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What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by siofra(f): 7:15pm On Dec 02, 2022
I've observed the families around me and my family and this is what I've noticed.

The average Nigerian woman around me brings half of her salary, cooks for the family, cleans the home, manages the home and takes care of the kids. Sometimes she may get help from her relative who stays with them or her husband's relative to manage the house but usually she does everything herself. The man never helps, he only pays the bills.

In my house, my mom uses half of her salary to buy toiletries, buy things for us the children (like tech gadgets and lots of other miscellaneous items) and sometimes to cook while managing the home and working full-time outside the house.
My dad does not help with house chores, he only pays the bills, buys food stuff and occasionally buys miscellaneous items for the home.

I live in an academic environment where "housewives" are practically non-existent. The women work outside the home as much as the men and still run their homes. So how my home is run, is basically how the hundreds of homes around us are run too.


From what I wrote up there, it's clear that what both genders are contributing to the family is not 50-50. The woman brings 80 and the man brings 20.

My conclusion is that women bring more to the table in modern Nigerian homes than men do.

So, what exactly do Nigerian men bring to the table apart from money?
What else do they have to offer. It's obvious that marriages in Nigeria favours men more than women.
Nigerian men just want to eat their cake and have it.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Olachase(m): 7:16pm On Dec 02, 2022
He get one lady way I nake one day like that, I carry the lady enter gear 4 she con day tell me babe pls I'm not after ur money I love how u day rough handle me,

Hope you see clearly that men have a lot of advantages!!!

Now tell us apart from money, what did you want us to bring to the table?

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Jeon(f): 7:17pm On Dec 02, 2022
Front tail and Money.
Community penis.
Uncountable sidechicks.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by virginprincess(f): 7:18pm On Dec 02, 2022
Cheating,heartbreaks,infection,disease,and so many other bad things .

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Kollins11: 7:23pm On Dec 02, 2022
Personally, I bring money to the table, Money answereth all things, Infact Every MAN brings money to the table. As a MAN we hustle everyday to show ourselves approved. That's why the full meaning of MAN is..
M - Morning
A - Afternoon
N - Night

This is reason I hustle everyday as a real MAN just to live an expensive life & to impress myself and NOT some useless Nigerian bitches.

A man also comes to the table with expectations of long term plans capable of achieving long term goals.

All what siofra wrote up there about her gender are lame points. A woman's most bargaining power on the table is her pussy. She mounts her pussy on the table, lay on her back and spread the legs. The pussy is the trump card she throws on the table.

Till I die, I will always see Nigerian girls as a sex object.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by siofra(f): 7:23pm On Dec 02, 2022
Jeon:
Front tail and Money.
Community penis.
Uncountable sidechicks.

You're always on point, Jeon! cool

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Jmarjr(m): 7:23pm On Dec 02, 2022
Hmmm
Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Generalkaycee(m): 7:24pm On Dec 02, 2022
Virgina people will not kill me.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Dec 02, 2022
Well as a woman you choose how you want to be treated by choosing your life partner. Therefore choose carefully.

If the man wants to only provide and not help with other things, then yes he should be the solely provided while the woman looks after the home and children.

I pity women that take up the 50 50 rules when it comes to relationships. God forbid bad things for what? Unnecessary stress. And subconsciously the man will resent you for emasculating him.


If we follow the divine order there will be no problem. The man is the leader of the home
The
Man should provide and protect, the woman should bring peace to the man and follow his lead and be submissive.

But all these Westerners have fooled women into believing what a man can do a woman can do it.
This is the result now y’all over working yourselves trying to prove heck you can do the 50 50
rule or even do more than a man.

What a man can do a woman can not do it, what a woman can do a man can not do
It.


It is not natural for a woman to be the provider of the home or even do 50 50 with a man. That is why when ever you see a woman who’s providing, she’s doing it with a heavy resent and bitterness towards her partner. She will complain to no end.

Because this is unnatural. She’s stepping in an unnatural role.





To answer the question to the thread I don’t know I haven’t dealt with men like these I refuse to deal with them. I invest in myself and I ain’t choosing no struggle love. There’s nothing at the end of the tunnel for nothingness.

Heck forgot just Nigerians women many African women are struggling because of this because they are not seeking out the best mates many just want to be married for the sake of been marriage forsaking all other.

Men Seek out beautiful women, women with good characters and woman that would make
Good mothers as partners.

Nothing wrong with women seeking out true providers, protecters, and leaders as partners either.

White women have been taught this since. While most of our women continue to suffer in these struggles loves and not even getting the appropriation and love they truly deserve.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Jeon(f): 7:29pm On Dec 02, 2022
My conclusion is that women bring more to the table in modern Nigerian homes than men do.

I swear I know many women that pay more than their so-called men.

1 A Teacher , she pay for the three kids [luckily the two grown kids are in government secondary ]school fees, books, clothes and house bills .
The man works in Company and he's addressing himself as a pastor

2 A Teacher, she pays for the two kids life bills, Still yet the husband always beat her and he can never address her as a wife or woman rather he calls her girl. THIS GIRL.

3 A Nanny, luckily her brother-in-law is giving the five kids free education. But house rents, chop money, clothing are all on the nanny's head. And the so-called man is a bike rider, sells tickets, but refuse to feed his family and only chasing an old big woman old enough to be his late mum. Same man beats the woman because she refused to take in another pregnancy.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by ogologoamu: 7:30pm On Dec 02, 2022
Check my pics for more things we bring to the table.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nhemzie17: 7:32pm On Dec 02, 2022
How tf did I come across such a senseless post. It's no surprise as your stupidity is popular on this mention.

I'll leave you to DaddyCK and Zonefree

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by PointZerom: 7:33pm On Dec 02, 2022
ogologoamu:
Check my pics for more things we bring to the table.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by SocialJustice: 7:37pm On Dec 02, 2022
Rokiatu45:
Well as a woman you choose how you want to be treated by choosing your life partner. Therefore choose carefully.

If the man wants to only provide and not help with other things, then yes he should be the solely provided while the woman looks after the home and children.

I pity women that take up the 50 50 rules when it comes to relationships. God forbid bad things for what? Unnecessary stress. And subconsciously the man will resent you for emasculating him.


If we follow the divine order there oils be no problem. The man is the leader of the home
The
Man should provide and protect, the woman should bring peace to the man and follow his lead and be submissive.



To answer the question to the thread I don’t know I haven’t dealt with men like these I refuse to deal with them. I invest in myself and I ain’t choosing no struggle love. There’s nothing at the end of the tunnel for nothingness.

Heck forgot just Nigerians women many African women are struggling because of this because they are not seeking out the best mates many just want to be married for the sake of been marriage forsaking all other.

Me. Seek out beautiful women, women with good characters and woman that would make
Good mothers as partners.

Nothing wrong with women seeking out true providers and leaders as partners either.

White women have been taught this since. While most of our women continue to suffer in these struggles loves and not even getting the appropriation and love they truly deserve.



Was shocked when I saw your name, didn't realise you were still here. How have you been and how is life in your country?
Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nhemzie17: 7:37pm On Dec 02, 2022
Jeon:


I swear I know many women that pay more than their so-called men.

1 A Teacher , she pay for the three kids [luckily the two grown kids are in government secondary ]school fees, books, clothes and house bills .

2 A Teacher, she pays for the two kids life bills, Still yet the husband always beat her and he can never address her as a wife or woman rather he calls her girl. THIS GIRL.

3 A Nanny, luckily her brother-in-law is giving the five kids free education. But house rents, chop money, clothing are all on the nanny's head. And the so-called man is a bike rider, sells tickets, but refuse to feed his family and only chasing an old big woman old enough to be his late mum.
.

What you said is shit.
Rate on a scale of 100, the percentage of families where women contribute to at least 50% of the expenses to the percentage of where they don't.
Women have nothing to offer except the deep pit between their legs and that's unarguable.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Creativity22: 7:40pm On Dec 02, 2022
Jeon:


I swear I know many women that pay more than their so-called men.

1 A Teacher , she pay for the three kids [luckily the two grown kids are in government secondary ]school fees, books, clothes and house bills .
The man works in Company and he's addressing himself as a pastor

2 A Teacher, she pays for the two kids life bills, Still yet the husband always beat her and he can never address her as a wife or woman rather he calls her girl. THIS GIRL.

3 A Nanny, luckily her brother-in-law is giving the five kids free education. But house rents, chop money, clothing are all on the nanny's head. And the so-called man is a bike rider, sells tickets, but refuse to feed his family and only chasing an old big woman old enough to be his late mum. Same man beats the woman because she refused to take in another pregnancy.
Please how much does the teacher earn to pay
school fees, books, clothes and house bills ?

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Zonefree(m): 7:49pm On Dec 02, 2022
So, money is no longer enough for you demons

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 02, 2022
SocialJustice:
Was shocked when I saw your name, didn't realise you were still here. How have you been and how is life in your country?

I am
Doing fine thank you.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Jeon(f): 7:57pm On Dec 02, 2022
Nhemzie17:
.

What you said is shit.
Rate on a scale of 100, the percentage of families where women contribute to at least 50% of the expenses to the percentage of where they don't.
Women have nothing to offer except the deep pit between their legs and that's unarguable.


Please find a chair and sit ur flat ass down.

You Men always run away from confrontation and like to claim rights even when some of you can't stand next to rating scales.

There's also a rich who retired from UBA and he's still working with community bank. Imagine that rich man will measure groundnut oil for his family, what won't have be the results of the kids if the Woman was not a worker?

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by 2rez: 7:58pm On Dec 02, 2022
Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Perez99: 8:04pm On Dec 02, 2022
Kollins11:
She mounts her pussy on the table, lay on her back and spread the legs. The pussy is the trump card she throws on the table.
Lol

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Savedday: 8:14pm On Dec 02, 2022
All 9ja girls shld be classify as handicaps because their entitlement mentality is out of this world. Am in support of ogboni.

They are so useless and evil. All of them

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nhemzie17: 8:17pm On Dec 02, 2022
Jeon:



Please find a chair and sit ur flat ass down.

You Men always run away from confrontation and like to right even we some can't stand next to rating scales.

There's also a rich who retired from UBA and he's still working with community bank. Imagine that rich man will measure groundnut oil for his family, what won't have be the results of the kids if the Woman was not a worker?

Shut your dirty mouth and sit your smelly ass down and learn.
Most of you girls are hypocritical beeches. You say men shouldn't generalise our usual phrase about women but here you are giving 2-3 instances of few men and then generalising it.
I shouldn't be taking you serious except you are a rich lady that takes care of herself not the leech that you are that can't do anything without the help of the same men you stupidly troll.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Moh247: 8:28pm On Dec 02, 2022
cheesy



Which kin mumu thread be this



.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Jeon(f): 8:33pm On Dec 02, 2022
Nhemzie17:


Shut your dirty mouth and sit your smelly ass down and learn.
Most of you girls are hypocritical beeches. You say men shouldn't generalise our usual phrase about women but here you are giving 2-3 instances of few men and then generalising it.
I shouldn't be taking you serious except you are a rich lady that takes care of herself not the leech that you are that can't do anything without the help of the same men you stupidly troll.

l know of a woman who suffered to farm... And later the useless man calling himself coach sold the farm + the land for hundred thousand and he gave the poor woman nothing.
Same woman sells kerosene every market day for substances.




We see things and we know the truth. Most men are useless and deadbeat dads to their kids.
Please have mercy on ur mom.
And yes I'm a lady that takes care of herself.. All the necessary things I need for Christmas are ready since November.. So I don't see a man that can shame me .I don't depend on tail in front before eating or doing any other thing.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Jeon(f): 8:40pm On Dec 02, 2022
Creativity22:

Please how much does the teacher earn to pay
school fees, books, clothes and house bills ?

Based on ur qualification levels and the days you have spend with them.
Some schools starts with 8 thousand[ waec /neco level ] and keep on increasing the salary as the terms goes on .

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nhemzie17: 9:08pm On Dec 02, 2022
Jeon:


l know of a woman who suffered to farm... And later the useless man calling himself coach sold the farm + the land for hundred thousand and he gave the poor woman nothing.
Same woman sells kerosene every market day for substances.




We see things and we know the truth. Most men are useless and deadbeat dads to their kids.
Please have mercy on ur mom.
And yes I'm a lady that takes care of herself.. All the necessary things I need for Christmas are ready since November.. So I don't see a man that can shame me .I don't depend on tail in front before eating or doing any other thing.

I find this funny. You can easily spew this online while you call guys to beg for urgent 5k offline. Or can you boldly claim you have never billed a male gender this year?

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 02, 2022
The Op of this post is a very mumu individual.

When your father married your mother, what was he bringing to the table, let's start from there.

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Joshmuch: 9:29pm On Dec 02, 2022
dick, money, physical security & protection, attention, guidance & direction

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Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by fman(m): 9:33pm On Dec 02, 2022
siofra:


You're always on point, Jeon! cool
birds of the same feathers...
Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by Nhemzie17: 9:37pm On Dec 02, 2022
fman:
birds of the same feathers...
Not birds of the same feathers anymore..
Na bitches with the same fish brain flock together.
Re: What Exactly Do Nigerian Men Bring To The Table Apart From Money? by fman(m): 9:40pm On Dec 02, 2022
Nhemzie17:


Not birds of the same feathers anymore..

Na bitches with the same fish brain flock together.
I swear!!
But on a scale of 1:100, Siofra is better than jeon

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