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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chigomiced: 2:38am On Dec 05, 2022 |
People will quit on you. You gotta get up every day and make sure you never quit on yourself. 32 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 4:19am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Good morning redpillers. I've been a follower of this thread from the early days. Thanks for all your inputs. I want to share my current experience that happened to me with you all so you can observe one or two things. It will be lengthy ![]() I had a girlfriend who was a friend during my school days. From friendship, we grew into something else over the span of 7 years. We started dating this time last year. This lady chose me not because I did anything special or have lots of money to spend on her. She barely demands a thing from me. I was at my lowest financially but she was there to encourage me. In my heart, I prayed to God to ease things for me so I can settle down with her though I know there's nothing in for a man when it comes to marriage but I'm not a fan of baby mama stuffs. My girl is not the usual type you find around. She's a strong believer in God and she's quite the modest type. Beautiful, tolerant, understanding and to some extent thinks things from logical perspective. Above all things, she's a virgin which I've confirmed myself. Now before she met me, I've been in several relationships where I've been sexually active even with virgins and all that. I got the looks you could easily rate me over 9. From a young age, women has never been my problem. They flock around me even the married ones but I'm not the type of guy to go after everything in skirt. We are in crazy times and the statistics of HIV in this country is quite crazy. One has to be wise. My girl lives in another state and works in a bank so there's practically no time for her to come over. At one point she was with me and things happened she had to relocate back home. I opened a business with the intention of her managing it while I focus on my fx journey with the possibility of travelling out if she could handle things without me. Recently she said she would relocate back next year but she won't be staying with me because she's not too comfortable with it. I felt a lil bit embarrassed by that statement cux for me I'm trying to fix things so she won't have to over stress herself because she's not the physical strong type. Well whatever works so far she's comfortable in her crib then there's no big deal. It's been a year we saw eachother. My business wouldn't permit me to move an inch cux of terrible staffs and her banking job won't let her due to lots of restrictions. Our sexual life is zero. The last time we tried to even have sex, it took alot of talking . I'm not the guy used to such cux my belief is if a woman is into/chose you, she won't stress you. The sex didn't happen so I left her virginity intact cux I'm not the one to pressure. So she made a statement yesterday while we were chatting about how she likes hugging others but she finds it weird and hard doing it around me. So I asked her why it so then she was like she has these bad stuffs in her head and she's a child of God. She pulled the religious card on me and trust me I'm not a fan of over religious people. It's a huge turn off for me. There should be a balance. I told her since she's a child of God, I am of the devil. Light and darkness cannot meet so why even bother been with me?. How long I'll stay in this sexual hibernation?. I told her blank that on the long run this won't work cux I'll go outside to satisfy my sexual side which is basically cheating. Now if she was not selfish and tried to put herself first, she would have asked what we could do to remedy the situation since relationships is all about understanding. She didn't even make any efforts or such. She just said its okay, she won't get in the way of my happiness so our relationship became over. I didn't initiate that conversation to end the relationship, but from her reaction, it looked like the relationship didn't mean anything to her though she was saying emotional things but for her to just accept things like that shows the level of her commitment and how much she desired me. The moral lessons I got from this relationship that ended is quite intoned with the redpill we all preach here daily. 1. Sex before anything else. 2. Her actions will always speak louder than any emotions 3. She can choose you and still put herself first. 4. A woman doesn't really love you. 5. As a man, always show that sexual side. If they don't want or accept that, then move on to the next. It's not ideal to keep her around if she doesn't please or satisfy you. Always make sure you are getting something from her. 6. Value should begets value. Avoid a one sided relationship. 7. Never be afraid to walk away no matter the bond or history if your needs as a man is been neglected. 8. Get them to commit thier sexual side. That's basically their trump card. A woman that has been with you sexually can't easily walk away. To her, she has invested in you. 9. Avoid the over religious. That "holy than thou attitude". It never ends well. 10. Any sex that's withheld is not worth it. Life's full of uncertainty. You dont want to be that guy that builds women for others to wife. If she's saving herself and wants you to still play the role of a provider all in the promise of a union someday before you get to lay with her, then you are walking into a trap. I find these type of ladies with this mindset highly manipulative and unreliable. 11. She will never fully give you authority in the union. She tried to sell that no sex crap to me in hopes that I'll commit to her. I wonder what would the future would look like cux majority of the times I'm certain she would want to control the sex in the home because I would have actually given her that power during dating. I actually wanted to wife her up but the logical side of me can't look past these things. My sister would always say that a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. So in all, I thank God for the outcome. Men out there please be wise. These ladies will always put themselves at an advantage. I'm thankful I didn't overdo things financially due to my redpill exposure. It would have been a mess. No matter how much you love her, open your eyes to the truth standing in front of you and never fail to vet her. Always have options so you dont fall for their manipulations. Keep focusing on you kings. Cheers 49 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by OffsahBoye(m): 4:29am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:Quite a long read since your mind is made that you aren't going to wife her Why not just play along,get the coochie then you bounce Staying all that long with her(7yrs) without getting the coochie is like a loss to me because another man will just come and get it Play her game with her,your advantage is you know where it'll end But she doesn't He go pain me if you no deflower that girl,that's your receipt for the 7yrs transaction Then bounce 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 4:34am On Dec 05, 2022 |
OffsahBoye: I meant we have been friends for 7 years before attempting relationship last year. I have no intentions of playing along with her just because of sex cux I really had good plans for her..I've been with ladies bro..it's not much of big deal..it's just that I actually wanted to do everything with one person but she was not in for that so it's better it ended that way..atleast I won't get that "you used me" tag 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 6:22am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes: YOU SHOULD HAVE DEAD THE RELATIONSHIP FROM THE BEGINNING 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uptheante(m): 6:37am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:Bro, the fact is that women don't regard men like you with any form of respect. You being nice & considerate towards her is actually a turn off to her though she'll deny it. It may shock you to know that another guy or even guys have been fuccking her silly throughout the 7yrs + while you were being nice & considerate with her. When dealing with a girl, especially a Nigerian girl, your aim should be to put yourself first & be able to counter any form of manipulation from her. You should bang her pusssy silly with zero emotions attached & also have other girls around you as a constant reminder to her that she can be easily replaced, & never be afraid to call out her bullshit whenever she misbehaves. Do this & watch her respect you & always trying to please you 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 6:50am On Dec 05, 2022 |
HARDESTNIGGAINT: I have dead it now. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 6:53am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Uptheante: Based on her religious beliefs, she wants to keep herself till wedding night..I've let her be..I can't play myself..there are lots of ladies around and she knows..even marriage doesn't guarantee anything 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uptheante(m): 6:57am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:Is she really a virgin or she's deceiving you while getting fuccked by someone else? 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 7:08am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:[/b]it guarantee nothing bro. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by akwesenana: 7:15am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:Why do I feel she's being straffed silly where she lives. She now wants to use religiousness to pose as a wife material so you'll fall. But you didn't. 24 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 7:16am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Uptheante: She is..the turn off is the fact that she's holding onto that..life is unpredictable..even in marriage people change. Withholding sex is actually not worth it..After deflowering then what next? What can you use to keep me if I don't want to stay with just you? Women don't think 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 7:17am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tepes: 7:20am On Dec 05, 2022 |
akwesenana: I'm certain she's not..but saying you desire me and yet not wanting me to touch you..that's pure manipulation. Only a religious person or simp would wait till wedding night. That's you living in her frame instead of the other way round 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:31am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Good lessons for life. 14 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uptheante(m): 7:36am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:Assuming she's saying the truth about her being a virgin, then try & seduce her & get your share of the kpekus. This is because another bad nigga may come along & she'll open her legs for him quickly. The nigga will end up chopping what you have been waiting patiently for for 7yrs + & this will pain you so much. If however you don't wanna seduce her & chop your share then prepare your mind for the inevitable. If you try seducing her & she no gree open legs for you, then ignore her & mingle & fucck other girls & she'll understand that her kpekus is not special 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheGidRedpiller(m): 7:54am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Pukkalolo:I VERIFY THIS ASF!!!!! TRP IS GOLDEN!! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheGidRedpiller(m): 7:56am On Dec 05, 2022 |
TRP IS GOLDEN!! 5 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 7:56am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Tune to Brekete Family guys ASAP! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by VERTEX1: 7:56am On Dec 05, 2022 |
situation o. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 7:57am On Dec 05, 2022 |
MEN, To keep her attracted, continue doing what you did to attract her in the first place while you keep improving yourself She will also need to be investing in the relationship even more than you do Learn game or suffer! *Copied 12 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 7:59am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Be willing to take a walk to emotionally detach from the situation, achieve a clear state of mind, and then make a decision based on that clear state of mind. 11 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kumbhuru: 8:02am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Igbo women are the worst. I think Hausa and a Northern women are the best 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:03am On Dec 05, 2022 |
VERTEX1:No mincing of words; eat, rest, work on ur body, get a dumbbell and stop giving excuses for you being lazy. 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:04am On Dec 05, 2022 |
kumbhuru:You re a tribalist, shame on you 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kumbhuru: 8:05am On Dec 05, 2022 |
IwasNeverGone:Not tribalism. Open to debate 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by OffsahBoye(m): 8:09am On Dec 05, 2022 |
tepes:It's her loss then Boss Used me tag?? Let's not drag it further,I really wish you well in your next 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:10am On Dec 05, 2022 |
If you are weak she will be cruel No lies in that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:11am On Dec 05, 2022 |
kumbhuru:That is non-debatable 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:13am On Dec 05, 2022 |
Weak men are repulsive to women. She will have no intention of helping you or feeling sorry for you. A man is supposed to be strong and capable. When he is timid and weak, she will not respect him. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:17am On Dec 05, 2022 |
As a man, work on yourself first and enjoy your hard earned money, because if you die, that wife will be the first to visit the Court Probate so as to collect letter of administration and withdraw all your money in your account. She will even use your money and buy makeup so as to look attractive to men, WORK on YOURSELF and stop actin like a BABY 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IwasNeverGone: 8:19am On Dec 05, 2022 |
King, Put yourself first If you fall, you may find out that you have no one to help you rise again If possible, find a band of brothers on the same mission as you If you're lucky, they may be there for you when life happens But then, put yourself first *Copied 12 Likes 1 Share |
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