Tomcorp:
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life.

pansophist:
Time to yab the ladies abi? Make I sharply add my own

From observations, lots of women do not know the difference between signals of sexual attention and marriage desirability. I will explain. Generally, for most men, we have very low standards for the women we fork. A man can be governor and smash a girl working at Mr biggs, she just has to be fine.

This is why every woman can be a prostitute, it has no qualification other than being a woman. And because women are hypergamous in nature, she confuses male sexual attention with her marriage desirability. If she sleeps with Davido for example, then she will think that is her level and will ignore the men that are actually her level or even better than her.

If you notice, the word ''settle for'' is not in a man's vocabulary. For men, it is ''settle down'', which has a different meaning to ''settled for''. Women always use the word ''I settled for him'', meanwhile in reality, that is your level, or he even settled for you. Men are more realistic in this regard meanwhile for women, it is not the same.

I was watching a video (the link below) of this American porn actress Mia Khalifa who was bragging that men are too cheap and that she can get any man she wants. But her female brain can not comprehend that sex and marriage for men are two different things. Yes, all these men will fork you, but will they wife you up? probably never.

https://youtube.com/shorts/c6imxCbVKdk?feature=share

And this is exactly what men mean when they say women have unrealistic standards. Many ignore men that even settled for them because she thinks he is not on their level. And because women are externally validated, they pin their standards on the kind of men they have slept with, not based on the strength of their character, virtue, chastity, and being moral.

This is why premarital sex is very bad for women, it messes up their psyche, and they just get more entitled, unrealistic, proud, bitter, and angry with the world.

Jman06:
This is what I have been saying. They mess up their daughter's psyche by planting in her mind the idea of a rich man to carry their family burdens. Then I wonder why they still spend money sending her to school.

Pells:
The mothers of these feminist below Magnoliaa Sweetvie Candidlady Begoniaa Shalommy Pocohontas Virginprincess Siofra Sheistoopretty sweetplum
Did a very bad job parenting these girls.
You see the hate they pour out to men each day
The funny part is that they are not even useful in the society
The only usefulness is the cum-hole in-between their legs
Spits on this opposite gender

Tomcorp:
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life.

Tomcorp:
Dear Nigerian Mothers, brainwashing your daughters at early age to grow up and look for a man that will solve all of her generational problems is a fast way to destroy her life. This should not be the goal and vision of a female child. It is an abuse of purpose. There are too many damaged young ladies out there with this erroneous mindset, planted in them by their mothers. When they can't find the "messiah" they seek. They seem to be lost and frustrated in life.

freedomchild:
Young girls of nowadays set standards for men that they themselves can't fit in with such men.
They only view men from there own mind not considering whether they're spec of such men.

mytime24:
High rate of single mothers
Is cause by lazy guys not taking up their responsibilities

make una leave mother's alone

prophetfire:
God bless you my dear for telling them. This is the biggest albatross of our ladies and they never learn.
Some would even be having serious health issues with their fertility and instead of starting early to get medical help, they will hide it and be waiting for an unfortunate man to come and marry them and begin to carry them around and by that time, ageing must have set in and knowing that fertility issues are better tackled early.
That's why most men have little or no regard for the women in their lives.

Autobot05:
Last Sunday in church .. they celebrated a new wedded couple ...she actually thanked her husband for "choosing her " out of all others ...
That's shows that marrying this women is like doing them a favour

Toxtimmy couldn't get a partner that's why she's always so so bitter

ukandi1:


I married one and life has been so miserable for me.
I need saving

Fahvvy:
1. The erroneous standards women set for men - the truth is that the "ideal man" for most women DO NOT EXIST or at best are very rare ...

But in women's reality, they think that the man they want are scattered everywhere .... And so they go through life being rude to other guys, until it's too late and they realize the extent of their delusion ...

2. The mindset - most women think that the man must be XYZ before they can consider him ... They feel that they don't have to do anything to improve themselves, all they need do is look pretty and boom!! They're eligible to get a high value man ...

News flash ladies!!
The same way you think a man must be of a certain caliber before you can consider him, it's the same way you too must improve to a certain status before a man can take you seriously ...

Men too have expectations and if you don't meet them, you're not worth it... Yes they may f.uck with you and put up with your bullshit, but that's it ...

3. Truth is that most ladies these days are not worth taking seriously at all ... They go around with empty entitled brains, they be broke and fat with a face looking like masquerade thinking that the greatest gift they can give to a man is spreading their legs like butter on bread ...

And so in their minds having a va.gina makes them equivalent to demi gods, but they forget that there's nothing cheaper than a va.gina, an indomie and egg or 500 suya can get a man a va.gina, yeahhhh it's that cheap ...

Thus they bring ABSOLUTELY no value at all to a man, and the last time I checked, no man worth his salt will take a VALUELESS creature serious ....

These too are some of the reasons lots of ladies are still single....

Qatar2022:

Come out , they do not use juju to hold you there

ukandi1:


I married one and life has been so miserable for me.
I need saving