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Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Blakjewelry(m): 4:47pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Wow, push her away into the arm of your guy. We fancy somebody no mean say we go date them nawa for you o. Anyway it's love playing out but your actions can be interpreted as an accusations and that will be the beginning of the end. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by just2endowed: 4:47pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: The guy is mostly a body builder guy. Op hope you have six pack. Jokingly. Of a truth, you can't understand a woman |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Pwettylinda(f): 4:48pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: You did the right thing Na olosho she be 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by RichAbujaGuy: 4:54pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
@thegroomspa Charge it to the game Mr. Man. They come and go. There be plenty of fish in the sea, fine and pleasant ones too. Just be patient until you link up with the right one. I'm very glad to read that you dumped the disrespectful tart. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by seanwilliam(m): 4:54pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
@ op that’s the same reason she’s single until 34. I’m sorry she’s a hoè. Men don’t take such women serious . Just fhuck and dump her 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Zane2point4(m): 4:55pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: Had it been you kept quiet that you wicked randy frnd could have slept with her,she’s not smart,its ok for someone to admire or crush on anoda human being apart frm her man,buh rubbing it on your face is worst,if she’s smart she for kill whatever likeness she had for the guy! Or she sees u as person wey no mind or get wahala! |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Marvyx: Respectation ni. Does the girl respect her own domain? |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by SenecaTheYonger: 4:57pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Michelle70: So is it okay if a guy does this way to her female friend? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Basiljoe: 4:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
You're 35, what in God's name are you doing with a 34 year old woman? Do you want to date your mother's mate? Women's sexual market value declines from 27. By the time you're both 40, she will look like your mum. Genuine attraction cannot be negotiated, and hypergamy doesn't care about male idealistic expectations of love. She's more attracted to your friend than you. You're the beta male in her hypergamous equation. Solution: Be a man and call it all off. Tell her she's free to date your friend if she pleases, that's if they haven't already had sex. Look for a younger girl you're older than, with at least 7 to 12 years, and start a relationship with. You sound like a weak man so I can't advice you to spin plates (i.e date multiple women in other to determine what's best for you). Good luck, may the forces of Nature be with you and Grant you wisdom. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Offpointng: 4:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
jeromestarks: Lmao you guys on this platform will not kill me I thought we all agreed to give peace a chance in the month of November |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
That critical why don't you just set them both up and see what they can do in your absent |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Basiljoe: 4:59pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
jeromestarks:I like how you think, let's be friends in real life? |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by riverbird: 4:59pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
A very SIMPle man |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by 2elliot: 4:59pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Guy, you need to calm down. It's good to be game and an alpha male and be vigilant, but then life is not a one way. It is possible that your girl was only being friendly with your friend because somehow they clicked, not necessarily because she wants to sleep with him. It could be her own way to make you believe that she is a friendly type even to your own friends, someone your friends would speak good of and not being mean to them. I have had girlfriends that are so jovial that immediately I introduce them to my friends, they click. I actually love to see that, because that way I don't lose my male friends because of a new relationship. Rather, I have brought a banny into our circle. In fact, that is how we roll in our circles. Our girlfriends become part of the gang. I really hope that she is innocent, and that both of you can work things out. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by REALretep(m): 4:59pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Chris2863:The mata tire me. I was surprised to find out it's an old thread. But I shaa enjoyed reading it |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by SenatePresdo(m): 5:00pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: Most girls are like that. You are my kind of guy, anything you don't like, don't pretend to like it. The girl will know you don't take nonsense because you brought her senses back, we are all humans and can derail anytime. And never forget to always let your woman knows she's replaceable, and that you can move on if things doesn't go the way you like. Nice one bro. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Konjiboii: 5:00pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
I don't think your story is true, because if e dey too pain you you go don narrate this story once, based on annoyance, all this part 1, part 2,3,4 like the lord of the rings just show say you dey display your talent of story telling. But if it's really true then I have many things to say. 1st you dey jonse, how you go dey date girl when be almost your age mate,I don't understand the sense in that playboy, get you some PYT jare. 2nd you fell in too soon, you for try date her for atleast 6-8 months before you start dey preach love love, that way you go know her wella and know if she love you really or just wan sha marry. 3rd I don't understand, you guys have been making love all this while and not fvck? As in are you saying your preek never enter her? If I release a limited booklet on how to treat this women you go buy? |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by remiopash: 5:03pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Nawa o! At 34 ,your girl has not made it an issue that she is yet to settle down with you, rather she is still crushing on another guy. You need more conviction before you can forge ahead in the relationship. You need more incontrovertible evidence to nail her properly, since you claim she is your fiancé in order to convince anyone who wants to be a middleman when you serve her quit notice, most especially, the family members. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Immorttal: 5:03pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Nemesis0147:gbam |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by abbey621(m): 5:07pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
35 year old behaving like small pikin, behaving like teenager wey just get girlfriend. You met someone 3 months only and you expected what, LOYALTY? You dey craze! A 34 year old woman is already primed for marriage in fact she's more than primed, if she's interested in other people it is because you don't look like a serious person. She's wife material this, wife material that but you never made your intentions known so why won't she be looking for alternative? Be a man and stop throwing jealous fits, tell her what you want, if everything go scatter make e scatter, no time for nonsense!
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Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by seanwilliam(m): 5:08pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
GuestJoe:you sound like a boy not a man. A woman you’ve concluded to settle down with- you don’t need playing games with her. If a woman messes up, you dump her aśs. If the op does what you advised and eventually she fhucks his friend while still in relationship with her, does that make sense? A woman that is not ready to respect and be committed to you doesn’t worth keeping. At this point of my life, if a woman messes up , I’ll dump her and move unto the next. No need troubling my mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by 2Radii: 5:10pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: How I wished I could quit when I had the chance.... |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by cutieme(m): 5:11pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Don't quit man,just give her some conditions and make her stay away from your friend at all cost,I think it's the best thing to do. I repeat, don't quit the relationship just yet. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Danjuma101: 5:12pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
I think mayb dy new each other b4 nw. If i were u, i ll confront dem to knw wot is really happening. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by seanwilliam(m): 5:15pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
abbey621:but if he did the same with her friend, are you still going to say this same thing? A woman who is not loyal doesn’t have anything to do with relationship. No wonder she’s single at 34. @op use and dump her as everyone before you had done |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by luluosas(m): 5:15pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
So, you took advantage of her and after enjoying her puna, you want to quit? What kind of man are you in the first place? Why didn't you maintained your integrity and then leave peacefully without any emotional attachment? This is so wrong please thegroomspa: |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:bros run ooo...a 34 years old lady will always be loyal until her aim is achieved... that is marriage... |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by emerged01(m): 5:18pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
You have played along and see how things will end. To me she hasn't done anything wrong. A girl can choose to like your friend,that doesnt mean they will have anything together. Your body too dey hot. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Mike008(m): 5:21pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
This may not be really as you took it to be. At least and for the record she is (abi was) still your woman even as she occasionally asked about your friend. I think you over-exaggerated things. Not everyone dates or even marries their spec. Sometimes your spec may not even meet other significant requirements like health, religion, family etc. You for chill small. Some girls just like other guys that are entertaining. Your guy may like-like her, but he will be going against Bro Code to think of furthering his interest, and your woman may just like him for the way he talks, or because he is generally amusing. Girls like funny guys generally. But it's not enough to date them. I believe your woman is cultured and mature to just delve into a relationship she openly expressed like for the person. that will be foolishness. I think you took matters too far and rendered yourself immature, especially if your friend and your ex don't even date now that they have the opportunity. If only something really was to get down, believe me, both your friend and your woman would've played you behind your back - Squeaky clean. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Martinez39s(m): 5:21pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
@thegroomspa If you know what is good for you, dump her asap. All your friend needs to do to sleep with your girl is to simply show up and meet her in secret. He will scatter and pound her pusśy... and she will enjoy it. If you are faraway in Russia on a one-week trip and your girl meets your friend in one room, you think your girl won't fuçk and ride him? In fact, with the way she has been drooling over him, fuçking him will be the first thought on her mind when you are away. As for that guy, stop considering him as a friend. A real friend won't flirt with your babe in your presence. A guy that can fùck your babe is not one to keep around. If you don't dump her, you will regret it; the signs are there, don't ignore it. Don't listen to those telling you that you're insecure or overthinking things. Dump that evening newspaper and shameless hòe. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by carsuperman: 5:22pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Nasoo my guy go nack my babe and she still day think say I never know. I have seen many nonsense as regards to women.god forbid that gender |
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