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Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by GoldSantana: 2:55pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
OP you wife did wrong keeping what happened away from you, but I don't think it's worth divorcing her for, unless you guys have other issues that is affecting the peace of the home. Release your wife, and get the rapist arrested. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by DearGorgeous(f): 2:56pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
I reject having such a stinking mess as a brother! Heaven knows I'm the one that will personally lock you up in Police cell, even before notifying my husband. There's no way that contaminated blood will be thicker than water in this instance. A two year old baby for crying out loud? God forbids evil! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by newcommer: 3:00pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
I can't believe what I'm reading!!! Are there people in here condoning R*A*P*E of a 2 year old child? I'm seeing comments like "Forgive and forget", " Let the boy go, he's too young, it's not his fault", "Arresting your wife is going too far" and I keep reading, waiting for somebody to shout April fool but you people are actually serious. Nigerians, you people are evil and that's why evil never departs from your country. From today, you all have my eternal contempt for life!!! Disgusting, evil people!!!! You deserve EVERYTHING happening to you in that country. OP, let your wife rot in prison and serve her divorce papers while she's there. Don't forget to add her mother along with the rapist brother If they are lucky, they will all stay in the same cell. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Ulunne777(f): 3:02pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Oh hugs to the baby girl.I can't imagine the trauma the little girl must have gone through. Oh dear! Dear Op,I don't even know what to advice you but pls arrest the idiot and deal with him very well. I'm overwhemed as it reminds me of what I had triedbto forget ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Ulunne777(f): 3:03pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
DearGorgeous: 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by newcommer: 3:12pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
GoldSantana: Oh, it's not worth divorcing his wife over. Someone you call your wife covers up the rape of your 2 year old toddler and it's not worth divorcing her. When is it worth it then? When she cheats, right? It's all about the vagina and your sole access to it, abi? Some worthless men will throw away their children over vagina. That's how worthless they are. Gosh, I'm really amazed by comments from so-called adults. it's sad. I'm out of here 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by ahnie: 3:16pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Mehn this one weakened me. I m just speechless,what manner of wickedness is this. The woman did wrong by not involving her husband,I mean you do not keep such thing to yourself. The rapist should be dealt with. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Pootle: 3:21pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
some things i read here makes this life hard to llve in. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by GoldSantana: 3:28pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
newcommer: 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Oyiboman69: 3:29pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Richy4:what he did was right.... The wife should have told the husband and the matter would have been resolved amicably without the whole world knowing but she chose to tell her pastor who later made it a public and the man finding out from an outsider. This is a public embarrassment for the man and the child. the wife should be charged to the court so as to face the consequences of her stupidity and disrespectful act towards her husband. 7 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Adesuwag(m): 3:35pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Too bad! You have done wel. Make sure the boy is arrested and taught a Lesson of his life 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by entrep88: 3:42pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
OP, It's obvious your wife knows you have hot temper that's why she decide to keep this away from you although not a good or wise move. you don't solve problem by causing another problem. Am sorry for the little girl, however your action looks very extreme. you owe that woman the apology of your life for arresting her because it's obvious you don't love her. She is in a greater pain for her brother to rape her daughter, as a man you shouldn't do something before asking or thinking. you have successfully compounded this issue. Yes, your wife was wrong but your decision was worse. Gird up your loin like a man, release her apologize with everything you can, and let the elders settle this issue. I pray God handle the situation because some family has 1 or 2 sacrilegious secrets similar to this but it was kept a secret. Finally, be very careful of some roadside advice here on NL, atimes as a man some decisions are taken because of the future of the children. May God unite your home bro and give the poor girl permanent healing from this trauma. NB: Make sure the boy sleep police self-contain well furnished apartment for like 7 days! 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Nobody: 3:43pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787:IF what you said is the Undiluted Truth please, DIVORCE HER. Quickly, move her to divorce WhatsApp group ASAP. That group has to be filled up before December 31st. IF you need Financial Assistance to pursue such, I'm readily available. Too many EVIL Women now in Matrimonial Homes 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Richy4(m): 3:48pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Oyiboman69:Not telling the husband is so wrong.. there's no way to sugarcoat it... The husband would have been the first person on a speed dial to report to because they are parents...I will be totally upset as well especially finding out from the outsiders... Having said that, what was the main reason behind arresting the wife? Did she by chance asked the younger brother to rape their daughter? Was she in support of the fact that her daughter was raped or was OP trying to show case an act of supremacy?( Who wears the bigger trousers both in cash and otherwise) That's what I don't understand... She made a huge mistake by not telling him..I can never stop saying it... He even said that the wife lost weight.. probably thinking about what happened.. she is a mother, she cares too.. Even if he divorces her today, and the judge grants him the custody of the kids, there's no judge that will deny the mother the access to seeing her kids.. In one way or the other, they are still in it together... 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Mrkindness:Good Advice! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Truvelisback(m): 3:50pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787:BAIL UR WIFE. I don't think ur wife masterminded the rape of ur daughter. No sensible mum would allow that. But honestly speaking, i still wonder why a 14yrs old boy would such to ur daughter. Bail ur wife and investigate the matter. Find the boy that raped ur daughter and investigate. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by TheChameleon: 3:56pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
I am so pissed I am close to recommending some flogging for your wife and the rapist 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by laluski(m): 4:06pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787: In all what you said you didn't mention anything about your handling the brother.. that's where my interest lies... Don't tell me you left that guy untouched nor apprehended by the police.. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Rubbiish(m): 4:09pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787:I don't see any point arresting ur wife It was a very confusing situation for her, it is not easy for her to sell her brother. The only wrong she did was not telling u & having a bad person as a brother, because she is protecting her brother & was afraid of the action u would take, but she forgot such thing can't be hidden for long, even ur daughter would have also spill it out one day. My advice to u is to release ur wife immediately, u think it is easy for her?? U don't love that girl more than her, it is a very tight situation for her. Release her, if u wish to divorce her, do that directly. The person u should arrest is the brother, now that u have even arrested ur wife, maybe him go don run by now. Your wife was in a catch 22 situation. She was just confused. Don't add to her trauma already, release her immediately & divorce her if u wish to. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Lamanii22(f): 4:10pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Omoor this your case held me on my throat, like I can’t even envisage it, how can that boy be so cruel 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Rubbiish(m): 4:13pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Promotions:Exactly @bold cc co787 Please release ur wife immediately. I understand u are also confused about this whole thing, but arresting her is unfair! She is also traumatized as u & the Nigeria police station is not a place anyone healing from trauma should stay for 15 minutes. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by co787: 5:14pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Thanks all for the advice the reason I will bail her next week is because we will be going to the village together I will arrest the rapist if I bail her now her brother will escape for him not to escape my wife must be in jail until we go to the village 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by BoboKush(m): 5:17pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
This is serious.... Won't advice u divorce.... Why nt space or atleast go separately for a while without divorcing..... It kinda hard to say to u... U knw.... For her to be lean according to u.... She has been thinking and all..... Why not arrest the said brother too.... Let ur daughter go see psychologist or something Take heart bro |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by BoboKush(m): 5:17pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787: Good one 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Tobijays: 5:22pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787:bro can you go without her? Make she still dry der! How dare you hear this depiscable thing from an outsider! Round up everyone in that house when you get to the village ! Please those are not your family they are devils so destroy them because that is what they aimed at your kid! They are all criminals 7 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 5:23pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787: Please thread with caution. You said she stayed longer and had lost weight as at when she came back which suggests she might have been weighed down by the situation. In my opinion, I will suggest you bail her out, listen to her and reach a conclusion with her on how to help the brother. He should pay the appropriate time, but he shouldn't be left the way he is, otherwise, he will repeat the act. You can take measures as much as discouraging her to go to her folks with your children and not allowing them into your home. Yes, she betrayed your trust by hiding such nonetheless, divorce seems extreme. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by vincentjk(m): 5:37pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
entrep88: she deserves it for keeping it from him. how will she tell her prophetess and the news flying around without the knowledge of the husband himself? it till also be nice if he relocates to a far place with his daughter due to stigmatization. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by vincentjk(m): 5:40pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
BoboKush: She deserves it for keeping it from him. how will she tell her prophetess and the news flying around without the knowledge of the husband himself? this will be incredibly heartbreaking for the man tbh 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by 07kjb: 5:49pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Don't divorce her release your and go after the idiot 14year old |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by entrep88: 5:54pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
vincentjk:Deserve to arrest your wife for being stupid as always? In marriage you create room for that to live long, women don't heal easily sir, we don't judge by one person side, women don't open up to aggressive men I hope you agree? we may need to hear her side even though we all know her action too is wrong irrespective. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by vincentjk(m): 6:02pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
entrep88: oga abi madam abeg leave that thing, keep something from the man but will tell prophetess, to do what exactly? if she had told the husband they'd have shielded the little girl as well as not letting the story spread, now look at it. abeg talk another thing 1 Like |
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