1Sharon:


Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

I know you are woman and will define her good.
But believe me I have not deny her se.x and she don't deny me too we are best friends.
To me she love me so much so I thought before now and I love her too and build my world around her she know everything about me.
I help her to do her domestic work at home.
I show her lots affection.
I have opportunity to sleep around but I don't do that because is not the right thing to do and I love my wife she is young and beautiful.
I make sure she look beautiful always.

Nextlife1:

I left nysc 2015 and started business.

You need to Upgrade yourself too Bro in faculty she wants that You are lacking ...

Welcome to Gen Z Era.... Things Escalate faster nowadays thus go and learn the current trends Yourself and apply it on your woman ...

2015 to 2022 is a Gap of 7years and I wouldn't lie to You So many Spices has happened to Educations and Civilisations between those Gaps that You yourself are not in touch with !

To Safe Your Marriage, You need to Come to 2022 Civilisations in terms of Educations too..

Kindly Sponsor Yourself in advanced Education too or Programmes roll with Gen Z children ...

Your Wife is just catching Up with the Cruises of 2022 .... She is just Trying to Spice things Up for Herself ... Unfortunately She is a Selfish Type ... She coulda carry you go there but Most Women are Selfish anyway ....

She has Cum, Oya you too Go and Cum ...

You need to Watch Your Women, Understand Her Worlds and what makes Her Energetic and Depressed .... Then Develop the Keys to Control Her Switches as You Desire ... Only few men sabi !

Gentlemen, Go and Upgrade Yourself ... Your Wife is On Jet Age Now while You are still in 2015 Bro

DonroxyII:
You need to Upgrade yourself too Bro in faculty she wants that You are lacking ...

Welcome to Gen Z Era.... Things Escalate faster nowadays thus go and learn the current trends Yourself and apply it on your woman ...

2015 to 2022 is a Gap of 7years and I wouldn't lie to You So many Spices has happened to Educations and Civilisations between those Gaps that You yourself are not in touch with !

To Safe Your Marriage, You need to Come to 2022 Civilisations in terms of Educations too..

Kindly Sponsor Yourself in advanced Education too or Programmes roll with Gen Z children ...

Your Wife is just catching Up with the Cruises of 2022 .... She is just Trying to Spice things Up for Herself ... Unfortunately She is a Selfish Type ... She coulda carry you go there but Most Women are Selfish anyway ....

She has Cum, Oya you too Go and Cum ...

You need to Watch Your Women, Understand Her Worlds and what makes Her Energetic and Depressed .... Then Develop the Keys to Control Her Switches as You Desire ... Only few men sabi !

Gentlemen, Go and Upgrade Yourself ... Your Wife is On Jet Age Now while You are still in 2015 Bro

I have that in mind
I only want her to finish school before I start my own.
But for now she will stay with her father.
After I upgrade myself I may still come back if our level match by than.

Nextlife1:

I have that in mind
I only want her to finish school before I start my own.
But for now she will stay with her father.
After I upgrade myself I may still come back if our level match by than.

Once You Upgrade, You would Upgrade yourself from Your Wife On Pro Max Basis ... That's how e usually dey go .... with what she has done, Once You enter School You might forget about Her entirely because This Girls and Ladies of Nowadays can make a Bitter Man forget Home and the only Connect woulda been una Children .....

That's what Upgrade Does, Old Taste become Sour, New Cruise is the New Taste but for Your Children Sake kindly Forgive and Build Yourself a Man Charismatic enough to Dissuade your wife from such endeavors whether even Behind You !!

Accept say Na you still bleeped Up for Her Fvcks Up, you have to Be Ahead of the Game as a Man because Once a Woman leads the Game of Love, Taaa, She might lead You to where she herself know No ...

Thanks everyone who have contributed to this issue I have in my family.
Thank God I have finally made my decision
Am very grateful once again.
Do have a nice day.
I can't mention all your names here
But everyone who have visited this thread you all are the reason for my happiness.

Nextlife1:
Thanks everyone who have contributed to this issue I have in my family.
Thank God I have finally made my decision
Am very grateful once again.
Do have a nice day.
I can't mention all your names here
But everyone who have visited this thread you all are the reason for my happiness.

Glad you are better. Can you give us an idea of your decision? Secondly, I'm still curious on this evidence you have, hope it's not a hunch? Pls share if you don't mind so we can learn

Jadie67:

Glad you are better. Can you give us an idea of your decision? Secondly, I'm still curious on this evidence you have, hope it's not a hunch? Pls share if you don't mind so we can learn

The most important thing is that am good.

Nextlife1:

I have that in mind
I only want her to finish school before I start my own.
But for now she will stay with her father.
After I upgrade myself I may still come back if our level match by than.

You want to upgrade yourself to prove a thing to someone who doesn't give a mess about you! Like seriously?

Be warned!

That period of separation you envisage will definitely make her go wild with her goose chase endeavor and reuniting with her in the nearby future will set you up for a more devastating disappointment which you may not survive.

So, it is either you forgive her and come together now for good if any or you move on without her forever.

Stevenbright:


You want to upgrade yourself to prove a thing to someone who doesn't give a mess about you! Like seriously?

Be warned!

That period of separation you envisage will definitely make her go wild with her goose chase endeavor and reuniting with her in the nearby future will set you up for a more devastating disappointment which you may not survive.

So, it is either you forgive her and come together now for good if any or you move on without her forever.

Am not proving any point to anyone.
You can only forgive someone who is sorry over her Action and ask for genuine forgiveness.
Than you can forgive the person and move on together.
In this case the person question did not care and still enjoying herself.
My best option is to inform her family and move on with my life and my kids.

Nextlife1:

Am not proving any point to anyone.
You can only forgive someone who is sorry over her Action and ask for genuine forgiveness.
Than you can forgive the person and move on together.
In this case the person question did not care and still enjoying herself.
My best option is to inform her family and move on with my life and my kids.

I am not saying you should forgive her. You said in your Post I quoted that you are going to develop self for now and then you both can settle later if possible.

Below is your post:

"But for now she will stay with her father.
After I upgrade myself I may still come back if our level match by than".

Nextlife1:

Am not proving any point to anyone.
You can only forgive someone who is sorry over her Action and ask for genuine forgiveness.
Than you can forgive the person and move on together.
In this case the person question did not care and still enjoying herself.
My best option is to inform her family and move on with my life and my kids.

Best decision. Keep us updated.

Lorayne:


Best decision. Keep us updated.

Yes till after her exams.

Good morning friends
Am getting better.
Thanks for all your advice and support and words of encouragement am grateful.

This is not easy at all everyday with new challenge.

Sleep where are you
Come and take over me.

Nextlife1:
Sleep where are you
Come and take over me.

Sorry for what you are going through.
I hope everything is sorted out now.
Did you forgive and forget?

Nextlife1:
Sleep where are you
Come and take over me.

You have hard-core evidence this woman is cheating on you.

The earlier you move on with your life, the better for you.

As a bonus, you will not have to beg sleep to come anymore.

dobnina:

Sorry for what you are going through.
I hope everything is sorted out now.
Did you forgive and forget?

She is on with her exams
Am still waiting for her to finish her exams.

alphaNomega:


You have hard-core evidence this woman is cheating on you.

The earlier you move on with your life, the better for you.

As a bonus, you will not have to beg sleep to come anymore.

Yes I do I have a lot of evidence against her but she did not know yet.

Nextlife1:

Yes I do I have a lot of evidence against her but she did not know yet.

The earlier you end it all, the better for you. Carrying all that emotional burden is not worth it... unless you do not mind.

Update us.

Thanks

alphaNomega:


The earlier you end it all, the better for you. Carrying all that emotional burden is not worth it... unless you do not mind.

Update us.

Thanks

Is very close.

Thank God for everything.
Am getting better emotionally.

Nextlife1:
https://www.nairaland.com/7485365/divorce-husband-sponsored-me-school/6

So she is your wife and now she has come out to say the truth that she cheated.

Wow things happened in marriages

fidelitystrs:


So she is your wife and now she has come out to say the truth that she cheated.

Wow things happened in marriages

Not my wife
My wife don't visit nl
I tried bringing her here but she did not like it.
I was shocked on the story but is not my wife.

We need to know more.

Getting to the end of this issue
Thanks for all your support.

Nextlife1:
Getting to the end of this issue
Thanks for all your support.

I wish you the best
Goodluck

Sent my wife back to her parents this morning with all the evidence.
I think am free now

Once again am grateful guys for all your support and care throughout this journey it was not easy but we are here.
As for my kids they are all with my ex wife I will continue to send upkeep for them.

Note I called her this morning by 5am to sort things out with her but she was not remorseful at all I was ready to let all go we can only go village and handle traditional cleansing. You know what she is bagging now.

Nextlife1:

Thanks
But am doing all this thing's you mention I even take her out buy her unders and make her happy.
As am talking to you now I just sent her some money to her Account now.

I wish you all the best op… this life ooo

Nextlife1:
Sent my wife back to her parents this morning with all the evidence.
I think am free now

Once again am grateful guys for all your support and care throughout this journey it was not easy but we are here.
As for my kids they are all with my ex wife I will continue to send upkeep for them.

Note I called her this morning by 5am to sort things out with her but she was not remorseful at all I was ready to let all go we can only go village and handle traditional cleansing. You know what she is bagging now.

Damn!