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Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(m): 9:04pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Good day Family.. Please I'll go straight and try to be brief I would be glad to have all the inputs to aid me. I'll go straight to the point, I once dated this girl in school this year, she was a nice homely person and decent girl. It was love at first, we had a thing going for us, I cared for her we loved each other. I noticed that she was the one that was sponsoring herself in sch she's 22yrs with little assistance from her mum she had some ideas for doing pos business(she has d machine) but not yet on full scale because she needed the right spot, funds and all those stuff. I confronted her and she revealed to me that she had to borrow money from persons and loan apps just to meet up before, all this was before I met her. She has siblings brothers and sisters but none seems to be looking out for her.. Fast forward I lost my senior brother and I didn't seem to have her time all those while, she became arrogant and manipulative at some point. But I only gave what I could afford to loose and kept going, the one that didn't really go well with me was when she said I should bring food stuff her because that period I was traveling(that made me very upset because of being in love that didn't exist) still I maintained my cool. I was out for a while and I was occupied(my uncle was affected by the flood in Anambra also land dispute), we still chat but not as we used to do, so after some time of no communication I taught maybe she had moved on, I knew the relationship was hitting bottom rock not because I didn't like her again but because when I needed her she kept mute tho I kept my challenges from her I didn't want to explain myself to anybody. She needed money for project in sch, bills were piling for her, persons she borrowed money at first before I met here were demanding for their money, I gave her 30k so she could sort herself out. Yet again she cut communication. Maybe she wasn't interested anymore, that's was my resolve, I messaged her and simply asked if we should go our separate ways and her reply was "Yeah I'm sorry but I'm tired of it".. So I'm contemplating if i collect my funds back? I don't want to hurt anyone in anyway I understand that it's nt easy fr her nor persons out there too Please pardon my typing and epistle, I need ur inputs NL family, thanks. |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by ayoncox: 9:09pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
DonWest16:What happened to you 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by Autobot05: 11:04pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Let it go . Learn not to give what you can't afford to let go of. She'll come back begging later tho ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by Emma2Seconds: 11:17pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Forget about it 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(m): 3:05pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Autobot05: 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by okunwaye(m): 5:29pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Your typing is ![]() |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by HopeNeverDies: 5:38pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Brother! Just lock up about it and move on. 30k is not a total big deal. You’re gonna have much more than that… Trust me, u guys gon jamn back again. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by Alapojamesy: 5:54pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Make she use the 30k as settlement 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by SPAMBOX7: 6:01pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
But I only gave what I could afford to loose You gave out what you could afford to lose yet you still here asking if you should go take it back? Lmfao na why I no dey like advice anybody online cos too many niggas be doing the total opposite of things they type online. Cos if you really meant the @embolden statement then why you asking if you should collect your money back? ![]() That says you could be doing tough man online here but still go beg her in reality. So why advice you when your actions don't sync with your words ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by zed7: 7:44pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Let it go, some investments are bad investments, not every investment pays off. By the way, this is money you said you can afford to lose, so what's your problem? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by Autobot05: 10:03pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
[quote author=DonWest16 post=118749015][/quote] We cool bruh .... She's gonna be back ... just know where to put her a d how to act when the time comes .. ignore the past feelings and treat her like she choosed to be treated .. |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by TheboyGhost(m): 10:07pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
DonWest16: Well I have said this times and times already.... Don't give to a woman and expect something in return.... Give and forget (lots of disappointment if you are expecting something in return) If you try to get that money back, there is 89% chances you will not get it.... Just forget and move on with your lessons learnt.... I did not say our women should not be helped and taken care of when necessary... I am only saying "whatever you do for a woman should be something you will not regret later in the future" Just like when they say "Invest what you can lose and forget" |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by ayoncox: 5:01am On Nov 29, 2022 |
DonWest16: If it's a borrow collect your money back. Meanwhile except you are a low value guy yourself don't date low value ladies, you will ever regret it 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(m): 5:55am On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(m): 5:58am On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Re: Am I Wrong Here by Kiddogarcia(m): 10:42am On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(m): 12:26pm On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Re: Am I Wrong Here by emmyluizzz: 4:40pm On Nov 29, 2022 |
someone who cannot even write a clear simple English is looking for love and advice op be very careful....
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Re: Am I Wrong Here by DonWest16(m): 4:56pm On Nov 29, 2022 |
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