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Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by timesuploaded: 1:23pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
pinkasso:The only place where people don't prosper is America and Canada. They are all depressed people. When they die they will all be buried with a funeral loan. You are brainwashed 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by sylve11: 1:24pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Oblongata: Very loud and clear. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by timesuploaded: 1:25pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Validated:They are all depressed and can't afford to pay for ticket. They console themselves with idiots like you badmouthing Nigeria. The first 20million richest Nigerian live and work right here in Nigeria. Everyone abroad is suffering and about to die of depression 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by timesuploaded: 1:25pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
FavouredNK:nobody is discouraging you. Abroad is not encouragement. Abroad is stupidity 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by jimetagambo: 1:25pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
In as much as I would like to disagree with her, she is actually right up to about 90%. Women would change when they discover their new found power abroad. The family dynamics move from the patriarchal we are used to in Nigeria to matriarchal. Some men cannot cope with this sudden change. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Eriokanmi: 1:26pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
StagethemTVee:There's a couple in similar shoes right now. They married newly and travelled to USA together for studies. They both resigned from their paying Jobs. The wife was earning close to 400k after tax in a bank. On getting to America, their plans changed. They didn't report to school instead, they were working with someone else's Sola-Sola meaning the social security. 4 years down the line, their arrangee wedding they're into, in order to get papers isn't working out. The husband attended 2 interviews with his akata arrangee wife for his green card but none was successful and once this happens, na only miracle remain. The wife too tried but didn't work and time dey go. The wife has been behaving funny lately. She's planning to relocate to another state now, to commence her life independently during which she'd be looking for how to get papers. They've got no kids yet. Nigeria is a much better place. We just need to fix leadership issues. Once we get it right, those in the Diaspora will throng Nigeria. Forget those good looks on WhatsApp and Facebook, nice environment, etc...just ask them for 100usd and they'd either block you or decline to respond to your subsequent requests. It's not so easy as people think. I don live there before during my school days. I always say this so no neef to start the story again. Whoever wishes to go should go and see things. Make sure you look for opportunities and bring it home sharply as most of us did. There's a proverb in yoruba which says, if you tey too long on top shiit, na different species of flies go dey meet you there. Most of those who schooled and graduated over there have now turned agents to their alma mater, advertising their unis to Nigerians for a stipend called commission...Where's the job? 8 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Burgerlomo: 1:26pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Bitter truth 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by timesuploaded: 1:27pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Begobow:shut up your mouth. Tell Americans and Canadians to pay fully for their cars and 95% of them will be trekking this very minute. Tell them to pay fully for their houses and 99.9% of them will become hopeless and sleeping on the street tonight. You are brainwashed. Abroad is stupidity. You have to be super dumb to think of japa 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by faceland: 1:28pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
kingthreat: If you life is enjoyable, you would not remember church especially if you are overseas. If they are here at least 2 million naira would enter her account in tithe, offering and donations. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by timesuploaded: 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
080bjaked:Thunder and ogun fire and kill you. Slave. If you have just 50k in ur account you are a trillion times better than everybody in Canada and America. Canada and America are debt infested shitholes. All their citizens are slave and 2mins away from suicide. You are a brainwashed slave |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by planetx: 1:31pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Any Nigerian man going abroad especially to Western countries with his wife is taking a big risk. That system will change a African woman no matter how well grounded she seems in Nigeria, by the time she starts earning $£€ your eyes go see pepper. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by ZaddyJ: 1:31pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
deepwater:And with that 500k monthly rent payment abroad u re sure of getting multiple jobs to cater for your Bill's and life style oo. Over here dat yr 500k yearly rent payment is even where d devil is without a job to commensurate your Bill's . Because government hasn't made an enable atmosphere for the populace to get a job let alone multiple 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Burgerlomo: 1:31pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Patriotsleague: Don't mind those people that are criticizing her, they are doing that because they don't know what's up 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by NoToPile: 1:32pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: Wait first are you trying to say both of them had arrangee marriages as in husband marry someone, wife to married someone? 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by sweetTai(m): 1:32pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
When I came to the United States in 1997, I used to advise people not to travel out of Nigeria. Today, I can’t sincerely give that advice. If you are well off in Nigeria with a good job or business, stay in Nigeria and travel to the west on vacation for exposure. Nigeria of today is a nightmare. Within the last 2 years, I know at least 4 families that returned to Nigeria some years back only to come back to America because the conditions in Nigeria was just too harsh. I don’t know of anybody that has stayed in America for some years and can make sense of Nigeria of today. The problem is not Nigeria, the problem is Nigerians. Our reasoning, our thoughts, our rationale and sentiments has been badly affected by instability and poverty. The last time I went home, I had to chastise a grown man in his 50s or 60s openly urinating in front of my Dad’s house. When I told him to stop, every Okada drivers and retailers around were laughing at me like I was saying things that is Devine. Everywhere I went, it’s begging, begging and begging! A complete chaos. I watched the utterances of the Nigerian politicians and it bemused me. I was watching TV one night when a Nigerian politician brought his 6 or 7 wives to the Nigerian congress just to show them how powerful of a man he is. This same politician has almost 20 kids! What business does he have besides the legislature to cater for such a huge family?? NIGERIA IS A HUGE DISAPPOINTMENT!!! 22 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Allisgud: 1:32pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
sharpwriter:the rules favour women,that's to tell u that ur wife wey dey form submission for naija,if she reach that place u see am na 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by timesuploaded: 1:32pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Angelfrost:all Nigerians have 500k dormant in their account. You are brainwashed. What is 500k? How much to rent 2 bed for Asaba? |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by faceland: 1:32pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Nhemzie17: The logic is, if you can make 1 million in this hard economy, you can make 100 million in a developed country. If you do your research, there is no uncertainty, you would crush it. If you have 100k in a remote village, you can marry and rent house with it or go to the town/city where the 100k wouldn't cover rent. |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Eriokanmi: 1:33pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
timesuploaded:You've said it all. We're better off here. We pay 100% for everything we have. You must be rich to try that over there. I had a neighbour back in the days who completed his mortgage at a fairly old age...something he had been paying for donkey years. A few years after he finished paying, he was retired. Whereas, you can buy a house here outrightly as a young man and live your dream. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Allisgud: 1:36pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
deepwater:same house with the same space with the same 5m net worth the one in Nigeria is the richest |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by planetx: 1:37pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
timesuploaded:My guy just hate America 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by richie240: 1:38pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Ur 'analysis'just goes to support hes argument. U have just confirmed that the cost of living abroad far supersedes that of naija. Remember they don't spend naira in Yankee o, ehn-ehn. The only time being abroad pays better is when u are well paying job. Even if someone tells Nigerians that hell is not a bed of roses, many Nigerians will still surmise that since American celebrities like Michael Jackson are there, ''the rich are only using such claims to prevent the poor from tasting d 'sweetness' of hell". My African ppl sef. deepwater: 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by bassidogeorge: 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
O L O W O L A Y E M O !! 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by being(m): 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
You gave answer to a question, you are still asking d question again.. Based on what you wrote, Would you prefer you àre not thinking of rent for d next 1 yr or d next 1 month? As per supressing the poor, is every migrant abroad rich? deepwater: |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Allisgud: 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
adedayoa2:get small issue with that woman u go know say na she bring u 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Eriokanmi: 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
NoToPile:They entered America as students but refused to report at school. They shose to be working instead. These are the people very close to me. The husband told the wife his intention, he had nothing to do with the Yankee woman. It was a paid arrangement to adjust their status. A lawyer was involved. The wife too was into it. The husband knows the yankee guy too. No strings attached. They both paid for the service. The couple even works in same company. But after failing interview for the adjustment of status twice, the wife said she's relocating to another state to start a life, all of a sudden. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Cutehector(m): 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
080bjaked:keep on comparing yourself with people. |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by sweetTai(m): 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
You’ll never see a Chinese pastor or an Indian pastor preach against their citizens traveling to the west. What I have found amusing is the Nigerian pastor or “Prophet” that always capitalizes on their worshippers vulnerabilities. A well to do “prophet” is advising against migration. I agree, don’t go to the west if your intentions are to commit fraud or steal. But if your intentions are to better your life, by all means! 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by na2016: 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Oblongata: Calm down. Generally and from what I have seen, most Nigerian women here become very difficult outside Nigeria. Most Nigerian Christian marriages will crash outside Nigeria cos most women ain't submissive and don't even have regard for Thier partner outside naija 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Jman06(m): 1:42pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
The truth is that taking a Nigerian wife alone abroad is gamble no wise man should undertake. Women wield so much power over their husbands in the west. Knowing how ungrateful Nigerian women can be to their husbands no matter the level of sacrifice the man makes, it's an unwise decision to spend your resources sending your wife abroad. It is better for the man to travel himself or if his children are grown, he can send them. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by MoneyMustBMade(m): 1:45pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
All she is saying here is the truth. Many will not understand 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by faceland: 1:47pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
timesuploaded: Their standard of living is higher than yours. It is just like us under GEJ, you don't know what you have until you lose it. Do you have 24/7 electricity, water, highspeed internet, good read network and cheap transport system? When was the last time you traveled 200km and back the same day without fasting and praying against accident and kidnapping? Can you call the police without first counting out their bribe? 4 Likes |
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