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Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by BloomingDale(f): 2:27pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by alvan06(m): 2:27pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
deepwater:let say you earn €1600 monthly and you pay 400 to 600€ rent a month then gas, water ,condominium will surely take up to €300 think of feeding fuel ⛽️ or tickets to work before you feed them family and friends who now thinks that you live in heaven will be frowning with that you’re not sending something o,bros the only difference between Nigeria and abroad is security,electricity and maybe freedom. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Chris2863(m): 2:28pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
deepwater:your analysis is quite funny. The question now is, how much is an average rent in Lagos for a month and how much is an average rent in the Western in a month To you, you sounded very intelligent with the above analysis |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 2:28pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
She made great points, but again, like I have stated here countless times, people will always consider economics first before societal values and self-being. Nigerians need to read about the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs to understand better why people do what they do. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by erico2k2(m): 2:31pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Eriokanmi:Thats another gains when you Japa, Ideas and skills, then you hustle start up money return invest and smile.people go thin say nah Juju 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by shegzhkn: 2:32pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: Yeah, you are doing great but that is not the case for everybody you know that, but saying Nigeria is a better places is a bit of a stretch. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Alusiizizi(m): 2:33pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
deepwater: Comments like these are the reason I don't ever bother offering advice to people. Tell them the truth and they will rebuke you, show them even video evidence and they will curse you and your generations, accusing you of being an "enemy of progress". |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Lukuluku69(m): 2:33pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
erico2k2: Thanks for the information about the homeless people in the West. So, most or all are Junkies, Mental Cases and what have you. It is Ok And Films and Music are portrayals of a Society. They more often than not potray Society and it's way. It is true I have not lived abroad before but I am damn sure that not all homeless people are Junkies and mental cases. I have been oppourtuned to live in Lagos, Abuja, Kano and Kaduna. The homeless in these major cities are "migrants" workers in these City searching for a better lives. It will amaze you that their numbers dropped significantly when you move in to the hinterlands of Nigeria. It is also true that our Government never provide Social Housing for anyone but one thing you should know is that these Social assiatnce put in place in the Western world did not arrive in a day. It takes time and surely Africa nay Nigeria will get their someday. I still repeat, if you have the means to leave, please do so by all means andif you want to stay, please do. I usually don't listen to these pontifications from people who have made a lot of money either abriad or in Nigeria telling people not to leave. If you look at the Sister Ajayi now, she probably have at least 4-5 houses in America, her kids in America and spend more time in America than Nigeria yet they will tell you not to go to the same America 5 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by erico2k2(m): 2:34pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
alvan06:Your assumption is flawed, and you are not close to anyone abroad ,let me tell you those who live in that bracket you mentioned paying such rent do not pay any utility bills its all-inclusive as they rent rooms in a shared accommodation, the next thing they pay for is t fare to work and feeding. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by erico2k2(m): 2:36pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Lukuluku69:Ofcos all the well to do and enlightened people in Nigeria have their kids schooling abroad or living there. And waht I told you of homeless people is true, I have lived in England 22 years and aint playing! |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 2:36pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
080bjaked: C'mon! Let's be honest with ourselves. A bank manager in Nigeria has better life prospects than a UK ware house operative. Besides, that is an apple-to-orange comparison. A better comparison will be a bank manager in Nigeria to a banker in the UK. That is how you compare two things. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Eriokanmi: 2:37pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
shegzhkn:You're right...staying in Nigeria could be a stretch. I drank the garri for 6 months I won't lie . But after 6 months, it became history. Just check out the big and mighty, those shaking the world today, they had it rough at start. Only the courageous can bite the bullet. But I was prepared foe all the challenges. Even my friends were laughing when I told them I was leaving. Today, it's a much different story 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by GboyegaD(m): 2:43pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
sharpwriter: Don't let such stories discourage you. There are Nigerians abroad who's been married over 4 decades and are happy. May your partner because of who they are and not the perks that comes with their person. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Yomit71(m): 2:43pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
yesloaded:Be giving useless excuse up and down. |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Lukuluku69(m): 2:45pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
erico2k2: Good to know that you spent quite a lot of time in the UK. I had chances to do same but I did not considered it at all. I never begrudged anyone that want to leave. A friend of mine ( he has been in America for 23 years and counting) once told me that America is a land of opportunities. He said you will always find something to do and if you are good at it, you will make money. He also said that, were the opportunities the same in Nigeria and America, he will choose to remain in Nigeria. Our so called Leaders made it so with active connivance of the Western Powers. In all of these, we all can't leave Nigeria. That is not possible. So, whoever is with the ways and means to leave, let them do so. And if you belong to #TeamWeDieHere by all means stay! Every society do have what it offers in terms of human development index and also have some drawbacks. |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 2:45pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
drakeli: There are skilled migrant routes. Not every woman behaves like the ones in your life. New-generation migrants tend to be more skilled or follow legal routes than previous migrants as illegal migrants' loopholes have been closed. |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by GboyegaD(m): 2:46pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Zimzy: Relocation isn't the cause of issues in marriage. It only amplifies that the marriage was out of comfort and not love. I know many men try to adjust and some don't, and their marriage are working. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Nwaajasa: 2:47pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Oblongata:Naija or Abroad, marriage wey go crash go crash. You said it all and I love people that reason well before commenting |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by megastu(m): 2:47pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Only one you know? Its over common now. It is not surprising. The world is becoming, increasingly selfish. Most times it is not about the love or lack of love they have for themselves. Its just that the transactional nature of marriages only starts to wane after 10 years together. At that stage, you are now used to your partner after living with him/her for that long. You get really attached. StagethemTVee: 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by SIRTee15: 2:49pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: For every one bad story of Nigerians abroad, there are hundreds of successful story. One will think all Nigerians in UK are suffering and regretting, yet the beautiful estate I live has many well established young naija couples. Guess the mortgage- 350 thousand pound upward. Developed countries still remain the best place to attain solid middle class status early in your career and accumulate enough funds to fulfil your goals. Yes Nigeria is the place to become a millionaire and very influential. Something those abroad can achieve faster if they eventually relocate with enough cash and needed skills. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 2:51pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
happney65: Cultural factors. It might be easy for someone young and single, but for mid-30s Nigerians, they prefer marrying other Nigerians and especially those from the same ethnic group/religion as they are. Besides, it is a normal thing to marry your kind all over the world. The percentage of interracial marriages is very low. Humans are naturally discriminatory. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Epinbiz(m): 2:53pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
With cool business strategy 500k in you account and both of you are employed or have something doing definatley you will be better off..... |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by 1Sharon(f): 2:53pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
odemeetu1: Why was the baby near hot oil? Think am, that screams carelessness. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 2:55pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
planetx: The same also happens in Nigeria. Money makes people assertive, the higher a woman earns money and higher than her husband's, the more assertive she becomes. It is a global phenomenon. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Father4all: 2:59pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Mumu woman. Na poverty go kee you |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 3:02pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: This is much better than saying Malaysia is a poor country. |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Goodman247: 3:05pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Angelfrost:l.like your comment, most marriages in Nigeria are toxic, people pretend, because of fear of stigma associated with divorce and singleness, that is why you hear husband killing wife or wife killing husband on the increase, white people dt do that, if it is not working they go thier separate ways, 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by 1Sharon(f): 3:08pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Eriokanmi:They went there and tried to commit marital fraud to fool the government, instead of focusing on school? What were they expecting? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by arantess: 3:09pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
There are also people whose spouses travelled and they stayed strong until themselves joined up.... Different strokes for different folks |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Goodman247: 3:12pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Life is about choices, you cannot tell somebody to Japka or not to Jakpa, nowhere is perfect, the Nigerian government cannot provide secirity, basic amenities like constant power supply or good roads to its citizens, economy is bad, etc 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by Gozac: 3:12pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
She is stating the obvious |
Re: Japa: Rev Esther Ajayi Advises Nigerian Couples Against Relocating Abroad by richie240: 3:15pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Oga, shame of having nothing to show for all the years they've spent in obodo oyibo won't let them have d liver to come back. You know how many ppl that can't dare leave Lagos and travel to the village during Christmas? How much more those living abroad. Validated: 1 Like |
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