MelesZanawi:


This is your 9th year on Nairaland and you have never made a single sensible post.

You have just burnt the table when others are just breaking theirs .

Please calm down, let him go.

nick50:
It's only in Nigeria that women depends 100% on a man for survival..Nigerian women are hypocrites, they copy oyinbos wen it comes to women right and how they should be treated equally with men but wen it comes to sharing of responsibilities they will refer u to African culture..Nigeria alone has 133 million people living in poverty ,95 % are women..Go and verify!!!

According to statistics? Is your source verified? Iam following Sir.

1Sharon:
A gold digging man is worse than a gold digging woman.

Men, a woman will never respect you once she sees you're with her for money

Do you even know what gold digging is?

A man has his own money and also wants to ensure the woman has her too isn't gold digging rather he is avoiding gold to be dug out of his pocket. Dating one who isn't too far from your financial class is gold digging to you.

You all should start accepting responsibility else there isn't any reason why the girl child should be sent to the university if she will rely on another for livelihood.

Get a job and earn before going into relationship so that you wouldn't have to look for palliative. Lack of funds can lead one to pseudo love.

No man respects a woman who brings all her financial stress and needs on the head of her spouse. No one is saying give the money to another but use the money on yourself.

Raychee:
What kind of topic is diswan

Interesting, except you have not married.when you married, the topic will make meaning to you.

Chris2863:
nah ashawo she be

Lol

Confirm4real:
Men are becoming wiser

Seriously, men are coming out of the dark and stone age.

Ammmy:
It's not easy being a single lady without a job now o. The economic situation of this country is now that bad.

When a man meets a woman in Nigeria now, he starts asking her where she works, what she does for a living, especially those hungry guys looking for a woman to compliment their finances.

If u say u don't have a job, they stop talking to you, forgetting that someone who has no job may be financially okay.

When has it become a must for a woman to have something doing? Men are meant to take care of women and spend for them and not the other way round.

In those days, nobody cares if a woman earns money or not.

So that is a business relationship. A lady need to drop something down on the table.

BABANGBALI:
I'm looking for true love and infection, I don't care if the lady is working, jobless or pour, all I want from her is true love and infection

Since u are looking for infection ill be a good chap and recommend hiv, tb or hpv. Those are very good infections, good luck in ur search.

Yes. You are right. Not a lady that will bring him down.

saheed2325:

Seriously women are meant to be treasured by men like it used to be when civilization has not changed women to something different entire. A woman is meant to take care of the home and the children. But the question is who among you can do that without the support of a man. You all want to eat your cake and still have it with that entitlement called women. A serious man will always look for a woman that can add value to his life not the one that will draw him back.

Olamideayomide:
Sheeee OP yi gbadun sha? With this topic....
Different people dey this world sha. With the current situation in this country so you expect men to carry all the financial burden abi? Wetin women go come dey do o? Come this life come jobless abi... Welldone

With the trainings and education they gathered,to just sit down be a dependant? God forbid bad thing ooo!

"Men are meant to take care of women and spend for
them and not the other way round."


This right here is a demonic mentality from the pit of hell, this Is how most Nigerian girls think, that is why they are where they are, they are in relationships only for themselves, not because they love you, they are liabilities and not asset, always a receiver and never a giver, a serious burden and not a helper, rubbish rubbish mentality, I RUN AWAY FROM LADIES LIKE THIS.

Sweetvie:
I disagree with you ma.
How are you financially okay if you're not working? Unless you're from rich home even with that sef you got to work and not be a liability to the family.
@bolded
In those days woman follow their husband to farm and do farm work. We're only seen as baby factory then okay so don't be confused.
You think I'll sit down at home be comfortably spending my husband money? When am not handicap.
Woman are meant to take care of themselves and be supported by husband. You want to live a wealthy lifestyle and money is only coming from oneside? Who even give us lady those concept sef? Babe don't let anyone deceive you, make money.
Imagine I saw a dress now
I won't be able to buy it on my own I'll have to go to my husband God forbid sapa
Yeah, my man and I can go out and see nice dress and buy it for me... Not that I won't be able to afford to buy things on my own I'll have to rely on my husband money.
Babe this is 21st
Nobody want a liability... Even if they want you now they'll get tired later. Make money

Super lady,you gerrit it! You're extraordinary woman. I loved you died.You made me remembered my first wife that passed away in 2017.She's a workaholic and untiring woman.We fought to deal with poverty and built our house until the unexpected happened. Last year, l remarried, then, l saw the other side of a coin.My new wife will want me do every thing for her. Exactly what the op is arguing for.who does that.? The point is, ladies should be up and doing thus complimenting their husbands,not a bunch of extra loads on their husband.

The worst mistake any man can do is to marry a jobless woman.No matter how much you give them,they won’t know the value and they easily wrecked men.
So even if she earning one thousand naira per month she must be doing something .

The table don turn na.. aren't men and women equal?

Jaganaut:


How are you financially OK when you are not working?

Hook up way

Hmmmm...

Israeli072011:
"Men are meant to take care of women and spend for
them and not the other way round."


This right here is a demonic mentality from the pit of hell, this Is how most Nigerian girls think, that is why they are where they are, they are in relationships only for themselves, not because they love you, they are liabilities and not asset, always a receiver and never a giver, a serious burden and not a helper, rubbish rubbish mentality, I RUN AWAY FROM LADIES LIKE THIS.

Horrific my brother! Not many men are aware of these.It will only wreck the family and drive them speedily into abject poverty.

Lolz every grown up should be responsible male and female.

Desusi:

Horrific my brother! Not many men are aware of these.It will only wreck the family and drive them speedily into abject poverty.

yes my brother,very true most ladies that talked this type of trash are the one's that think the world revolves around them, they have reduced themselves to hips and bum bum, nothing in their head apart from social media and useless lifestyle, huge liability.
I'll never end up with a liability, I'll marry an asset, a helper, a giver and an industrious lady.

Desusi:

Horrific my brother! Not many men are aware of these.It will only wreck the family and drive them speedily into abject poverty.

yes my brother,very true most ladies that talk this type of trash are the one's that think the world revolves around them, they have reduced themselves to hips and bum bum, nothing in their head apart from social media and useless lifestyle. Huge liability.
I'll never end up with a liability, I'll marry an asset, a helper, a giver and an industrious lady.

Ammmy:
It's not easy being a single lady without a job now o. The economic situation of this country is now that bad.

When a man meets a woman in Nigeria now, he starts asking her where she works, what she does for a living, especially those hungry guys looking for a woman to compliment their finances.

If u say u don't have a job, they stop talking to you, forgetting that someone who has no job may be financially okay.

When has it become a must for a woman to have something doing? Men are meant to take care of women and spend for them and not the other way round.

In those days, nobody cares if a woman earns money or not.

Gone are those days. u have to be financially stable as a woman too, na only mouth most women get

Desusi:

Super lady,you gerrit it! You're extraordinary woman. I loved you died.You made me remembered my first wife that passed away in 2017.She's a workaholic and untiring woman.We fought to deal with poverty and built our house until the unexpected happened. Last year, l remarried, then, l saw the other side of a coin.My new wife will want me do every thing for her. Exactly what the op is arguing for.who does that.? The point is, ladies should be up and doing thus complimenting their husbands,not a bunch of extra loads on their husband.

Thank you sir. Like i just don't know who gave ladies the ideology that it's only husband that is suppose to provide for the house, wife and the children. That's rubbish
We're family we are suppose to take care of each other not be a liability. How will you even say you don't wanna make money just rely on the husband? That's balderdash

Why will a man want to be saddled with a hungry jobless woman? I'm sorry but if you don't have a job, and not just a job but a good paying job, then you should just keep doing the ashawo you're doing. You're not ready for marriage.
Men don't want to suffer nor their kids suffer. They don't want liabilities.

MoneyMustBMade:


God bless you
If plenty women they reason like you to pick wife no go dey hard... Entitlement done make many guys hate plenty women these days. Men value you when you have serious impact in thier life

Amen
Thank u
Like I don't know how we think but
For me if my husband is putting down 100k for the house stuff i should be supporting with same amount or half of it. That's how I think family runs.

Ammmy:
I'm sure u fall within the category of the hungry boys and that's why you're pained. Hungry broke ass hiding behind his keypad

No he is not hungry
U are d real
Normal hook up girl
Trying to draw attentions here

Olamideayomide:
Sheeee OP yi gbadun sha? With this topic....
Different people dey this world sha. With the current situation in this country so you expect men to carry all the financial burden abi? Wetin women go come dey do o? Come this life come jobless abi... Welldone

No,women come satisfy men with their dirty pussieee
How I go meet a lady who is jobless and me am working
All her life would be asking asking asking asking
Them full tinder

Sweetvie:
Thank you sir. Like i just don't know who gave ladies the ideology that it's only husband that is suppose to provide for the house, wife and the children. That's rubbish
We're family we are suppose to take care of each other not be a liability. How will you even say you don't wanna make money just rely on the husband? That's balderdash

Make you and the guy above u marry then
Mugu people
So make I Dey work
Make u Dey ouse Dey watch epic film
Epic
Kill u dere

How can you be financially okay without working? You are contradicting yourself nah.

Welcome to the capitalist world, we all are forced capitalists.

Normal normal a broke guy is not supposed to go after a broke woman nao. It's only right for him to go after a financially stable woman. They'll compliment each other. Same goes for women. The table have turned already �..

WOMEN DEVALUED THEMSELVES YOU SHOULD HAVE NO PITY AT OL FOR THEM SINCE THEY MADE IT ABOUT COMPETITION WE WILL SEE WHO TRULY SURVIVES

Ammmy:
It's not easy being a single lady without a job now o. The economic situation of this country is now that bad.

When a man meets a woman in Nigeria now, he starts asking her where she works, what she does for a living, especially those hungry guys looking for a woman to compliment their finances.

If u say u don't have a job, they stop talking to you, forgetting that someone who has no job may be financially okay.

When has it become a must for a woman to have something doing? Men are meant to take care of women and spend for them and not the other way round.

In those days, nobody cares if a woman earns money or not.

madm go get a job...nobody wants a liability around him

awon send me recharge card
Ndi send me money for cream