brain54:
Reminds me a girl I dated way back in Jos…


Those days I was a player with many girl friends. This particular girl I could never go beyond 3 thrusts before shooting the gun. No exaggeration o! More like 3 secs man.

I felt something was wrong with me cos never happened to me before. But Its quite weird I would meet one of my other girlfriends just to confirm if it was me. But I will perform excellently well and with flying colors.

Then invite her over and same thing happens all over again. All the times we had sex I don’t think we went past 15 thrusts…which of course was an improvement from 3 thrusts.

I don’t think it was excitement about her body though ‘cos at the time I had way finer, cuter and more sexy girls I was shagging and this wasn’t happening.

And I really loved her because she was my gist mate and confidant unlike most of the others at the time. But I really found the sex frustrating.

One of the reasons we finally ended the relationship.

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

Tokskob2008:
You really don't need more the 5 mins as long as you are satisfied, I'm saying this because I feel it's because of the opposite sex you are worried about it so they don't see you as a weak guy.

Dude if you like go get help and go 3hrs there after that doesn't change the fact that they won't still complain about it later and your news ends up on that Igando/Ikotun PM NEWS for us to read on NL. All I'm trying to tell you is that you can't not satisfy "them" no matter what.

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

dreu2fine:

Bros u try ooooo 2minutes
Me na only 30 strokes I am out e no reach 1 minute
Most men this days don't last in bed
Na drugs most guy dey use which I will not try it if my girlfriend say she no fit endure with me like that make she fly na responsibilities be man
. With time I go blend with the pussyyy juice

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

JoshTim:


5 minutes is insult. Sorry o. 30mins is insult. Haba

BobbieZion:
Don't ever spend your energy on Women.
The last thing that can boost your ego is sex or woman.

No matter how good you are in bed, you will die of hunger if you don't get out of bed.
Your thoughts should be "How long can i stand on my toes working hard or getting money"
Not how long you can last in the cootchie.

JoshTim:


Oga, this thing called sex is a mind game.

The code is, don't reason sex....always divert your mind away from the sex.

Also, practice kegel exercise. When you go to toilet, practice holding and releasing your urine, hold release, hold release....do that 4-5 times when passing out.

Trust me, you will be a monster on bed.

This na the solution wey many people no know. Please come buy me suya or bring that your girl make i teach her some sense.

When it comes to sex, women in their mind of mind don't want to be treated softly. Go on and gang that shit out. Let her piss on your bed sheet. Bring those juice out. She will forever worship you.

Itzurboi:
Op, you don try... 5mins is 5*60secs

brain54:
Reminds me a girl I dated way back in Jos…


Those days I was a player with many girl friends. This particular girl I could never go beyond 3 thrusts before shooting the gun. No exaggeration o! More like 3 secs man.

I felt something was wrong with me cos never happened to me before. But Its quite weird I would meet one of my other girlfriends just to confirm if it was me. But I will perform excellently well and with flying colors.

Then invite her over and same thing happens all over again. All the times we had sex I don’t think we went past 15 thrusts…which of course was an improvement from 3 thrusts.

I don’t think it was excitement about her body though ‘cos at the time I had way finer, cuter and more sexy girls I was shagging and this wasn’t happening.

And I really loved her because she was my gist mate and confidant unlike most of the others at the time. But I really found the sex frustrating.

One of the reasons we finally ended the relationship.

nairalee:
Y do people underestimate 5 minutes so much?

There are 300 seconds in 5 minutes.

Imagine having 3 thrusts per second. That's almost 1000 thrusts per round

Dude if u use that energy on any field of life you'll surely succeed.

Grandmeister:
Much ado about nothing. The op might even be less than 5 minute man but put 5 minute up there to reduce the severity of his matter lol. Be that as it may, 5 minutes if penetration is not even that bad. The average duration of penetrative sex is 7 minutes. Anybody who tells you he can stay inside of a woman for 30 minutes is just straight up capping! If indeed you can last up to 5 minutes then you need not worry. Just improve your pre-intimacy and MouthAction..combo that with 5 minutes of penetration and you’re good to go.

sisisioge:
First and foremost, 5 mins is like the average thrusting time....those boys lying to you about going 30mins on thrusting aren't having sex,they are just exercising their rod and the vagana painfully. Neither them nor the recipients enjoys it. Dont stress yourself biko.

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

DoMeGood09:
Kegel is the only solution to his problem.

It baffles me when men complain that they do not last long in bed.

With kegel, you can take a woman to cloud 9 and make her cum multiple times and she would love you.

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

doggedfighter:
Over excitement at seeing the beautifully designed and crafted body of a woman.


With time it will get better as you get used to the blissful art of good sex.


While at it, improve your game . I am almost sure you are terrible at sex.

Do you know how to handle the nipples to produce an electrifying effects ?

How well can you manage the VJ ?

Have you mastered the art of using your tongue ?

And make your woman's toes curl up as she moans in ecstasy while you are immersed in her ?

Are your palms smooth and capable of sending your woman to dreamland in erotic highness?

Your dick is not the issue here.

You have a whole lot to learn FIRST !

Good sex is art !

bobbiiee:
Sadly, some of us that do minimum of 45 are seen as jobless. Some simply ask us to stop..