ratiken:
To the average hook up girl out there, the issue is not the present. The damage of prostitution is in the future
1. They can’t do any legit jobs anymore unless it pays better. And very few legit jobs pay better
2. When age catches up with them, life becomes frustrating and almost unbearable
3. Over time they become insatiable… sexually and financially
4. At the current pace, there will be an oversupply of prostitutes without commensurate increase in the financial capacity of potential customers. It’s happening already but will hit its climax in about 3yrs.
5. High body count most time reflects high negative energies. It could significantly impact who comes in contact in ways they cannot physically explain
6. High risk on safety, stds, health concerns
7. How will a prostitute raise a normal child? This is biggest challenge to the nation. Women are the bedrock of many societies. The future of the Nigerian society is looking terrible

Key Lesson: If you can, ensure you do not raise your girl child in Nigeria.

You will go far In Life...if you improve on this your innate intelligence..

You re jealous of your sisters who are industrious!.They will soon settle down in their husbands house, while you go dey vex.

highchief1:
lol bro no be woman own e Dey me.na hustle I Dey.it’s difficult to see me sad or moody when I have money.now since I have kids my attention is on my kids.if my wife is smart she would notice that I’m just all for d kids.like a Supreme Court judge,I have ruled on women.but as long as she’s under my roof she has everything she needs o but my mind is not really der.Thank God I’m already married if not with my current mindset I for no marry.i for just born raise my kid rest.na the same thing.

Alright bro u make sense.

Please under what form of arrangement can a father have kids and take ownership of them? Cos I think most time, women usually lay claim to the kids. I'm talking of Western countries now.

MelesZanawi:


Mark today's date.
I can see something very clearly. You will soon go on hookup and won't come back. I can see that you're a mistress of various hookup sites.
Insult me all you like but you will always remember this post.
Protect yourself, don't go.

Who's this fool?
How is me doing hookup affecting your life??

Creditalerts:
Our girls are now potential olosho


Show of shame

Tell me the name of this site bro

Blessedmercy8:


Ok.

What do you do for a living?

highchief1:
if I tell u wetin happen to my 7yrs relationship u go weak.we won best couple awards in uni.we were like 5n6.fast foward to nysc I paid her unplanned visit and caught her with a man in her house the relationship crashed immediately.this is someone that when I was close to her house I called her and was asking her how she was faring with my absence she said she can’t wait to see me bla bla bla.then to marriage.i stumbled into my wife’s chat on WhatsApp and saw a cleared chat.o asked her who is this and why was the message cleared.she said it’s our 2yrs old child that cleared the chat.i laughed.not deleted chat o but cleared chat.some adults uptil now don’t know how to clear chat but she said a 2yrs old boy cleared the chat.ok na who is the guy she said it’s her old uni friend that he ran into him when he visited her office.since that day,I removed my mind from her.we are happily married,but I can’t vouch for her anymore.i am not bothered by whatever.i cheat sufficiently so im living my life.in all this one day person go die leave both the wife and kids.i no see anything too special in this life.

My brother, once you are sure that your kids are indeed yours DNA wise, forget the rest. The whole thing don cast long ago.
I pity those guys who over trust women.

JooEeL:


Alright bro u make sense.

Please under what form of arrangement can a father have kids and take ownership of them? Cos I think most time, women usually lay claim to the kids. I'm talking of Western countries now.

we no Dey western world.if I give girl belle I go collect my pikin.Nthg that happens abroad happens in Nigeria.it’s like those one dem Dey say after divorce the woman and the man will share the man property u don see am once here.all my guys when don divorce pursue thier wife’s comot for their house.we no Dey abroad bros.

AreaFada2:


My brother, once you are sure that your kids are indeed yours DNA wise, forget the rest. The whole thing don cast long ago.
I pity those guys who over trust women.

dna na for pikin when u no understand.if I even carry my kids go dna lab the lab pll go tell me say no need.if u see my kids u don see me.

Money is everything.... Stop deceiving ursef.

DoMeGood09:
What do you do for a living?

Why?

teeshet:
do you know some are into coded hookup. And they have boyfriends that will marry them eventually

Very well .. Some of the guys know too,dey will be forming I forgive her,nobody is perfect. Some boys mumu o

MelesZanawi:


Be like na hookup this one mama take born am. Very stupid fellow.

If your mama no marry your papa as virgin then your generation and h0eing Mvm is a F00l.

Go home and ask her who t00k her virginit¥

Blessedmercy8:

Imagine... We are trying to condemn something bad so people viewing will desist from the act, shes coming to justify the evil with one mumu hunger.

See all this young girls? They don't want to work.
All the young girls that resumed in some of my schools left that same month as soon as they collected their pay and these are good schools that don't owe. Now, tell me, is that not laziness?

These girls as long as they know they can easily make money with their bodies will find it difficult to retain a legit job. That's is why she's already thinking of nonsense instead of praying that God gives her a job and practically go out in search of one.

At a point in my life back then, I was crashing into offices and schools asking if there was opening after my emails were not replied. One school even told me they can only pay 5k then, I accepted yet they still told me they will get back to me. The same day I entered another school, no food for stomach o. It was the last one that now offered me a job for 18k this was precisely 2014. So why can't she go scouting for legit job?

Last week here I still went scouting for more schools so I can assign someone else to the ones that are not paying well because bills are increasing and I need to step up my game. The suffer I suffered to get there, I was almost crying because no bike to shorten the trekking.

The message you're passing is very good. But while at it, endeavor to focus on improving your life. Pray to God for direction, be bold, learn high income skills and take bold steps to improve your income. Because if you're still telling the same story since 2014, you're not really inspiring.

JooEeL:


I am close to the age that men marry, for that reason, I can say over half of my friends are married.

Some of them beg me for money. For one of them, his wife controls him. Celebrates her birthday, her child's birthday, but care less about the man's birthday. Some of them tell me they kinda suspect their wife was flirtatious in the past. Some of them don't even get as much sex as they thought they would.

Some of the things they tell me, like, I just cant believe it. The thing I can say is this. The marriage they go into, I think its not really cos of sex. I think its because of the fear of being alone, till old age, more for companionship and facing life struggles as two, and the fear of loneliness.

Me, I'm currently engaged and I met my woman a v. For that reason, I wouldn't cheat on her. But if my rlnshp should crash and I eventually marry another, God knows I would run with the assumption that my woman has a dirty past. Likely a prostitute etc. And me, having been a good guy for so long in my life (never cheated), I don't think I would want to be a loser in life. So Im sure you could guess the things I will likely do.

You're typing like someone who's brain dead.

To born girl just come tire person.

nenyewrites:


The message you're passing is very good. But while at it, endeavor to focus on improving your life. Pray to God for direction, be bold, learn high income skills and take bold steps to improve your income. Because if you're still telling the same story since 2014, you're not really inspiring.

God has changed my story for the better. I don't need to tell you what I'm earning now just to drive home my point or make you see how successful I am.

That I said I went scouting for schools last week doesn't mean I'm still on the same spot.
That's not the point I'm trying to make here anyways. All I'm am about is contentment and legitimate hustle.

I can tell u for free that if anyman gives u 500k just to sleep with u, babe run with ur life because the second time he invites you, you eyes, the oranges on your chest and you kpekus might go for it. Such men don't dole out that amount for the fun if it!

Blessedmercy8:


That too but what about getting killed? A stranger just calls you up and you feel free to go meet them where you don't know and you people don't see anything wrong in it?

Well, you won't condemn the act because you too are into it.

Why am I even wasting my time.

Exactly!

Please, don't waste your time.
I don't talk much here again than just read news headlines to know what's going on. We have more foolish and morally decayed generation than ever!

vickydevoka:

Hiv is now much in Abuja

Not only in Abuja oo. It's spreading like wildfire nationwide now. I was at the FMOH recently where the head of laboratory was lamenting...saying the number of cases they receive daily from government hospitals alone calls for a concern. Most of these people doing hookups are victims. Some are quite aware they have it but look innocent, same as guys who know they have it. Anyone who Goes to the heart to heart centre in those hospitals wouid be shocked with the crowd waiting to collect their ARVs, mostly youths clean guys and girls looking miserable. A word is enough for the wife.

There's a lot of dangers inherent is sex sef. Infections, bad luck, deaths, spiritual attacks, etc. Some of those ladies are demonic. Guys too are diabolical. Once they sleep with a girl, she might not live to see the next day. The devil is using sex to destroy people's lives but they don't know.

The moment you start having illegitimate sex, you'd not be able to pray again, if you're the prayerful type. In those days, there were some rituals they'd do...maybe to appease gods or sanitize the town...they'd say its only a kid who has not had any sex before( a virgin) who must carry that ritual. Some people would be warned never to sleep with a woman if they want to retain their power or charm for long. There's an unseen destructive power in illegitimate sex. Even to the married ones, you don't do this all the time. If you're fasting and you're having sex in-between you shouldn't expect anything.

I've lost a lot if opportunities in life because of sex cos I used to like women. The day God rescued my life, everything changed. I recovered all my lost glory and that's why I've always discouraged people from engaging in this act cos not many of them could be lucky like me. Though I was very nice to all those girls I had met with, I still didn't find it easy leaving the act until i was delivered. One thing I used to do each time I lodge in a hotel is, I'd pray and sanctify all corners and everything in the room with prayers before i sleep whether I'm seeing a girl or not. One night in abuja I invited an old friend. She came to pass the night with me. I had not even touched her. I went into a short sleep and all of a sudden, I saw her with an ax, the moment she raised it up to hit me in the head...I scramed and woke up. This girl was just looking at me strangely. Till tiday, I don't know where she is cos she avoided me totally. Many had died in hotels in such a mysterious manner.

There was another night in owerri where I went to work. There was this fine girl i once met. I invited her. She first went into sleep while i was writing my report. Suddenly I heard....no, no, no, I can't touch him, he's a pastor. She opened her eyes that moment and went back to sleep. I was like...this one was on a mission.

In another encounter, I slept and saw a group of ladies punishing one guy. They were beating him seriously. He was almost passing out so I intervened. I begged them to stop beating him. Their leader now faced me and asked me to mind my business. She said if not the fact that I was a nice person, they'd have also treated me same way. She now continued flogging him. This was a long time ago. Sex is dangerous.

Temi2468:


Exactly!

Please, don't waste your time.
I don't talk much here again than just read news headlines to know what's going on. We have more foolish and morally decayed generation than ever!

Yeah. You're right. With this post Ive come to realize that.

Thank you.

Blessedmercy8:


Yeah. You're right. With this post Ive come to realize that.

Thank you.

You're welcome my brother.

Blessedmercy8:


I'm not surprised you don't see anything wrong in this cos you're not even in touch with reality.

Blessedmercy8:
Some girls are now into hookup just because of money they can earn doing an honest job. SMH..

If I talk now, they'll say I should mind my business.

Watch Video: https://fb.watch/gLvQQzdvbc/

the rate of prostitution these days is alarming.

Eriokanmi:
Not only in Abuja oo. It's spreading like wildfire nationwide now. I was at the FMOH recently where the head of laboratory was lamenting...saying the number of cases they receive daily from government hospitals alone calls for a concern. Most of these people doing hookups are victims. Some are quite aware they have it but look innocent, same as guys who know they have it. Anyone who Goes to the heart to heart centre in those hospitals wouid be shocked with the crowd waiting to collect their ARVs, mostly youths clean guys and girls looking miserable. A word is enough for the wife.

There's a lot of dangers inherent is sex sef. Infections, bad luck, deaths, spiritual attacks, etc. Some of those ladies are demonic. Guys too are diabolical. Once they sleep with a girl, she might not live to see the next day. The devil is using sex to destroy people's lives but they don't know.

The moment you start having illegitimate sex, you'd not be able to pray again, if you're the prayerful type. In those days, there were some rituals they'd do...maybe to appease gods or sanitize the town...they'd say its only a kid who has not had any sex before( a virgin) who must carry that ritual. Some people would be warned never to sleep with a woman if they want to retain their power or charm for long. There's an unseen destructive power in illegitimate sex. Even to the married ones, you don't do this all the time. If you're fasting and you're having sex in-between you shouldn't expect anything.

I've lost a lot if opportunities in life because of sex cos I used to like women. The day God resfued my life, everything changed. I recovered all my lost glory and that's why I've always discouraged people from engaging in this act cos not many of them could be lucky like me. Though I was very nice to all those girls I had met with, I still didn't find it easy leaving the act until inwas delivered. One thing I used to do each time I lodge in a hotel is, I'd pray and sanctify all corners and everything in the room with prayers before i sleep whether I'm seeing a girl or not. One night in abuja I invited an old friend. She came to pass the night with me. I had not even touched her. I went into a short sleep and all of a sudden, I saw her with an ax, the moment she raised it up to hit me in the head...I scramed and woke up. This girl was just looking at me strangely. Till tiday, I don't know where she is cos she avoided me totally. Many had died in hotels in such a mysterious manner.

There was another night in owerri where I went to work. There was this fine girl i once met. I invited her. She first went into sleep while i was writing my report. Suddenly I heard....no, no, no, I can't touch him, he's a pastor. She opened her eyes that moment and went back to sleep. I was like...this one was on a mission.

In another encounter, I spelt and saw a group of ladies punishing one guy. They were beating him seriously. He was almost passing out so I intervened. I begged them to stop beating him. Their leader now faced me and asked me to mind my business. She said if not the fact that I was a nice person, they'd have also treated me same way. She now continued flogging him. This was a long time ago. Sex is dangerous.

Omo I didn’t do taste b4 leaving Abuja to oversee because fear no gree me. Too much unprotected sex. Getting drunk or after clubbing sex is dangerous. You can’t even remember condom. Some of this gals are evil they will just grab it and slide it in. They always say de hate condom . They present state of Nigeria you can’t even get married, even when you are dating you might be dating a hooker

Eriokanmi:
Not only in Abuja oo. It's spreading like wildfire nationwide now. I was at the FMOH recently where the head of laboratory was lamenting...saying the number of cases they receive daily from government hospitals alone calls for a concern. Most of these people doing hookups are victims. Some are quite aware they have it but look innocent, same as guys who know they have it. Anyone who Goes to the heart to heart centre in those hospitals wouid be shocked with the crowd waiting to collect their ARVs, mostly youths clean guys and girls looking miserable. A word is enough for the wife.

There's a lot of dangers inherent is sex sef. Infections, bad luck, deaths, spiritual attacks, etc. Some of those ladies are demonic. Guys too are diabolical. Once they sleep with a girl, she might not live to see the next day. The devil is using sex to destroy people's lives but they don't know.

The moment you start having illegitimate sex, you'd not be able to pray again, if you're the prayerful type. In those days, there were some rituals they'd do...maybe to appease gods or sanitize the town...they'd say its only a kid who has not had any sex before( a virgin) who must carry that ritual. Some people would be warned never to sleep with a woman if they want to retain their power or charm for long. There's an unseen destructive power in illegitimate sex. Even to the married ones, you don't do this all the time. If you're fasting and you're having sex in-between you shouldn't expect anything.

I've lost a lot if opportunities in life because of sex cos I used to like women. The day God resfued my life, everything changed. I recovered all my lost glory and that's why I've always discouraged people from engaging in this act cos not many of them could be lucky like me. Though I was very nice to all those girls I had met with, I still didn't find it easy leaving the act until inwas delivered. One thing I used to do each time I lodge in a hotel is, I'd pray and sanctify all corners and everything in the room with prayers before i sleep whether I'm seeing a girl or not. One night in abuja I invited an old friend. She came to pass the night with me. I had not even touched her. I went into a short sleep and all of a sudden, I saw her with an ax, the moment she raised it up to hit me in the head...I scramed and woke up. This girl was just looking at me strangely. Till tiday, I don't know where she is cos she avoided me totally. Many had died in hotels in such a mysterious manner.

There was another night in owerri where I went to work. There was this fine girl i once met. I invited her. She first went into sleep while i was writing my report. Suddenly I heard....no, no, no, I can't touch him, he's a pastor. She opened her eyes that moment and went back to sleep. I was like...this one was on a mission.

In another encounter, I slept and saw a group of ladies punishing one guy. They were beating him seriously. He was almost passing out so I intervened. I begged them to stop beating him. Their leader now faced me and asked me to mind my business. She said if not the fact that I was a nice person, they'd have also treated me same way. She now continued flogging him. This was a long time ago. Sex is dangerous.

Sex is dangerous but no be for who the American o. Bcus en no go believe your story

vickydevoka:

Sex is dangerous but no be for who the American o. Bcus en no go believe your story

I don live for that America before and I'm a regular visitor. None amongst them who engaged in sex ever made it through in life. Just check it. The celebs amongst them who do it end up going down...rape cases and blackmail have ruined the lives of many

lesbianclara:
The person that posted this is very useless

If this same lady put on her social media handle now that she is broke and needs help how many of you will help her out ?

No one will take her serious now she is doing whatever she can to put food in her stomach and you are insulting her may God punish you idiot.


On this same nairaland forum just yesterday I asked Nigerians for help let me get something to eat up till this very moment there has been no comment on that post even after 49 views no one cared to ask me just one question to know how they can help despite the fact that I even gave out my account number in public.

So if I decide to go and do prostitution later you will start calling me shameless isn't it ?

Madam, no one owe you anything. If you want to prostitute yourself because of little inconvenience, go do it and bear the consequence(s)

OdefaGirl:
Na their business......
Guys make una dey advice una sisters na, abi you no fit because you dey do illegit buz?
Advice them, threaten them they would be disowned or something and help them out with a little job ...... Do your job as a brother

Nicely Put...

Eriokanmi:
I don live for that America before and I'm a regular visitor. None amongst them who engaged in sex ever made it through in life. Just check it. The celebs amongst them who do it end up going down...rape cases and blackmail have ruined the lives of many

Rape cases is different from winch cases.

Sex wey cheap everywhere

Of course I do, but do you think I'll now because of that to sleep with just about anything in skirt or trousers? Many Nigerian men spend a lot of money on sex with these women who are only there for the money. I won't lie, I used to be like that, but I just sat down and thought, how long will this continue. Besides I don't even have feelings for the woman I'm banging, yet she will still collect my money. Why not I get a good girl and shower her with love and stay faithful to her. It's doable, it just depends on the level of understanding you have with your babe. I can't date a babe me and her don't connect oh. I'd rather remain single.

teeshet:
do you have urges