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Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by usj(m): 7:37pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
I really admire your courage standing up for your sister, as someone that lost his mum at age 9 and have to stay with a stepmother. I totally understand and appreciate your efforts. My only concern is that you don't have the strength to take good care of yourself and your sister. I guess you are not working if not they would have traced you there, and if that Is true what do you do when your savings finishes? |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by meobizy(f): 7:38pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
FREDCLSSICO7:Wahala for who believe everything on Nairaland. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by iExplore(m): 7:42pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
May God bless you abundantly. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Lucasmuyiwaa: 7:59pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
You’re not even bold, you’re not kala, you’re not daju, you’re not a man...me I’m very mad so tey ideas will keep running to my head in this kind of situation...if I were you i will never call anybody...after all you sound like you’re financially okay..so live your life and make more money and you will never care.. but be successful and make sure you watch over your sister too..after that call a family me ever that you’re okay and explain things to them but never allow your disinter go back to that house |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by fashionistatee(f): 8:07pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
I support this;contact them and let them know you'refine. blackbone989: |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Nobody: 8:21pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
If you are living fine over just look for a Secret number and let them know that You are living fine they should not bother looking for u |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by mrvictor: 8:57pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
It's mega childishness that's worrying you and your little sister. The "good Samaritan" is taking a big risk should something bad happen to you or your sister. Your exile won't last for you'll soon run back home and beg when reality sets in. Mother has no replacement. Honour your parents, there are some blessings in doing that. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Ybaby: 9:05pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Solofresh2: I know you are poor because no rich man is bothered about what another man does with his sweat. Go and work pls! |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Thirtyrockers: 9:31pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
The good Samaritan might get tired oo... quickly get a job so as to sustain your sister also guard her closely as a 13 year old is easily prone to sexual abuse by potential paediphiles around you Be very vigilant. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Okhuadams(m): 9:49pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:Is the said sister ur blood sister then why the maltreatment or is she adopted find out. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Deborah200299: 9:52pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Okhuadams: She's my dad's daughter |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by damoobaba: 10:02pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:That's dangerous, good Samaritans are not always good nowadays. You should have rather contacted HUMAN RIGHTS agencies |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by jmichael259(m): 10:06pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299: private number and it's location can be disclosed when you print call records from ur service provider. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Deborah200299: 10:13pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
jmichael259: That's the reason why I haven't call her yet because I don't want them to locate me. Is it possible for them to locate me if I create a new Facebook account to send a message to my brother then I will delete the account? |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Melagros(m): 10:29pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
general111:Good advice |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Melagros(m): 10:34pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Helpout12345:God bless you for this, we have responsible people on this forum |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Okhuadams(m): 10:47pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:OK but not ur mums then keep her safe God bless you |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Oxfordgrade: 11:05pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Deborah200299:you are an angel in human form. A beautiful soul! God bless you dear |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by FavouredNK: 12:29am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Solofresh2: You don't sound like someone that can help anyone if not you shouldn't be jealous that someone helped pay their bills even if it's a man |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by FavouredNK: 12:33am On Nov 10, 2022 |
mrvictor: Na wao, some people and their advices, God help us |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by FavouredNK: 12:39am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Auduambless: It's important to carefully read a thread before jumping to comment plus it's not compulsory that everyone must comment both those that understand English and those that don't 1 Like |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by esperon25: 12:41am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Dear Deborah, you are doing a courageous work like Deborah of the Bible. I will keep you in prayers. Send me a private message if you need someone to chat with. Please try and contact those agencies suggested by others, as soon as possible, to get the necessary help you need. I was also wondering if you would send your mom or brother's number privately. I could call, and tell either of them, you posted on nairaland and that you are safe. It's risky for me, but if that's all I can do for now to help, I'll be glad to do so. Love you. Shalom |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Tradepunter2: 4:50am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Kia how can we help? I worked in a hybrid security and NGO organization, was in charge of protection services of abused woman in marriages or any form of relationship. Mostly kept the victims in remote location while the legal department tears the shit outta the abuser with documented evidence. The persecution and conviction rate was very very high |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Hotice085: 5:26am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Pierocash: Between you and a tadpole I wonder who got a higher IQ 1 Like |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Auduambless(m): 5:50am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Belike say you didn't read what is below carefully FavouredNK: I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself. |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Whoknowsme: 6:12am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Greatzeus:The mother might have an upper hand in the case thereby putting the step sister at risk of been killed. It better she lay low for now and make contacts with human right activists who specialize in cases as this. 2 Likes |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by pattybf(f): 7:03am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Please ask your good samaritan to help get the girl into boarding school instead. So you can return home. Family is important! |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by loliapoopy2013(f): 8:51am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Deborah200299: Oh my! I feel your pain and love you for your bold step. God will see you through. Some of our mothers can be frustrating |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by loliapoopy2013(f): 9:22am On Nov 10, 2022 |
kingmsookwagh: It seems you are one of the girl's brothers or you can assimilate English. Please, don't be like her weak father. Parents are meant to protect their kids from dangers and since they have failed in that area, let their 23 years old daughter should teach him and his wife what it means to be responsible parents. Your comment is preposterous. 1 Like |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by Elizmife: 9:46am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Deborah200299: My dear, you are a very good girl, how I wish someone did this for me too when I was being ill-treated by my own father then, at a point I thought of running away then, a friend wanted to accommodate me, but then I was scared of the friend changing or involving me in anything ungodly, so I kept on enduring till I was able to free myself. It so hurtful when is your blood that are wicked to you. I quite understand what the girl is going through emotionally. God will pay you back for doing this to her. And please open your eyes wide of the good Samaritan and don't do what is not right just to continue there. 2 Likes |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by kingmsookwagh(m): 10:37am On Nov 10, 2022 |
loliapoopy2013:the bolded part on your quote is really brain spinning. And note, her attitude is extremely rebellious. She could have reported such to a social welfare board or something. You just couldn't get my own perspective miss!!! |
Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by usah4(m): 10:42am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Deborah200299:I am going through this same thing you went through, but I don't know how to break free as my hands are tight. I got into an argument with my dad over the phone yesterday because of my sister who's schooling in Lafia as a CHEW. She called complaining to me been her elder brother of how my dad sent her 1K for upkeep, according to him (my dad) that my uncle has given my sister some money for upkeep, the same Man that paid her tution fee of 200k+ with my dad contributing nothing and him (my dad) as a soldier can't afford to send my sister even 5k for upkeep a girl child; I got mad called him and told him that's pure wickedness and that I've reported him to my uncle and we're to sit this December to iron this out. As a soldier that he is nah got angry and started ranting that this should be the last time that I'll speak to him in that manner, I told him this was the same thing he did to me while I was schooling in the Polytechnic but I could cope because I am a guy (I'm only but 20 years old) and he shouldn't be treating my sister in that manner and if that be the case then I'm leaving the house to go look for something to do and support my sister and myself who they've chosen to domesticate. To my greatest suprise my father told me that if I think I am a man that I should leave the house last night and not even wait for the next day; I felt dead but still alive. I am an ND holder in Computer Science with zero account balance and nothing at hand living in my uncle's house. I need help on how to break free, I can do any job for a start. |
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