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How I ended a scam relationship by englishmart(m): 5:27pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
I met a lady some months ago at a fast food vendor (mai shayi spot) She was ordering tea and bread. When she got her orders, she took them and sat close to the table where I was downloading a meal of Noodles and fried eggs. We exchanged quick glances and then greetings. To cut the story short, after her meal, she paid #250 which was the cost of what she had. I had to wait till she paid before initiating any further conversation. I ended up getting her number that night and we started speaking frequently. As time whisked by, we started dating. Few days into the relationship, she complained about her cream, that she needed to replace her finished cream and it was worth #3500. We're still testing the microphone and you're already acting extortionate? No problem. I gave her 2.5k, and asked that she should make it up. I didn't want to start what I couldn't finish, so I was careful with taking up her responsibilities. She grudgingly took the 2.5k and merely appreciated it. Lol. In about a week's time, she visited, and as usual was Hungry. She said she wanted jollof rice. I had rice and ingredients, all she needed was fish, meat, or so. So I gave her 2k in cash to get meat, fish, or both. She rejected the money that it was too small. She ended up having noodles and fried eggs. While she was leaving she told me she liked my perfume, and didn't even wait for permission before throwing it into her bag. I wasn't okay with that, but I shrugged it off. She visited at night on Friday to leave the next day. In the morning of Saturday, as she was about leaving, she said she was hungry and needed something for breakfast. I had just bought bread and some groceries on Friday. I'm talking about an expensive bread, a quality that she 99% probably hasn't tasted. (and I don't mean this spitefully) I showed her the tin of milk and milo on the table and asked her to make tea and eat. She refused, claiming she won't enjoy the tea and bread without egg. I persuaded her to manage it like that, that the bread itself was rich and eggs were an unnecessary luxury. She refused to bend and insisted no eggs, no breakfast of tea and bread. "Okay, no problem, go and buy the eggs" "With which money? Did you give me any money?" she replied. Like Seriously? You want to enjoy luxury that you can't afford? You should have just said you needed food and not a relationship. You don't think you need a job not a man? I reminded her where and how I met her, how she was eating agege bread and watery tea, one that would fail for Nigerian prisons standard. Now she's suddenly classy How does it make you feel to put your welfare at the mercies of a fellow adult, when you, as an adult are not handicapped? How do you expect any form of respect when you can't take care of yourself without desperately needing to be in one scamlationship or another? She flared up and started ranting, saying stuff like "didn't you know you couldn't take care of me before you approached me?" I did my best to calm her down before she pulled down my apartment. When she calmed after ceaseless vituperations and vitriols, I told her the relationship wouldn't survive another hour. We broke up immediately. Now she's screaming" men are scum" all over WhatsApp and Facebook. That was before I blocked the needy. I'm not gonna continue. Before we met, you were living, so go on. 59 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Jashub: 5:36pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Hope say you ynash her if not na 2-0 you do 19 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by chiefolododo(m): 5:36pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Dey no too use you |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Abfinest007(m): 5:39pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Leave tori |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by englishmart(m): 5:42pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Jashub:Na me dey home, so e suppose be 0-2. But I won 4-2 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Jennyclay(f): 5:43pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Lies Lies Lies. Pls is it gas, stove or coal pot you used in cooking this lies. 8 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by englishmart(m): 5:45pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
chiefolododo:I dey play with caution. I know from the beginning say na maga she dey find. Me too get wetin I dey find, but I find am cautiously. 11 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by englishmart(m): 5:46pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Jennyclay:I'm too old to tell lies. I have good morals. Thanks in advance. 29 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by feranmi143: 5:46pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Yo fish, so he typed all this text to lie 11 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Eyesstone(f): 5:46pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
"long story short". If this is actually a short version, I wonder how the full version would have been. 6 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by virginprincess(f): 5:58pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Nairaland men and their unending lies all just to spite women,mtcheeeeeew. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by toujurs: 6:00pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
So after fucking her, you realised she had a high taste This guy ehn. Anyways you did well, letting her go, i was at the mall a certain time when a guy slapped his babe, even kicked her. And the stupid girl was begging him for mercy, it was obvious the guy had money, because he was looking so fresh, and drove a benz. In my mind i was wondering how her dad would be weeping over his daughter, he struggled to train in school, so she could live a better life. Is being treated by a man like trash because of long throat and laziness. It's really a shame. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Jflex07(m): 6:01pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Most Nigerian girls just dey use Relationship survive..Nawa 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by GoooodHardDick: 6:15pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
OP, you gave her the first impression that you were going to spend on her the moment you sent her that #2,500. Why on earth would you send her that money? Did she worked for it? Nigerian girls are so broke and filled with entitlement mentality that they all sees relationship as a means of getting out of poverty. Na mumu still dey roll with broke girls. As for me once she's not rich, I'll dump her ass asap 13 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Nobody: 6:17pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
I stopped reading at "i met a lady at a fast food" 1 Like |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Rexymania(m): 6:36pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Nice one bro. Most of these ladies are scum... Dem no dey classy anything... Dirty girls 4 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by JoeRizzla(m): 7:08pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Avoid broke girls, they are very irritating 9 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by westlius(m): 7:09pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Hope u Bleep her, if u do no worry na u win If u dont u are a SIMPle man |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by nicerod(m): 7:31pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
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Re: How I ended a scam relationship by AndroidAI(m): 7:45pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Your first mistake was that 2.5k for cream. You proved that you be maga. Men like you are women pleasers -- simps -- you find it hard to say NO to women! Learn to be stingy!! 10 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by RichAbujaGuy: 7:49pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Op, you were knacking this babe's treasure box and you make a thread about having to feed her small food? I resist labeling this behavior. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Nobody: 7:58pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
englishmart:"It's not like that,,ok? The thing is, girl, if you need money from a relationship, aim at guys who are ok, but if you couldn't get any na u cun no oo. Guys, if you ain't ready to give girls money while dating, then, aim for girls that are working class,who ain't interested in cash, rather than love,,ok? In an avenue that you discarded the above counsel, and decided to target who nor get for luv, and who get 4 money, at the same time, babe, you are a prostitute; don't be deceived,,ok? And for guys, in a situation where you go for girls whose interest is a cash cow, and you couldn't provide, guy, you are a broke ass" Please, guys, before you approach any lady for a relationship, and ladies before you accept any advance from a guy, think of the bolded above, in other to avert 'long John ',,ok? 5 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:58pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
ALL I know is that..Nigerian girls are always hungry.they Re always starving |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by englishmart(m): 8:18pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
feranmi143: 2 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by englishmart(m): 8:19pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
GoooodHardDick:I knew I was making a mistake, but I just did it for the benefit of the doubt. 4 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Nicepoker(m): 9:43pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Nairaland evening newspapers having a bad day. Look at how the thread de pain them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Sanguine(f): 9:56pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Englishmart, I like your writing style, plus your choice of words. 1 Like |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by Finneseguy1(m): 10:06pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Op you did well, unlike all this professional simp on nairaland |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by GoooodHardDick: 10:10pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
AndroidAI: Exactly honourable Comrade. I couldn't agree more you've said it all. The simp will do anything to please a hoe like he has done 1 Like |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by GoooodHardDick: 10:13pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
englishmart: Next time don't try such again. Don't make the mistake of sending any money to any girl, rather send that money to your mom and sisters and watch your mom release heaven's blessings on you. God bless you my son is far better than awwwww awwww baby" coming from a broke poor and entitlement liability 3 Likes |
Re: How I ended a scam relationship by jimmyolasun: 10:13pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Title: Diary of a broke naija hustler and his hungry local leech. 3 Likes
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Re: How I ended a scam relationship by MarketDispatch: 10:19pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
imadiyi: 6 Likes
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