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My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Salewabeau: 11:46pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC. Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too. I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating. This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me. I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known. 59 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Igiaruwe04: 11:52pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Salewabeau: This one has lost her husband to Nigerian woman in the UK who are looking for husband here and there. On a serious note, body no be firewood and it's cold now, so he needs someone to warm his bed. If you truly love him, let him enjoy before you join him 238 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by gaby(m): 11:59pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Hmmm... I am "words of short" as a man knowing I could get caught up in this kinda exploratory and adventurous hubris. My only issue is how he(we) would take this sort of exploration should the case be reversed. I no fit shout jare 96 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by dawnomike(m): 12:01am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau:Do quick and go and join your husband... Shikena!!! 257 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Dshocker(m): 12:05am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau: Unlike the opposite, it is not in the nature of men to go abroad and dump their wife. To me, i think you should have nothing to worry about. 274 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Igiaruwe04: 12:07am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Dshocker: It's better you tell her the truth. She's naive. They've collected her husband simple. And there is no possibility of him choosing her when the man has moved on to white women over there. Nigeria girls are boring 36 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by VeryWickedMan: 12:11am On Dec 09, 2022 |
OP swear say you never Bleep since your husband left in 2021. 257 Likes 25 Shares
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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Jeon(f): 12:12am On Dec 09, 2022 |
I'm here to read the comments from his gender.. They will tell you to over look things and tag him saint since he's not a female. The decisions are yours. 45 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Igiaruwe04: 12:15am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Jeon: Wetin be this. Delete this thing. You want him to stay celibate over there? Advise OP to exercise patience. The man belongs to her eventually. She should not let any nonsense news disturb her marriage. 64 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Jeon(f): 12:22am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04: Wow just wow! What happened to for better for worse! And why abusing God's vows in union if you knew that you can't stay faithful? You Men really amaze me.. Then she can't stay celibate over here. She belongs to the man eventually Stop saying nonsense and flee from extramarital affairs 74 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Igiaruwe04: 12:31am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Jeon: I'm not Justifying cheating. But the lady should not allow a small issue to scatter her marriage. You know how things can get lonely abroad and you want the man to die of loneliness. 50 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Jeon(f): 12:34am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04: Oh I forgot, the woman is a robot and she can't feel the loneliness.. WHY AM I SO DIGGY 58 Likes
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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Igiaruwe04: 12:45am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Jeon: Women don't feel loneliness. And they're comfortable not having sex for donkey years. Men are not wired like that 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Jeon(f): 12:49am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04: Eye opening! Thought Men said " Women are the weak vase, involves everything with emotions while Men are stronger than mountain " And now why are you changing it? How can the weak vases not feel lonely? It's better you tell her the truth. She's naive. They've collected her husband simple. And there is no possibility of him choosing her when the man has moved on to white women over there. You have said it with your mouth ... No long stories. 46 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by house10studios: 12:50am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau:contact me make we dey see each other, no time 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by fikayormi(m): 1:41am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Alaye allow him have some fun and cruise till you get there , You better don't allow dis small shit destroy your marriage. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Neptunium(m): 2:00am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau: Chai, see lies . He's on there for exactly what he said he's not on there for: dating. Lots of men also use dating sites to meet different women for sex. He's not leaving that dating site. A man like him started cheating long before now. Oyo is your case 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by dazzlingd(m): 2:09am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau: Go and join him, he only wants to kanck and nothing more. Avoid that your friend, she will snatch your husband with the slightest opportunity. And finally, this your story may be fake 55 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by jogsman01(m): 3:25am On Dec 09, 2022 |
That your friend might be interested in him, and may be finding ways for you to get issues with him. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Abolodje: 4:12am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Someone is probably managing your husband for you till both of you are finally together. And there’s a huge possibility that “someone “ won’t let your husband go that easily so either way you’re bleeped. If your husband hadn’t created a profile or denied the facts initially without the evidences woulda said there’s nothing to worry about but my sister in the coming months to next few years you’re probably gonna face serious battles but who knows, your husband might truly love you and be loyal till you’re together in love. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by ifihearam: 4:41am On Dec 09, 2022 |
I dont trust your friend 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 5:22am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau:Your husband is obviously a terrible liar. Dating apps are not for those who merely wish to socialize. Instead, they are for those looking for dates and hookups. That he spent time to complete sign-up on the app, even uploading his picture to booth, is more than enough confirmation that your husband is not as into you, and the marriage, as you seem to be. Do not allow him gaslight you, assuming he hasn't already begun doing exactly that. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 5:25am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04:What does it profit her to hold on to a man who would rather hold on to another woman, willfully dishonoring the same marriage ? 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 5:31am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Dshocker:So this woman should be happy that, instead of dumping her, he is choosing to cheat on her? 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by purehustle101(m): 5:34am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Since 2021.. dating app or not man go dey jam pussy on a steady.. is left for you if you want scatter your marriage. Men here full dating site it come the one wey dey uk. Look for something else and focus on. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 5:36am On Dec 09, 2022 |
purehustle101:According to you, the man the jamming activities already more than scattered the marriage. Why are you attempting to foist the blame of that on this woman? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Dshocker(m): 5:37am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: How did he cheat on her? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 5:41am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Dshocker:Aarrrgghh! So, am I to take it that you are fine with the one you are in relationship with putting up picture and profile on dating sites? 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by purehustle101(m): 5:42am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Because sometimes is good to face reality.. dating app or not person we go cheat go cheat 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 5:44am On Dec 09, 2022 |
purehustle101:So what you are saying is you don't mind your significant other cheating on you? You don't draw the line at cheating even when you are the one being cheated on by your other half? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Dshocker(m): 5:47am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What if the husband decides to marry two more wives? In as much as i don't support polygamy, an African man has the right to marry as much wives as possible. Whether you like it or not, the equality of a man is more higher, than that of a woman.... That was how God in heaven ordained it to be. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Nobody: 5:50am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau:Which one have you been on? From there I will take it up U also have a chance to end the union. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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