 3 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Zonefree(m): 10:42am On Nov 08, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest:I'm beginning to think our crusade here on Nairaland is waste. Men are getting more foolish daily. 5 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Raalsalghul: 11:04am On Nov 08, 2022 |
I sometimes doubt this "High rate of single ladies" Nairaland guys are always talking about. 2 Likes |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by pansophist(m): 11:51am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Time to yab the ladies abi? Make I sharply add my own ![]() From observations, lots of women do not know the difference between signals of sexual attention and marriage desirability. I will explain. Generally, for most men, we have very low standards for the women we fork. A man can be governor and smash a girl working at Mr biggs, she just has to be fine. But a female governor will never do that. In fact ordinary women see ordinary men as below them. In fact she will feel insulted for such a man to have the guts and approach her. Men low standards for the women they fork is the reason why every woman can be a prostitute, it has no qualification other than being female. For men, sex and status are not tied together. Men fork downwards. And because women are hypergamous in nature, she confuses high status men sexual attention with her marriage desirability. She hangs her self worth on the quality of men she sleeps with, not with her chastity. If she sleeps with Davido for example, then she will think that is her level and will ignore the men that are actually her level or even better than her. If you notice, the word ''settle for'' is not in a man's vocabulary. For men, it is ''settle down'', which has a different meaning to ''settled for''. Women always use the word ''I settled for him'', meanwhile in reality, that is your level, or he even settled for you. Men are more realistic in this regard meanwhile for women, it is not the same. I was watching a video (the link below) of this American porn actress Mia Khalifa who was bragging that men are too cheap and that she can get any man she wants. But her female brain can not comprehend that sex and marriage for men are two different things. Yes, all these men will fork you, but will they wife you up? probably never. https://youtube.com/shorts/c6imxCbVKdk?feature=share And this is exactly what men mean when they say women have unrealistic standards. Many ignore men that even settled for them because she thinks he is not on their level. And because women are externally validated, they pin their standards on the kind of men they have slept with, not based on the strength of their character, virtue, chastity, and being moral. This is why premarital sex is very bad for women, it messes up their psyche, and they just get more entitled, unrealistic, proud, bitter, and angry with the world. 49 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by mytime24(f): 11:52am On Nov 08, 2022 |
High rate of single mothers Is cause by lazy guys not taking up their responsibilities make una leave mother's alone
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Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Streetmovement(m): 12:05pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Wotoporiously ![]() Clueless beings acting all clue'd up by so doing losing their purpose, the few who was taught well only stand the test of time. 1 Like |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Nobody: 12:07pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Princess80: wot is true about that rubbbbish Tomcorp is sayin....so u a future ilitatrate house wife...correct? so u lookin for man to marry u on nairaland ..correct? Tomcorp clearly talkin crap. The reason why most women are single is becuz they have standards......they no longer settling for this broke azzzz umemploy jobless mugggus running around begggin for moiney. Darlin please GROWWWUP and use sense!!!!(no oofeinse) ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by Tomcorp(m): 12:30pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
pansophist: Interesting perspective. 5 Likes |
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