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Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by abbey621(m): 5:23pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
seanwilliam: What did she do exactly? Abi una head don knack wall ni? What exactly did she do, ask about the friend? Compliment him? It is up to the guy to set up boundaries and he failed to do that, if this is what he considers not being loyal then he'll never be satisfied with any woman and might die of high blood pressure if care is not taken. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by 43Ronin: 5:24pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Bro since she likes ur friend no issue. Just finish with her and pass it on to your friend based on guy code. As 34 y.o woman no wan get sense 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by carsuperman: 5:26pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Michelle70:true.i reacted and asked questions and my mugu ex stopped asking Abt my guy |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by RichAbujaGuy: 5:26pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Chris2863: I noticed it yesterday when someone moved a topic from May of this year to the FP. Photos From A Nairalander's Brief Visit To The LA Zoo at 10:38am On Nov 11 Images From My Brief Visit To The LA Zoo. by MALIGNANTGuest(m): 2:22am On May 04 https://www.nairaland.com/7109306/images-brief-visit-la-zoo |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by 27Pushing30: 5:26pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
jeromestarks: Bros you take am personal o |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by 2elliot: 5:27pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Guy, you need to calm down. It's good to be game and an alpha male and be vigilant, but then life is not a one way. It is possible that your girl was only being friendly with your friend because somehow they clicked, not necessarily because she wants to sleep with him. It could be her own way to make you believe that she is a friendly type even to your own friends, someone your friends would speak good of and not being mean to them. I have had girlfriends that are so jovial that immediately I introduce them to my friends, they click. I actually love to see that, because that way I don't lose my male friends because of a new relationship. Rather, I have brought a banny into our circle. In fact, that is how we roll in our circles. Our girlfriends become part of the gang. I really hope that she is innocent, and that both of you can work things out. A |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Brownshoe: 5:32pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Op should have ask her what is she doing to 34 not to have marry, a good girl don't usually pass 25 27 before they settle, guys pick them quick. general111: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by olaniyilukman(m): 5:36pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Same thing happened to me when I was in school, there was this girl called Halimah whom my friend is dating, but due to financial constraints and I was unable to get accomodation myself, my Friend invite me to come over to his place pending the time I will get money for accomodation, I agreed to his request and I moved in, the following week her girlfriend comes around and he introduced me to her but ever since then that girl has been disturbing me with calls, messages and all sorts and to the extent of asking me what type of food do I like so that she can prepare it for me, I just laughed anytime she make such request, she did all these and I don't give her any attention but I keep wondering how can a girl be so loose like this.... It is almost seven years now since I graduated from school and this particular lady keep disturbing me till date despite the fact that I have married, she even said she is ready to be second wife, honestly I am not happy seen her single 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by 43Ronin: 5:38pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum: The lady is obviously not ready to commit to the guy. Probably managing the guy for marriage tins incase her main guy dumps her. At 34 y.o she shouldn't be calling her guy and be asking of his colleague, that's what teenager and girls in their 20s do. They make the mistake innocently but later mature in their 30s. He should leave her she's not ready. She's even lucky the guy is a gentle guy. Me as a bad man, I will not even talk, just observe and sleep with her as many times and possible den discuss with my guy and pass her over to him in form of heart breaks. That's the Bro code. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Jelique: 5:41pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
You are a SIMP,why didn't u add this part of the story to the main story so,everyone would know how Simptuos u are.....Bloody simp, ![]() She went back to work, and later that day evening I started receiving a message on Whatsapp from her friend I once meet asking want happened between I and her friend... On explaining things to her, she said there was nothing wrong that if I love her friend enough that shouldn't be an issue... I was so angered that I stopped replying to her friend... Then my girl started texting me on Whatsapp apologizing and at the same time swearing with her life that she can't sleep or do anything that her head and her heart are heavy... I became afraid so she doesn't hurt herself, I then replied her and fixed a place to meet her after work... We meet and I pointed out everything she burst to tears saying it wasn't true that it's not what I think and was swearing with her life... I told her I forgave her... This month made it the 7th month and i have not bleeped her since we met...I initiated it to ease up a little bit...we've made love twice now... But I still feel insecure when ever am around her and don't trust her... I feel like quitting... Am so pained... [/quote] |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Kris25: 5:41pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: Na 35 years old man dey talk this things.... Wow...just wow |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Germi9: 5:45pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:You You didn’t play this game well, you must never act suspicious or angry, you go form say u no know wetin dey sup,anytime she comes to your house and the guy is around you just carry your fone put am for recording position for side of bed tell dem say u dey come say u wan go buy something for the next street give dem 30 mins come back then wen coast clear you go play the recording then you fit faint or carry rope hang yourself…Truth is Women are like that, little things trigger dem, we dey bleep dem steady no jokes but you gat to up your game sha , you are too cold for her |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Opinedecandid(m): 5:47pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: This your conclusion let me iknow n the way she atrempted to misbehave. How could you have dated a mature lady for up to three months or more without fvcking her well. That's why she crushed on someone she suspected would not be a simple like you. The fault is yours. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by vickydevoka(m): 5:49pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Please don't force a gal to stay |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Germi9: 5:52pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Michelle70:Dont mind dat guy na him SIMP pass ,hypocrite |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Cde1: 5:53pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Really |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by LordErrk: 5:57pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Oga, you're just insecure. That's the beginning and end of the whole story. I'm quite sure this isn't even how the whole thing went down, you've added your own personal side to the mixture ![]() You need to work on yourself, if not, you'll make a terrible husband |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by sayso: 5:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
34years? Are you kidding me? The ocean wey don deep pass atlantic. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by dontrulee: 5:59pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: You're 35years and you still have the mindset of a kid?? The truth in life is that, you'll always come across women beautiful than your spouse, and the same goes for your spouse too. You've to learn how to control your emotions, control yourself. Young men are targeting married women these days just like married men are targeting single ladies. All this makes marriage seem like a joke! |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by ogene144(m): 6:00pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:Bro u could have be knacking her with the intention that u won't marry her the bitch baby mama that got my precious baby 4 ne did pass this I just sent the idiot away and focused on my baby |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by InvertedHammer: 6:02pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:/ Why not wait until you are making love and she shouts the guy's name? How can you be 35 and be dating a 34-yrs old lady? That's very abnormal. You are older in number but she is older in experience. I recommend no lady above 28-yrs old for you. 28 is max! But 23-26 is optimum. / |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Freshgrace4life(f): 6:04pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Some ladies should know when to set boundaries, I also won't be happy if my guy is all over my girlfriend.. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by SPAMBOX7: 6:04pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
shege45:Fact ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by GoooodHardDick: 6:06pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: Since you met her you haven't banged her? What a simp man you are! Oga, we have no advise for simps men like you, continue simping if you like don't swallow the Red pill |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by lomprico(m): 6:07pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: You are insecure! |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by nedekid: 6:11pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Oga, painful as it seems, I think you should take a walk. Thay sign she gave you was God sent. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by donbrowser(m): 6:12pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: It's normal for women to behave loose at some point. They are very weak, you did the right thing by calling her to her senses. Your reaction was on point and she will return to normal if only your take your stand and avoid her for a week or so. Pretend to break up with her and ensure she comes begging. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by deltateam: 6:12pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
shege45: Na so women dey mumu? |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Davidave(m): 6:13pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
You're right to be suspicious. Trust your gut. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by Phil16: 6:14pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
You're all simply occupied with criticizing the girl. What about the guy that doesn't care about the fiance of his colleague? had the nerve to say he likes the girl to his colleague. |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by MrEgwim: 6:15pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa:SIMP |
Re: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by OdefaGirl(f): 6:22pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
thegroomspa: You are so pained again? After forgiving her? Na waa ooo.... Move on na, if you don't want. What did you do to that your friend and colleague that is lusting after your woman...is that not disrespect and letting you down? |
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