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Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by apple30(f): 11:34pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787:chai u need to see how this ur mata Dey turn my belle mmmn ur wife no try at all ,Dey never born dat my Broda well, if I arrest am self him go thank God becus I go attempt to kill am , my 2yrs daughter I fit arrest my mama follow if she try to protect him ..as I Dey reason am eee Dey turn my belle .. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by gidjah(m): 11:37pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
IF you are not; (1) married.(2) married without kids..(3)you have jusl male kids.ie ,NO FEMALE KIDS. you can not judge the op.I HAVE FEMALE KIDS AND can tell how expensive it can be training female .his decisions might not be perfect,yet they are not totally out of course.ANY WOMAN who can keep such deep evil from the father of her children but yet go outside to discuss such with another tale bearer of a woman.. can be very dangerous to that man.she still needs to grow. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Hotguy27: 11:41pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
@Op, You didn't need to arrest her. You should have arrested the brother rather. She is also feeling bad but hiding it from you shows that there are a whole lot of other things she has been hiding from you. My wife can tell me anything, I mean anything. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by babaoo: 11:51pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Op,anybody wey say make u no divorce ur wife wants to kill you....ur wife can't be trusted and if you pursue the case,she gonna hate you more for treating the Bleep up of her family....ur best option is to arrest the family of ur wife and file for divorce for ur own good... |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by wisdomkid: 11:56pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787: JESU!!! 2yrs old? Fada LORD... Please arrest that hoodlum abeg. Mehn, that guy is sick and a threat to every single girl-child around him.... God Almighty!!! |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by eyinjuege: 12:03am On Dec 08, 2022 |
So heartbreaking. Please make sure that boy too is arrested. Even if na juvenile prison he will end up going. 14 years old is old enough to know right from wrong and to know not to defile a 2 year old 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by co787: 12:13am On Dec 08, 2022 |
eyinjuege: In America a 10 years old boy was charged as an adult for killing his mother and this idiot is 14 he knew what he was doing to my innocent baby I will make sure I spent all my saving for him to rot in jail forever pedophile like him shouldn't be anywhere around children and older women he deserve to die in jail 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Nobody: 12:14am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787: O universe! Punish me not with a dumb husband, for it's better to walk the ends of the earth 10 times than to have the misfortune of having a husband as foolish as this Op. When you pray, instead of praying to God for riches, pray for wisdom for wisdom is all encompassing. That's all I have to say on this matter. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by jaxxy(m): 12:14am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787: Marriage is not only about love, commitment bt also forgiveness. Right now u are walking and acti6in anger which is expected bt not wise. Calm down and think the whole situation out properly and then take the best action for ur family and u. Cheers |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by rumenase(m): 12:18am On Dec 08, 2022 |
CLATHRIN:it is actually boring bro, you’re just capping nonsense, you want to know why someone is a rapist are you ok at all? All rapists should rot in jail. Will you ask a killer why he is killing people? That boy is a danger to the society he should be cooling off in jail. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by rumenase(m): 12:22am On Dec 08, 2022 |
hifocus:don’t worry what happened to OP’s daughter will happen to you and your daughters so your husband will handle it sensibly. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Missionaire: 12:22am On Dec 08, 2022 |
newcommer: 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Collins4u1(m): 12:34am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787: in my own Nnewi, I'm ready to mount Intel for any bleep boy. did you say 2 years? are you kidding me? |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by zeyheed(m): 1:14am On Dec 08, 2022 |
STARGREEN:Pls take this advice....... Best for you, your daughter, wife and extended family 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by zeyheed(m): 1:17am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:Two years? I didn't see this at first Too bad He can rot in jail What would make a sane person rape a two year old nah. Abi e take am run some black jazz? Abeg make d jazz dey work for am for jail |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by wirinet(m): 2:15am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787: The minute you report to the police, a war will commence between you and her family and between your own family and her family. They will try to deny the whole thing, they will look for another justification for your 2 year old daughter's broken hymen. I hope you have a medical report. Even with a medical report confirming rape, they would try to put the blame on an anonymous stranger. The whole family and the whole village will support the boy given they are all complicit in covering up for the crime. Who will your wife support? There is no way your wife will not be implicated. She has to explain to the courts how her daughter was raped serially without her noticing at first. Which ever way you look at it, your marriage will never be the same again. She will be torn between her loyalty to her people and loyalty you and her daughter. Even if she says she chooses you, she will never be at peace with the marriage. Even your family will never forgive her. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Exodora: 3:32am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Klass99:From your judgement I doubt all is ok at home. Do you really think that boy wasn’t dealt with during those time. Do you think she didn’t regret going to the village or do you think her mother didn’t beg her not to let it out. Do you even think she has not done this to prevent her sick mother’s sickness from detouring. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by ussv: 3:36am On Dec 08, 2022 |
My brother, you took the best step. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Exodora: 3:40am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Do you really think that boy wasn’t dealt with during that period. Do you think she didn’t regret going to the village or do you think her mother didn’t beg her not to let it out. Do you even think she has not done this to prevent her mother’s sickness from detouring.Remember is her daughter we are talking about here and you think she is happy concealing it. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Techwitch(f): 3:48am On Dec 08, 2022 |
rumenase:Your type of dumb people are rulling the country,and thus the country is in a very bad shape. You think so shallow, Africans think very shallow and dumb. You think the solution js sending them to jail without knowing the cause, no one is born a killer, it is caused by a reason, if you don't solve the root problem, you will keep arresting and crimes will keep increasing. Advanced countries already know this that's why there are zero to low crimes in areas where government are taking care of the citizens well in terms of mental health, and financially. It's belittling to reply someone like you, but I needed to type for others to understand. Poverty, lack of education and proper upbringing, abuse are the major causes of ctimes like these, if they are not addressed,it will keep growing in the society no matter how the police arrest offenders,more offenders will keep springing up 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Cjpounds1000: 3:52am On Dec 08, 2022 |
If this story is true it is demonic,call a spade a spade.The boy need to dealt with not your wife. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by IamAsiri: 4:05am On Dec 08, 2022 |
SocialJustice: But the wife through the prophetess has told the world. Or, how in the first place was the man able to hear? |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by PapaFejiro: 4:11am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Unbelievable...pleasedivorce her and delete everything about her from your life. That woman is evil personified. I am so heartbroken for your daughter and your mental health. co787: |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by joe4christ(m): 4:28am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Omo. It hit differently when I heard the victim is actually a 2 year old. Omo, I can only pray your family get the healing that is needed from this traumatic experience. But pls release that poor woman from detention. She has obviously suffered enough. Be careful of your actions after her release cos it could lead her to depression and you might lose a wife. You've punished her enough. You will be sending her to her early grave if you add divorce to it, believe me. So, cheer up and I hope you heal quick! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by joe4christ(m): 4:38am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Techwitch: You're right. I agree with you 100%. In Africa, especially Nigeria we don't pay much attention to mental health and it's effect in relation to crimes and social vices. We tend to be to quick to condemn people and label them as evil whereby most of these people are actually suffering from one mental challenge or the other. That's why In saner climes they have a structure and experts to handle cases like this. 90% of sex offenders are suffering from one psychological problem or the other! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Mindlog: 4:55am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Exodora: Until the boy has been arrested and remanded, then he hasn't been dealt with as he has no business being free. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by EmmyOD(m): 5:07am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Guy you no suppose arrest your own wife naa, haba.. Na so you dey do...? Maturity is not how you handle ordinary situations but how you handle extra ordinary ones like this. Release your wife from detention but go down to the village and lock up the 14 yr old spolit brat. Then give everyone space first make them beg you. No too loud this thing for the sake of your daughter. Ppl go use am stigmatise am tomorrow especially in school. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Nobody: 5:14am On Dec 08, 2022 |
rumenase: You're just as daft as the Op. This isn't a matter of curses, so it only shows the level of your intelligence. I don't relate with daft people like you mehn. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Ossaifamous(m): 5:34am On Dec 08, 2022 |
mens83: She has choose her extended family over the one she started ! There is lack of trust also in her husband Her family member can kill the man and she will keep quiet |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by sharone21(f): 5:59am On Dec 08, 2022 |
After one id$ot will be looking for virgin to marry@ Jeromestarks after encouraging males to Bleep and dump... Tomorrow nemesis fit wear cloth like this come meet am. You won't see the idiot on threads like this that men mess up, saying " fear that gender( men)". Devil just came in through that 14year boy to mess up a happy family when the Op least expected bringing about this kind of reaction instead of apply patience, wisdom, tact.... Seems Op did not truly love or trust his wife before. That Prophetess too no do well, why spreading such sensitive info and betraying Op's wife? May God forgive her. Op, immediately release your wife.... Beat sense into that boy and possibly send him to a juvenile home or psychologist/psychiatrist.... But me, I too get soft mind, juvenile home may not be the best for that boy, both he apart from your daughter deserves second chance, make his name/reputation no go dent for life. Prayer is key as devil do not love happy homes that is why he keeps on putting it in the heart of Nairaland redpillers to hate women( a subtle way of encouraging gayism). Peace |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by frozen70(f): 5:59am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787: What a nonsense behavior and attitude from all of them especially from your wife for keeping such a dirty act secret You acted very well Let her learn her lesson You may forgive her if you want to change your mind But on no occasion must any member of your family especially the children visit them again, unless you are there to watch them yourself No more financial help for the family, if you have been doing so before for them You still have to report the issue to your inlaw family and kinsmen so that they won't be surprise if they see you less often and then every one will know that they are rapist in their family After that ghost all of them Then for your wife, let her know that any other silly act from her, that will end the marriage and you don't care what will happen to her |
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