CAPSLOCKED:



O'BOY. JUST LOST ONE OF MY MEN. POISONED BY HIS GIRLFRIEND. I'LL TYPE SHORT STORY TOMORROW. FUCKĮNG MILLIONAIRE BIG BOY KILLED LIKE A FOWL BY A GOOD-FOR-NO-USE RETÀRDED WOMAN. I JUST CAN'T. MY WORLD!

Karlifate:
At 20, you can never have as much value as her.

But at 30, she can never have as much value as you.

Female Value decreases with age, while Male Value increases.

Bless the redpill


Use your youth wisely, building your value up for the long game.

ubunja:
Women and their unpredictable emotions.

Women are creatures of emotion. And emotions are not fixed - they're ever-changing - which means women, likewise, are ever-changing and therefore unpredictable. You just never know how a woman will react/respond in a specific moment/situation.

Men are opposite. Men are logical and logic is fixed and unchanging - which makes men predictable which in turn makes them extremely dependable and reliable, but also DEAD BORING cause they're rigid and can't really "let go" and "flow with the moment" which means men are no fun and not adventurous.

Men, in turn, hate how unpredictable women are. And for good reason - how can you depend or rely on someone whose feelings are forever changing?

But this unpredictable nature of women's emotions can still benefit you as a man if you know how. It all starts with understanding one little secret about women and their ever-changing emotions. And the secret is this: A WOMAN'S EMOTIONS ARE ALSO UNPREDICTABLE TO THE WOMAN HERSELF.

What this means is, Women themselves just never know how they'll react/respond in a specific moment/situation. Just as men don't.

Inasmuch as men have a hard time trying to anticipate what a woman would do in different situations, THE WOMAN HERSELF IS ALSO EQUALLY CLUELESS. She can not predict herself. Because she does not control her emotions. It's her emotions that control her. Which leaves plenty of room for her emotions to surprise her and make her do something unexpected or out of character and she's left lamenting,"I don't know what came over me!!"

Now this quality of women to get "caught up in the moment" to "get carried away" is key. It means women live in the moment, they live moment by moment.

A woman may be in an excellent long term relationship with a man but the fact that TODAY he made her angry about something, it's enough for her to storm out of the house, go sit at a park and find herself enjoying the company of another man, laughing at his jokes finally enjoying being appreciated by another man and one thing will lead to another until the man actually fuccs her. We all know of a story where a man and his woman argued and the woman drove off, went somewhere, met another random guy who made her feel happy and who ended up fuccing her.

That's the nature of women's emotions.

Since women are emotional creatures and emotions by their very nature are always changing it means women "live in the moment" or "live moment by moment" - it's not so much how a woman felt yesterday or how she'll feel tomorrow, but IT'S ABOUT HOW SHE FEELS TODAY. As in NOW. Which is why it's so easy for a woman to be "caught up in the moment" to "go with the flow" and to be "carried away".

If you meet a woman and she's into you, yes tomorrow she may change and not even want to talk to you -- but that doesn't really matter, what matters is TODAY, as in NOW, she's feeling you and you can pretty much get anything you want if you're persistent and smooth enough. Cause it is TODAY and NOW, while you have her emotional goodwill and her feelings are still favourable to you, that you can have your way with her. TODAY and NOW while she's soft and tender with you is your chance. Go for it. Cause tomorrow the weather changes.

Read the fully fledged writeup here:
https://www.nairaland.com/4937921/ubunjas-miseducation-game-emotions-2019

COOL10:


Misery loves company. It's that slavery mentality. The mentality of a 'real man'. Most men are slaves to thoughts of 'doing the right thing', and the 'right thing' of course, gets to be defined by society only (mostly women and stupid simps).
Most men are loyal to ideologies that enslave them just because they've been told it's the right thing to do.


Little wonder why married men don't let single guys rest. They just can't seem to understand why a guy would choose his freedom and peace of mind over being under the control of a woman.

Little do they know that they have a false sense of leadership; especially those old men who feel they're in control of their marriages but don't know that 4 out of their 5 children aren't theirs. Just imagine the amount of years wasted raising another man's kids and you're there feeling like a 'real man'


I just sit back in my usual manner and watch the show of madness

NeuroToby:
I see people saying this thread is in the romance part of NL and so is not aimed at self development, hence, strictly 'woman matter' should be discussed... well, it's quite understandable, but I have rarely seen people who are not doing well romantically experience any tangible growth in other areas.

I like the way @Martinez39s made his objective critical analysis of my submission. I will not bother to say anymore things in that regard... we all can have our different views of the same topic and lead our lives as we well please.

A number of guys have said that anyone who doesn't agree with their positions should go and create their own thread... It's sad. Sad because if we can't have constructive criticisms around a subject as gentle men, what breed of weaklings are we then?

I'll just quickly point out a thing or two.
In psychology, there are different kinds of cognitive processes, but for the purpose of the point I am presently interested in making, I want to touch on divergent and convergent thinking, very briefly.
As good as divergent analytical thinking is, the major issue is that extremes can be easily reached with this way of thinking, because most often than not, the bigger picture is not kept in perspective, so, not every variable in the equation is considered, before conclusions are made. That's why some people can say that all Nigerian ladies are a bunch of immoral manipulative money-thirsty morons and everyone cheers like they came from the same village! Again... very sad!

Convergent thinking, on the other hand, puts the bigger picture in perspective, and so, carefully factors in other inclinations so as to make a very holistic conclusion.

What's my point?
If what we want to see (which I think should be) is a saner society where all men are seen as important and given their rightful place, then pushing only one point too hard will lead into more error than we began with. For instance, feminism began as a harmless movement to advocate equal job opportunities (among other noble things) between both genders, but now, they have started and continued to move mad by thinking males and females are equal and should be treated the same. Of course, we all can see staunch feminist in their 50s and 60s regretting that they ever towed that path.
I fear that if we are not convergent in our thought, by zooming in a little to see the chaordic effect of our advocacy on the larger community, we will be worse off than we started.
This is fact!

Again, anyone can decide to lead their lives the way they want to, but like a very intelligent man said "blessed are the BALANCED, for they shall outlast others".

Merci.

Emotionss:
The only entities worse than Simps are married Simps.

Yesterday I was listening to a radio program were people with family challenges will call and table their family challenges and listeners will call in with advice.

3 men called lamenting about the challenges they are facing at home since they lost their jobs or since their wife's started earning more than them. The insults. The disrespects and public embarrassments they are receiving from their supposed better half was depressing.

A woman also called to complain about her Wealthy husband extra marital affair with a younger woman. She is seeking for advice on how to go about it.

99.9% of all the people that called to give their Advise, concentrated on the Woman and only 1% of the callers managed to advise the men.

Majority of those that advised the Woman on how to DEAL with her wayward husband were MEN...

Majority of the men that advice the Woman on how to DEAL with the wayward husband were married men.

At a point the presenter have to remind the callers to also advice the 3 men that are also in need of advice but even with that nothing much changed. The only advice given to those men was for them to endure and man up.

All the men that offered advice yesterday were all married Simps.

Yesterday program made me realize so many things about most married men (A.k.a married Simps. )

A married Simp is always happy whenever they see or hear that another married man is depressed or miserable in his marriage. At least it shows he's not alone.

A married Simp will try as best as they can to convince as many single men as possible to get married with the false illusions that they are extremely happy and comfortable in their own marriage. If not for anything, at least for you to be as miserable as them in the future.

Married Simps take pride among themselves on who is more miserable or depressed in their marriage. To them the more depressed or miserable a man is in his marriage, the higher the possibility that he is a real man...

To a married Simp. HBP, depression,stroke or even premature death are little prices to pay for their wife's happiness and comfort. To them as long as their wife's are happy, to hell with HBP or premature death..

To those of you planning to marry soon please shine your eyes. Society in general don't really give a fuccking fucck about what you're going through in life as a man talk more of a married man.

Take your time majority of women of marriageable age are pretenders. They will say, They will do, act and even dress deceptively if it will guaranty them marriage.

Have a secret savings known to you and one of your siblings.

And have it at the back of your mind you will lose at least 70% of your freedom, happiness, friends, health and Me Time.

Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color] Advising a married Simp on how to handle marital issues with an average woman is like trying to run with a broken foot. It is an extremely painful and impossible task.

mosdii:
When last did she ask you, how you are surviving?

Nigerian Girls Are Useless... All Of Them

Dabronze:
Women ain't loyal Lol

CaveAdullam:


This poor mental form of reasoning always starts and ends with being a damaged h0e or prostitute - they are the only ones that have access to the holy communion.

If that should be the case, what about male - murderers, pedophiles, fraudsters, and every male in prisons worldwide? They need to be set free because they have been hearing religious sermons weekly, however, their case is in hell.

Women always come up with asinine thoughts like this to save face after they messed up the whole place. They know they don't stand a chance and can't win the existing structures. Rather, they create one and persuade people to see reasons with them and get them hoodwinked.

Men who don't know this will praise God, shout for joy, and shed tears for finding a good wife. Meanwhile, God in heaven is cringing for such a dumbfounded man.

Sigh.

Tonnyray:
That's a couple just goofing around.
Nothing sinister bro. It's what real couples do.

Tonnyray:
I'm almost tempted to believe you never meet married men with sense.

Dabronze:
Wow! That mean you can allow your girl to treat you like that
I know your type

Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color]Honestly speaking the amount of masculine and Authoritative married men I have met in my life so far are less than 5.
The Majority of married men I have met so far seems to have handed over their manhood and Authority to their wife's.

They seems to be more afraid not to hurt their wife's feelings than doing the right and logical thing for the betterment of their families.

When you try to advise them, they start saying rubbish things like a happy wife means a happy home.

Those men are willing to die prematurely from depression or stress as long as their wife's are happy with it....

Dabronze:
Understand women nature!

NeuroToby:
I see people saying this thread is in the romance part of NL and so is not aimed at self development, hence, strictly 'woman matter' should be discussed... well, it's quite understandable, but I have rarely seen people who are not doing well romantically experience any tangible growth in other areas.

I like the way @Martinez39s made his objective critical analysis of my submission. I will not bother to say anymore things in that regard... we all can have our different views of the same topic and lead our lives as we well please.

A number of guys have said that anyone who doesn't agree with their positions should go and create their own thread... It's sad. Sad because if we can't have constructive criticisms around a subject as gentle men, what breed of weaklings are we then?

I'll just quickly point out a thing or two.
In psychology, there are different kinds of cognitive processes, but for the purpose of the point I am presently interested in making, I want to touch on divergent and convergent thinking, very briefly.
As good as divergent analytical thinking is, the major issue is that extremes can be easily reached with this way of thinking, because most often than not, the bigger picture is not kept in perspective, so, not every variable in the equation is considered, before conclusions are made. That's why some people can say that all Nigerian ladies are a bunch of immoral manipulative money-thirsty morons and everyone cheers like they came from the same village! Again... very sad!

Convergent thinking, on the other hand, puts the bigger picture in perspective, and so, carefully factors in other inclinations so as to make a very holistic conclusion.

What's my point?
If what we want to see (which I think should be) is a saner society where all men are seen as important and given their rightful place, then pushing only one point too hard will lead into more error than we began with. For instance, feminism began as a harmless movement to advocate equal job opportunities (among other noble things) between both genders, but now, they have started and continued to move mad by thinking males and females are equal and should be treated the same. Of course, we all can see staunch feminist in their 50s and 60s regretting that they ever towed that path.
I fear that if we are not convergent in our thought, by zooming in a little to see the chaordic effect of our advocacy on the larger community, we will be worse off than we started.
This is fact!

Again, anyone can decide to lead their lives the way they want to, but like a very intelligent man said "blessed are the BALANCED, for they shall outlast others".

Merci.

Tonnyray:
I'm almost tempted to believe you never meet married men with sense.

Trex4:
Guy why you dey misinterpret wetin him dey talk nah? He never said married men with sense don't exist. Neither did he say all married men are sumps. He is just talking about married simps as sub category of married men.

NeuroToby:
I see people saying this is a thread is in the romance part of NL and so is not aimed at self development, hence, strictly 'woman matter' should be discussed... well, it's quite understandable, but I have rarely seen people who are not doing well romantically experience any tangible growth in other areas.

I like the way @Martiñez39s made his objective critical analysis of my submission. I will not bother to say anymore things in that regard... we all can have our different views of the same topic and lead our lives as we well please.

A number of guys have said that anyone who doesn't agree with their positions should go and create their own thread... It's sad. Sad because if we can't have constructive criticisms around a subject as gentle men, what breed of weaklings are we then?

I'll just quickly point out a thing or two.
In psychology, there are different kinds of cognitive processes, but for the purpose of the point I am presently interested in making, I want to touch on divergent and convergent thinking, very briefly.
As good as divergent analytical thinking is, the major issue is that extremes can be easily reached with this way of thinking, because most often than not, the bigger picture is not kept in perspective, so, not every variable in the equation is considered, before conclusions are made. That's why some people can say that all Nigerian ladies are immoral manipulative money-thirsty morons and everyone cheers like they came from the same village! Again... very sad!

Convergent thinking, on the other hand, puts the bigger picture in perspective, and so, carefully factors in other inclinations so as to make a very holistic conclusion.

What's my point?
If what we want to see (which I think should be) is a saner society where all men are seen as important and given their rightful place, then pushing only one point too hard will lead into more error than we began with.

For instance, feminism began as a harmless movement to advocate equal job opportunities (among other noble things) between both genders, but now, they have started and continued to move mad by thinking males and females are equal and should be treated the same. Of course, we all can see staunch feminist in their 50s and 60s regretting that they ever towed that path.
I fear that if we are not convergent in our thought, by zooming out a little to see the chaordic effect of our advocacy on the larger community, we will be worse off than we started.
This is fact!

Again, anyone can decide to lead their lives the way they want to, but like a very intelligent man said "blessed are the BALANCED, for they shall outlast others".

Merci.