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Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by IyaTola: 9:49am On Nov 14, 2022 |
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts. Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many..... 61 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Rubyjade: 9:53am On Nov 14, 2022 |
A friend that went to Japan shared his experience on this. Most of the young fellas think marriage is like a bondage wound up with a lot of responsibility. You see that responsibility is what most of them are not ready for. Our culture here is helping in this regard. 217 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Orgasmgiver123(m): 9:55am On Nov 14, 2022 |
IyaTola:Reason me one of those your cousin nau I go take care of her oh I dey able and capable to put food for her table and even make her comfortable without timetable, our children go be uncountable, we go balance ontop high table Damn... nasty... I'm out of here 320 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by 3nity7: 9:57am On Nov 14, 2022 |
IyaTola:what is happening to your aunties in their 50's 35 Likes |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Raalsalghul: 10:01am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Rubyjade: Your post is incoherent, you might need to rephrase for a better understanding. 139 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by HarlequinLekex: 10:07am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Shift abeg if you marry or not na u know 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Rubyjade: 10:09am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Read it slowly Raalsalghul: 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Rubyjade: 10:10am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Abroad isn’t friendly for our single women, they’re seen as the lowest perk for serious relationships. Unfortunately, most naija guys just use them for only sexual pleasure. Forget the packaging and flaunting stuff online, no serious guy abroad in their DMs. Stories plenty. Sadly. HarlequinLekex: 94 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Oyindamolah: 10:17am On Nov 14, 2022 |
The Naija man's options are multiple especially when they are outside the country SADLY; the white man's options are 'double multiple'. If he doesn't want his like, he'll consider Latin America, Asia, indians, etc Even in Africa, Nigerian women are at the bottom of the perking order, thanks to Nairaland men. The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship. 206 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Oyindamolah: 10:22am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123: 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Orgasmgiver123(m): 10:24am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Oyindamolah:Oyinda Se o wa omo elewa Aburo shalewa Omo iya alamala se o ni number number to fi n se WhatsApp Chubby girl How far nau 34 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by lavylilly: 10:27am On Nov 14, 2022 |
The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience. She said nothing but the fact. Have experienced this issue. Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo Beautiful thing ; 1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend. 2. Bills are split even on first date 3. You don’t pay anyones transport 4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship 5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage 6. You must ask if she is into men/women 210 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Nobody: 10:29am On Nov 14, 2022 |
IyaTola: ¹ltrue true true. U dyamm right about dat...plenty of beautiful men here in pekam London sir!(true story) 7 Likes |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Raalsalghul: 10:33am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Rubyjade: How many are ready to go out on Dutch dates? How many can at least smile and be friendly when approached by men like their white counterparts? How many of them are sociable: clubs, pubs, art exhibitions? How many are willing to drop that sense of entitlement? Your answer lies in the above. When in Rome, behave like the Romans. 135 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:13pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
E ma ji tweets o ni tweets kiri o. E te pa, ese ati ise si. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:17pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Oyindamolah: You're beautiful, if that's really you @ your pfp. ❤ 3 Likes |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by lavylilly: 2:56pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
What are you sayiing? Magnoliaa: 4 Likes |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Magnoliaa(f): 2:57pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
lavylilly: I dey kabash. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by lavylilly: 3:00pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
In Nigeria, your partner go dey call you at least 2x a day. You go still dey vex say e no text you. Outside Nigeria, three weeks! Your phone is silent. Nothing from your so-called partner. After, they fit hit you up randomly, “What’s up?” Some will just stop talking to you without giving you any cogent reason. Some would pull out of dates without saying a word Shey you dey whyne me ni? 108 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by SavageBoy: 3:10pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Seems like one account is just pasting all of the comments from Rinu's twitter post about this topic here 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Gerrard59(m): 9:13pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Oyindamolah: That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked. - What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men? - Which countries do they come from? - What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)? 100 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by PlayMaker14: 9:26pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Replied. |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by IyaTola: 9:01am On Nov 15, 2022 |
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Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Rubyjade: 10:06am On Nov 16, 2022 |
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Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Oyindamolah: 4:30pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
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Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by saladinnoir: 5:12pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
Gerrard59: Middle aged white women fat and or below average looking white girls women of other african nationalities women that have had it hard in life and want to be taken care of (in a way this is all women but some ,more than others), to answer your question. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Gerrard59(m): 10:32pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
saladinnoir: Good. In that case, Nigerian men are not top of the food chain regarding dating when abroad. Isn't that the reason they lament of lack of sexual partners aka knack o before going to the abroad? These men believe the 5K or 10K they give to young girls in Nigeria can be replicated abroad, but it is a lie. You want to use money to buy the heart of a Swiss girl? How much does he have to do such? 75 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by culf: 3:58am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Na who get mind dey marry oooo!!! 9 Likes |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Nobody: 7:54am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Most Nigerian women are on the thick side and some obese, so you don't expect a white guy to go after them considering that they have their own definition of what beauty is to them. Now, if you are fat or chubby according to the west standard, do not properly put your wigs on, hardly wear makeup, do not go out then how are western guys gonna look at you In regards to Nigerian guys and dating abroad. It is difficult, sometimes Nigerian guys want to date Nigerian girls but their rude and aggressive attitude put them off. Another dynamic is survival, coming from a poor country where survival is the game, the Nigerian guy mind is to meet a foreigner and entangle them towards a relationship so that they can be legal. The Nigerian girls loses out if all her men are looking for foreign women to date 93 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by Nobody: 8:04am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Gerrard59: Nigerian guys that don't get sex abroad, just look at them, the way they dress, their fitness level, how they live, literally who is gonna date a fresh off the boat who looks weird and cant speak properly 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigeria And Abroad Dating? by IyaTola: 9:09am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Gidem! Gerrard59: |
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