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My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot: 5:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
There has been an upsurge in the number of young Nigerians traveling to the UK for studies. I'm sure most people here must have known one or two close friends that have left Nigeria to the UK in the last 2 years. There's this girl I met at Lagos NYSC orientation camp during my service year. We became friends and have been in touch all this while. She is from my home state and her family house in the village is close to mine. She left Lagos to Port Harcourt after our service but I used to see her during Christmas whenever I travel to the East. I checked her WhatsApp status recently and noticed the background of her photos didn't look like Nigeria. I asked her and she told me that she has left Nigeria to UK to do her masters. I congratulated her and told her that I do assignments for people especially students in diaspora. She said okay that her cousin has been looking for who to assist her with her assignment. The cousin traveled together with her for the studies. So, she gave my number to her cousin who got in touch with me. We reached an agreement and she sent part of the money so I can get started with the assignment. I billed her lower than what I would ordinary have billed her because of the relationship I have with the cousin. Fast forward to few days later, this my friend chatted me up asking for her cut from the money her cousin paid me. I was more than shocked because I never saw it coming and I'm sure the cousin would be so disappointed if she gets to know that her cousin came to me to collect a kickback from the money she paid. I told her that she didn't tell me it was a business for her so I could factor that in while billing her cousin. She said she has two people who need help with their assignment. I told her that I will give her the commission from those new people since she's indicated that's what she wants. But this girl has talked to me in a very condescending manner. I don't know if it's because she went to UK or what. I have known this girl for years but I never knew her to be like this. Why are some girls this mean?
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Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by PlayMaker14: 5:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
“Goat Na Goat, If You Like, Carry Am Go UK, Na Still Goat Don't give her a dime of that money, if you do, she'll feel your survive depends on her.. From her chat, you will notice she's daft and might end up going into full time runs. Don't give her a penny. 52 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by CaptMarvel(m): 6:11pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Just find her something and let the story die. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Olaolex: 6:17pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Before I say this, let me first tender my apology. Sorry to say this, I am not tribalistic but I just want to say the raw fact. First of all, she is an Igbo, you should not be suprised when she asked for her own share. You guys (Igbo people) can do business with anything . I trust you people for that. Secondly, she ought not to have acted that way. Afterall she said the said person is her cousin. But maybe that's how they do. But please for the sake of maturity, I am very sure you are more than any amount you will give, please cut small soap for her. She just showed who she is because of some little amount. Shame on her 35 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot: 6:17pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
In a similar incident, another girl I met at the Lagos state NYSC orientation camp who has remained my friend even after she got married just traveled to the UK to do her masters. She brought her own assignment to me and I billed her based on the relationship we've had over the years. Now, this girl sent the money and demanded that I should send part of the work to her in case something happens to me. I really don't understand that statement. I've known this girl for years and never for a day did she try to reach me and I was unreachable. So because she sent me a meager 25k, something will suddenly happen to me that I will not be able to deliver her work to her. Why are some girls this mean and wicked at heart? 5 Likes
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Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by UjuJoan2: 6:19pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
She sounds rude and disrespectful. I wouldn’t do business with her if I were you. Meanwhile people do assignment for people abroad? How does this even work? This is crazy!!! How do they learn and pass their exams if they pay someone else to do their assignment? Nigerians will never cease to amaze me. Lack of integrity and discipline. I’m ashamed! 31 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Eyesstone(f): 6:20pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Na money everyone dey find 2 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot: 6:22pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
A male undergraduate classmate of mine linked me up with his friend that was doing his masters in UK. I did assignments and projects worth over 500k for this guy yet that my classmate didn't even care about it. I only willingly sent something to him and wrote off his debt to me as a thank you. 13 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by dawnomike(m): 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Dailyparrot:Welcome to the Nigerian way of doing biz... Now you know. I will advise you sacrifice some amount from what you got from jer cousin if only to pave way for more. 3 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot: 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
That same lady that was already wishing me ill simply because she sent me her complete money but yet to get her assignment was the same person I connected with the guy I did assignments for to help her get a job in Manchester since she's new to UK. The UK guy also linked me up to his friend doing her BSc in Canada and so far I've done work worth over 100k for her this month alone yet the guy didn't come to me to ask for a cut. Why is it that women believe everything must be monitized?
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Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot: 6:35pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
dawnomike: No sir. I'm not desperate for the assignments. I'm not jobless. The assignments are side gig for me. If I'm not doing them, I've got something else that will fetch me even a higher amount of money. The major reason I contacted her was to help her get her assignments done and earn from it. It's me actually helping them not that I rely on it for survival. I never meant it to be a business and I didn't ask her to link me up with anyone. So, she can hold her connect. I'm not sending her a dime from the money the cousin sent but I'm willing to give her going forward since that's what she wants. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot: 6:39pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: So disrespectful for someone that claimed to be a friend. I never knew her to be like this honestly, else, I would have long deleted her number. This character just showed up now or is it that money matter changes people's behavior? 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by advanceDNA: 6:47pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Dailyparrot: So u no get mind of cutting her something until she asks??......u no do well... no carry this kind mind set enter big busimess world.... life is give and take.... 10 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 6:57pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Dailyparrot: Oga you can't be angry over unethical practices, students outsourcing assignments is a violation of the honour code they signed up to uphold during induction because submitting assignments done by another person is against academic integrity. Since you are in that space, you can't be talking about character....give to Ceaser what belongs to Ceaser 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by eventainment(m): 6:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
My policy has been my friend without being told I pay for referrals immediately.... I give 10-20% . it has given more clients; try not be greedy with money people like getting rewarded for trying to help you 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Calibrator: 6:58pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Business is business! 8 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by UjuJoan2: 7:03pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Dailyparrot: That’s why it’s not good to do business with family and friends. Money changes everything!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Richy4(m): 7:08pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
How can u call whoever that was behind that chat a friend?.. That's more like an acquaintance... 9 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:33pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Dailyparrot: do it in reverse contact the person you did the assignment for and tell them that the person who introduced them to you wants a cut from bill. And your charge was lower becoz helping a friend of friend. Ask what should you do, because you didnt want to profit from a friend of friend and unfortunately the friend wants to really profit. Am sure from that the two will sort each other other out. 7 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by turawaa(m): 7:37pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Go report to police station 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mercury12(m): 7:52pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Omo E be things o. |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Incredible128: 8:11pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
UjuJoan2:do u mean on the part of Nigerians? Because if u mean it so, u're wrong because it's a rampant thing abroad; in fact, there was a time BBC wrote about it; there, it was a Kenyan that ran the business it's not a Nigerian thing 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 8:45pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Incredible128: You are right about Kenyans, Nigerians still dey learn work when it comes to doing academic assignments for foreign students, is a huge industry there. 5 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by juniorstar(m): 8:45pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Dailyparrot:U no sabi say ppl for UK dey stingy...the economy make them so. 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Incredible128: 8:47pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Mindlog: |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 8:51pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Incredible128: When I lived in Nairobi, 2 neighbours of mine lived very comfortably off it.... PayPal dollars on the steady. 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Nhemzie17: 9:01pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Was about complaining why you gave like 3 different stories in one thread, then I saw your moniker and kept shut. 5 Likes |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by udomma1005(m): 9:04pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
PlayMaker14:Nope I don't think your advice is helpful, u check am nahh. The girl is a slowpoke going by the conversation, na the type wey dey lure her girlfriends to men for a fee, even though they will get raped or hurt wen she was in naija. She gats nothing to lose but op has something to lose in this assignment thingy. Best op to do nah to find small tip gum her hand then fry the billings for potential clients Dia head. If the werey girl cum relax trust am, soon e go dey send pots to pressing iron phones to TV to fridge to moto make OP dey sell am for am. Make him play chaff man till one day, market go close for afternoon 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by PlayMaker14: 9:06pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
udomma1005:Go back and read again... He is not under any obligation to give her one penny. 1 Like |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by MyCooperatecli: 9:11pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Nawa o nothing eye nogo see when you are a business person. Just find her something there's nothing there don't take it to heart |
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by udomma1005(m): 9:13pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:Kai nor advice OP dis kind thing nah, nah small children play be that. Let the OP stomach the rudeness, give her tips, expand his clientele, still dey give the Stewpid girl small cuts, after all him nor lose anything. Make him calm down make the werey girl be him UK connect, one day he go tidy the insolence, after all fu*k up nor dey sour, best served cold, infact very old & cold! 4 Likes |
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