Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

tell her straight up that you are not comfortable with it

anthonyuncle:
tell her straight up that you are not comfortable with it

I can do that very well , but I feel that will be embarrassing to her.

udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

Tell her right away. That's how they start. Very loose things.

She has interest in you and is trying to lure you with those touches. Just tell her to STOP!!!.

Oga how old are you?

Seems you're still a teenager

udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

You know what to do already.

Hahaha..OP

Used to have a Married Colleague exactly like urs..

Would be Touching ur hands during Conversations.
Every Morning, used to drag me to take selfies with her..

If nah some Mumus, dier Pricck go begin Rise..

But I knew it's a Girlish Traits Displayed by Young Wives in Young marriages, caused by Boredom perhaps.

Just read above and look at the nonsense advice given to the OP. If the gender roles were reversed you would have seen feminist all over the place. Someone was even asking how old the guy is. As in, if it were a female would we be asking this?

OP this is sexual abuse whether we accept it or not and you should speak up quickly before that Jezebel start to manifest her plans ( Satanic people everywhere)!

Blessedmercy8:


Tell her right away. That's how they start. Very loose things.

She has interest in you and is trying to lure you with those touches. Just tell her to STOP!!!.

noted

GoooodHardDick:
Oga how old are you?
Seems you're still a teenager

what do mean sir

[quote author=Nia69 post=119188493] You know what to do already. [/quote



Tell her to stop straight up?

how do we help you when you can't be man enough to tell her to keep her distant,ngwanu continue getting harassed

VinnyBaba:


Hahaha..OP

Used to have a Married Colleague exactly like urs..

Would be Touching ur hands during Conversations.
Every Morning, used to drag me to take selfies with her..

If nah some Mumus, dier Pricck go begin Rise..

But I knew it's a Girlish Traits Displayed by Young Wives in Young marriages, caused by Boredom perhaps.

u think so sir? I should just ignore?

gaddafe:
Just read above and look at the nonsense advice given to the OP. If the gender roles were reversed you would have seen feminist all over the place. Someone was even asking how old the guy is. As in, if it were a female would we be asking this?

OP this is sexual abuse whether we accept it or not and you should speak up quickly before that Jazebel start to manifest her plans ( Satanic people everywhere)!

thanks boss

udofia234:











u think so sir? I should just ignore?

Just Ignore and be Giving her distance.

Dat's how these Bored, Young Wives behaves. Maybe her husband travelled.

But@times,
if Konji dey hold you in the Office, you can still Play with her and touch her small to help Yourself..

Ballzproblem2:
how do we help you when you can't be man enough to tell her to keep her distant,ngwanu continue getting harassed

I'll to tell her to stop right away no matter how she takes it!!!!

VinnyBaba:


Just Ignore and be Giving her distance.

Dat's how these Bored, Young Wives behaves. Maybe her husband travelled.

But@times,
if Konji dey hold you in the Office, you can still Play with her and touch her small to help Yourself..

haar!! I can't do that with a married woman

udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

You can say something like, I don't feel comfortable being touched, or I didn't give you permission to touch me. If she doesn’t stop tell someone in authority what has been going on. But with sufficient evidence...

ekitimanalways:


You can say something like, I don't feel comfortable being touched, or I didn't give you permission to touch me. If she doesn’t stop tell someone in authority what has been going on. But with sufficient evidence...

Thanks boss

Wow...people are hypocrites. If this case was reversed, everyone here would be shouting " Sexual assault" and "pervert" but just read how people are trying to explain/reduce this because it's a woman doing it.

Bro, warn her sternly and be the first to file for sexual assault before she turns this whole thing on you.

Tell her to continue. After all this is not the first time you will sleep with a married woman

If you know wetin to do already, why you come here dey seek validation from us? One day, some of una go come here to ask for advice weather make una go shit for toilet or not. Oga, you no need anybody's advise before you stop whatever you're not comfortable with.
Sometimes eeh, I dey imagine how timid this generation for be without social media. Most of una dey live una live for social media. Both relevant and irrelevant things na una go bring online. And funny enough, 95% of the advice wey dem go give una na nonsense. Just imagine as one guy don dey tell am to fvck the woman. A low IQ person dey seek for advice from another low IQ people



I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Oga instead of you to go do yahoo, go learn programming and thank me later"

This is what happens when a lady feels safe and very comfortable around you.

She might not even have any sexual feeling about you at all, but that comfort she feels where you are, is enough for her to be touchy around you.

Oga it's nothing, you are unnecessarily overreacting. Are you a child

You know what to do.
I have no advice to give.

If Reverse is The Case, it is sexual molestation.
I have a Colleague that's caresses me like that, until one day that I looked her in the eye without saying anything that's when she stopped.

udofia234:



I'll to tell her to stop right away no matter how she takes it!!!!

You will find that office hot for you if you tell her off - Ladies Don't take rejection lightly!

Simply tell her: "Unless you want to take me as your second husband, stop the touchy touchy!"
...If she laughed it off and won't stop, you're in big soup!

Just dance.

udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

Talk true, and u don't like it?

IkeIgboNile:
Wow...people are hypocrites. If this case was reversed, everyone here would be shouting " Sexual assault" and "pervert" but just read how people are trying to explain/reduce this because it's a woman doing it.

Bro, warn her sternly and be the first to file for sexual assault before she turns this whole thing on you.

noted sir

Nicepoker:
Tell her to continue. After all this is not the first time you will sleep with a married woman

Hmmm!!! that won't happen

toujurs:
This is what happens when a lady feels safe and very comfortable around you.

She might not even have any sexual feeling about you at all, but that comfort she feels where you are, is enough for her to be touchy around you.

Oga it's nothing, you are unnecessarily overreacting. Are you a child

hahaha!!! I hear u