iTroll:
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Don't fall for that trap.

Don't loan her any money, she'll never return it.
She knows that she can't ask you money directly since she has plainly rejected you so she's using loan as an excuse (we all know that Naija girls Don't usually pay back loans)

If she's adamant about the loan, ask her for a collateral and through her reaction you'll know if she will ever return the money because as long as she has intentions to return the money she'll never have any problem giving you something as a collateral.
If she gets annoyed when you ask for a collateral, just know that she has no intention of the paying back.
I've been in the same situation before and I'll admit that I fell for it and that made me wiser ( learnt from my mistakes).
That is for the girl in the first screenshot.

As for the second girl... She's nothing but a complete Leech.

Vulcanheph:

Don't fall for that trap.

Don't loan her any money, she'll never return it.
She knows that she can't ask you money directly since she has plainly rejected you so she's using loan as an excuse (we all know that Naija girls Don't usually pay back loans)

If she's adamant about the loan, ask her for a collateral and through her reaction you'll know if she will ever return the money because as long as she has intentions to return the money she'll never have any problem giving you something as a collateral.
If she gets annoyed when you ask for a collateral, just know that she has no intention of the paying back.
I've been in the same situation before and I'll admit that I fell for it and that made me wiser ( learnt from my mistakes).

Well said. Good explanation.
Even my mother told me one day to never lend money to women because they won't give back. They would even go as far as tell you sweet words, call you sweet names or midly flirt with you to get around it, or to extend the date of the payback as far as possible.
Now thinking about it, my mother taught me so much game but I was too immature to understand it. My mother told me about the perverse ways of women. But I was not receptive.
Many people said their mother taught them to be respectful to women, love women, simp for women. But for my mother, it was the contrary. She was teaching me game and I was the one arguing to my mother that women are not like that and we should respect women. I could not accept that women were very far from these innocent angels portrayed by society. I could not imagine how deep the games women play go.
But this last year I changed my perspective completely (partly thanks to this forum). And now I am going back to all my mother said and I realised she was right! How foolish was I! And when I talk with my mother, she is now more open to tell me the raw reality of women and how women see things.
Maybe I'll make a thread one day to share my mother's teachings (in her own words) or I'll just put them here.
In any case, you are right. Do not lend money to women if you don't have some sort of concrete guarantee like a collateral.

Miracood2:


Why it's possible that's she's still a virgin, it's also possible that she's still a sniveling manipulative bitcch.

For you not to have kissed her after dating for 4+ months it's a solid indicator that she's here for the mulla alone and doesn't give AF about love or what so ever.

At age 18, the hormones rush in girls, make them crave for sex as if it's oxygen. Now it's understandable that some girls still value their virginity, but why go into a relationship with the intentions of not getting dicked?

The screenshots are rock hard proof that she's not feeling you and doesn't want to go down with you. But I bet it's all going to change when you start giving her unsolicited cash.

I'd recommend that you leave that girl with speedy effect and go for other fishes on in the deep blue sea.

thank brother i dont think dere anything i can do again i fvck up already even tho i get back she still wont have sex with me, im just a simp to her

beside dat i think i kn my issues from this comments so far.......I gat low self-esteem it's seems, some people re lucky while some people need to fight dere way up I'm not only talking about the relationship now I'm just reasoning life, everyday body shaming is killing me, too much negative comments on me looking too tall ND skinny Frequently is making me abnormal and feeling depressed and I can't talk to anyone about it, yeah I'm just saying it out here ND I'll be deleting his account soon and keep fighting ND trying overcome it...........

@ Ketapu:
yeah I think i deserve what I'm passing through but I bet you she's the only girl I have simp for so far and total money spent on her is just 2k since we started dating, I don't start relationship with money cus it's won't end well for me but I fully understand you sir, thanks

Nobody is above mistake but learning from it, is what is more important

the saddest truth is, a man (beta) of value will still pick a woman with no value (damaged women, divorcees, single mothers), even if he can easily select something better, but a woman with no value won't pick a man with no value if the options are available.

if a girl really likes you, there's nothing she won't do to spend time with you. That's why when a girl is always telling you she can't do this or that then you must know you're not that guy she's likes and pins for, you will never see her genuine desire, she's just being nice and tolerating you.You are not the one she's prepared to risk everything for just move on.

Hmmmmmm

Kipaji:


Well said. Good explanation.
Even my mother told me one day to never lend money to women because they won't give back. They would even go as far as tell you sweet words, call you sweet names or midly flirt with you to get around it, or to extend the date of the payback as far as possible.
Now thinking about it, my mother taught me so much game but I was too immature to understand it. My mother told me about the perverse ways of women. But I was not receptive.
Many people said their mother taught them to be respectful to women, love women, simp for women. But for my mother, it was the contrary. She was teaching me game and I was the one arguing to my mother that women are not like that and we should respect women. I could not accept that women were very far from these innocent angels portrayed by society. I could not imagine how deep the games women play go.
But this last year I changed my perspective completely (partly thanks to this forum). And now I am going back to all my mother said and I realised she was right! How foolish was I! And when I talk with my mother, she is now more open to tell me the raw reality of women and how women see things.
Maybe I'll make a thread one day to share my mother's teachings (in her own words) or I'll just put them here.
In any case, you are right. Do not lend money to women if you don't have some sort of concrete guarantee like a collateral.

Would love to read your mother’s Game advice , it will help a lot of men out there

Most men are going to be used because this women will behave sweet and give them greenlights sexually or start acting like matured wife to lock down this guys for husband especially if the guys are economically viable.

If a girl reject your advance to her, move on, don't plead, don't negotiate, don't wait, don't hope, move on fast, erase her completely from your heart, but that's when simps will start to invest emotionally, financially into her thinking they can buy her love or make her see them as a potential sexual partner.


The truth is that majority of men will never have the experience of a woman desiring them, it's them that desire women, them that chase women, them that pedestalize women.

TheSourcerer:
Would love to read your mother’s Game advice , it will help a lot of me out there

she even explained some stuff in Ubunja's miseducations. But I was too immature then to digest it.
She told me what goes down in those "girl's nights/trips"; ways to recognize a hoe, or a woman who doesn't like you; that, generally speaking, you should never deal with just one woman; the feminists' mindset; that the burden of performance is always on the man; that a woman should like you more than you like her for a relation to flourish; that it is a woman that has to prove to you that she wants to be with you; that women spend their youth "going around" and then will try to land in her son's house, and I should be cautious about that; that a young man should not deal with single mothers; etc .... But my dumb self was too closed-minded to learn the game and and so simpish I kept defending women. I even told my mother she is perverted, that she is lying, that sex is not that important, that we should respect women, that she should not tell me those things, that women are not like that.

What is special about my mother's teachings is that they come from a woman. So it's real insider knowledge. I will have some talks with her about those things again. I may condense that and then post it on Nairaland so we can all learn and reflect on it.

UBUNJA SAID SOMETHING ABOUT BILLBOARDS, ADVERT BOARDS SUBCONSCIOUSLY PASSING SEXUAL IMAGES TO OUR MINDS
HE EVEN UPLOADED A BILLBOARD PIC OF IT

CONSCIOUSLY I SEE INFINIX DESIGN OR AN ARTWORK

SUBCONSCIOUSLY MY MIND PICKED UP A PUSSY

RIGHT LEG AND LEFT LEG SPREAD IN DIFFERENT OPPOSITE DIRECTION EXPOSING THE PUSSY

To be in love is to be insane.

Kipaji:


I think he confuses pleasure and horniness. Women feel far more sexual pleasure than men, but men have a higher sex drive. Generally.

1. I disagree.

Women can't "feel far more sexual pleasure" and at the same time have a lower sex drive.

Men feel far more sexual pleasures which include:

Higher sexual fantasy.
Higher sexual imagination.
Higher sex dream.
Highest viewers of pornography.
Highest masturbators.
Feels more disappointed when sexual need is declined.

The differences are not "too far". But overall, men have higher sexual needs than women as a result of testosterone.

2. Many people think women are of higher sex drive because of their sexual display on social media. If you should look at it and trace it to the bottom, you'll see that they are on social media for the money. And not for the fun of sex.

3. Women don't give sex freely without an exchange. Merge this with their (lower) sex drive, you'll come to understand why men hustle and pay for sex and women don't.

4. It is easier for women to get sex because they don't want it. And 99.9% of men are ready to fvck them.
It is difficult for men to have sex because they want it. And 99% of women are not ready to fvck them.

5. It is easier to say "abundance mentality...why chase one woman when there are more than 3 billion women in the world?"

The thing here is that those other 3 billion women aren't gonna fvck you just like the one that rejected you if are not ready for exchange. And this exchange bothers on hypergamy: her alpha and or beta needs.

6. Women and sex are not free. There is always an exchange to get both. You just need to be wise with your exchange though, and the reason why it is expedient that a man must learn GAME.

7. Forget what women do on social media. Women are not careless with sex. Their sexual pursuit bothers on a subconscious evolutionary demand or conscious act or both.

DAY 351, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Learn Game.

iTroll:
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She Don talk say Na only her bf for take Kare of her, so why ask u for money?

CaveAdullam:

Men feel far more sexual pleasures
But overall, men have higher sexual needs than women as a result of testosterone.

I'm not so vast in terms of women and sex topics but I agree with the original post...
Even Esther Vilar talked about this.. The path of a male and female isnt the same. Purity is valued (not by me tho cos i dont care ) and so she is taught from a young age to supress her sexual side to have a better chance at attracting the best possible guy..
Quick example: some people i've talked with have blatantly said " i can never approach a guy first". Not like they dont know how to or what to say, but because they have been told that "men are the hunters" (men una welldon ).
If you've stayed with someone with genuine desire for you during ovulation, you'll understand why that original picture said so..
The issue for testosterone is for another day, because using myself as an example, i dont believe testosterone has effect on sexual desire( stats, science aside).

Yo guys..
Need one or two opinion's here
Has anyone resided or currently residing in Uyo? If yes, i need your recommendation on a "middle class area with good power supply and an average and above social life"
Only the name of the area is enough
Thanks

Zabiboy:
Yo guys..
Need one or two opinion's here
Has anyone resided or currently residing in Uyo? If yes, i need your recommendation on a "middle class area with good power supply and an average and above social life"
Only the name of the area is enough
Thanks

Hmm.
Uyeh estate?
Good power supply.
One side na locals full there. The other side which is developing has decent people there. And it's close to Oron road/plaza.

Deasegun19:


it should be women love money more than men.

I disagree.

1. Of course, women love money. They need it for their wants and needs. Women's need for money is material. They want money to feel safe.

In the land of poor men, women will still get engaged to the least poor man. What she wants are security and protection. Nothing more. Nothing else.

2. Man's desire for money is both material and transcendental.

Material: to provide for his wants and needs.

Transcendental: power, status, control, and authority.

3. If a woman makes enough money she desires to have the latest fashion and tour the world.

If a man makes enough money he begins to think of kingship or politics. He knows that after money, there's another level: power. To have money and power is to subdue the earth. The first to grab that power is the king among men.

4. Why do men conquer territories and not women? Why are men of the highest innovators and inventors?

If men don't love money why do they keep pushing forward?

5. Women can be without value, not men. And what shapes that value: money. Money is not all of it, but a core.

6. Men kill for money, not women.

Men do the most obscene and menial acts just for money.

Men go to the extreme just for money.

You can't even compare men's desires for money with women. They are far off. Women may explore their sexual drive for money, however, sex is natural and not extreme, and that's the farthest they go. Ditto for men; men will climb higher for money after sex has been granted.

7. Men feel worthless without money. Same with how society views men.

With or without money, women are given a free pass. By the way, men want to be richer than their spouses, and their spouses want it so.

DAY 352, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be valuable.

CaveAdullam:


1. I disagree.

Women can't "feel far more sexual pleasure" and at the same time have a lower sex drive.

Men feel far more sexual pleasures which include:

Higher sexual fantasy.
Higher sexual imagination.
Higher sex dream.
Highest viewers of pornography.
Highest masturbators.
Feels more disappointed when sexual need is declined.

The differences are not "too far". But overall, men have higher sexual needs than women as a result of testosterone.

2. Many people think women are of higher sex drive because of their sexual display on social media. If you should look at it and trace it to the bottom, you'll see that they are on social media for the money. And not for the fun of sex.

3. Women don't give sex freely without an exchange. Merge this with their (lower) sex drive, you'll come to understand why men hustle and pay for sex and women don't.

4. It is easier for women to get sex because they don't want it. And 99.9% of men are ready to fvck them.
It is difficult for men to have sex because they want it. And 99% of women are not ready to fvck them.

5. It is easier to say "abundance mentality...why chase one woman when there are more than 3 billion women in the world?"

The thing here is that those other 3 billion women aren't gonna fvck you just like the one that rejected you if are not ready for exchange. And this exchange bothers on hypergamy: her alpha and or beta needs.

6. Women and sex are not free. There is always an exchange to get both. You just need to be wise with your exchange though, and the reason why it is expedient that a man must learn GAME.

7. Forget what women do on social media. Women are not careless with sex. Their sexual pursuit bothers on a subconscious evolutionary demand or conscious act or both.

DAY 351, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Learn Game.

You na boss. Good point.

CaveAdullam:


I disagree.

1. Of course, women love money. They need it for their wants and needs

Authority: Be valuable.[/b]

a friend asked me a question.

Is it possible for a man to love two women at a time?

Zabiboy:

I'm not so vast in terms of women and sex topics but I agree with the original post...
Even Esther Vilar talked about this.. The path of a male and female isnt the same. Purity is valued (not by me tho cos i dont care ) and so she is taught from a young age to supress her sexual side to have a better chance at attracting the best possible guy..
Quick example: some people i've talked with have blatantly said " i can never approach a guy first". Not like they dont know how to or what to say, but because they have been told that "men are the hunters" (men una welldon ).
If you've stayed with someone with genuine desire for you during ovulation, you'll understand why that original picture said so..
The issue for testosterone is for another day, because using myself as an example, i dont believe testosterone has effect on sexual desire( stats, science saide).

@bolded, you raised a claim and ended up disqualifying yourself same time.

Even if you are a eunuch or a pope, you're the exception and not the rule. You may have a low testosterone level or higher self-discipline but that doesn't in any way obliterate the rule.

You are "not so vast..." but want to counter.

Lol. Funny man.

And by the way, REDPILL is about science, statistics corroborated by observations and patterns.

Good morning, man.

CaveAdullam:


This is false!

Women can't and don't invest in a man's future.

If women select the best men, how come same women will be patient to invest in a man's future?

Women can start with a man from the bottom. But they'll always jump ship when the best man arrives. Not all of them may jump ship as a result of some limitations. But the desire is there. They will if granted the opportunity. Humans want the best. Women want the best men.

Keywords: Fertility. Hypergamy. Emotional. Agreeable. Impulsive. Myopic.

You do have a big problem.


I'm not here to fix it for you.

Karlifate:


When a woman invest in you, it'll be hard for her to let you go.

1:
The top investment for her is her sexual investment — That's one of the reasons why a woman hardly forget who deflowered her.

2:
Women are stingy when it comes to spending their own money (Woman wey you just send airtime now now, go dey flash you because she wan appreciate you). — I know some guys can relate to this

But if she spends on you (not the sugar mummy-sugar boy relationship o), it'll be hard for her to let her investment go to waste.

3:
If she's into you, she'll invest her time in you.

I already explained this, but this CaveAdullam guy is always threatened by the wisdom of others.

LMAO!

Karlifate:
You do have a big problem.

Let's try and give CaveAdullam his respect. He is one of us and has done a lot. Isn't it better you present your counter opinion than saying he has a big problem?

^^^^^

@Karlifate
It doesn't matter who is wrong or right, as far as two redpillers are discussing, effort should be made to dissect the topic of discussion. Maybe I read unnecessary meaning into your post; my bad if I did.

CaveAdullam:

Here we go again.

The quoted text by you, was gotten from Telegram.


Received @ 10:19 AM
Posted @ 3:17 PM

Martinez39s:
Let's try and give CaveAdullam his respect. He is one of us and has done a lot. Isn't it better you present your counter opinion than saying he has a big problem?

Yeah, you're right.

But actions & reactions are equal & opposite.


Since the day he started forming FBI in my mentions, the respect has been removed.

Martinez39s:
^^^^^

@Karlifate
It doesn't matter who is wrong or right, as far as two redpillers are discussing, effort should be made to dissect the topic of discussion. Maybe I read unnecessary meaning into your post; my bad if I did.

OK, I'll let this slide...

Karlifate:


OK, I'll let this slide...

I do enjoy your posts, when you're still active in the Education section.

I think we've interacted several times, there.

Karlifate:


OK, I'll let this slide...

Nice. We redpillers might not agree on certain issues, but we are here to help and inform each other by sharing information and various perspectives on many issue. No need for redpillers to quarrel.

Karlifate:
Yeah, you're right.

But actions & reactions are equal & opposite.

Since the day he started forming FBI in my mentions, the respect has been removed.

I don't think CaveAdullam has anything against you. He might not agree with you and might want to counter or challenge your opinion. You can defend your opinion and agree to disagree, or you can just ignore. I personally don't think CaveAdullam is threatened by the wisdom of others or he is seeking relevance.

I myself might not agree with CaveAdullam on some issues (issues that aren't strictly redpilled), but he is a redpiller like us nonetheless.

akwesenana:

Hmm.
Uyeh estate?
Good power supply.
One side na locals full there. The other side which is developing has decent people there. And it's close to Oron road/plaza.

Thanks man