I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

Something tells me that she has always been this toxic from the beginning.
Don't be disturbed, just speak to uncles and let her know the house stays with the kids as an inheritance or sold off.

Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

This one strong oooo....
because of penis wey u jam for street u dey pursue ur own son comot from him papa house.....i'm not understanding this equation


I have always recommended diplomacy when one's parents are being irrational... ...but for the matter.... i will have have to recommend small vawulence because on some issues, the only way to respond to vawulence is with vawulence....( no comot..make she go bring police make we see or carry u go court)

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

No reasonable father will chase his son from property that will be his latter becos of pvssy he jam on the street.......

..lets call a spade a spade....the woman is being very irrational over nothing....

is it because she doesnt want her son to hear her moan.?? Or the man doesnt want the son around...?? ...its not like the son told her not to remarry......

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

If she wants you to leave, I pray God blesses and prosper you. Pls leave
It is her husband house and although no one should send you out from your father's house for another man. You just have to live to fight another day biko

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

You are very stupid for this stupid idiotic words of weed. Unhealthy entitlement, if i am not entitled to my father's property who else would I? Will you pay my rent or provide my basic needs?

First of all what is your tribe?
For Bini people in Edo state
First born male usually inherits the parent property.
Yoruba culture. The parents properties are share among the male and female kids.
Igbo culture. The properties goes to the males alone
I don't know much about other tribes aside these 3

All these happen only in the absence of a will.

I will advice you leave for a rented apartment.
Nah person wey dey alive dey inherit property o.
It is a cold world and expect the unexpected from anyone including ones family members. So before someone harm you any way use your head and focus on your life.
Its a life challenge. Accept it.

You sef go build the house wey pass that your father own .

dawnomike:
If she wants you to leave, I pray God blesses and prosper you. Pls leave
It is her husband house and although no one should send you out from your father's house for another man. You just have to live to fight another day biko

Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

Mercury12:
First of all what is your tribe?
For Bini people in Edo state
First born male usually inherits the parent property.
Yoruba culture. The parents properties are share among the male and female kids.
Igbo culture. The properties goes to the males alone
I don't know much about other tribes aside these 3

All these happen only in the absence of a will.

I will advice you leave for a rented apartment.
Nah person wey dey alive dey inherit property o.
It is cold world and expect the unexpected from anyone including ones family members. So before someone harm you any way use your head and focus on your life.
Its a life challenge. Accept it.

You sef go build the house wey pass that your father own .

All these unreasonable advice irritates me like hell. Will I build the house with my mouth? Is it easy? Can you bear that?

Greattestman:
All these unreasonable advice irritates me like hell. Will I build the house with my mouth? Is it easy? Can you bear that?

oya go and kee your mother or your future step Daddy
Be a man and k*ll them

That is the fuulish advice pleasant to your likes ears..
Are you happy now?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Ultimatum to leave your father's house? Weigh the situation and if you can afford it, leave before your mother poisons your food. We have seen many cases like this. Just be careful.

Mercury12:
oya go and kee your mother or your future step Daddy
Be a man and k*ll them

That is the fuulish advice pleasant to your likes ears..
Are you happy now?

Is this the only idea you can come up with? You are still a baby.

It is her inheritance from EVE. She wants to bleep and girate unlimited.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Some single mothers are sick by allowing a dick to take charge of their brains. I would advice you to take action. Forget people telling you to leave..some of them are enjoying in their father's mansions but will come here to dish out stupid advice.

Greattestman:
Is this the only idea you can come up with? You are still a baby.

If you knew what to do you won't be wailing on nairaland in the first place.
Baby like you. You really needs to grow up and be a man for once
I'm sure if we are to even listen to your mama side of the story I bet you won't get anyone support
This one that you are already proving stubborn to good advises show your kinda person

dawnomike:
If she wants you to leave, I pray God blesses and prosper you. Pls leave
It is her husband house and although no one should send you out from your father's house for another man. You just have to live to fight another day biko

Op... This kind of advise you won't get even at Lagos business school. Take this advise, nor die leave land wey go ever outlive u

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Pls in bini, it's the parents first property the first son has right over, others are shared among siblings, it must go round

Mercury12:

If you knew what to do you won't be wailing on nairaland in the first place.
Baby like you. You really needs to grow up and be a man for once
I'm sure if we are to even listen to your mama side of the story I bet you won't get anyone support
This one that you are already proving stubborn to good advises show your kinda person

Which stupid side of the story permits a mother to send her son to go and suffer while she brings in a useless street dick to enjoy the son's father's hard labour? You don't know how irritating it is that is why you are running your mouth like water tap. Wait until it happens to you.

Messi1 and his nollywood stories but is still baffles me why the mods keep pushing his stories to FP.
Is it for entertainment or what exactly?
I won’t say he is paying the mods because I don’t see what he stands to gain by doing so and the way people are seriously replying and giving him attention too is alarming!

November24:


Pls in bini, it's the parents first property the first son has right over, others are shared among siblings, it must go round

I'm my mother's only child and the properties he gave me and my mother before he died all belongs to me since she's getting married or at least will die some days too.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!


Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod dominique mukina2

Sorry to say, your mum has been charmed.

How can she send you packing in your father's house?

Could it be she was the person who killed your dad?

This alleged new husband abi step dad, lacks shame to allow an arrogant woman to house him.

Solution?

Don't leave the house

Leaving the house will show that you're weak, and she with this man might sell the house and then buy another.

Avoid her, her money, food. This will save your life.

Always discuss new develelopment on this matter with your uncle (if only he can bring solution).

Pray, pray, pray.

Greattestman:
Which stupid side of the story permits a mother to send her son to go and suffer while she brings in a useless street dick to enjoy the son's father's hard labour? You don't know how irritating it is that is why you are running your mouth like water tap. Wait until it happens to you.

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

Mercury12:

If you knew what to do you won't be wailing on nairaland in the first place.
Baby like you. You really needs to grow up and be a man for once
I'm sure if we are to even listen to your mama side of the story I bet you won't get anyone support
This one that you are already proving stubborn to good advises show your kinda person

What side of her story will justify chasing her son out because of another man.... normally she suppose tell her son he will be having a step father soon

..she suppose introduce both of them even if the son has left home to live his life before now...let alone when he's still around.....

What the woman is doing is inappropriate at all levels....

dawnomike:
If she wants you to leave, I pray God blesses and prosper you. Pls leave
It is her husband house and although no one should send you out from your father's house for another man. You just have to live to fight another day biko

Don't leave

Stop giving him a wrong advice

What if the 'confused woman' eventually sells the house?

Greattestman:
You are very stupid for this stupid idiotic words of weed. Unhealthy entitlement, if i am not entitled to my father's property who else would I? Will you pay my rent or provide my basic needs?

guy fight for what belong to , and the woman is irrational, confront her you are not leaving, tell her you will do ANYTHING to get what belongs to you.Tell her you are not against her marriage but she will not bring her man to your house otherwise you will evict the two of them let her know she has no right over that house, tell her that is where you intend to bring your own family when you finally marry. Don't let any idiot in the name of mother harass you because of dick

Mercury12:

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

So you're supporting this woman and the alleged new husband moving into his dad's house?

This new man lacks shame. I tell you

Op, are you sure of your true identity in that family, DNA comes to mind.. your momma knows all.

Our local adage "a toddler can play with his mother's breasts but can't try the same with his father's scrotums".

Be wise!

Why’s the husband moving in
Isn’t she supposed to move into her new husband’s house instead?
Weird AF

BestMan001:


So you're supporting this woman and the alleged new husband moving into his dad's house?

This new man lacks shame. I tell you

then advice him on what to do. Perhaps kill his mom or the step daddy.
I don't know how else y'all wanna get around this other than berate the mom and tell op to stand his ground against his mom. If he choose that path he should also expect the unexpected.
Life is about making choices.
Choices with good bad outcomes.
Everyone is free to make their choice anyway