Pukkalolo:



Asking this question actually shows you are an intellectual dude... because at the core, the ability to withstanding pressure and maintaining emotional control is one of the most important skill a man can have when dealing with women ( and life in general).
This skill is far more important than your physical fitness. It's more important than how smooth you are or how good looking you are.

Fews years back I was invited to a interview where there were about 15 candidate who were in attendance.

When it got to my turn to be interviewed, I was invited to the Manager's office(a Man) who would be interviewing me.

After scanning through my CV carefully, he looked at me and said, "Look, succeeding in this business is about taking control of situations that you encounter in your day to day sales activities, and to not allowing these situations to control you."

I said, "Ok?"

Then he looked dead in my eyes and asked, "So how do you take control of highly pressured situation that you'll encounter and not allow the situation to control you?"

There are many fancy and flashy answers to that questions, but at that point I just wanted say what I felt.

I said, "Well, I'll take control of the highly pressured situation by letting go of the situation."

I paused for about 3 seconds, trying to think if what I just said make sense to me. But then in my mind, I said, "mtcheew, Bleep it."

Then I continued confidently: " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation.... there are somethings that are just beyond my control... Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

After I made that last statement, there was an awkward silence between us that lasted for about 7 seconds or so. The man seemed to surprised my answer. He never predicted that answer.(well, I don't like being predictable)
I didn't say anything else. I waited patiently for what he’ll say next. After a long silence that seem like the whole world freezed for a while, he cleared is throat and said, "So why should we give you this Job?"

I said, "You should give me this job because bla bla bla bla bla."
I said some cliche answers I've crammed from the internet.

"Well, we'll get back to you," the manager said while gesticulating for me to get Bleep out his office.

Of course, you'd pretty much assume that they were never going to get back to me... because Obviously it looked like I performed very poor in the interview. Even me, I was a bit worried that i didn't came up with smarter answers.

But to my greatest surprise, 3 weeks later I was invited back to discuss the date it will be ok for me to start the job. Out of 20 people, only I and two other guys were invited back.

Although this my answers seem weak:
" I'll take control of the situation by letting go of the situation" and " I'll take control of situation by not trying hard fix the situation. there are somethings that are just beyond my control. Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

But that's actually the way forward.


Strangely, ability to withstand pressure and maintain emotional control requires no superhuman strength or endurance. It's just requires the ability to let go and not trying to force things go your way all the time.

So the question, how do one get emotional control from within your internal self, as in internal control not the external.

Obviously, the solution is to stop trying to get control from the external.

Here's is an example of trying to get control from the external: Trying to make a woman like you.

Trying to make a woman like you is an unhealthy goal because #1 you can't always control if a woman will like you or not--and since you can't control it, you’d always be ruled by fear.

And Because #2 you’ll only cause yourself headache and make things unnecessarily stressful for yourself.

You can imagine the kind of stress you have to go through to make her like you:

You’ve got to interact with her in a pleasant and cautious manner.

You’ve got to put up with het saucy and disrespectful behavior.

You’ve got to put up with her abusive behavior.

You’ve got to do things to impress her friends and family.

This put your emotions at the mercy of the woman. As long as she like you, you’ll feel worthy and confident about yourself. But the moment she act cold towards you, your whole world is shattered. You start trying hard to fix the situation.

And remember, in that interview, I said " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation."


The ability to let go of a woman when you want her the most—is one of the most important skills you can develop in your interactions with women.

The harder you try to persuade a woman to accept you, the less you succeed in accomplishing that goal.

Life itself is paradoxical. Avoiding negative experiences rejection, criticism or mistakes only increased your chance of getting those negative experiences.


Letting go doesn't mean you're weak; it means you understand that there are some things that are just fucking out of your control.

Letting go of things that are beyond your control, doesn't mean you're powerless; Is simply means you're mature enough to understand that, sometimes not everyone would like you or be interested in you.

When a woman reject you or show no interest in you, you might be tempted to try to convince her and try to force her to see things your way....but in reality you are only wasting your time and disrespecting yourself.

The solution is to simply "let go" by walking away and moving on the next available chick.

Many guys have the mentality of:

"What can I do to get this woman to like me so that I can feel great and confident about myself?"

That's a weak ass mentality. This is why you can't withstand the pressure of being disliked or being ignored by her.

My mentality is:

"What can I do to feel great and confident about myself so that it wouldn't really matter if this woman like me or not? "

This is how I get emotional control from within my internal self.

Because when you're focused on being liked or being accepted... she tends to have more power than you in the interaction.

This is why I say things like: having low tolerance for a woman's bullshit; Boldly expressing yourself; Immediately NEXTING a woman if she's not cooperating; not allowing her influence or manipulate you with feminine sexiness and so on....because those things are in your fucking control. This is how you maintain emotional contol regardless of the response you are getting from her. This is what makes you a confident and dominant man.

I hope this was helpful.

Pukkalolo:
It's funny how many guys tends put a lady that attends church regularly or dress responsibility in the "good girl” or "proper woman" category. And they put lady who goes to clubs/ bars or who wear sexy revealing clothes in the "slut" or "bad girl" category.

It funny because from my experience, the ladies who has given me the best bleeps and who has given me the best blowjobs were actually the ladies who came across as "good girls" or "proper women" to the outside public.

Hardcore fact: Women are natural PRETENDERS.

Always keep that in mind.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

Pukkalolo:



Asking this question actually shows you are an intellectual dude... because at the core, the ability to withstanding pressure and maintaining emotional control is one of the most important skill a man can have when dealing with women ( and life in general).
This skill is far more important than your physical fitness. It's more important than how smooth you are or how good looking you are.

Fews years back I was invited to a interview where there were about 15 candidate who were in attendance.

When it got to my turn to be interviewed, I was invited to the Manager's office(a Man) who would be interviewing me.

After scanning through my CV carefully, he looked at me and said, "Look, succeeding in this business is about taking control of situations that you encounter in your day to day sales activities, and to not allowing these situations to control you."

I said, "Ok?"

Then he looked dead in my eyes and asked, "So how do you take control of highly pressured situation that you'll encounter and not allow the situation to control you?"

There are many fancy and flashy answers to that questions, but at that point I just wanted say what I felt.

I said, "Well, I'll take control of the highly pressured situation by letting go of the situation."

I paused for about 3 seconds, trying to think if what I just said make sense to me. But then in my mind, I said, "mtcheew, Bleep it."

Then I continued confidently: " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation.... there are somethings that are just beyond my control... Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

After I made that last statement, there was an awkward silence between us that lasted for about 7 seconds or so. The man seemed to surprised my answer. He never predicted that answer.(well, I don't like being predictable)
I didn't say anything else. I waited patiently for what he’ll say next. After a long silence that seem like the whole world freezed for a while, he cleared is throat and said, "So why should we give you this Job?"

I said, "You should give me this job because bla bla bla bla bla."
I said some cliche answers I've crammed from the internet.

"Well, we'll get back to you," the manager said while gesticulating for me to get Bleep out his office.

Of course, you'd pretty much assume that they were never going to get back to me... because Obviously it looked like I performed very poor in the interview. Even me, I was a bit worried that i didn't came up with smarter answers.

But to my greatest surprise, 3 weeks later I was invited back to discuss the date it will be ok for me to start the job. Out of 20 people, only I and two other guys were invited back.

Although this my answers seem weak:
" I'll take control of the situation by letting go of the situation" and " I'll take control of situation by not trying hard fix the situation. there are somethings that are just beyond my control. Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

But that's actually the way forward.


Strangely, ability to withstand pressure and maintain emotional control requires no superhuman strength or endurance. It's just requires the ability to let go and not trying to force things go your way all the time.

So the question, how do one get emotional control from within your internal self, as in internal control not the external.

Obviously, the solution is to stop trying to get control from the external.

Here's is an example of trying to get control from the external: Trying to make a woman like you.

Trying to make a woman like you is an unhealthy goal because #1 you can't always control if a woman will like you or not--and since you can't control it, you’d always be ruled by fear.

And Because #2 you’ll only cause yourself headache and make things unnecessarily stressful for yourself.

You can imagine the kind of stress you have to go through to make her like you:

You’ve got to interact with her in a pleasant and cautious manner.

You’ve got to put up with het saucy and disrespectful behavior.

You’ve got to put up with her abusive behavior.

You’ve got to do things to impress her friends and family.

This put your emotions at the mercy of the woman. As long as she like you, you’ll feel worthy and confident about yourself. But the moment she act cold towards you, your whole world is shattered. You start trying hard to fix the situation.

And remember, in that interview, I said " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation."


The ability to let go of a woman when you want her the most—is one of the most important skills you can develop in your interactions with women.

The harder you try to persuade a woman to accept you, the less you succeed in accomplishing that goal.

Life itself is paradoxical. Avoiding negative experiences rejection, criticism or mistakes only increased your chance of getting those negative experiences.


Letting go doesn't mean you're weak; it means you understand that there are some things that are just fucking out of your control.

Letting go of things that are beyond your control, doesn't mean you're powerless; Is simply means you're mature enough to understand that, sometimes not everyone would like you or be interested in you.

When a woman reject you or show no interest in you, you might be tempted to try to convince her and try to force her to see things your way....but in reality you are only wasting your time and disrespecting yourself.

The solution is to simply "let go" by walking away and moving on the next available chick.

Many guys have the mentality of:

"What can I do to get this woman to like me so that I can feel great and confident about myself?"

That's a weak ass mentality. This is why you can't withstand the pressure of being disliked or being ignored by her.

My mentality is:

"What can I do to feel great and confident about myself so that it wouldn't really matter if this woman like me or not? "

This is how I get emotional control from within my internal self.

Because when you're focused on being liked or being accepted... she tends to have more power than you in the interaction.

This is why I say things like: having low tolerance for a woman's bullshit; Boldly expressing yourself; Immediately NEXTING a woman if she's not cooperating; not allowing her influence or manipulate you with feminine sexiness and so on....because those things are in your fucking control. This is how you maintain emotional contol regardless of the response you are getting from her. This is what makes you a confident and dominant man.

I hope this was helpful.

YoobaNesan:
@OfficialDJ see wetin your giveaway don turn this thread to?

Industry Overview Kwa

CaveAdullam:
Fresh account from the oven.

Let's take the ministry forward.

Do like, retweet, and follow.

Merci.

Segun139:

Fearjah:



Most times I'm awed by your submissions.

Please, if I may ask how do you come up with your write ups?

My Opinion:
1) You read vastly,
2)you are open to diverse ideas,
3)you think and ponder deeply about REAL life and all you have read, heard and seen.

I believe your write ups are prepared with the ingredients above.

Anyway, My point is that the number of people following you on twitter will surprise you one day.

AlterEgo00:
A little companionship, a little sex, and a weak man will give up all his ambitions. Guys please stay hard

Some times you as a man getting these things doesn’t mean you are in love with the right person ( she doesn’t love you )

You only just a lucky nigga in the right place at the right time .

Wise Up

Meedon:
You all should have boundaries when dealing with married women. A nigga just got stripped naked and paraded on the street like a common criminal because he had sexual intercourse with a married woman. The woman went her way without much embarasment. No be every pussy dem the Bleep.

It pays to have self-control at times.

AlterEgo00:
I always see them in the opposite bro... Like bro, I've literally come to know that those so called church girls are worse than Sluts when it comes to Immorality.... You coukd take examples from the daughters of the so called Pastors and General Overseers,only if you could get close to them and get them to open their darkest web to you, you'll be dumbfounded....

MindfulMan:


Zabiboy and DeusMagnus and others why you saw my comment on a "Thread Removal Thread" or a "Thread Banning Thread" or a "Thread Deleting Thread" was not to actually for me to get this Trp thread deleted or banned what really happend was that a certain troll "tranquility2345" commented something then i was pissed off and i was unable to delete it, so i pressed the "report button" on the certain troll, i thought merely pressing the report button would work, after some hours i came back online and i still noticed that the shit that troll (tranqulity2345) commented had not been removed, after other attempts of Google searching on how to remove someone else's comment and all to no avail all did not worked

i decided to text a Mod on the romance section and gave him my complaint so the Mod replied me later that what about a page link of the thread dat i wanted him to remove or delete so that was how i sent him this link just like the normal way redpillers textes Mods to help them remove or delete a certain troll comment or stuffsss

NOTE: what i wrote below is what i did before i finally texted the Mod cos all my Google search and help to delete it my self did not work, so the chit-chat with the Mod was what i did last or the Mod texting was my last line of defence


i was so pissed at the troll so i started Googling how to remove an offensive comment that someone wrote about me in nairaland from Google, so i was seeing people saying you cant remove what someone else commented about you only can you report the person that was how i reported the troll but the comment was not taken down or it did not work by just pressing the "report button" then i tried other means of going deeper into a certain thread of nairaland called "how to remove a thread" on google then it lead me to a thread removal thread on nairaland itself that was why you saw my comment in the " how to remove or ban a thread" on the thread removal page or thread itself

you might have seen that link and it looks like i want to ban this Trp thread, No i am not banning anything, i am not against this Trp thread if you believe me or not.

may be the way i wrote the whole thing made it look like i am against this thread



I genuinely apologize brothers

Pukkalolo:
It's funny how many guys tends put a lady that attends church regularly or dress responsibility in the "good girl” or "proper woman" category. And they put lady who goes to clubs/ bars or who wear sexy revealing clothes in the "slut" or "bad girl" category.

It funny because from my experience, the ladies who has given me the best bleeps and who has given me the best blowjobs were actually the ladies who came across as "good girls" or "proper women" to the outside public.

Hardcore fact: Women are natural PRETENDERS.

Always keep that in mind.

Karlifate:
You expect someone that's divorced twice, to be loyal to you



She even had 5 known ex-boyfriends

Cos the unknowns might be more than that


What else do you want to show her, that she's not seen before

ubunja:
I don't know how many more losses the manosphere can take. it seems like yesterday when we bid farewell to Kevin Samuels. Now here we are again saying farewell to yet another Red Pill guru. The Mode One creator Alan Roger Curie is no more.


Rest Easy man.

Regex:


This is fucking horrible. Shit!

Educated women even with high IQ are not capable of intellectual curiosity, critical thinking,open minded analysis, application of logic, not because they don't have the same cognitive ability as men ( same brain) but due to their innate Solipsisitic nature which allows them to rationalize based on feelings and not facts, if its not validated by their emotions, such data is discarded,women make use of rationalization hamsters to justify their emotive reasonings and arguments so that they can have the false appearance of logic and reasoning

As long as they are innately Solipsisitic, the peak of their rationality is to memorize and cram data and statistics, they are not capable of being logical and analytical like men because their feelings would always cloud their judgement

mrfizy:
So just how splendid are these women who provoke such humiliations in a man? Well, in fact, all women are by nature perverse. Deeply self-centred , thoroughly avaricious, unreasoning, their hearts can slip in an instant into error. They are clever with words, but will refuse to answer when asked something quite innocuous – yet where you imagine they would be carefully discreet, they will come out with astonishing revelations quite unsolicited. You would think they were even more adept than men at calculating and dissembling, but they’re quite unconcerned by being later shown up.
It is the way of women to be devious and foolish. How pitiful we men are, to submit ourselves to such creatures
and attempt to impress them. Why, after all, should we feel so awkward in their presence? If such a thing as a wise woman did exist, we would no doubt find her quite unapproachable and off-putting. Only a man who is led astray and mastered by a woman’s charms will see her as tender and delightful."

This is an excerpt from Essays In Idleness. It is the meditations of two Japanese monks(Kenko and Chomei) in medieval Japan

dontai:
They will still find a way to blame the man.

nwaezeemmanuel:
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