I’ve been dating this girl for the past 6months now, her family knows me well, though it only once I’ve paid them a visit, and all through those period, never did I raise my hands on her, though she can be very stubborn sometimes, she always get angry gives me attitude whenever we having a minor issue, few days ago she visited my place and we had good time together, it getting late and I instructed her she should start going home considering where she lives can be very lonely and dangerous through the nite, she refuse and started trying to play some love play with me, I refuse her advances and started getting up to escort her home, she still cling to me, during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly, she was mad with me and angrily picked up her bag and left my place without even waiting to for me to escort her, I ran after her trying to plead with her that I didn’t meant to hit her, she ignore me completely and left, I called her countless times to apologize but she didn’t pick, I made up my mind to let her be now, i didn’t call her for a day, only for her to call me the next day and started asking me what my plans for her and saying she’s not sure if I rily love her, I was kinda sad she could be saying such things, I always treat you like a guy should treat a fiancé, I felt like scolding her a little by letting her know she’s being too dramatic lately and she shouldn’t let minor issue come between us, as our conversation was going on I never knew she put the call on Speaker and all I was saying was being heard by her Aunt and other siblings, one of them took the phone from her and started raining insults upon insults on me, telling me I’m a woman beater and she’s lost total respect for me and I should stay away from their sister, i tried explaining what happen to her elder sister she didn’t even allow me to speak, I kinda felt sad that she place our private conversation on a speaker, I’ve sent her an apology text, but still having double doubts if I should continue with the relationship knowing how her family sees me now, they sees me a rude and arrogant woman better, that’s what her elder sister called me guys please I need your advice on how to go about this, I don’t know what else to do

If we get one dollar for each problem in romance section. Nigeria will pay her debt.

she visited my place and we had good time together

started trying to play some love play with me, I refuse her advances.


she still cling to me, during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly,

The bolded above tells a lot about you.

Your girl visited you and you had good time and while she may not have had enough of you not necessarily sex maybe she needed a little more attention and clung to you .

The next thing was to accidentally slap her.
Probably because you don nut, Abi ?


I call guys like you ' la pour la nut la misbehave' .


You are not sensitive at all !

You have a lot to learn !

Sadly , some ill mannered boys here lacking in home training and basic human relations are hailing and supporting you .

doggedfighter:
If we get one dollar for each problem in romance section. Nigeria will pay her debt.




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Every second one wahala !

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Leave Nigeria girls alone you won’t listen...having abundance mentality will save you from girls with repulsive attitude.

Your sister go come report her own slap to you.

Karma, we call it.

Aklee4994:
Leave Nigeria girls alone you won’t listen...having abundance mentality will save you from girls with repulsive attitude.

He should go and slap foreign girls .



Nigerian girls don't need slappers.

Stop dating immature girls

Your girl isn't emotionally matured

Just completely ignore her and focus on something else

Give her a complete 3 days silent treatment, no calls and no text

If you miss her find something to engage in and ease yourself of her thought... Give her that bold statement in silence that she isn't oxygen you can't live without


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She's immature and wicked...Very!!
Truth is, what you did is bad but it has happened just once and for you to apologize and beg steady means you are truly sorry. Plus that issue now made her to announce to her family what happened. Just imagine when you guyz now marry, she'll just be telling her family everything in your home . Who knows if she has even found a higher bidder and she just wanna discharge you, afterall women are only there to gain benefits for themselves.

A drama queen left your life, instead of you to happy and celebrating, you're here complaining You don't know what God has done for you.



As our Ancestors would say "Only an !diot tries to reclaim problem that God has already taken away".

You should be happy that a liability like your girlfriend is giving you attitude so this is a good chance for you to break up with her..naija girls can’t love you bro

Why all the explanations? ..... know how you hit her accidentally? She was stubborn and you hit her period. If you're not married and already hitting her for a small disagreement what will happen when you are married? You brought the woman beater title on yourself .... don't blame the sister. You cannot manage your gf without force ... move on.

Both of you get wahala.
You shouldn't have done that because she will feel that you are getting tired of the relationship and you will be a wife beater when both of you tied the knots.
I wouldn't say whether what she did was right or wrong depending on how hard you hit her. She confided in her family because she is already scared and insecured around you. However know that even if she returns back she will continue to report you whenever you go physical on her since her family have now verified that you will become the wife beating kind of husband.

If you that you have a problem. Think again because you got none.

Do nothing and loose her contact... won't be easy, but that's your best bet, the day you beg to be in a relationship is the day you automatically becomes a serf to such relationship...!!

You dey try o! Na this one be your problem?

At the moment, I am too occupied with how to better my life. Aiming to get some internationally recognised professional certification so I can excel at work while I learn some soft skill too. The plan is to live a soft life when I attain age 40, which will be in 4 years if God wills.

If you are not married and this is what bothers you, I swear, you deserve to be dragged on an untarred road with your preeq touching ground

Aklee4994:
Leave Nigeria girls alone you won’t listen...having abundance mentality will save you from girls with repulsive attitude.

With abundant mentality, he'll just be flogging the shit outta their bodies instead of slapping them. Abi?

You see why our ladies sometimes misbehave when they're in foreign nations.

And imagine, they're co-fornicators o.....not even married couple and he has the mind to be slapping her.

You get luck say no be my sister...


If you see cartel your hand go break...

Silly....!!!!


Why you go slap person daughter and sister weh you never marry self?


You just get luck ....

Boiled chicken

One of the attributes of last borns.

She will surely come around

during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly

What's a little light beating for a stubborn fiance?

Especially when it's accidental /s

Chick better run now

Or it will be deliberate heavy beating in the future

TheboyGhost:
You get luck say no be my sister...


If you see cartel your hand go break...

Silly....!!!!


Why you go slap person daughter and sister weh you never marry self?


You just get luck ....

Boiled chicken

Your for carry full battalion come or carry full platoon come


Roasted chicken

ElPayaso:



Your for carry full battalion come or carry full platoon come


Roasted chicken

You even rushed to plead, and the bitch was forming bugacious attitude

Guy u beta move on, no dey looseguard.

na from clap, dance dey start

doggedfighter:


He should go and slap foreign girls .



Nigerian girls don't need slappers.

I slapped a foreign girl before in her own country and nothing happened.

Over hyped narrative you guys bank on

Not all cases happen the way you think.
She hit me first.


You will sit all your life in Nigeria and know more about the outside world than everyone else.

Be exposed you will say no

Playfully, jokingly or otherwise .
Don’t hit a woman.

mariodko190:
I’ve been dating this girl for the past 6months now, her family knows me well, though it only once I’ve paid them a visit, and all through those period, never did I raise my hands on her, though she can be very stubborn sometimes, she always get angry gives me attitude whenever we having a minor issue, few days ago she visited my place and we had good time together, it getting late and I instructed her she should start going home considering where she lives can be very lonely and dangerous through the nite, she refuse and started trying to play some love play with me, I refuse her advances and started getting up to escort her home, she still cling to me, during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly, she was mad with me and angrily picked up her bag and left my place without even waiting to for me to escort her, I ran after her trying to plead with her that I didn’t meant to hit her, she ignore me completely and left, I called her countless times to apologize but she didn’t pick, I made up my mind to let her be now, i didn’t call her for a day, only for her to call me the next day and started asking me what my plans for her and saying she’s not sure if I rily love her, I was kinda sad she could be saying such things, I always treat you like a guy should treat a fiancé, I felt like scolding her a little by letting her know she’s being too dramatic lately and she shouldn’t let minor issue come between us, as our conversation was going on I never knew she put the call on Speaker and all I was saying was being heard by her Aunt and other siblings, one of them took the phone from her and started raining insults upon insults on me, telling me I’m a woman beater and she’s lost total respect for me and I should stay away from their sister, i tried explaining what happen to her elder sister she didn’t even allow me to speak, I kinda felt sad that she place our private conversation on a speaker, I’ve sent her an apology text, but still having double doubts if I should continue with the relationship knowing how her family sees me now, they sees me a rude and arrogant woman better, that’s what her elder sister called me guys please I need your advice on how to go about this, I don’t know what else to do

Guy you are lucky oh. See freedom way just come meet you free of charge

Pringles101:

I slapped a foreign girl before in her own country and nothing happened.

Over hyped narrative you guys bank on

Not all cases happen the way you think.
She hit me first.



You will sit all your life in Nigeria and know more about the outside world than everyone else.

Be exposed you will say no

Continue slapping them. We don't want.

doggedfighter:
If we get one dollar for each problem in romance section. Nigeria will pay her debt.




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Every second one wahala !

Aswear

Pringles101:

I slapped a foreign girl before in her own country and nothing happened.

Over hyped narrative you guys bank on

Not all cases happen the way you think.
She hit me first.


You will sit all your life in Nigeria and know more about the outside world than everyone else.

Be exposed you will say no

wow! Congratulations

doggedfighter:
If we get one dollar for each problem in romance section. Nigeria will pay her debt.

Every second one wahala !

started trying to play some love play with me, I refuse her advances.


she still cling to me, during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly,

Why is it so funny to me

Artiiclebeast:
Your sister go come report her own slap to you.

Karma, we call it.

. My sister nva for once report her bf to me or any other member of my family, even when I do know she hit her once, she kept it silent between dem, till when their settle them selfs