Ologbo147:
is that only what you saw, you have this God tone in your write up( don't do this or that) like if you raised her or you are the standard of morality. You have other areas where you are lagging behind morally, no one is perfect. So stop this moral painting of your self as the standard, no one cares especially if it's not paying another person's bill. The standard generally should be the general guideline, so far they are not a threat to other lives and your life, you should be comfy with that, you did not take care of them and you are not responsible for their welfare my sister. Stop moral-shaming people and this holier than thou attitude

I'm not moral shaming anyone. We are only trying to advice them to stop immorality. It's getting too much.

What you dont know is if you don't stop them now, it will sooner or later begin to affect you directly or indirectly.

The late Atagas death did not affect him alone but his entire household and the girl who killed him too will have to face a death sentence which is also going to affect her family. So what exactly is your point? Or are you saying it's better to encourage morality and stop condeming the act because we are not God? You lie!

Abeg, shift!

Blessedmercy8:



I'm not moral shaming anyone. We are only trying to advice them to stop immorality. It's getting too much.

What you dont know is if you don't stop them now, it will sooner or later begin to affect you directly or indirectly.

The late Atagas death did not affect him alone but his entire household and the girl who killed him too will have to face a death sentence which is also going to affect her family. So what exactly is your point? Or are you saying it's better to encourage morality and stop condeming the act because we are not God? You lie!

Abeg, shift!

Hallo, are you a female?

ShaqFu:
If we want to call a spade by its real name, then it should be spade not prostitution.

See it this way. People usually mistake spade for shovel or shovel for spade. Both can literally be use to do the same thing. Now this illustration is the difference between hook-up and prostitution. Lol.

I disagree. Prostitution is prostitution and no amount of high fallutin words or rationalism can change the fact.

DoMeGood09:
Hallo, are you a female?

Yes I am. Any problem?

JooEeL:


Even married ones are into it. Why you dey do like jewman na?

lol I never hear this one.how married woman go Dey do hook up again.for cash or for fun?cos my wife doesn’t lack cash.but sex I no come know as I’m not always around

Don't forget that you may lose your vital organs in the process of hustling for N500k. Enjoy your life of pussy selling trade.

Blessedmercy8:



I'm not moral shaming anyone. We are only trying to advice them to stop immorality. It's getting too much.

What you dont know is if you don't stop them now, it will sooner or later begin to affect you directly or indirectly.

The late Atagas death did not affect him alone but his entire household and the girl who killed him too will have to face a death sentence which is also going to affect her family. So what exactly is your point? Or are you saying it's better to encourage morality and stop condeming the act because we are not God? You lie!

Abeg, shift!

The thing about late Atagas death is that there is work hazard everywhere where people fight and it might even lead to death, take for the national Assembly where they use hammer, guns and other dangerous equipment to fight. You are not their parents, you shouldn't have a say about how people live their lives. The country is hard and it is biting, most schools you talked about dont pay above 30,000 contrast it with the expenses in the country and you see the country is failed. The thing is the country is not well structured, that is the foundation not prostitution. If you cannot do the small you can to make sure that that person close to you gets a meal when he or she comes to ask. You are a faith alone Christian.

The expenses you face everyday, does not resonate with the money most legit companies pay as at today. For every Ataga that died, there are over 4 million prostitute who are taking care of families with it. We know if not this prostitution that is harmless, many of these male dependants would resort to crime such as yahoo, armed robbers. Many of these girls have junior brothers in school they take care of(both primary, secondary and tertiary). You don't know people's stories, so don't judge them mrs mary. If it is not paying the bills, why work for the sake of working to earn pittance.

You used Ataga as example, how many times have you criticized the conmen in this country, that will not disburse back to help alleviate the sufferings of the populace or the masses. These conmen in our society and the government are bigger vices, they have been responsible for hundreds of suicide and death in the country. Until you talk to them and about them and the economy of Nigeria increase positively. Prostitution will continually be a norm in the society and there is nothing you can do to change it,some of them have dependants.. Ewu

NaijaMutant:
The number of girls going into hook ups is geometrically increasing by the day.

It seems to be the easiest way out if this hellish economy for lazy girls
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If you are yet to marry, sorry for you.

Chances of marrying an ex-olosho is now at it's all time high.


God save us [/b]

This is very true. When things start getting hard for them in the business, they find the closest church, and become a member...they even become workers in the church, and they are very devoted. Before long, they find one brother to marry them. But some are not always that lucky.

Ologbo147:
But if she offer you her body, you go help her abi, hypocrites everywhere. The length and breadth of this talk is that you shouldn't have a say what someone does with his or her body. The reason why the op and other guys are concerned is not sincere, ( it is not care because they care about the moral situation in the society and country, but it is because they might get married to a prostitute and they would not even know, it is a selfish concern. Someone does not have to work for everything, as little as 2 thousand can go a long way. James said faith without work is dead. If someone comes to you hungry, and ask for your immediate help to eat , and you did not give and just said bless you, your faith is dead and you shouldn't have a say over how people turn out.

Thank you, you see I hate hypocrites so many of these people here on nairaland are bunch of hypocrites do you know that most of them are prostituting but when they are in public they will act like they are the most holiest creature in the universe.

I personally I am not a lady I am a guy and heaven knows that I patronise some of these girls if I am in the position to help them earn a decent living I will but I am not there yet but I don't condemn them these ladies only want to survive how are they worst than some boyfriend and girlfriend having sex almost on a regular basis when they are not married?

These people condemning hookers or Ashawo or whatever they call them don't they read their Bible's or Quran where in the Bible has been documented that having sex with your boyfriend and girlfriend is not a sin but having sex with any man for money is a sin these people are wicked .

skales67:


If you think men are the only ones who pay for sex in Nigeria, you are wrong! Women pay too.

I am an escort.

U are right. Married women pay. What's the pay

skales67:
The economy is biting hard abeg!

Me too i am into hookup here in Abuja and women patronize me.

They call me, I meet up with them, lash them wella and they pay me. I didn't chose that path but hardship did. I am an ICT engineer but jobs weren't forth coming so I sought for an alternative.

Nothing is as sweet as knácking a woman and she still wires your account after it. Some of them feel so shy after doing it tho

Married or single ladies

The hornnyness in Naija is too much sef!

Naija and fucck

Everywhere I turn na Kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa I go just dey hear. Both young and old, small and big, fine and ugly

What a sexual time we live in

teeshet:
i hear you charge 10k for short time. Cheap ho

You dey find my mouth but I will not come down to your level. Never. Go and channel your misery and frustration to those who caused it.

Don't bother replying because you will be roundly and soundly ignored.

Ologbo147:
My sister do what you have to survive, so far you are not hurting anybody, it's fine

Now I see why you're supporting evil. Im sure you checked her profile hence the support and all so you can taste what she displayed on her dp for you. Chai! SMH.

Shame!

Blessedmercy8:


Now I see why you're supporting evil. Im sure you checked her profile hence the support and all so you can taste what she displayed on her dp for you. Chai! SMH.

Shame!

If I ever check her profile pic, let me not find what I came to this life to look for

Bros which app be this?

Creditalerts:
Our girls are now potential olosho


Show of shame

Ologbo147:
If I ever check her profile pic, let me not find what I came to this life to look for

Now you can check make equation balance. Lol...

Stop encouraging evil. I'm sure you would never tell your own daughter to do anything to survive or are you the type of parents some talked about that they are the ones encouraging their children to do hookup?

Point of correction , MOST girls 95percent, not some

Blessedmercy8:
Some girls are now into hookup just because of money they can earn doing an honest job. SMH..

If I talk now, they'll say I should mind my business.

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Davidave:
I don't care what other people do, I just hope they use contraception and avoid diseases.

Why would someone pay that kind of money just to knack a lady? Sense should tell you theyre making more from the destinies of those ladies than what they're giving them. who has �, let him hear.

Blessedmercy8:


Yes I am. Any problem?

No no no. No problem. Was just curious.

Blessedmercy8:


Now you can check make equation balance. Lol...

Stop encouraging evil. I'm sure you would never tell your own daughter to do anything to survive or are you the type of parents some talked about that they are the ones encouraging their children to do hookup?

you know how many dem dae call for village,"sister send me money make I take buy book" sister send me money make I take eat. But they choose prostitution (which is the lesser evil) rather than commit suicide and leave their dependants for the society to bear the consequences.( The society would ordinarily not care about their depandants, so their depandants would grow up if not properly trained and take by force what they want from the society.

I know a lady in Benin, who takes care of her two younger brothers, one 10 the other 14 and sees them through school. she is 25. They are orphans, what do you expect me to tell her to do, POS, teaching, filling station work, which of them, how much can she realize from that and how will it help them to fend. I am a realist my sister, not a hypocrite. If she does not take care of them, those boys would grow up to become hooligans in the society. The best I can do for them is to advise her to stop maybe after they' ve gathered the capital for a business or something. Because men would ordinarily not give you money to start a business even when they have as a woman, but they would also want to have a say about how you live your life, it is ironic

Enumerator:
Point of correction , MOST girls 95percent, not some

Yes o. Most of them and it wasn't like this some 10years ago. That is why I'm crying out o. Abeg, e don too much.

As we go by years, it gets worsen, jesus should just come already and the world should come to an end already

Blessedmercy8:


Yes o. Most of them and it wasn't like this some 10years ago. That is why I'm crying out o. Abeg, e don too much.

Ologbo147:
you know how many dem dae call for village,"sister send me money make I take buy book" sister send me money make I take eat. But they choose prostitution (which is the lesser evil) rather than commit suicide and leave their dependants for the society to bear the consequences.( The society would ordinarily not care about their depandants, so their depandants would grow up if not properly trained and take by force what they want from the society.

I know a lady in Benin, who takes care of her two younger brothers, one 10 the other 14 and sees them through school. she is 25. They are orphans, what do you expect me to tell her to do, POS, teaching, filling station work, which of them, how much can she realize from that and how will it help them to fend. I am a realist my sister, not a hypocrite. If she does not take care of them, those boys would grow up to become hooligans in the society. The best I can do for them is to advise her to stop maybe after they' ve gathered the capital for a business or something. Because men would ordinarily not give you money to start a business even when they have as a woman, but they would also want to have a say about how you live your life, it is ironic

Nothing you will say will make me agree with you on your submissions justifying immorality and this has nothing to do with being a realist. You're only being the devil's advocate.

Good day!

Enumerator:
As we go by years, it gets worsen, jesus should just come already and the world should come to an end already

Amen. Let the trumpet sound already because this generation is not giving one any thing to look forward to. I fear for the future of the innocent ones.

Blessedmercy8:


Yes o. Most of them and it wasn't like this some 10years ago. That is why I'm crying out o. Abeg, e don too much.

When the root cause is addressed, it will reduce, that is what we should be talking about. It is like this now because of the ailing economy. 10 years ago, jonathan was in power, and the worth of 5000 then is the equivalent of 30,000 today. I am sorry, until the economy increases positively, you will continue to cry on deaf ears. I was told that man will do anything to survive when his or her survival is threatened. I did international studies and diplomacy in school. These areas, vices, causes,and the resultant effects are one of our major focuses. I was made to understand nothing comes close to man's survival. Man's interest Is selfish and it is first, man must survive whichever way it deems fit to him, that is the position of the realist school of thought

highchief1:
lol I never hear this one.how married woman go Dey do hook up again.for cash or for fun?cos my wife doesn’t lack cash.but sex I no come know as I’m not always around

Hookup is not always about money. It can be just for thrill, the excitement or hormones.

No man is always around his wife...and vice-versa. There will be times you will either have to visit your village, get transferred to a different branch, relocate first, travel out etc. That is enough time to do anything.

Even hours of work in a day. If you wake up and leave for work by 6am and you return by 6pm, can you vouch that your woman has done nothing for 12 hours in that day? Multiply that by 5 days of work in a week, and we're looking at 60 complete hours of being separate in just a week. And when you ask them if they've cheated while you were away, they will always come up with 10 reasons why they wouldn't do such. Sometimes you want to believe especially with their innocent face but your guts keep telling you no. At the very least person fit don kiss or smooch her brreasts. After all, the women / wives cheating are not aliens. They're peoples' wives too but everyone wan deceive himself say no o, hin own dey different.

If she goes to her own work too, let's say she's a teacher. Can you guarantee what happens before getting to work? What about during break time? Or if she gets into a tinted ride with her fellow teacher? Baba, na hookup be that too na. She may still get cash / gifts ontop only that as an elderly woman, she may not get into specific money figures as demand.

We are all in trouble, baba mi.

;DThis guy too savings I swear
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Antimarraige:
That's what we want, more spoiled girls, when they are much their price will be going down small small. I implore all girls to tap into the Hookup industry. Pussy makes the world go round

lesbianclara:


Thank you, you see I hate hypocrites so many of these people here on nairaland are bunch of hypocrites do you know that most of them are prostituting but when they are in public they will act like they are the most holiest creature in the universe.

I personally I am not a lady I am a guy and heaven knows that I patronise some of these girls if I am in the position to help them earn a decent living I will but I am not there yet but I don't condemn them these ladies only want to survive how are they worst than some boyfriend and girlfriend having sex almost on a regular basis when they are not married?

These people condemning hookers or Ashawo or whatever they call them don't they read their Bible's or Quran where in the Bible has been documented that having sex with your boyfriend and girlfriend is not a sin but having sex with any man for money is a sin these people are wicked .

So you're not even a girl? And you're talking of going into prostitution... You're no different from them, male or female as long as you have that same mentality of survival.

JooEeL:


Hookup is not always about money. It can be just for thrill, the excitement or hormones.

No man is always around his wife...and vice-versa. There will be times you will either have to visit your village, get transferred to a different branch, relocate first, travel out etc. That is enough time to do anything.

Even hours of work in a day. If you wake up and leave for work by 6am and you return by 6pm, can you vouch that your woman has done nothing for 12 hours in that day? Multiply that by 5 days of work in a week, and we're looking at 60 complete hours of being separate in just a week. And when you ask them if they've cheated while you were away, they will always come up with 10 reasons why they wouldn't do such. Sometimes you want to believe especially with their innocent face but your guts keep telling you no. At the very least person fit don kiss or smooch her brreasts. After all, the women / wives cheating are not aliens. They're peoples' wives too but everyone wan deceive himself say no o, hin own dey different.

If she goes to her own work too, let's say she's a teacher. Can you guarantee what happens before getting to work? What about during break time? Or if she gets into a tinted ride with her fellow teacher? Baba, na hookup be that too na. She may still get cash / gifts ontop only that as an elderly woman, she may not get into specific money figures as demand.

We are all in trouble, baba mi.

except she wan just enter another person car my wife use the highest of cars in her office.i no Dey reason am o I’m always out of the country.i have 3 kids boys.i believe I have succeeded honestly anyone she like do e no really concern me again.after all if man eventually die leave her Shebi she go begin fork anyhow.who Dey bother em self about women na em know.

Blessedmercy8:


So you're not even a girl? And you're talking of going into prostitution... You're no different from them, male or female as long as you have that same mentality of survival.

It's not about having it, the "mentality" as you call it is subconscious.man's basic interest is survival, until he survives, before he can think of other things such as morality. The survival we are talking about primarily is food, then shelter and clothing follows as secondary.

It’s a pandemic in the country at the moment and the reasons I’d ascribe to it are varying high unemployment rate coupled with the poor state of the Nigerian economy,insatiable greed and avarice,laziness and materialism,men’s proclivities for debauchery abounding sex-maniacs,erroneous belief-systems of most Gen-z and some millennials that sex should be monetized and traded.Voyeurism,Survival for the ones from abject families and economically disadvantaged background,lastly penchant for quick and easy money amongst these body selling girls.

It’s truly astounding and saddening that this how low how society as descended and that a lot of our girl have resorted to trading their body as the only means of earning a living.