Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...

Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.

Early this year, my guys back home started telling me how they often see her in club royale partying with friends. I didnt take this serious untill I started to noticed some strange whenever I called her. She stopped doing video call with me without reasons, and there are times when we would have plan to have some sexy talks on phone during the night and she would dissapoint. I asked her about the party things and she excused that with loneliness. I planned to go visit Naija by December because I missed my daughter and wife too, but tbh, I dont know the situation of things as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me. And I have not inform her yet of my coming home.

NB: for clarification F1 in this case is a student permit. I used this so everyone could understand since F1 is mostly common in the USA

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Naijapolitics03:
Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...

Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.

Early this year, my guys back home started telling me how they often see her in club royale partying with friends. I didnt take this serious untill I started to noticed some strange whenever I called her. She stopped doing video call with me without reasons, and there are times when we would have plan to have some sexy talks on phone during the night and she would dissapoint. I asked her about the party things and she excused that with loneliness. I planned to go visit Naija by December because I missed my daughter and wife too, but tbh, I dont know the situation of things as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me. And I have not inform her yet of my coming home.

Has she cheated while you were in Nigeria? Because it might not necessarily be what you're suspecting

Osewa03:


Has she cheated while you were in Nigeria? Because it might not necessarily be what you're suspecting

For her to move back and complains of boriness ,it shows she is the lazy type.
Please,let her be and focus more on the children and the future.

Keep praying for her to have a change of heart.

Either in Naija or Canada, that woman is a philanderer.

She no be like person wey ready to stay husband house.

Folowomuke:


For her to move back and complains of boriness ,it shows she is the lazy type.
Please,let her be and focus more on the children and the future.

Keep praying for her to have a change of heart.

She can't work with an F2 Visa in Canada. She'll be indoor while her husband will go work. It might not be a case of laziness. And is the husband treating her good is also another question one should ask

All I can say is that, it is well ooo... This matter tie gele!!!
Come and get your daughter if you can biko

This is a tread for family section or romance. Not travel section

Osewa03:


She can't work with an F2 Visa in Canada. She'll be indoor while her husband will go work. It might not be a case of laziness. And is the husband treating her good is also another question one should ask

so if her husband is not treating her "good", she should start cheating and clubbing without his knowledge? Hmm

Naijapolitics03:
Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...

Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.

Early this year, my guys back home started telling me how they often see her in club royale partying with friends. I didnt take this serious untill I started to noticed some strange whenever I called her. She stopped doing video call with me without reasons, and there are times when we would have plan to have some sexy talks on phone during the night and she would dissapoint. I asked her about the party things and she excused that with loneliness. I planned to go visit Naija by December because I missed my daughter and wife too, but tbh, I dont know the situation of things as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me. And I have not inform her yet of my coming home.

guy remove your mind there, just make sure that your daughter and future children with her are biologically yours. Don't ever bring her back to Canada and don't be stupid enough to relocate back to Nigeria now with the current socioeconomic situation. Work hard and save money should be your motto now. Be very discrete and diplomatic in checking the true paternity of your children, don't annoy an innocent woman by mistake.

greenermodels:
so if her husband is not treating her "good", she should start cheating and clubbing without his knowledge? Hmm

That's not what I meant. She has no excuse to cheat.

as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me

So, you're still using "probably" ?

Osewa03:


That's not what I meant. She has no excuse to cheat.

An average Nigerian girl does not go about searching for excuse to cheat. To cheat is in their gene.

Osewa03:


She can't work with an F2 Visa in Canada. She'll be indoor while her husband will go work. It might not be a case of laziness. And is the husband treating her good is also another question one should ask

Canada doesn't have a F1 Visa which makes the story a bit doubtful but I wouldn't doubt fully because he might have used the term so that everyone can understand he is on a student visa. In Canada, the dependent of a student can work on a Spousal Open Work Permit thus, she could have picked up a job even if it is part time.

I was about to ask if we are talking of the same Canada. The spouse of a student is entitled to an open work permit.

GboyegaD:


Canada doesn't have a F1 Visa which makes the story a bit doubtful but I wouldn't doubt fully because he might have used the term so that everyone can understand he is on a student visa. In Canada, the dependent of a student can work on a Spousal Open Work Permit thus, she could have picked up a job even if it is part time.

Canada F1 visa No such visa exists. Fake story

Most stories on Nl are as fake as my non stick pan.
If your story is true then you are married to yourself op. Which good wife prefer to stay alone when married?

Giving excuses of boredom, lol. How can you have a kid and a partner and still be bored? Your wife way no pure.

He might have changes some aspects of the story so as not to be identified. The story seems real enough.

ednut1:
Canada F1 visa No such visa exists. Fake story

It's difficult to see Nigerian woman that will easily go back to Nigeria from a first world country.

Many of them turn to Canadians, Americans or British etc. the moment their legs touch those countries.

Sorry to say this is another fabu that we read a lot here lately. F1 visa in Canada. Wife stays at home when she can be gainfully employed. Husband is a grad student in a university and the wife is lonely in such a city. A city that will be full of wives that are in the same category as her. This story does not seem real enough.

megastu:
He might have changes some aspects of the story so as not to be identified. The story seems real enough.

Naijapolitics03:
Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...

Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.

This is serious!
Was she virgin before you married her?

Folowomuke:


For her to move back and complains of boriness ,it shows she is the lazy type.
Please,let her be and focus more on the children and the future.

Keep praying for her to have a change of heart.

Please what line of thought is this??
In this hard Nigeria!

ednut1:
Canada F1 visa No such visa exists. Fake story

NB: for clarification F1 in this case is a study permit. I used this so everyone could understand since F1 is mostly common in the USA

GboyegaD:


Canada doesn't have a F1 Visa which makes the story a bit doubtful but I wouldn't doubt fully because he might have used the term so that everyone can understand he is on a student visa. In Canada, the dependent of a student can work on a Spousal Open Work Permit thus, she could have picked up a job even if it is part time.

NB: for clarification F1 in this case is a study permit. I used this so everyone could understand since F1 is mostly common in the USA . A st

GboyegaD:


Canada doesn't have a F1 Visa which makes the story a bit doubtful but I wouldn't doubt fully because he might have used the term so that everyone can understand he is on a student visa. In Canada, the dependent of a student can work on a Spousal Open Work Permit thus, she could have picked up a job even if it is part time.

I think Canada has a student visa but I don't know what they call it . Here in the USA, it's called F1 Visa. Because I have seen some Nigerian going to study in Canada

Lagbaja54:


I think Canada has a student visa but I don't know what they call it . Here in the USA, it's called F1 Visa. Because I have seen some Nigerian going to study in Canada

It is called Study Permit and has lesser restrictions compared to F1 Visa.

Naijapolitics03:


NB: for clarification F1 in this case is a study permit. I used this so everyone could understand since F1 is mostly common in the USA . A st

I understand and that was why I mentioned you could have called it F1 so that people have an understanding of what you you are referring to. Why didn't she get a job/work while she was in Canada?

The stories I read on here… makes you realize how much you need to thank God if you married a good woman.

Na wa

GboyegaD:


It is called Study Permit and has lesser restrictions compared to F1 Visa.



I understand and that was why I mentioned you could have called it F1 so that people have an understanding of what you you are referring to. Why didn't she get a job/work while she was in Canada?

It was our collective agreement. She had a miscarriage one time while she's here, and we agreed she stayed home. I was more concerned about having a baby while she's here but she was having none of that

Naijapolitics03:


It was our collective agreement. She had a miscarriage one time while she's here, and we agreed she stayed home. I was more concerned about having a baby while she's here but she was having none of that

Now I can see that you are seriously looking for advise.

My advise is this

1. Look for people in Naija that can help you put surveillance on her movements before December.

2. Based on the reports from the surveillance, if you need to confirm their reports, tell her you are coming home say 3rd of January but arrive in Nigeria earlier in December. Make sure you keep it away from everyone that can hint her.

3. When you arrive in December, mount your own surveillance on her based on the reports you get from 1. She will loosely be catching fun throughout Christmas and New Year

4. Get your evidence if any in December and by January 3rd, show up at home for her to see you.

Helpout12345:


Now I can see that you are seriously looking for advise.

My advise is this

1. Look for people in Naija that can help you put surveillance on her movements before December.

2. Based on the reports from the surveillance, if you need to confirm their reports, tell her you are coming home say 3rd of January but arrive in Nigeria earlier in December. Make sure you keep it away from everyone that can hint her.

3. When you arrive in December, mount your own surveillance on her based on the reports you get from 1. She will loosely be catching fun throughout Christmas and New Year

4. Get your evidence if any in December and by January 3rd, show up at home for her to see you.

Thank you so much brother. I've already decided if I made it home and observe shady deals,I might need to do a DNA test on our daughter. I have all evidence of her infidelity already. I'm usually a very calm person in all my dealings with her ever since she's started making some dangerous moves. If our daughter is mine,I'm taking her to my mom for care pending when in able to take full custody. I hope, for her sake, she makes it work for good.

MissLAP:


This is serious!
Was she virgin before you married her?

Op no sabi