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Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 12:59am On Nov 27, 2022 |
What type of lady prefer wedding in her own place of worship instead of the mans. |
Re: Church Marriage by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:11am On Nov 27, 2022 |
What type of man prefers a wedding in his place of worship instead of the bride's church? Weddings are usually done in the bride's church, so why do you sound like it's a new thing? If you want it done in your church, then you should sort it out with her amicably. 6 Likes |
Re: Church Marriage by Bahamas95(m): 4:10am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Mr. Dictator calm down, since I was born I haven't heard or seen brides wedding in the man's church. At times it's even done in the bride's mother's church if she doesn't attend same church with her mum. If you want it in your church there's a way you'll go about it, don't be too authoritative. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Church Marriage by MumEmdy(f): 8:07am On Nov 27, 2022 |
It's the groom marrying the bride from her church to his. You marry from her church and thank giving service is mostly held in the groom's church. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Church Marriage by culf: 9:06am On Nov 27, 2022 |
jfkenny: Almost all lady if not all. 2 Likes |
Re: Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 2:59pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
So after the wedding ,where will the couple be worshipping. culf: |
Re: Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 3:00pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Exactly, can't understand why a lady will even suggest where the marriage will take place. MumEmdy: |
Re: Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 3:02pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Lol, my dear I am only sharing my experience which doesn't make me a dictator. Bahamas95: |
Re: Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 3:03pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
It is not so in the south eastern part of Nigeria LilMissFavvy: |
Re: Church Marriage by culf: 4:27pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
jfkenny: mostly at the husband's church. Those are the things to discuss before marriage 4 Likes |
Re: Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 6:08pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Is this a norm in Ur place.. culf: |
Re: Church Marriage by NoToPile: 7:14pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
jfkenny: Where are you from? It's mostly south east people that see something wrong wedding holding at the brides church, if you are from the south east is it an inter tribal marriage? If not there shouldn't be issues with this church matter, she should know already. Over here the idea is the brides family are the one giving their daughter away so traditional and church is done at their place, you come marry the girl from her church or her parents church 2 Likes |
Re: Church Marriage by jfkenny(m): 8:44pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Am a south easterner..wedding should be in husband's church not the other way round |
Re: Church Marriage by culf: 9:11pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
jfkenny: That is mostly the norm in Nigeria. This is what one has to discuss during courtship if both parties attend different churches. Some wives will not even change after wedding so its always good to address it before. 1 Like |
Re: Church Marriage by NoToPile: 10:08pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
jfkenny: That is how you guys do it simple , it's not a matter of it should be like that. 2 Likes |
Re: Church Marriage by mrblessed(m): 10:36pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
jfkenny:Oga, put your feet stronlgy down and ensure that the wedding takes place in your church. A woman follows her man to his church, unless where the man grants permission to remain in her church. 1 Like |
Re: Church Marriage by ahnie: 10:47pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Here for the comments |
Re: Church Marriage by Saintmary(f): 1:18pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
mrblessed: The woman who marries you must be really desperate. 4 Likes |
Re: Church Marriage by mastermaestro(m): 12:16am On Nov 29, 2022 |
mrblessed: Some of you create problems long before marriage even begins. Convention and commonsense should tell you that you are going to bring a woman to your house. Every ceremony that will culminate into her arriving at your place will definitely not hold at your place. You accord her the honour of hosting you and your entourage. Having a wedding at her church or family church is part of her hosting honour. Exceptions could come into play where the groom pastors a local assembly. He could plead with the bride to let him have the honour of hosting the wedding at his own place of worship. But this must be sorted out diplomatically. Norm is, bride reserves the honour of hosting church wedding at her place of worship. |
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