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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Raychee(f): 9:36pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Yes. She was a backstabbing biatch. Went ahead to paint me black to a potential destiny helper. Thank God the person could see through her intentions and informed me. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by xamster(m): 10:41pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
He didn’t want to grow up and take up responsibilities. Not serious with his life. No time for mediocrity Big goals only |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by deebrownneymar: 11:23pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Carcholce: I won’t give reasons but I’ve don way more than cut off friends |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by yahoodetector: 11:24pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Kobicove: Hunger and regret don knack am left and right. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Finneseguy1(m): 11:53pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Me I had to cut off from my friend and brother I have known since secondary school, he is not in Nigeria, he has been outside the country for almost 15yrs now, as a matter of fact he is a citizen in obodo oyinbo land. What happened was this my so called friend bought a land in Nigeria, and was about to start a project , I just finished my nysc in 2017, and I was looking for work then , could you believe my friend wanted me to work in his site as a bricklayer so that I can be monitoring the engineer , not even as a supervisor or buying materials. I was so desperate then, and I accepted the job, only for the engineer in the site to tell me that this work is not for graduate, that I should leave the work, which I listened to the engineer. Fast forward, the engineer in the site started eating my friend, though the project was moving but it was slow, the engineer always hyped the prices of almost everything, to the extent of eating the money. My friend became frustrated and he called me, asking me to always be at the site, that once the project is completed he will settle me, I agreed. I started supervising the project and I was going to market to buy materials, sometimes I do go to the market 3-4times a day, I was sincere to my friend, I never added any price, I was straight forward, I made the project faster. The engineer wasn’t happy, because I was spoiling his means of livelihood, so he started spoiling my name to gain favor from my friend. Fast forward, the project was completed, mind you this is a big project worth 50-70million. I ask my friend for the money he promised me after completion of the project, he said once he rent the house he will settle me, which is understandable, could you believe my friend rented the house without telling me, I found out from someone that stays around the site, up to today he as refused to pay me. I wanted to buy my first car , I asked him to borrow me 500k to add up, he said he doesn’t have the money, I bought the car , could you believe when he came back it was my car he used to travel to the east for introduction of his wife, it was my father that drove us, we spent a day there, only to come back and gave me 10,000naira for me and my dad, tears almost came out my eyes. I did my introduction, my friend didn’t call or support me. I started my first project, and I must say God has been faithful so far, I never expected I will buy a car and build a house. Be careful who you call your friends, some are frienemies 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by LikeCool(m): 12:08am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Yes, dude doesn't have any steady income, but he's married with 3 kids. I cut him off completely because I'm tired of being on his list of options when he embarks on his usual money borrowing spree. 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by DAVE5(m): 12:16am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Me no get time for nonsense, I don cut off plenty close pal and I wish I can cut off from the idiot I’m married to, she pack load say she dey go, for my mind I was like hey God, my dream is about to come through only for my mumsie to dey call me dey beg, wtf, go nah didirin, didirin no gree go, didirin no gree make marriage sweet, what a useless didirin Aside sex, 99% of women are actually useless 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by ifihearam: 12:24am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: My point is the nigga is a bittch ass nigga and cant be trusted. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by ifihearam: 12:30am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Finneseguy1: Uma dey get patience sha. You tried ooo..Well you also missed an opportunity which he will never believe you did not make money during the project/ Be deligent with your job but always be smart as well..you could have made over 5m but chose not to hence he will always believe you made a lot. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by MNDY(m): 1:15am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Calibrator: I have one or two very good friends. Even though I can't totally trust humans (no one should), they are reasonable to an extent and I admire that a lot. Unlike many others I regret even knowing because like Arya Star said, they're animals in human form - unreasonable, toxic, competitive and some without common sense. My cousin whom I go to stay with in Abuja to do one or two things there would not be hosting me well and still be looking for one way or the other to put me down or embarrass me in public at every chance he gets. I had one other friend whom I forwarded a N1k MTN card to, he later called me a bad person and other derogatory names in subs for not sending him money when he requests from me. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by BishopJnr: 1:29am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Many times |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by pedrilo: 4:14am On Dec 15, 2022 |
My elder broder for raping my gf in 2007 and now that I'm married to anoda woman, he visits my home frequently when I'm out of town leaving my wife and 2 year old baby alone at home. I called him to always call b4 coming and stop visiting my home when I'm not in town. I have to protect my family cos once beaten twice shy. Did I take a wrong step? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Finneseguy1(m): 4:30am On Dec 15, 2022 |
ifihearam: You’re right, I could have made a lot, but I choose not to cheat my friend, but he was thinking I was cheating him, well that’s human beings for you |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Taigaban: 4:38am On Dec 15, 2022 |
I cut off a friend two years ago. I was his bestman during his wedding. Because of the controversy surrounding his wedding some guys around him declined to be his bestman thinking that the girl he dumped will hire thugs to make trouble. I offered myself to be his bestman. Ones in a while the guy do give me small change especially when I went bankrupt. I had property to sale, so I took it to him. I knocked the gate the maid came and opened for me. I asked her what of Oga she said he is in that she will tell him I am here. She went in stayed for like 20 minutes. I overheard the guys conversation with the maid and I was shocked to the marro. It now dawn on me Why he and the wife refuse to attend my mother's burial and also my father's in-law burial which I invited them as close friends. What he tell the maid that day make me realized he wasn't a friend. And from that day I cut off completely from him never to return. Since then he hasn't call me and I haven't call him and would never. 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by ifihearam: 6:41am On Dec 15, 2022 |
pedrilo: So when did you cut him off? If he still visits your wife in your absent ,how then did you cut him off? Una dey take risk sha.... its your wife you should warn never to allow him into your place in your absence and he has no reason to visit your home in your absence. Your case is no longer once beaten twice shy ooo..its twice beaten many shy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by ifihearam: 6:44am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Taigaban: You and halg gist what did he say? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Rubbiish(m): 6:45am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Finneseguy1:In as much as it is very good to be kind to others, we should always learn to use our head. Even the Bible admonish us to be wise as the serpent. Your friend took advantage of ur soft nature, in life learn to balance things including help. The moment he asked u to work as a bricklayer on his site, u should have cut him off. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by bigstan11787(m): 7:06am On Dec 15, 2022 |
My first time of doing that: it really hurts though. Truth is, they may not be within your physical space but they still live rent free in your mind and thought 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by gimakon2(m): 7:47am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Slawomirr: Pally you no well i swear. Una 2 day do weed tying championship abi wetin? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by gimakon2(m): 7:50am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Urheadmaster: Na good friend be that. He was a friend to the end, for him to even marry your sister and be with her till date. |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by gimakon2(m): 7:51am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Kobicove: This one na Akpo! |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by NinaArsenal(f): 8:13am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Slawomirr:Lolz you are funny, Congratulations on your weed tieing expertise. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Teespice(f): 8:50am On Dec 15, 2022 |
smiliyB: Can't agree less. |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by iamL(f): 8:50am On Dec 15, 2022 |
MiaBeer: You are a good person. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by iamL(f): 8:55am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Jeon: If you are a single lady you won't get married on time with this attitude. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Jeon(f): 8:56am On Dec 15, 2022 |
iamL: AT LEAST IT'S BETTER THAN TO SHOW MY DARK SIDE IF BEEN BETRAYED. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Spiff20(m): 9:21am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Slawomirr:Your own problem is just weed |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by akaahs(m): 10:05am On Dec 15, 2022 |
ifihearam:Y he involve me right from the day he started the relationship with the girl if he didn't trust me enough to share the reason why he is getting married to her Me and him went to the girl house, met her dad for the first time. He asked me to speak on his behalf the reason for our visit being that, he is dating his daughter. |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by akaahs(m): 10:11am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Fountainofyouth:At least. Since he carried me along right from day one he started the relationship with girl. He made me to make a promise to the dad that nothing will happen to his daughter and I did. Imagine the father decided to ask me about the pregnancy issue, what ll I tell him?? And I was at the traditional rights without knowing. |
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by normaljenny(m): 10:37am On Dec 15, 2022 |
DAVE5: INCLUDING YOUR MUM |
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