Hi guys. I need your comment and advice on this matte.

I got to know this girl from a friend back in July.
She's a 23 year old final year LLB student and I'm 27 years old Lab Scientist.

We got talking at first and I began to develop interest in her.
She's calm, cool headed and has never even bothered me with any financial needs (which I'm still stunned about, very unlikely of Port Harcourt girls).

I'm very selective of girls but found this one to be very decent and maybe different.
I have plans of taking things serious with her.

We've gone out in a date at a bar once and it was all shades of amazing, there we shared our first kiss.

Just recently, on Sunday, a friend celebrated his birthday at a night club here in PH (411). I thought to invite this babe, she was pleased and accepted the invite.

We got there, ate, drank and it was dancing time with the DJ and hypeman.
We danced and she was wild on the dance floor with me. I was quite surprised but kept my cool because of the atmosphere.

The next shock happened, one of the big boys began throwing money up in the air, minted ₦100 & 200 notes and this babe legit left me and began picking money on the ground.

I brought her close, but she would let go and kept fighting with the crowd for the cash, she was almost trampled on.
For more than 15 minutes, I watched her picking.
I was quite embarrassed.

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

I've not been the same again since then, I've struggled with myself to communicate with her unlike before.

I know money is important, but is that a bad sign?
Is this a red flag?
Should I ignore her actions and forge ahead?
I'm really confused.

Women are moved by the sight of money even if they know that they don't need it, Thier behavior towards money is something they can't help and that's why you see women doing unspeakable things for money, don't bath for a Year and tell a girl to give you head for some good pay and watch her wash your d++k using her tongue and saliva.

ElBenny:

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

You should have just tell her to transport herself back home with the money she picked at the club, rather you still went ahead to drop her off.
You're a Capital SIMP and a first grade dullardo.

Let us forget about your useless Nigerian girlfriend and let's focus on you. You're the problem here. Life is short like Nika to be Simping around. There are many SIMPle rubbish you wrote up that I don't just wanna spot out.

But my advice to you is Never you take that gender serious. They are all useless... All of them

No bro
it's a Purple flag

Yo fish, i don't see this as a red flag, who know if she need the money, what is the big deal, picking up free money in the kind of economy you have in nigeria. as a friend, if you gist me about it and you mention the part of you not picking it, i will slap you.

Lol... I can imagine how you were embarrassed watching her struggling to pick money on the floor...

Well, anything you don't like just discard it like a thrash in waste bin...

No time to start sitting down and pondering over a girl who'll give you headache.

It's better to quit early.

Don't give it a second chance

When it comes to free stuffs, especially free money, Women will not say no.

Her act Is a sign from God for you to double your hustle. She may like you but she likes money more.

Emperormartin:
Lol... I can imagine how you were embarrassed watching her struggling to pick money on the floor...
Well, anything you don't like just discard it like a thrash in waste bin...
No time to start sitting down and pondering over a girl who'll give headache.
It's better to quit early.
Don't give it a second chance

OP don't know Nigerian girls are hungry. The poor useless hungry girl is looking for what to eat while the SIMPle OP is looking for Mumu Love that doesn't exist.

Who raised this simp..

When a man believes in love, he is bound for destruction(especially with a 9aija girl)

I just dy laugh lmao

She disrespected you. How much did she want to pick that she can't let go? She isn't wise and has no regard for you just because of free money, to the point of her dragging herself back to continue picking money, despite your efforts to pull her back. At times, money isn't everything. It's a thing of dishonour for me to leave my man and be running to pick money thrown into d air, it shows I do not have respect for myself and also , embarrasses my man Infront of other people there, that he isn't taking care of me enough.

May your find cure for your bittered soul.
Amen.

Kollins11:
You should have just tell her to transport herself back home with the money she picked at the club, rather you still went ahead to drop her off.
You're a Capital SIMP and a first grade dullardo.

Let us forget about your useless Nigerian girlfriend and let's focus on you. You're the the problem here. Life is short like Nika to Simping around. There are many SIMPle rubbish you wrote up that I don't just wanna pick point out.

But my advice to you is Never you take that gender serious. They are all useless... All of them

You're fucking crazy!
You new set of "alpha males" know nothing about this revered movement.
Don't be quick to call every man a simp.
So when has a man falling in love suddenly makes him a SIMP?
You're a disgrace and need better exposure on the red pill movement.

Nyascobar1414:
Who raised this simp..

When a man believes in love, he is bound for destruction(especially with a 9aija girl)

Op i think you should give her a second chance, you know women love free things especially money,that is not enough reason to just let her go,like you said she doesn't ask you for money so i think she really needs the money.

tayo60:
She disrespected you. How much did she want to pick that she can't let go? She isn't wise and has no regard for you just because of free money, to the point of her dragging herself back to continue picking money, despite your efforts to pull her back. At times, money isn't everything. It's a thing of dishonour for me to leave my man and be running to pick money thrown into d air, it shows I do not have respect for myself and also , embarrasses my man Infront of other people there, that he isn't taking care of me enough.

So what your point exactly,are you saying he should just let her go because of one small mistake.

ElBenny:
May your find cure for your bittered soul.
Amen.

I'm trying to break the shackles of Simping in your life but here you are calling me a bitter soul.

Don't worry, next time, your useless liability girlfriend will not only pick money at the club... she will also share her kpekus for everyone at the club for just ₦200 note right in your presence.

Death to all Simps!

Just ignore dude. Money is irresistible to Nigerian women.

They can't hide it

Be thankful to your God. Go this Sunday to church and do Thanksgiving if i were you.

Her good girl act was a charade, but the money in the club exposed her for the cheap girl that she is.

A girl like that will súck your best friend's dick behind your back for money.

For the right amount she'll poison your food.

virginprincess:
So what your point exactly,are you saying he should just let her go because of one small mistake.

Even if she needed money, she should at least respect d presence of her man beside her, I know she picked less than 10k, so how much is that? It isn't a small mistake, that's how she is. Op is d one who determines either to continue with her or not .@virginprincess, can you also do that to your man?

ElBenny:
Hi guys. I need your comment and advice on this matte.

I got to know this girl from a friend back in July.
She's a 23 year old final year LLB student and I'm 27 years old Lab Scientist.

We got talking at first and I began to develop interest in her.
She's calm, cool headed and has never even bothered me with any financial needs (which I'm still stunned about, very unlikely of Port Harcourt girls).

I'm very selective of girls but found this one to be very decent and maybe different.
I have plans of taking things serious with her.

We've gone out in a date at a bar once and it was all shades of amazing, there we shared our first kiss.

Just recently, on Sunday, a friend celebrated his birthday at a night club here in PH (411). I thought to invite this babe, she was pleased and accepted the invite.

We got there, ate, drank and it was dancing time with the DJ and hypeman.
We danced and she was wild on the dance floor with me. I was quite surprised but kept my cool because of the atmosphere.

The next shock happened, one of the big boys began throwing money up in the air, minted ₦100 & 200 notes and this babe legit left me and began picking money on the ground.

I brought her close, but she would let go and kept fighting with the crowd for the cash, she was almost trampled on.
For more than 15 minutes, I watched her picking.
I was quite embarrassed.

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

I've not been the same again since then, I've struggled with myself to communicate with her unlike before.

I know money is important, but is that a bad sign?
Is this a red flag?
Should I ignore her actions and forge ahead?
I'm really confused.

na red flag

Honestly I see no red flag here

Some it’s a normal thing to them regardless of how much they have but however express your displeasure and let her know you won’t condone such act she should ask you for money if she needs it or better still surprise her with random alerts to avoid billing.

@Op, what you saw was her 15mins of madness (based on club level). Did you try communicating with her about the whole scenario and how disrespectful it was?

Have a talk with her first before you decide on what to do next.

I will tell you what I always tell other Simps...

All women are red flags.

So just keep her for your pleasure sake, cut off every ties with her but keep her as a fvck mate, anytime you are Hot, call her up and bang her, never give her a dime. Just bang her on a steady till she realizes on her own that you got nothing for her and leaves...

Women are meant to be used...

tayo60:
Even if she needed money, she should at least respect d presence of her man beside her, I know she picked less than 10k, so how much is that? It isn't a small mistake, that's how she is. Op is d one who determines either to continue with her or not .@virginprincess, can you also do that to your man?

I'm not saying what she did was right but you took your comment too high like she killed someone,i know it was a bit disrespect to her man to have done such but you know we women hardly resist free things especially when money is involve.

So she went to a club to look for serious man as well?

So for your mind now you are better than her?

If you are picking women in that kinda environment as well that says everything about your character as well you are no better.


If you ask me I think you both are just fu..ck buddies.

I doubt she’s losing sleep over what you think of her, she probably don’t take you serious either.

ElBenny:
Hi guys. I need your comment and advice on this matte.

I got to know this girl from a friend back in July.
She's a 23 year old final year LLB student and I'm 27 years old Lab Scientist.

We got talking at first and I began to develop interest in her.
She's calm, cool headed and has never even bothered me with any financial needs (which I'm still stunned about, very unlikely of Port Harcourt girls).

I'm very selective of girls but found this one to be very decent and maybe different.
I have plans of taking things serious with her.

We've gone out in a date at a bar once and it was all shades of amazing, there we shared our first kiss.

Just recently, on Sunday, a friend celebrated his birthday at a night club here in PH (411). I thought to invite this babe, she was pleased and accepted the invite.

We got there, ate, drank and it was dancing time with the DJ and hypeman.
We danced and she was wild on the dance floor with me. I was quite surprised but kept my cool because of the atmosphere.

The next shock happened, one of the big boys began throwing money up in the air, minted ₦100 & 200 notes and this babe legit left me and began picking money on the ground.

I brought her close, but she would let go and kept fighting with the crowd for the cash, she was almost trampled on.
For more than 15 minutes, I watched her picking.
I was quite embarrassed.

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

I've not been the same again since then, I've struggled with myself to communicate with her unlike before.

I know money is important, but is that a bad sign?
Is this a red flag?
Should I ignore her actions and forge ahead?
I'm really confused.

She was pretending all the while and trust me, this is a red flag if you ask me.

virginprincess:
So what your point exactly,are you saying he should just let her go because of one small mistake.

U call that a small mistake? A girl with no class no honour, no dignity and worse off no respect for her man? How them dey bring most of una up sef? And when boys call u names u get mad.. shame

ElBenny:
Hi guys. I need your comment and advice on this matte.

I got to know this girl from a friend back in July.
She's a 23 year old final year LLB student and I'm 27 years old Lab Scientist.

We got talking at first and I began to develop interest in her.
She's calm, cool headed and has never even bothered me with any financial needs (which I'm still stunned about, very unlikely of Port Harcourt girls).

I'm very selective of girls but found this one to be very decent and maybe different.
I have plans of taking things serious with her.

We've gone out in a date at a bar once and it was all shades of amazing, there we shared our first kiss.

Just recently, on Sunday, a friend celebrated his birthday at a night club here in PH (411). I thought to invite this babe, she was pleased and accepted the invite.

We got there, ate, drank and it was dancing time with the DJ and hypeman.
We danced and she was wild on the dance floor with me. I was quite surprised but kept my cool because of the atmosphere.

The next shock happened, one of the big boys began throwing money up in the air, minted ₦100 & 200 notes and this babe legit left me and began picking money on the ground.

I brought her close, but she would let go and kept fighting with the crowd for the cash, she was almost trampled on.
For more than 15 minutes, I watched her picking.
I was quite embarrassed.

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

I've not been the same again since then, I've struggled with myself to communicate with her unlike before.

I know money is important, but is that a bad sign?
Is this a red flag?
Should I ignore her actions and forge ahead?
I'm really confused.

She needs money, and had never requested from you. Remember she's a student, and in Port Harcourt, student needs money to put self together. Though it's not too good, but if you were actually pained and disturbed, you should have given her money, do you get? I live and resides in PH, so, I know what I'm saying,,ok? Please, go ahead with your relationship, if she's your spec,, good luck!

Somebody cannot be herself in peace again.
At least Its better than asking for urgent 2k from a guy.
What is embarrassing about what she did as a young lady?
She wasn't the only one picking the money there since you said she almost got trampled.

virginprincess:
So what your point exactly,are you saying he should just let her go because of one small mistake.

U call that a small mistake? A girl with no class no honour, no dignity and worse off no respect for her man? How them dey bring most of una up sef? And when boys call u names u get mad.. shameless and proud

Killbillz:

U call that a small mistake? A girl with no class no honour, no dignity and worse off no respect for her man? How them dey bring most of una up sef? And when boys call u names u get mad.. shame

Didn't you read where the op said she doesn't ask him for money even though she is in need of money,don't forget she is a student and students go through alot,so she just have to do what she had to do to survive,at least it better than begging you men for money.