| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by vikithor(m): 4:51pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan I laughed reading bills are paid by a foreigner Tell us more,blyiur bills are paid by someone not a family member? So what in return are you guys offering this Samaritan? Believe it or not,this Samaritan, however generous won't continue this bill paying for adults and semi adults for 6 months except you are bringing values to the table,too. Agreed that your mom and others didn't do well,but you can't run away forever from your root. Prayers and counselling either through third party can solve some issues. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by deavicky(m): 4:57pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Should I do it or not?
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994 I guess I had read ur post earlier about maltreating your step sister if you the same person I guess u should call them and tell them u are fine. Also considering ur age I don't know how u intend to survive financially. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by SaLongs1(m): 4:58pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
EndRape2:
[Instead of running from home , contact a human right group to get your mum arrested so she can sign an undertaken never to beat your sister again non of that is easy
quote author=Deborah200299 post=118190245]I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Should I do it or not?
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994 |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Bakbillz44(m): 4:59pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
azraeljaheel:
And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister(no hard feelings). I would advice you reach out to them.
This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs
Really…. U don’t have a family? Bonny!
Men! I just hope you get it right quick
Okay o
Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm
So I needed money I carry my fb account sell give one dude on this platform the guy ghost me
Now I no get food I not Facebook account again
Home is where the heart is = heaven |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by deavicky(m): 5:00pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan that Samantha may soon begin to ask of something. This is a long battle, can u withstand it?. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by jessylaurel(f): 5:04pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Pierocash:
it won't matter now until the going gets sour,and the good Samaritan boyfriend ditches them and move to the next and latest woman Meaning?? Pointless |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Greattha: 5:06pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Well, this may not be a good move though it has short term benefits. However, know that you've automatically become responsible for that child. Should anything happen to her (especially with the current security situation in the country), it won't look good. What if she gets pregnant, she gets missing or raped or worse  ...Just spit-balling. Ask your mom her REAL reason for the ill-treatment of that child. I think you should contact them and let them know your reasons. Downside maybe that Mom will become angry and tell you to train her then, since you know it all....that burden you certainly cannot carry. You don't want law enforcement investigating a "suspected kidnapping" case. Their involvement makes things worse except it would also bring the child-abuse case to light. But you don't want to be on the wrong side of the law in whatever case. Are you really ready for this battle? Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Should I do it or not?
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994 |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by cedricksly: 5:19pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Greatzeus:
You have a good heart for you to be protective of your step sister,whom your mother and brothers are maltreating.
But in life,we need wisdom,good intentions are not always enough. So you must apply wisdom in these situation.
First that woman that is accomodating you and your sister,when you have been declared missing by Police is risking jail term. Don't put that woman in trouble.
I will advice you to go to the LASG Office of public defender,if you're not in Lagos,go to the office of public defender in your state. Tell them your mom and brothers are maltreating your sister and her life might be in danger. So that way, your leaving the house is justified and the woman that accommodated you won't be prosecuted.
a 23 years old should be able to say if she was kidnapped or not... She never said she was staying with the woman, her rental bill was paid by the good samaritan.. Nevertheless you are spot on!!! |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by IamAsiri: 5:24pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Pierocash:
it won't matter now until the going gets sour,and the good Samaritan boyfriend ditches them and move to the next and latest woman So you did not believe her when she said the good Samaritan is a woman? You have such poor judgement of women? 3 Likes |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by vikstandon(m): 5:26pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Also be careful that the same good Samaritan don't take advantage of you young ladies...by trafficking you.
The days are evil also! 1 Like |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by ACallForHelp: 5:42pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Hello Op,
Your case is similar to the missing girl in my threads. Please call home and tell them you are alive or safe.
Personally for me, I have never been the same ever since I got told about the Missing girl. This is the most traumatic experience I have ever had in my life. If you see the appearance of this girl's mother, you will understand what I mean. This pain never heals until they hear from you.
Please call them. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by MaeBlocks(f): 5:44pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
I have followed from your first story. God bless your heart.
But starting your life at 23 will not be easy ooo. Just wished there was another way out of this. At 23 you still need guidance and protection from a responsible mature adult. I think locating your sister's grandparents would be most preferable than depending on the good Samaritan for shelter. Humans are so prone to taking advantage of people who have no one to support them. E.g. your mother.
It will break my heart to hear that while you are running away from fry pan (your mom), you jumped into a hot burning fire (a complete stranger).
I pray that the Lord will make your burden light and bring you the right people/connections. May the Lord protect you from all evil. And I join Nathaniel Bassy to what the enemy meant for evil, may the Lord turn it around for your good.
Stay blessed 1 Like |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by remiopash: 5:44pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Should I do it or not?
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994 Heaven will reward you for what you have done. This is humanity !. Don't worry .No evil shall befall you .The Lord shall open the gates of blessings for you and your sister. Let them know that you are fine but don't let them know your location or your number. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by IamV: 5:49pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Mindlog:
Ok. Where is your Dad in all these? In what way(s) had your 2 younger brothers abused her? You don't care ! Move on man. 1 Like |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by IamV: 5:52pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Mindlog:
Ok. Does your half-sister have contacts of any of her late mother's relative?
From your earlier thread your family is based in Uyo, get in touch with FIDA, it is an international organization of female lawyers, I worked with their office in Nairobi, Kenya and they intervene in such cases.
Office Address: Room 39B, Ministry of Justice, State Secretariat, Uyo.
Phone No: 08033022895, 08032606289
E-mail Address: lovedybassey@yahoo.com, mfonobong.uduak@gmail.com
My genuine apology for my earlier response to you. I initially thought it was just one of those guys that just want to ask questions, blame her & move on. Do have a lovely day sir. 1 Like |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by dauntless15(m): 5:55pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Pierocash:
it won't matter now until the going gets sour,and the good Samaritan boyfriend ditches them and move to the next and latest woman look at your twisted mindset, you're the type that'll ask for sex before helping a girl, can't you see she said the good Samaritan is a woman? Mumu man. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Solofresh2: 5:58pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Ybaby:
Why not ? If you can pick the soap.
Shameless enough to collect another man's sweat. No body is coming to save you. Try and be a man. You don't even know who I am and where I came from but all you have to do is concluded that I am poor  I am only talking about what I see happening everyday.Even my friends do the same too. Do you even know how many fellow men I have helped in this country? Do you know how many people I have employed? I don't blame you sha |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Solofresh2: 6:00pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
FavouredNK:
What's wrong with those fellow men that must always fold their arms for their fellow men to come and help them? Handicapped or sick?
Put out your beggars plate boldly if you want to beg for arms and not hiding under another person's thread to do that and pollute the mind of people who are ready to help. You don't even know who I am and where I came from but all you have to do is concluded that I am poor I am only talking about what I see happening everyday.Even my friends do the same too. Do you even know how many fellow men I have helped in this country? Do you know how many people I have employed? I don't blame you sha |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by DeipTruth(f): 6:03pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
azraeljaheel:
And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister(no hard feelings). I would advice you reach out to them.
This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs
Okay o
Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm
So I needed money I carry my fb account sell give one dude on this platform the guy ghost me
Now I no get food I not Facebook account again
Home is where the heart is = heaven It's always the hungry ones that gives meaningless advice. They wanted to kill the girl. So the abuse wasn't good enough for you. Abeg get out. This is not about politics but if i look carefully, you're most likely a supporter of this failed government. Baby girl, thank you for making the right choice. Get a skill. Learn to do Pop work, interior decorations. You'll become a big girl soon and won't depend on handout from anyone. But may God bless that woman that helped you. I've read your former story of how your mum and brothers abuse the girl. Keep it up. Posterity will fight for you. 1 Like |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Auduambless(m): 6:08pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
You are the only daughter and you also have a sister.. Hanty why |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Mindlog: 6:09pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
IamV:
My genuine apology for my earlier response to you.
I initially thought it was just one of those guys that just want to ask questions, blame me & move on.
Do have a lovely day sir. Apology accepted. Do also have a lovely day. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 6:25pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
meobizy:
This na new format?
na everything be format for ur face 3 Likes |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by chudez0147(m): 6:29pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late DamnNigga You were advised to report to the police. I hope you know what you're doing |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Makowonda: 6:30pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
You're the only girl amongst your siblings yet you have a younger sister;a younger sister who's been maltreated by your mum,I repeat;your mum and brothers?It doesn't add up at all.By saying "sister" are you trying to mean your cousin?Or a person from your village that was brought from the village to live with your family? |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Mattwillz: 6:33pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
meobizy:
This na new format?
Now someone's thinking like i'm thinking |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Donchieli: 6:50pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
You said you are her only daughter So how sister take come again abi na ur relative Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Should I do it or not?
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994 |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by gwinaB(m): 6:50pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
Thank you so much I will call her tommorow involving family will not help the matter because they are all supporting her including my grandmother she had witness most of the abuse and she had never for once tell her to stop abusing the child. Early this year when I reported the matter to the police they had denied everything painting me back and the police believed them. They had all ganged up against me and beat me up and I don't want the same to repeat. I am trying to be away from her for as long as I can I hope my absence will make her a good person If she can't bear to lose me she should accept and love my sister the same way she loves my siblings and I. Please do not go back. If you do, you may never be able to leave again because they will keep tabs on your movements. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Ofemmanu1: 7:05pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan Deborah, shey no be clitocurrency be this? |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by VULCAN(m): 7:21pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
You are her only daughter among 4 boys yet you have a younger sister.
Can someone tell me where I am missing it?
Or is OP high? |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Emdebby2: 7:22pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
You didn't mention the reason why she was abusing your younger sister. Was she adopted? Did you talk to her when the abuse started before running away?
Anyway...now that she's sick because of you, call her and tell her how you feel and if she's ready to stop abusing the innocent girl. You may not visit for now but keep communication with her open. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by AfonjaPriest: 7:29pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Should I do it or not?
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994 Do that so that you don't put her in unnecessary state of depression. You may tell her why you took such an action. I hope you've thought much about the action you took, because I'm wondering how long you'll be holding out against them. |
| Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Deborah200299: 7:35pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Emdebby2:
You didn't mention the reason why she was abusing your younger sister. Was she adopted? Did you talk to her when the abuse started before running away?
Anyway...now that she's sick because of you, call her and tell her how you feel and if she's ready to stop abusing the innocent girl. You may not visit for now but keep communication with her open. She's the product of my dad infidelity |
