Nice is boring

Geminita1:
Cos "nice guys" are broke or timid or ugly or all of the above.

A guy suffering from identify crisis or lack of value is not a "nice guy" he's a victim of circumstance and his true "color" is not yet known.

@Wizzy13

Being nice never implies that you'll be taken for granted, if that happens, it means you've presented yourself poorly through behavior (at every stage in life there are expected ways you should conduct yourself) or conversation.

Additionally the person may have a poor orientation about genuine people; repeated failure's in people's lives can make them see genuine as fake because they have dwelt around wrong outcomes so thier perception is impaired to sense right. In that case my brother they are thier biggest undoing.

When dealing dealing with ladies, the general rule is be straight as an arrow, if e pain you talk, if you want things done in a certain way dialogue, make healthy compromises (i.e if her demands are reasonable look into or give into it), but to please anyone at all cost is the beginning of see finish: better put it's call servility.

I love Mr Nice Guys though (what you guys call a SIMP). They are my type.

pansophist:
The simple test you can do to determine if you're Mr nice guy is to ask yourself this question.

"If I refuse to be nice, will I still get what I want and live with dignity"?

For example, if your babe asked you to give her 50k, are you afraid to tell her NO/I don't have? And if you tell her no, are you worried that things may turn out worse for you?

If your answer is in the affirmative, then you're Mr nice guy, and suffering awaits you. Being good should be one of, not the only "mode of being" you navigate the world with.

Just as you're a nice guy, you should reserve the ability to be Mr cruel. In simple terms, it is he who has his sword sharpened, can use it, but keeps it sheathed will inherit the earth.

can you mentor me, please? How can I be so enlightened and learned? You don't have to be present all the time bro, just keep me on my toes and check how I'm progressing.

pansophist:
The simple test you can do to determine if you're Mr nice guy is to ask yourself this question.

"If I refuse to be nice, will I still get what I want and live with dignity"?

For example, if your babe asked you to give her 50k, are you afraid to tell her NO/I don't have? And if you tell her no, are you worried that things may turn out worse for you?

If your answer is in the affirmative, then you're Mr nice guy, and suffering awaits you. Being good should be one of, not the only "mode of being" you navigate the world with.

Just as you're a nice guy, you should reserve the ability to be Mr cruel. In simple terms, it is he ]who has his sword sharpened, can use it, but keeps it sheathed will inherit the earth

reminds me of a quote by Jordan Peterson

Geminita1:
Cos "nice guys" are broke or timid or ugly or all of the above.

I see as you fine.

Geminita1:
Cos "nice guys" are broke or timid or ugly or all of the above.

Not all nice guys are broke. Quite unfortunate the Nigerian society made you to believe that. There are nice guys with money and I am one of them.

womenareapezz:
Why do naija girls hate Mr nice guy

Because those baboons don't know what they want
Your nice should be universal, and not on one particular gender with rotten Toto

Gorillas who said they hate Mr nice guy, just look at their life! Frustrated, miserable and even when they are married to the so called bad guys, you will still see those baboons miserable and in pain of regret.

Those baboons never do learn until they reach the evening newspaper stage of their miserable life, but it's too late.
That's when you will see them going on third mainland bridge trying to escape reality of life

You can't eat your cake and have it you fvcking piece of shiit called naija women

Nice piece bro

UyaiIncomparabl:
I love Mr Nice Guys though (what you guys call a SIMP). They are my type.

The one's u can manipulate easily abi.....

But deep down u crush on redpillers

The God I serve is a man of peace and mercy, he is also a God of violence and destruction, you can't be Mr nice all the time.

Eltunechi:


The one's u can manipulate easily abi.....

But deep down u crush on redpillers

I am not manipulative, at least, even if I am, it'll be an unintentional act. Men and women manipulate. It's not an act ascribed to a specific gender.

And no, I don't fancy "redpillers" or whatever you call them. I love my men kind, soft-hearted, empathetic and agreeable.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am not manipulative, at least, even if I am, it'll be an unintentional act. Men and women manipulate. It's not an act ascribed to a specific gender.

And no, I don't fancy "redpillers" or whatever you call them. I love my men kind, soft-hearted, empathetic and agreeable.

That's what y'all women want.........Omo fvck kind punk ass niqqaz.......

A short OT

Tenrack:
reminds me of a quote by Jordan Peterson

Actually, I learned that from Jordan Peterson. The man is our modern Plato. I have watched and listened to over five hundred hours of his lectures on youtube, he really influenced how I see the world and gave me the courage to live a life that is true to me.

Tenrack:
can you mentor me, please? How can I be so enlightened and learned? You don't have to be present all the time bro, just keep me on my toes and check how I'm progressing.

Start by watching all the videos on Jordan Peterson's channels. it's over five hundred hours. There is nothing I will ever teach you about life in general that hasn't been covered mostly by him. I can only teach you geopolitics, it's my new hobby.

virginprincess:
You people should stop all this your rubbish generalisations and lies,the fact that 5% of girls don't like soft guys doesn't mean we hate nice guys,for me personally if a guy is not soft hearted and nice i can't date him.

For this thing you just said now, you have won my heart. i luv u @virginprincess.

THATS WHY ALLAH BROUGHT ISLAM BEAT THE SHIT OUTTA HER IF SHE GOT THAT ATTITUDE BUT BUY HER A BEEF BURGER AND SOME FRIES IF SHE DON'T

pansophist:


Start by watching all the videos on Jordan Peterson's channels. it's over five hundred hours. There is nothing I will ever teach you about life in general that hasn't been covered mostly by him. I can only teach you geopolitics, it's my new hobby.

wow. All right sir. Thanks

Wizzy13:
Am troubled, why do Nigerian girls hate nice, cool, soft spoken and decent guys.
they always take that as an advantage to be harsh with them

Please enlighten me

Or do u have this same Experience

Women Don't like Immature Men:
If she does something Wrong She knows she would Punish Herself But You allowed her to go scot free even lapping her Ass... She would messed you up as Unenterprising and Unentertaining .... Women don't like Boring Men with One Single Routine ... Be Dynamic and Diversifying:

There is a Line between Caring and Nice and That Line is Discipline-Reprimand Line:

Care-Discipline-Reprimand-Nice-Love

UyaiIncomparabl:
I love Mr Nice Guys though (what you guys call a SIMP). They are my type.

No Woman Likes Simp, A Dude at Your Beck and Call, Who can't even Discipline your kids unless you come Home .... who can't make decision on his own as a Man .... Nah!

You would be Bored in no time and drop his Nyansh for Sigma Male ...

You are confused, You want a Man not a Simp!