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Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Mercury12(m): 5:44am On Nov 21, 2022
Okay. Goodluck
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by nokspos: 6:36am On Nov 21, 2022
make sure the second wife is working or atleast doing something ... and most importantly make sure she is spiritually inclined
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for over 5years now but honestly I'm really tired of alot of her attitudes, strong head, rebellion, disrespect, and others. I don't know how to end the marriage peacefully due to the relationship i have with her family and also i'm somehow scared of her uncontrollable anger which might force her to wanna harm me. Sometimes i will want to take action(s) not minding the relationship between i have with her family but PITY is what hinders me most often because we have 3 kids together. But lately i just thought of getting a second wife so that if she isn't okay with it, she can go on her own. I'm not really financially buoyant the way you might begin to think or imagine but I'm contented with the little i have since i can feed another mouth (second wife).

What do you think guys? Please I need advice, no insult please.
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by udomonday: 9:49am On Nov 21, 2022
Zonefree:


With this, you have my full support, go ahead and marry a second wife and shame the devil.
and make sure she taste the food she gives you because poisoning you is nothing at all to her as soon as she suspects you of marrying another woman.

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Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Brownshoe: 10:03am On Nov 21, 2022
Marry 3, 3 is good
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for over 5years now but honestly I'm really tired of alot of her attitudes, strong head, rebellion, disrespect, and others. I don't know how to end the marriage peacefully due to the relationship i have with her family and also i'm somehow scared of her uncontrollable anger which might force her to wanna harm me. Sometimes i will want to take action(s) not minding the relationship between i have with her family but PITY is what hinders me most often because we have 3 kids together. But lately i just thought of getting a second wife so that if she isn't okay with it, she can go on her own. I'm not really financially buoyant the way you might begin to think or imagine but I'm contented with the little i have since i can feed another mouth (second wife).

What do you think guys? Please I need advice, no insult please.
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:17pm On Nov 21, 2022
Is it that, if you marry a second wife, your wife's terrible attitude will cease to exist? Lol pls marry another wife without her knowing, the terrible attitude will become very deadly immediately.

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Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Pakwel(m): 12:28pm On Nov 21, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Your daughters will be single mothers in Jesus name.

Don't mention me in your rubbish again.
Lol. I was so waiting for a reply from you or the other one. E show say e pain you
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Owologbo(m): 1:31pm On Nov 21, 2022
fyzaila:
Wait wait are you my colleagues? This your situation is very similar to my colleague's own. The only difference is that he has 2 kids while you have 3 kids. He is equally having the same issues with his wife and already planning to marry a 2nd wife.

As i told him, when it comes to matters like this, follow your heart bro! If two will bring peace go ahead. But they two wives have to stay apart oo far apart sef very very important. This is for your sanity sake.

I was told by wise man that if you must marry more than one wife, go for three.
Two can gang up against you, but three can never succeed; one must betray the other two.
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by MummyCares: 1:53pm On Nov 21, 2022
So who is stopping you? Go ahead please. Your family, your problem.
The best people to advice you are the ones from a polygamous home. But if you seriously desire it, go ahead, because experience is the best teacher.
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Savedday: 1:57pm On Nov 21, 2022
The earlier you realize that all 9ja girls are Oloshio the better for you.

Staying married to them restrict their steady Oloshio biz hence, their attitude to frustrate u.

Divorce her B4 she stab you to death while u are asleep.

9ja girls, very useless and evil!
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by olaeffect(m): 2:12pm On Nov 21, 2022
cobby14:
My dad married 4 wives and few years back but now he seems happy without any.

This is deep.
I wonder what OP wants to achieve by marrying another woman.
One is trouble already for him and he wants to make it 2.
OP please look for other things to engage yourself with, you already have 3 kids.
Build good relationship with your children, take them out, spend time with them outside the house away from your wife more, make her feel vividly and outrightly that you value her fruits more than her.
And please don't let anybody guilt-trip you; have one or two side-chics to relief stress with no strings attached.

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Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by olaeffect(m): 2:16pm On Nov 21, 2022
Savedday:
The earlier you realize that all 9ja girls are Oloshio the better for you.

Staying married to them restrict their steady Oloshio biz hence, their attitude to frustrate u.

Divorce her B4 she stab you to death while u are asleep.

9ja girls, very useless and evil!

Divorce her and marry a Cameroonian?
Because OP is planning to marry another Nigerian I guess, and you are here typing all these...

Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Sammy101111(m): 2:18pm On Nov 21, 2022
If it will bring you peace go for it
Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by cobby14(m): 2:44pm On Nov 21, 2022
cobby14:
My dad married 4 wives and few years later but now he seems happy without any.

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